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HajiaNotu:
Theres no need quoting "half of my statement @ bolded...What I meant in my post is that...People are doing everything possible (bad or good, ritual or legit) to get money...Because you will be given top most priority in Nigeria once you have money....Churches, Mosques will regard any ineividuals with Money be it yahoo, rituals, fraudsters.....We dont care how they gt the money!!!

A yahoo guy with flashy cars in a community will earn more respect than a legit hustler in the same area..
Moral decadence is the order of the day in Nigeria.


You gerrit?

Bros… it all boils down to lack of opportunities that produces lack of hope…If there is opportunities and hope, there wouldn’t be so much Yahoo guys on the street or nobody would care about “a yahoo guy with a flashy car”
The root cause should be the main focus.

I think you’re not thinking deep enough, and I’m not surprised… May be you should pay more attention to the topic.

I hope you gerrit.

HajiaNotu:
Until we stop worshipping money or giving High Regards to Affluence not minding how they got the money.....

Songs like if you no get money, hide your face should be totally banned.

If the leaders are doing what is right by providing employment opportunities and fostering a solid system that works, there is absolutely nothing wrong with giving high regards to affluence and also enjoying good songs like “if you no get money, hide your face”.
Only a weak society would allow a song to mold their mental state of mind.

Ritual Killing is mostly created by lack of hope, and lack of hope (in Nigeria) is produced by lack of sound leadership from the top to the bottom.
It is that simple.

LordVoldermort:
I disagree with this, politicians flaunt their power not wealth any politician who flaunts wealth will be accused of corruption.

Bros, you are completely wrong.
Well, if you don't have access to these people you may not know how they truly roll. Without mentioning their names, I've seen a few of them in action in and outside Nigeria. Trust me, you do not want to know how these people operate on a daily basis playing around with your money; inside Nigeria, they flaunt their super power and their stolen wealth, while outside Nigeria they simply flaunt big money, which indirectly gives them certain level of power.
These are the role models of an average Nigerian youth...And the main reason why everyone goes into politics to loot with their eyes closed.

In a nutshell, our trouble in Nigeria mainly goes back to poor leaders and a severely defective system, which produce lack of hope...Lack of hope produces ritual killings and 419 gangsters.

LordVoldermort:
Countries like China would arrest celebrities who flaunt their wealth because they know it's bad for public health...but Nigerian government as usual don't care about their people.

So far, this is the most ridiculous statement I've read on this forum. What I'm getting here is, celebrities flaunting their wealth in Nigeria is the the reason for high rate of ritual killing. And then china was used as an example, while USA and UK where sport celebrities are running around with all kinds of powerful/ luxurious customized cars and private jets were omitted.
It makes absolutely no sense.

Instead of picking on poor Nigerian celebrities, why not focus more on the senseless leaders and their friends and family that continue to loot the national treasury and then publicly flaunt their stolen wealth? What about the useless system that publicly embraces known corrupt/ 419 entities? What about the backward system that neglects the youths? Unbelievable!

I think picking on celebrities and using China as an example is nothing, but an exhibition of a mental laziness...Please open your mind and think deeper!

Nigerian government needs to go after corrupt entities, focus on providing jobs for the youths and generally improving the standard of living of the citizens...Anything else is simply uncivilized.

ki02020:
Can't wait to see VP Osinbajo profile

Professor YEMI Oshibajo’s profile:


Professor Yemi Osinbajo, SAN
Personal Data: Other Names: Oluyemi Oluleke,
Date of Birth: 8th March, 1957,
Place of Birth: Creek Hospital, Lagos,
Home Address: 4, Osinbajo Close, Obanikoro, Ikorodu Road, Lagos, Nigeria. Nationality: Nigerian,
Marital Status: Married.

Education:
London School of Economics & Political Science, Master of Laws – 1980, Nigerian Law School – 1979, Barrister and Solicitor of the Supreme Court of Nigeria Winner of Graham-Douglas Prize for Commercial Law University of Lagos, 1975-78, LLB, Second Class Upper, Winner State Merit Award -, Igbobi College Yaba – 1969-75, School Prize for English Oratory, 1971, 1972; Adeoba Prize for English Oratory 1972-1975; Elias Prize for Best Performance in History (WASC) – 1973, School Prize for Literature (HSC), 1975; African Statesman Intercollegiate Best Speaker’s Prize, 1974.
Work Experience: Simmons Cooper Partners (Barristers and Solicitors), Senior Partner, 2007 till date; University of Lagos, Professor of Law, Department of Public Law, Faculty of Law, 2007 to 2013; Lagos State Ministry of Justice, Attorney-General and Commissioner for Justice; Member of Cabinet, Lagos State, 1999 to May 2007 ; United Nations Secretary General’s Committee of Experts on Conduct and Discipline of UN Peacekeeping Personnel around the globe, Member (2006); United Nations Operations in Somalia, Staff Member, Justice Division, UNOSOM II; Law Firm of Osinbajo, Kukoyi & Adokpaye, Partner; University of Lagos, Professor of Law and Head of Department of Public Law (1997-1999), Federal Government of Nigeria, Special Adviser to the Attorney-General of the Federation and Minister of Justice, (legal advice and litigation), 1988-1992; University of Lagos, Senior Lecturer I (1983-86), Lecturer II (1981-1983), Bendel Development and Planning Authority, Legal Officer (Youth Service),1979-1980

Professional Activities:
International Criminal Court, Counsel, 2012 Citibank (Nigeria), Independent Director, appointed in 2008; Senior Advocate of Nigeria, 2002 ; African Development Bank, Ethics Adviser, Advisory Board; Asset and Resource Management Company Limited (ARM), Board Member, 2011 Education Sector Support Programme in Nigeria, Consultant, analysis of Legislation on Universal Basic Education, 2010; United Nations Economic Commission for Africa, Assessing the Efficiency and Impact of African Anti-Corruption Commissions, Consultant, 2009; International Bar Association, delegation to South Africa to consider the issue of the independence of the judiciary and the rule of law, Member, 2008; Board of Studies of the Council for Legal Education, Member, 2003-2007; Body of Benchers, Member, 1999-2007; Council of Legal Education, Member,1997-2007; International Criminal Tribunal for Rwanda Arusha on training of Prosecutors, Consultant (2004); Revision and Publication of Laws of Lagos State, Coordinator, 2003; Human Rights Committee of the Nigerian Bar Association, Member (1999); Ministerial Committee for Review of Minerals Laws and Regulations, Member, (1996); ECOWAS, Eminent person group for the Harmonisation of the Commercial Laws of ECOWAS States, Member (1996); National Committee on the Review of Solid Mineral Laws, Member, 1996; Expert advisory team to Ethiopia to advice parliament on Legal aspects of Democratisation, Member (1992); National Committee on the Reform and Unification of the Nigerian Criminal Laws and Procedure Codes, Member, 1988-1991; National Committee on Prison Reform, Member, 1991; Compilation and Editorial Committee of Nigeria’s Treaties in Force (1970-1990) (Published in 10 volumes) Coordinator, 1991; United Nations African Institute for Crime Prevention (UNAFRI), Consultant, (1991); Delegation to the Meeting of Senior Officials of Commonwealth Law Ministries, Singapore, Leader, (1990); Task Force on the Revision of the Laws of the Federation of Nigeria, Member, 1990; Commonwealth Ad-Hoc Working Committee on the Protection of Cultural Property, Member, (1990); Senate of Lagos State University, Member ; Senate of the University of Lagos, Member; Convention on Business Integrity, Co-founder & Chairman, Justice Research Institute Ltd. Gte., Board Member , THE ORDERLY SOCIETY TRUST, Executive Director Negotiation and Conflict Management International Board Member, United Nations Development Programme/United Nations Centre on Transnational Corporations/Training Programmes in Negotiating International Commercial/Financial Agreements for Senior Government and Private Sector Officials; and Providing An Enabling Environment for Foreign Investment in Nigeria, Coordinator; United Nations Centre on Transnational Corporations/United Nations Development Programme, Consultant; Commonwealth Working Party on the Commonwealth Advisory Service on Arbitration, Member; Nigerian Delegation to Negotiation of ECOWAS Mutual Legal Assistance Treaties, Gambia, Leader ; Governing Board of Legal Research and Resource Development Centre (LRRDC), Member ; Governing Board of Empowerment and Action Research Centre (EMPARC), Member ; International Bar Association, Member; Justice Committee of the Transitional Work Groups of the Governor-Elect Lagos State, Secretary; British Institute of International and Comparative Law, Member.
Membership of Editorial Boards of Learned Publications:
Editorial Advisory Board of the Appellate Review Journal(Published by The Emmanuel Ayoola Foundation); Gravitas Review of Business and Property Law; Nigerian Supreme Court Cases – DSC Publications (Published in 35 volumes); Justice (Journal of Contemporary Legal Problems); Contemporary Law Journal, (Faculty of Law, UNILAG); All Nigeria Law Reports (Published in 31 volumes); LASU Law Journal, Lawyers Bi-Annual, Journal of Finance and Investment Law; National Correspondent Bulletin of Legal Developments, Editorial Director Justice Now legal newspaper.
Membership of Editorial Boards of Non-Legal Publications:
Member, Editorial Advisory Board of the News/Tempo, Editor/Consultant, Human Dignity (Journal of the Human Rights Club), Member, Editorial Board of Scrutiny (Advocacy Bulletin of Integrity)
Publications

Chapters Contributed to Books:
The Common Law, The Evidence Act and The Interpretation of Section 5(a) in Essays in Honour of Judge Elias (1986) (J.A. Omotola, ed) pgs. 165-18;
Some Reforms in The Nigerian Law of Evidence Chapter in Law and Development (1986), (J.A. Omotola and A.A. Adeogun eds.) pgs. 282-311;
Rules of Evidence in Criminal Trials in the Nigerian Special Military Tribunals Chapter 2 in Essays on Nigerian Law, Vol … 1, Pgs. 28-42. (J.A. Omotola ed),
Some Public Law Considerations in Environmental Protection. Chapter in “Environmental Laws in Nigeria”, (J.A. Omotola ed.) 1990 pgs 128-149,
Domestic and International Protection for Women: “Landmarks on the Journey so Far” in Women and Children under Nigerian Law”. (Awa U. Kalu & Yemi Osinbajo eds.) 1990. pgs. 231-241
Some Problems of Proof of Bank Frauds and Other Financial Malpractices in Bank Frauds and Other Financial Malpractices in Nigeria (Awa Kalu ed.)
Modalities For The Implementation of The Transition Provisions in The New Constitution in Law Development and Administration, (Yemi Osinbajo & Awa Kalu eds.) FMJL Review Series, (1990).
Legal and Institutional Framework For The Eradication of Drug Trafficking in Nigeria – Narcotics: Laws and Policy in Nigeria (Awa Kalu & Yemi Osinbajo eds.) FMJL Review Series, 1990
Proof of Customary Law in non-Customary Courts, – Towards a Restatement of Nigerian Customary Laws, (Osinbajo & Awa Kalu eds.) 1991,
External Debt Management: Case Study of Nigeria – International Finance and External Debt Management, UNDP/UNCTC, 1991,
Judicial and Quasi-judicial Processing of Economic and organized Crimes: Experiences, Problems etc. Essays in Honour of Judge Bola Ajibola, (Prof. C.O. Okonkwo ed.) 1992,
Human Rights, Economic Development and the Corruption Factor in Human Rights and the Rule of Law and Development in Africa (Paul T. Zeleza et al eds) 2004

Articles Published in Learned Journals:
Legitimacy and Illegitimacy under Nigerian Law Nig. J. Contemp. Law. (1984-87) pgs. 30-45
Unraveling Evidence of Spouses in Nigeria, Legal Practitioners Review Vol. 1 No. 2 1987 pgs. 23-28
Can States Legislate on Rules of Evidence? Nigerian Current Law Review 1985 pgs. 234-242
Problems of Proof in Declaration of Title to Land, Journal of Private and Property Law Vol. 6 & 7, October 1986, pgs. 47-68
Interpretation of Section 131(a) of the Evidence Act. Journal of Private and Property Law Vol. 6 & 7 (1986), pgs. 118-122
Review of Some Decrees of the Structural Adjustment Era (Part 1, 2, 3), (1989) 2 GRBPL No. 2 (Gravitas Review of Business and Property Law) pgs.60-63, (1989) 2 GRBPL No. 3 (Gravitas Review of Business and Property Law) pgs. 51-55, (1989) 2 GRBPL No. 4 (Gravitas Review of Business and Property Law)
Current Issues in Transnational Lending and Debt Restructuring Agreements part 1 and 2
Autonomy, Academic Freedom and the Laws Establishing Universities in Nigeria (1990) Jus. Vol. 1 No. 2, pgs. 53-64
Admissibility of Computer Generated Evidence. (1990) Jus. Vol. 1 No. 1 pgs. 9-12
Allegations of Crime in Civil Proceedings, U.I. Law Review 1987
Roles, Duties and Liabilities of Collateral Participants and Professional Advisers in Unit Trust Schemes (1991) Jus. Vol. 1 No. 7 pgs. 71-83
Reform of the Criminal Law of Evidence in Nigeria (1991) Jus. 2 No. 4 Pgs. 71-98
Profit and Loss Sharing Banks – (1990) Jus. Vol. 2 No. 8, Juvenile Justice Administration in Nigeria.
A Review of the Beijing Rules. (1991) Jus. Vol. 2 No. 6. Pgs. 65-73
Sovereign Immunity in International Commercial Arbitration – The Nigerian Experience and emerging state practice- In African Journal of International and Comparative Law, 4 RADIC 1992, page 1-25,
Human Rights and Economic Development in The International Lawyer. 1994, Vol. 28, No. 3 pgs. 727-742
Legality in a Collapsed State: The Somalia Experience 45 ICLQ 1996, pgs. 910-924.

Books Authored/Edited:
Integration of the African Continent Through Law” (Edward Foakes Publishers, 1989, vol. 7, Federal Ministry of Justice Law Review Series)
Towards A Better Administration of Justice System in Nigeria” (Edward Foakes Publishers, 1989)
Women and Children Under Nigerian Law with (Awa kalu Co. Ed.) FMJL Review Series
The Unification and Reform of the Nigerian Criminal Law and Procedure Codes with (Awa Kalu Co. Ed.) – (Malthouse Press), 1990, FMJL Review Series
Law Development and Administration (Malthouse Press), 1990
Narcotics: Law and Policy in Nigeria, FMJL Review Series 1990
Nigerian Media Law, with (Prof. PK Fogam) GRAVITAS Publishers 1991
Perspectives on Human Rights in Nigeria with (Awa Kalu, Co.Ed) FMJL Review Series 1991
Democracy and the Law, FMJL Review Series, 1991
Perspectives on Corruption in Nigeria, FMJL Review Series 1992
Cases and Materials on Nigerian Law of Evidence, Macmillan, 1996
The Citizens Report Card on Local Governments (with Omayeli Omatsola) 1998
Economic, Social and Cultural Rights – A training Agenda for Nigeria (with Bankole Olubamise and Yinka Balogun,) Legal Research and Resource Development Centre, 1998
Annotated Rules of the Superior Courts of Nigeria (with Ade Ipaye) Lexis-Nexis Butterworths 2004
Cross Examination: A Trial Lawyer’s Most Potent Weapon (with Fola-Arthur Worrey) Lexis-Nexis Butterworths 2006

MONOGRAPHS
Problems and Prospects of Development Control 2004
Elections and Electoral Malpractices in Nigeria 2009
The Imperative of Electoral Reforms – A Critical Element of Constitutional Re-engineering of Nigeria 2009
Strengthening The Code Of Conduct Bureau 2009
Building Ethical Institutions: The Experience Of The Lagos State Judiciary 2009
The State Of Criminal Justice In Nigeria: Challenges And Opportunities 2009
Transparency And Ethical Considerations In The Development Of The Nigerian Economy 2009
The Responsibility Of Privilege 2010
Reforming Civil Procedure Rules: The Lagos State Experience 2010
Understanding How The Legal Process Works In Business 2010
The Modern Justice Delivery Technique 2010
Challenges Of Enforcement Of Securities In Nigeria 2010
Political Institutions And Electoral Integrity 2010
Development and Policy Use of Criminal Justice Information and Statistics 2010
The Retreat of the Legal Process 2011
The Rule of Law: The Foundations are Shaking 2011
Structuring Criminal Justice Administration In A Federal State: Priorities For Nigeria 2011
Regulatory Framework for Curbing Internet Crimes and Money Laundering 2014
Leadership and Legacy: The Power of One 2014
Repositioning Nigerian Universities For The 21st Century: Paradigms For Innovation And Change 2014
Delays In Justice Administration: Beyond The Rules And The Law 2014
Towards A More Transparent And Merit‐Based Judicial Recruitment System In States Judicial Service Commissions 2014
The Rule of Law and National Development 2014

AWARDS
Lagos State Government An award in recognition of invaluable 09/Sept/1999 contribution as member, Justice Committee of Lagos Transition Work Group
Lagos State Government An award in recognition of invaluable 09/Sept/1999 contribution as MEMBER, policy committee of Lagos Transition Work Group
Nigerian Bar Association Merit Award for outstanding
Ikeja Branch contributions to the Bench and Bar and 15/June/2001 commitment to the rule of law in Lagos
Lagos State Judiciary Award for invaluable support
06/Dec/2003 towards the upliftment and growth of administration of justice in Lagos State Judiciary
Nigerian Bar Association Outstanding Practitioner award in 2004 recognition of Prof. Yemi Osinbajo
(SAN)’s contribution to the legal profession and the Nigerian Bar Association
Magistrates Association of Nigeria Award of excellence in recognition of 09/Dec/2005 meritorious and selfless service to magistracy and humanity
Lagos State House of Assembly Outstanding performance award
28/April/2005 (The House Committee on Judiciary
Human Rights and Public Petition)
Nigeria Bar Association Award of honour in appreciation of an
Ikeja Branch immense contribution to the
26/May/2006 development of constitutionalism in Nigeria
Thisday Newspaper Nomination as Legal Practitioner of the year
2006
Lagos State Ministry of Justice An Award in recognition of an
April, 2007 eight year tenure of resourceful motivational and revolutionary leadership of the Justice sector in Lagos state
Nigerian Leadership Initiative Award for exemplary leadership in
July 2007 government
Committee for the Distinguished Mediators Award
Defence of Human Rights in recognition of selfless commitment
20/Sept/2010 to peace and development
Lagos State Government Emeritus Ambassador for the
Ministry of Environment Environment
2010
Lagos State Government An Award in recognition of an outstanding 2010 contribution to the development of the Justice Sector of Lagos State
Nigerian Lawyers Association Law and Justice Award. In recognition of
December 2011 an exceptional and remarkable service in the academia and the public sector, dedication to advocating for and implementing Judicial Reform in Nigeria.
The Lagos State Judiciary and An Award in recognition of a meritorious
The Lagos State Multi-Door service on The Lagos Multi- door
Courthouse 2014 Courthouse Governing Council

copyrites:
Transfer of aggression. Some entitled fans may have frustrated his life on Twitter.

That doesn’t give him an excuse to come out like an @ss. It isn’t illegal to simply ignore folks on twitter.

The background of individuals are just like a shining polish on an Italian shoe. It is what it is, you can’t polish a pair of sneakers, you’ll look like a clown.
The difference between Davido and Badu is crystal clear.

It is well.

What is the difference between DOING RUNS AND PROSTITUTION?

If you are engaged with girls that do runs, you are not better than my guy here. In my book, girls that do runs and the prostitutes have a lot in common. For this reason, before you throw an advise for my guy here you may want to look in the mirror.
Something tells me that there are a few on this platform that need similar advise.

It is well

Tired2022:
I'm a scientist, so I know I'm clearly addicted. I just had to create this account to stay anonymous because what I'm about to spill is so shameful to me. Even worse, is that I don't know what the end will be because I lack total control of my third leg.

Alright guys, my dick is my only problem right now. In fact I feel so depressed and traumatised.

I have everything going well for me, I make enough money to buy just anything moderate. I have not been to the hospital for over a decade because the need never arised.

So what's my problem? I can't answer that question because I'm so confused. I know I'm addicted to prostitutes and I haven’t been able to tame this dick of mine.

I'm a very shy guy, I find it hard to socialize with men not to talk off the opposite sex. So, I started with masturbation which lasted over a decade. Then I started making good money, I felt masturbation wasn't what I want, that I had to stop it.

I started visiting prostitutes. Its over 5yrs now, and all I want is to Bleep them all. Yeah, that's how I feel. Bleep all the women, yet I can't even approach one. So, I go for the easy way, prostitutes!

My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection. It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............

I have decided to get a girlfriend, I wish to marry next year, but I'm so ashamed, I don’t deserve any woman. Apart from the prostitutes I had without protection, I have had sex with 102 prostitutes in total. And I'm just 33yrs. Gosh! I feel so dirty!

I'm so obsessed with women, and I feel masturbation is the culprit. I fear more that I may not stop even if I have the most beautiful girl on earth by my side. I read the story of a lady who claimed her husband was obsessed with prostitutes in Canada, it shocked me so hard.

Is there anyone who has faced same predicament as mine? How did you win? No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.

Without alcohol, prostitutes are never attractive to me. So, I must take some alcohol to be in the mood.

Last night, on my regular routine, after drinking alcohol, I met this chubby lady. She was so sexy. I told her exclusively, I find it hard having sex without condom, that I only wanted her to give me a handjob. I pay well, so this girls know me already, it's a fight to have me in their room.

She gave me a Mouth Gig which I wasn't okay with, but I felt save to some extent. After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax. Still it didn't happen. The lady was already like, f××k me without condom, but don’t release inside. I was contemplating in my mind, Gosh! Not again. Eventually, I reasoned, f××k it! I had her without protection and it took less than 5 minutes for me to reach climax.

This is exactly the same scenario that plays out in all my shameful adventures with these women. And I'm so feld up right now.

I can go on and on, but I don't like writing long epistles. Gosh! I have sex evey 2 days! I can't even go just 1 week without sex. Although I haven’t masturbated in the last 5 yrs, addiction to prostitutes is killing me. How do I even stop this whole sh××t? I feel suicidal.

Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep your mouth shot.

I want more opinion on my predicament. Thanks!

Your problem is not prostitutes…I think your problem is alcoholism and being anti social. If you are able to get over these 2 issues, the prostitute wahala will automatically disappear.

Solution:
- Surround yourself with decent people that you trust
- Reduce alcohol consumption
- Get yourself a stable beautiful girlfriend…If you’re shy, meeting a decent girl can happen by a good friend, sister or Cuzn introducing you to one. You claim that u make good money, Nigerian girls will take you as you are without any issues.

Constantly getting drunk and patronizing prostitutes is like telling yourself that you’re worthless.
Most guys like sex like there is no tomorrow, but at the same time there comes a time that one must also try to use his head.
As you get older your goal should be constantly seeking for opportunities to be a better person. Discover an effective method to elevate your self confidence/ self esteem; understand that you’re much better and also deserve more than just cheap puuusyyysss around town.

Discover other interesting hobbies to prevent your mind from temptation…You can also get involved with a church without becoming a member; have constant one on one discussion with God… let him know all the things that are preventing you from being the magnificent dude you know you can to be….

Honestly, you sound like a cool dude that has a bright future…Just do a few self modifications and sky will be the limit.

Yes, you can do it.

Good luck bro!

emmanuelbrown26:
From the conversation, I know that bitch must be an afonja bitch, always broke. Looking for one prick or the other to suck.
If u marry an afonja broke girl, u are on your own

You should visit Italy and see how your senior sisters are trading on the street.
A foool is a foool. What a shameless foool!

Just for a side note:
Naija women respect dudes that give them money much more than their boyfriends or husbands; they’ll do just about anything for these dudes with very little hesitation.

And a naija girl that is mentally materialistic do not change…they only get worse with marriage or age.

Sorry folks! Just keeping it real.

KayCee92:
Nothing really in this chat bro. What I will say is that u keep this chat to urself for now and don't confront her. To satisfy ur curiousity, break that ur rule that says u shouldn't check her phone. Do more digging to backup this chat. Na marriage o, u have to wave alot if things and really find out who u are about to spend the rest of ur life with. One took me hostage the other day . I no believe am, took me hostage in my own place. This will be someone's wife in the future, imagine what she will do to the innocent man

The quality of a lady is debased once she is secretly asking another man for money....Please keep in mind that 99.7% of naija men do not just give money away for nothing. Naija men see give away money as an investment that will be fruitful when the time is right.

When a lady has any disagreement with her man, the first thing that comes to her mind is the investor. So, don't fool yourself, this is not the girl you want in your life. Just remember that marriage comes with a lot of raining days...and as long as there is a raining day, Mr. INVESTOR will always be around and activated.

I am a retired investor (not proud of it tho)…so, I know well well how these things work.

What is the different between DOING RUNS AND PROSTITUTTION? Can someone please answer this question?

Jay5mie:
There's nothing here, nothing at all.

I agree, there is nothing much here. This is nothing but a typical naija girl normal practice; no matter how much you give or do, as long as she is a naija girl, IT IS NEVER ENOUGH. Somebody has to pay for those LV bags.

I'm still trying to differentiate between DOING RUNS AND PROSTITUTION.

It is well.

Paramount01:
Hello nairalanders,hope you guys days was good? please advice me on the matter on my mind.

I entered a relationship very early in my life as back as when I was still in secondary school with a girl in my area, we never had sex until wen she finsh her secondary school we started having sex,we don't stay far from each others house so is very easy for her to come over to my house when my parents are not around.

We had sex countless time and what did you expect from people that had sex every time without protection, the girl was pregnant. As at the time she was pregnant I was already in my 200level at the university and she was still looking for admission when I heard about it I told her to keep it but she told me she can't keep it that her parents will kill her so I gave her money to abort it which she did, we continue with our love affair but now very careful till I am about leaving for service, when going I told her I will surely keep myslef for her and she should also keep herself for me till I come that if I hear any rumor that she is dating somebody else I will just cut off the relationship so I left, after a year of service in the far east I got a job and she can't come to my side due to distance I later came home after 1and half year, as I saw her, I observed somebody else has touch her, her breast was full of milk I ask her what happen she said nothing, I later found out that she was pregnant for another guy when I was not around and she aborted it so the milk is still in her breast I was mad within me she beg and I forgive her.

Note all through my stay during service year I never touch any lady I kept my self for her as the promise I made with her,I stayed like 2 months at home before going back to my base,has I left she told me she was pregnant for me again I was shock but told her am not ready to father a child now that she should abort it, she aborted it and we continue our relationship but I only come home once in a year.

My mind was not pure with her again so I now start giving other girl attention due to what has happen before, I now met this new girl, we attend the same Catholic, we started has friend not until I begin to pick interest in this new girl,I asked her out and she agree which make me to forget this my old babe totally, the old babe complain and I told her I am sorry I can't continue with her again that my mind is not with her again, she begged but I told her parents I am not interested again.

My wedding with this my new babe will come up August but my conscience do judge me that i don't treat that old girl well by leaving her. pls help, what can I do?

My guy, it is extremely challenging to meet a naija girl that doesn't have side runs...they all do. In fact, naija girls even get games pass men these days, especially the beautiful ones. So my guy, I wish you all the best with your new babe, but don't be too sure that the new one isn't as bad as the old one. I fair naija girls in Nigeria.

I'm still trying to differentiate between DOING RUNS and PROSTITUTION?

Good luck bro!

ablejesus26:
Just imagine an ex convict for that matter oo.
This country no just get levels at all.

If it's going to be Igbo presidency OUK should not even be an option.

Most folks from that part of the country are simply shameless; everything goes with zero hesitation

odoemelamemmanu:
Senator Orji Uzor Kalu is the most qualified and ready candidate for president. He is a detribalised Nationalist devoid of any sort of ethnic bigotry. Let's support him #OUK

You are too funny.

OneTwoOne:
Okay.

Let's see if Almajiri and Muslim Terrorists in the North will vote Igbo candidate

No need to wait and see, we already know for sure that they will never vote for an Igbo candidate....But can you blame them?

I doubt it if Orji Kalu will even vote for himself.

Hisbah21:
before not now

You are very correct!
In fact, I will not even be surprised if IBB’s voice in the north is much stronger than Buhari’s .

lexy2014:
still doesnt answer my question:

what personality does he have that makes him qualified to be nigerias president?

My friend, abeg go watch the AFCON, and make way for folks that have things to learn and share

With confidence I still think the perfect ticket is Oshibajo and Zulum.
The power returns to the north when Oshibajo completes his terms.

Forget those selfish noise makers (cowards) from the south; they will continue to make more noise, but at the end of the day they will never see the power.

Toks2008:
Whoever Buhari supports, the core north will support. Simple logic

That may not be the JOKER.

Majority of Nigerians (north, south, east and west) now clearly know that Buhari has a very weak/ simple mind and also severely lacks basic wisdom….For this reason, when the time comes, there will be other big boys in the north that may have a stronger voice.

lexy2014:
you havent answered my question:

what personality does he have that makes him qualified to be nigerias president?

I have no idea…that’s why I’m asking you (the personality GURU) to identify the personality you’re looking for

Hisbah21:
funny enough. This people are the average northerners which are few.. the north will never vote for a christain candidate talkless a southern christain. i'm not talking about religion here.. the political sentiment is to vote a muslim candidate from their region,that's what they are taught and preached to them..


Osibanjo can only win the north if he will rigged

Didn’t the north vote for obasanjo?
Didn’t they vote for Jonathan?

The northerners are not the people from the south that can easily be bought with money or sell their parents for money. The northerners are more United than any other ethnic groups in Nigeria; they have one voice and their words are gold.
If Oshibajo selects a brilliant northerner as his running mate, sky is the limit.

Please forget anyone from the south, as they remain the weakest link that no one respects or can trust. They don’t even trust themselves.

lexy2014:
what personality does he have that makes him qualified to be nigerias president?

What personality are you seeking for? Corrupt personality? Illiterate personality? Lack of communication skills personality? Confused personality? Heartless personality? Bihari’s personality?

Please identify the personality you are looking for.

Al Rufia is known to be a snake and also an unstable @ss kisser; he tends to go with the wind …He goes with whichever direction the wind blows.
HE CANNOT BE TRUSTED…the man doesn’t even trust himself.

I’m not sure why folks think Tinubu is truly running for the presidential election…He is not, he is too smart to make such a move at this point in time. Tinubu knows what he’s doing.

Prediction:
When the time is right, Tinubu will end the game, step aside and support Oshibajo and Zulum ticket.

Most Nigerian men tend to see nobody else but themselves and what they want.
I think folks on this forum should also look at this situation as if his wife is someone's sister (your sister), how would you handle the situation and if you don't kick this dude's @ss, what kind of advise would you give him?

That raping part of the scenario doesn't sit well with me... Can you categorize raping someone as a mistake?

It is well.

Also try to find out if she has ever been raped in the past.
This can also be the wahala here or why she relocated to her parents' house; there is a possibility that your action (raping her) may have brought back the psychological or emotional trauma (damage to her psyche after going through a similar distressing scenario in the past), which is preventing her to move forward or cope with her normal activities, because when she sees you she sees the distressing event from her past.
Please keep in mind that she may not be talking about what is going on in her mind because 98% of rape victims do not talk about their frightening experience.

At this point it seems that she has mentally checked out. The only thing that is left for you is to simply chill, continue to provide support, make yourself happy one way or the other (if you know what I mean) and hope for the best....anything less only makes things worse.

Women have a very interesting mind, once they've checked out mentally there is very little you can do to restore their mind; the more you pull the more she pushes away. You just have to let things come together naturally, by directing your attention towards other great things, but continue to handle your responsibilities as a man.

Don't try to force anything... Give time a change; time will tell

A Peugeot plant or a Peugeot mechanic shop?

Sergio104:
Peter Obi my choice

The man is tested and trusted.

forget unnecessary propaganda against him. The way he handled the "Godfatherism menace" in Anambra is still a hundred question to be answered. And upon that propelled Anambra to the Zenith

No charisma.
The man sounds like an auto parts seller…

favour32:
Nai him dem go first sentence to death.
Nor be him dey arrange Igbo to smoke for that video wey him former wife release?

They should also include fraudsters, drug addicts and credit card thieves…If you know what I mean