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If this story is true then you will end up using the rest of your life to regain her trust.
Trust broken is almost impossible to repair.

[quote author= post=108522971]Are you, are you, are you normal?!
Y'all will just jump on a thread without reading.
No wonder!

#BELIKEDEMMANA[/quote]Shut your trap. In your haste to be relevant you have quoted wrongly. Dumb fúck.

Thank God no life was lost. Disaster averted.

I can understand not wanting to have kids, especially in this difficult country. If I didn't want to have kids, then I'll probably not want marriage also. Just go the Oprah Winfrey way and look for a long term partner.

It will even be difficult to find a young Nigerian woman who wouldn't want marriage and kids. So my best bet would have been to just keep dating girls till they get tired of waiting for me to propose and leave.

However, the greatest thing in my life are my kids and I can't imagine life without them. Sometimes though I feel guilty for bringing them to this useless country.

These are our future leaders. No wonder these old people are afraid to hand over to the next generation.

Very apt, it should be voluntary though. However, the northerners will still climb to the top because they are more in the military. These guys are so smart, they are tops in military and civil service.

They position their younger ones, while the rest of us speak grammar and find ways to ensure the younger ones don't rise to the top.

Not just aboki, the young abokis are the problem. The older abokis are one of the best riders out there. Aboki nor know traffic light or speed bump. Na just one way dem sabi. Fire dey go.

As much as I don't like them, there are places I can't drive to, places like Apapa and one has no choice than to take a bike. Just keep saying a prayer and tell them every 1 min to reduce their speed.

The parents or guardians should be arraigned for child abuse. This isn't even funny.

It's almost like this dude knows he's infertile and now that he found a kid that looks like him, he wants the kid to be his at all cost.
DNA is usually 99.9% accurate. Try and get another girl to impregnate if you're that desperate for a child.

Mt friend fo and consult the elders in your family. They'll give better advice than anyone will give here.

My only complain is that the picture is over edited.

This guy is paranoid. Nobody planned anything, your mind is playing tricks on you.
That's how some people just go about hating people for no reason. They come up with silly excuses like 'she's always eyeing me'.

uniogid:
money U no get U no send me,blessings U no give me,happy birthday U no wish me na people like U been dey insult Davido the time wey he request for birthday gift untill he later shame U,if I request for a phone as a birthday gift even if no one showed me love here I don't mind I still thank God, does that make me a beggar or lazy youth? I didn't request for urgent 2k or that I'm hungry I only requested for a phone long as it's android I don't mind,if U couldn't send money U could have atleast send phone or better still lock up,I only stated my need because I no know where my helper will come from,so if ur sister walk up to U and say pls I need a new phone as my birthday request that automatically turn her to lazy youth abi

Shut up and get a job. Lazy bum, stop waiting for handouts, it reduces your self worth.

placeofallure:
Number one, l position myself well in relationships, no heartbreaks, you can't break my heart. We would have negotiated it, It's either I'm your main girl or nothing. Before you fumble, you'd think twice.

Secondly, I'm an asset. Be an asset. Forget about fine gurl things, men would jostle to put a ring on it. Don't be a push around or a regular kind of girl, such that it will be easy to discard you. Work on yourself, leave Mary Kay and Iman alone for a while.

How can someone leave me, go away with another, then come back again? He won't see anything to come back to cause I would've stepped up.

Ladies, stop making yourselves handkerchiefs or foot mat for men to use anyhow. Body Count be increasing for nothing, Olorun maje!

Lol, all these story. Na person leave Kim, Beyonce and J Lo. Forget grammar, people will leave whom they want when they want.
The best way to deal with life is to believe that who belongs to you will stay.

Only insecure and low self esteem people take relationships and matters of the opposite sex as a do or die affair.

Don't you have family members? These rants are getting stale and boring. Quit now while you can.

Truth be told, a lot of 21 year old in Nigeria still look like kids. That you have graduated doesn't necessarily mean you should now be respected. Most 21 year olds are still students and people treat them as such.

That being said, stature should not determine your confidence. People will always judge others by looks but what will give you respect will be your aura and how you carry yourself. Always show confidence when dealing with people. That's the way to successfully gain respect as a small stature individual.

Buhari may be right by saying Nigerian youths are lazy. In the US and Europe, high school kids start their first job by 14. That's how they save up to buy their designer clothes, phones and with time cars.

Our own youths are so entitled. The society actually spoils young people. We only think of applying for jobs when we are graduates, probably in mid 20's.

No culture of hard work, just entitlement and begging all around. So disgusting.

Buhari may be right by saying Nigerian youths are lazy. In the US and Europe, high school kids start their first job by 14. That's how they save up to buy their designer clothes, phones and with time cars.

Our own youths are so entitled. The society actually spoils young people. We only think of applying for jobs when we are graduates, probably in mid 20's.

No culture of hard work, just entitlement and begging all around. So disgusting.

Buhari may be right by saying Nigerian youths are lazy. In the US and Europe, high school kids start their first job by 14. That's how they save up to buy their designer clothes, phones and with time cars.

Our own youths are so entitled. The society actually spoils young people. We only think of applying for jobs when we are graduates, probably in mid 20's.

No culture of hard work, just entitlement and begging all around. So disgusting.

They simply see themselves as rebels and model themselves after American rappers. Loud jewellery, expensive cars and unconventional fashion sense.

Funny enough it's the best way to live. Most people are in relationships for the sex only. They have nothing else going for them.

People should date when they truly meet someone they connect with not because everyone expects them to date.

They'll go to juvenile homes to be rehabilitated. In naija, you can be sure such places will be a mess.

dfrost:
Totally agree with you on this. She needs to show the public that she doesn't stand with what her son did.

Give him up so that he be questioned. This matter is not going anywhere especially with governors involved.

How can she hide the kid? Are they not law enforcement in the country? People are not doing their jobs if a woman can just shield her child from the law. The child is a minor, he wouldn't go to jail. He needs to be interrogated and if guilty, rehabilitated in a juvenile centre.

Mercychen:
Shes scared for her life. If she doesn't do that she might get tracked down with her account.

This is why it's important to bring up a child in the way of the Lord. When he grows up, no matter the peer pressure, he'll never give in or join bad gangs.

Now, Does this woman look like someone who has the time to give a child moral upbringing? This slay mama?
From her looks you can easily tell she left the training of her child/children to maids and house helps in his formative years.

Lets forget this peer pressure thing. It only over powers spoilt empty heads that didn't have a proper informal training.

You're not very smart, I advice you read more and comment less.
To look at one picture and conclude she's a bad mother because she's good looking makes you silly. There is always so much bile, inferiority complex and frustration from you. You only have yourself to blame for the problems in your life and not others.

What has happened has happened. Intelligent people know that even the son of a priest can be a devil. Kids sometimes chose a different path irrespective of the good upbringing they were given.

They always scream team big and beautiful but secretly wish they're slim and fit. Same with people who scream single and living my best life.

If one isn't happy with ones situation, please do something about it instead of living in denial.

Good one from Eniola. She took matters into her own hands. That fat and fabulous nonsense wasn't cutting it.

Whilst single, I have declined lots of offers such as, 'I'm home alone', kissing, outrightly telling me they want sex etc. I've never being in a position of making out and declining. Don't know if that will be possible o.

Men with self control always think deeply about the consequences of sleeping with women, especially in naija. Our women mostly equate sex to commitment. Once you have that sex, it becomes emotional blackmail, demands etc. A wise man should always weigh the consequences of sex. Moreover, 'free sex' is usually regretted.

Mercychen:
You are the one who needs to shut that gutter you call a mouth and have been using to spew trash all over the place.

Common sense they say is not common otherwise you would have reasoned that every one is entitled to their choices and what they want in a relationship regardless of what the other person or society thinks. Dumbo!
It's now Left for both parties to agree on common grounds or disagree and go their separate ways.

Just try to be logic in your reasoning for ones and stop sounding sentimental like a broken record.

Some of you men want more than what you can cater for and later you start seeking help from your single friends to feed the battlion you formed in future.

We are trying to be proactive about such situations and avoid overpopulating the country, you're here crying like someone cheated of his birthright.

Buzz off and don't even dare mention me.

You are a ratchet bîtch and don't deserve a conversation with me. Old hag just so you know, I didn't bother reading past the first paragraph. Your OP already shows you're a dumb and frustrated hag.

Kobojunkie:
So you are saying this man lied about wanting only one kid to begin with? So if the wife never dies or abandons him,he will be content with one child, if not, he willl want to have more children, even though he still gets to have and keep the one?

Do you even realize what having something "logical" to say even means? You are right that trying to sound intelligent and being intelligent are two completely different things indeed

So the issue of children came up and I suggested we have only one, which he reluctantly accepted after much convincing.

Reluctant, convincing. I don't need to tell my 8 year old to school you on comprehension or do I?
If I do something reluctantly or under duress, chances are high that I will revert back to my original plan when the chance presents itself.
Logical thinking should be introduced in our schools.

Kobojunkie:
That there does not make any sense. Regardless of what happens to her, doesn't the man still have the one kid he agreed to?

Shut up and think. If the man remarries, surely, he'll want kids with the new wife wouldn't he? He was not the advocate of the one child policy. He did it to satisfy a selfish woman.

Some of you just jump on topics without having anything logical to say. Trying to sound intelligent and being intelligent are two different things.

Where's Joselyn Dumas? One of the most beautiful actresses in Africa.