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ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

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Boy if I were to be your brother, then I will kicking your black ass now. But then now that in you have finally dine with the devil, I suggest you just give the she devil what she wants and lock up for good. Bro, from experience I know you have to pay the devil to stay alive. Please note pay and lock up. Don't be a pussy whimp, by going back to her two timing pretty ass, you gonna get buried six feet under the ground if you do that. Once again pay up, and lock up. My 2cents, and no need to thank me, am just feeling generous this morning.

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NwaNimo1:
Wike's madness don spread....Wike 19

Common local govt chairman.....i for slap am.

Don't be ignorant, he has the constitutional right to carry out such task, especially when it comes to saving human lives. Here we don't believe anything is real, until it happens to people we know. Covid- 19 is real, and we should abide with government laid down rules to safe lives. #alllifematters.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
No need to waste my data on that video. A pussy niggarrr will remain a pussy niggarrr till the end of time

This pussy asss niggarrr always crying for love in nollywood movies those days..
Same with nonso diobi, Ramsey Noah, Desmond Elliot and Mike ezuruonye.
Bunch of pussy asss niggarrrs



Only Jim iyke was a real niggarrr and a hard niggarrr

The niggarrr below my comment must be a real niggarrr
I owe him a parcel of weed. Message me niggarrr. Especially if you get opportunity to come Benin city. We are going to smoke all day

Your craze pass craze. The smoking all day got me laughing hysterically. U be real nigga my guy, and please don't smoke all day.

zakim:
Source: https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/471-die-in-yobe-in-3-weeks.html

Mumu government, I wonder why we live in denial in this part of the world. Most of the people that die in united state and Europe are the elderly because they have weaker immune system, and in most cases underlying medical condition like hypertension, heart diseases and the rest. Corona viruses is in yobe, let the government do the needful and stop playing politics with human lives.

GOFRONT:
Chaiii....They should soft pedal it with E-money o.......Airforce1 come oh!!!! They wan put ya Oga in the Eye of the storm oo!!


Well, E Money has all the Money to QUIET/SHUT the IG, the CP, MAGU and those foot policemen he uses as his servants!!!

Money will do the talking and everywhere will be Silent in weeks to come.......

Its that the best reply you could muster together with your head. Why do we always thinks money can do everything, and bad enough in the case of a man whose source of income doesn't compare with his life style. Then most if you will blame bubu for every meal you miss, while people around you are not helping matters all in the name of making something of their existence.

bigiyaro:
funny how sick people have the energy to destroy people's property and block road, when they are complaining of hunger.

What's funny about that? An hungry man is an angry man, they are fully justify.

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

Bro, let me sincere with you, YES your wife is cheating on you. But then you have to be discrete about it. Cut her some slacks, make her believe you will be out of town for some days, and tail her to her lovers den. Guy this will be so hard, but then that's the way to know the truth and set yourself free.

LilMissFavvy:
Ohh.... God pls help married women o, it's like nigerian husband's are so unfaithful to an extent that those commenting are telling the woman to be grateful that her husband still finds her attractive, or is having sex with her alone. So a Nigerian man is not supposed to be having sex with his wife alone or find her attractive, huh!

So you mean non Nigerian husband don't cheat on their wives. Sis, men irrespective of color do cheat if they really want to. Stop been unnecessarily foreign about a universal problem.

BonPatrick:
Guys can you date a woman with 3 kids and still in her husband's house but the marriage is about to be dissolved because her husband is not touching her for over a year and doesn't give her food or talk to her.

She met you on Facebook and loves you so much and wants you to sleep with her when both of you see. She even sends her naked video to you to show you how much she loves you. Will you sleep with her when you meet as she is about to divorce her husband?

If this guy you refer to is you, then I beg you to dodge the bullet coming. A word is enough for the wise, adiós.

Niyeal:
I too can fly a plane if I have access to one. No big deal. Just to fly a plane

Go and sit down joor... Even if you can, give the lad some credit, rather than making little of what the wonderful guy has achieve and still achieving.

Braintrain:
Men like seeing breasties

That's just natural bro

Fabulouzjoseph:
THIS ONE JUST WEAK MY BLOOD 1billion what!!!
I dedicate my ftc to all those affected by covid-19 stay safe

9ja political leaders and their lies, are like 5 and 6. I smh for the future of this country if those at the corridor of power continue to plunged us into financial oblivion by their recklessness and utter corruption. 1 billion my foot.

seunmsg:
They misled others to hate him while alive and are now writing good stuff about him after his death.

Guy, we won't be misled, even if they try to. The man is no good, and I say that that with all sense of respect to the dead. He has is name written on very key decision and action in buhari's administration. He has the opportunity to contribute to helping the lives of the people get better, but he chose to coin himself in unnecessary controversy, while corruption is one of them, forgetting its written for a man to die once. Am no God, nor his angel, but I know surely the testimony men of how you live your life, goes a long way in determining how you have live your life. Sincerely, I don't respect the man, because he is not just the controversial CoS I have ever seen in Nigeria, he didn't have a good review by all standard.

Yes, he's back to his creator. And let see what he has to say for himself.

Saifulah:
This is for those claiming he had died before yesterday. It is forbidden in Islam to keep the dead unburried.

In the state house statement, it said funeral arrangements will be announced. That will definitely be today but most likely low key burial.

If he dies, are we then immortal? hope for a good ending yourself rather than musing on that of others.

What a lame and senseless post?. What the hell do you mean by musing on death of others, this man is one of the few who have taken over the affairs of this country, while their decisions has led to the death and bereavement of so many innocent Nigerians. You must be a fool for writing such mindless write up, and Bleep anybody who tries to quote me unnecessarily. Do you know what life is on the other side for millions of Nigerians who suffer and die, because of the heartless decisions of this so called powerful men lurking at the corridor of power. Let those who want to mock his death, so as they pleases, because this men are of no good. Keep your fuckin righteousness to your self, and let people say what's on their fuckin mind.

Garrieveryday:
Why is the FG concentrating only in the north? What kind of country is this?

Na naija we dey naw. Crazy countri

mascot87:
How else do you expect him to position himself to be marketable? Wouldn't you prepare well if you have an interview or how do you expect the interviewer to believe you are the right person for the job.He has gotten the right track record.

Forget that, our mumu don do. Je ko ma bo wa(let him come) and we shall see.

mascot87:
This man would make a good president believe you me. Sentiment apart

How so?. So because he stated the obvious now, you assume the guy man is nice. Any right thinking person would know the government should pay through BVN for what they call palliatives. But because this na naija, then expect the other way round, and of course no surprises there. Moreso, the guy man is positioning himself to be marketable in the next election, while riding on the gullibility of the masses who sees him has the next big thing after slice bread. The guy man made 85% of his money from the sweat of tax payers, and here we go again, with the sentiment that got us where we are in the first place.

These politicians have failed us over and over again. Sincerely, am one of the many Nigerians with high hopes for buhari when he started his administration back then in 2015. Now its obvious the man is more clueless than I thought, and painfully he aligned himself with group of thieves whose business is to plumage and divert our common resources to benefit their goons. I thought this man will kick start the change we need to here we go again. If advance climes could give palliatives and monetary support to their citizens to help them stay at home, why not us. At least 20k to every citizens of this country won't hurt the nation in any way. Why are we been treated like slaves in our own country.

Descorts:
We started as friends. We were so close she could do anything for me and I could do anything for her.

She had a boyfriend who was a serial cheat and treated her like trash. It got to a point they broke up and he left. She was heartbroken.

I gave her my shoulders to lean on. I was there for her throughout those turbulent times and made sure she was never sad again.

She moved on. 2 months on we started dating. It was all fun and rosy. I'm not the type to fall deeply in love or should I say, women don't tickle my fantasy, I'd rather be with my goons than be with any girl.

But this girl came into my life and I don't know what she did to me to make me so in love with her. I loved her, she loved me. It was a heaven made match and a relationship anyone would wish for. On my birthday she got me a really expensive gift and I fell even more for her.

3 months on, her birthday was close and I was planning to make it special for her. Then I heard her ex came back in town, I wasn't troubled, "she loves me so much and she won't bat an eyelid for him anymore" I thought.

And then it happened. She left me for her ex who came back for her. I heard from a reliable source that before he came back, they'd been communicating online and the guy told her he's coming to take her back and he did take her from me.....

I am broken.....
I shall rise again in no time, and when I rise... I AM GOING TO BE A HEARTLESS MONSTER.
These hoes... non virgins or virgins, young or old, I shall toy with their emotions and break them....

GAME ON

And you will still get burnt again. Bro, you will surely find your missing rip and you will be the better for it. When you mess around, you are also hurting yourself more than you think.

senatordave1:
To me,he hasnt

Good luck then

whyteteeth:
Eversince this lockdown I have been home with my parents and there is a way my dad looks at one particular lady whenever she comes around to buy things in my mother's shop which I think is inappropriate. He teases her and calls her sweet names also. As a guy I have tried not to take it serious since it's one thing a lot of men do but I am beginning to suspect my dad for trying to have an extramarital affair with this said woman. She is beautiful though and she is still a young woman while my dad is in his fifties.

Now today, My father asked this same woman who happens to be a female tailor and makes female clothes to help him fix a zip in one of his trousers, which has possibly gone bad.

The woman blushed and didn't really give him much attention or any reasonable answer while he was busy saying it repeatedly till the woman left. I find this a little bit disturbing and inappropriate and possibly giving wrong signals. I mean it's not like it's a new clothe the woman was making for him or something. .

Another reason why I find this inappropriate and indecent is that, the zip can actually be fixed by any of these aboki people that mend clothes. Aboki do pass around my area every now and then, even yesterday they passed. So I want to know if my dad is up to something? And if he is, well i will just know for knowing sake.

O boy your old man is trying to tap the beautiful woman's anointing, and who am I to blame the sharp guy. Wait till you are in your fifties to understand how hard it is for you to walk the same path for more than twenty years, abeg ee give the sharp guy some breathing space. If you can't help out to get the deal down, then don't mess with it, because the guy man go really vex with you. And for your mum, keep mum that's what makes you your daddy's boy.

adioolayi:
It's time to finish this off!

Finish what off?, when they profit from this war. The guy man is there to serve the interest of his masters and himself. Abeg, don't quote me ooo, I can't receive army koboko oooo, I just don't have the buttock for such massacre.

RuudVanNisteroy:
Audio government.

Comedy central. To hell with bubu and his co thieves.

bluemansion:
Stay where you are.

All of you giving me 'likes' like it's the food I so desperately need now, do well to always drop something for me no matter how small for survival during this lockdown. It's not easy.

Account number: 3351-09-7274
Bank: Ecobank Plc.

Thanks so much and God bless.

Am sure some of those who gave you the likes are so much in need of cash themselves, and wouldn't mind if you donate to the good cause yourself. Our leadership are completely vision less, and eccentric. If they don't take the right steps now, then we can't handle wants coming. By the way, I wish you luck on your try.

senatordave1:
Up buhari.

I want to assume you are been sarcastic. Because bubu has been a disappointment so far, generally speaking.

Iamgrey5:
Lock down has failed in Nigeria.

Even if government were sincere, they can't feed all the poor people in Nigeria for three to four weeks.

We need a new innovative method to limit the spread of the disease.

What new innovative can you suggest that can beat down on the rate of transmission than social distancing for now?. I blame our so soulless government officials who care about themselves alone. How do you expect the people to stay put when hunger is killing them, while avoiding the corona death. In fact, am so so disappointed in bubu, and his exco. This government is not just clueless, but wicked. And if you must know, if care is not taken Ecuador will be a child play in Nigeria.

YorubaKinging:
There's nothing wrong with this
Nigerians are hypocrites
Leave her alone

And face your governments that has been oppressing you for years
Stand up for your rights

The couples in the above post did the same thing
But where is the outrage?

O boy you be confirm mumu. Must everything thing be politics to your sorry ass. God forbid if anyone is carrying that virus in there, it could trickle down to the ordinary poor man on the street. This is not about any government, its about saving people's life. So if you are one of those nitwit who gather likes just to berate the government order to score some pathetic political point, then you need your brain checked. Funke and her spouse should know better, and its highly irresponsible of them to host such party at this tensed time.

[quote author=NextD18 post=88062836]Shot in IBADAN?

Nna eh! Why do those people hate IGBOs this bad?

Imagine shooting an innocent Igbo guy like that.

Ndi ofe mmanua gbakwara ajor wicked oo!
Nya, fa choro igbusisi ndi Igbo niile no na obodo fa?

Anya ukwu adirokwa mma oo![/quote


Stop playing the racist game. Criminal do their act irrespective of ethnic division or gender. Moreso, why do asshole like you continue to divide the already tensed country with your shallowness. For Christ sake, get a life and stop this nonsense. Am a Yoruba man, and I share my life with an Igbo lady in love and tranquility. Love knows no bound, and so should we as human being if we have to advance beyond this ethnic and religious bigotry. Get well, big guy.

GamalNasser:
Lagos was already in lockdown for the past 6days and we were doing great so why did he have to announce the same level of lock down and trigger another round of inflation , panic buying and uncertainty ? Why ? Didn't he know Lagos was already in lock down? And besides he doesn't even have the power to do this without consulting the Governor and state assembly

Unfortunately he has the constitution power to declare state of emergency in any state and take over the affairs of such especially when it is in the best interest of the country. I totally support the lockdown, but then the government should provide a palliative to cushion the effect it will have on the citizens. The truth is we can't handle this disease on a large scale, and if we don't take this more serious especially among the masses which form the majority of the population, then we are in for a serious trouble.

Blackpearlous:
Anyone that mismanages this donation at this very sensitive time, knowing people's health depends on it, is extremely evil.

At times like this our humanity should be very evident, even if we have to fake our love for humanity, we should fake it till we pass this covid tunnel and see the clear sky again.

You must think you are in the UK. This is 9ja, where dog eat dog. Those bunch of failed leaders care for one thing alone, themselves and their families. Don't be surprise if nothing is said about the donation again. This place na 9ja ooo, trailer ti o ni brake.