Dating A Broke Man

Ileke-IdI:


God forbid.

Ileke-IdI:


God forbid.

Ok.....But u musnt be beggin too

1one: Why not just break up the relationship,and go fix urself...honestly i don't know why some of us guys act so funny(trust me I could have used another word in place of "funny"...it's just too early to start with those toxic words).
What is in a relationship that some of us just run into like a brakesless train(watch the movie unstoppable..u'll get a clearer picture).

You're a man,ur first responsibilty,ur first desire,ur first goal in life should not be a woman,it sd be in defining ur self,achieving ur life goals,being financially secure!!!....Before God brought Eve to Adam,Adam had a job(he was tendering the garden).

I don't even know what a man is doing in a relationship without a job,love is not about money,but money gives expression to love,u need money to properly express love

So dude,My advice is simple...tell her u want to let her go considering the fact that u don't have enough financial weight to bear her needs.

If she's yours,she'll stay and temper her lifestyle to suit ur present circumstance atleast till when u're more financially bouyant.

shymmex: There's no ROMANCE without FINANCE!!

tchidi: My boyfriend has a job dat doesn't pay much.. I work too, not a big job either. I don't, infact I have NEVER asked him for money. I know he has responsibilities, so I understand. I know it'll get better. If your girlfriend can't bear with u now u r not bouyant, you may have to let her go... When u hit it big, she (and so many others) will come flocking around...

ayox2003: Alright. Absence of money make relationships very challenging but this is the time your girl should know she has a Father. Boys and girls are guilty of this rot in our society. Boys always want to meet their girls need. Why? Honestly, we have made these things the threads that holds our relationship and its very bad. To the extent that when the guy is broke, he can't tell his partner and before u know it, he starts telling lies...and the beat goes on...inferiority complex...lack of trust...till they eventually part ways.

You're making things hard on yourself cos u're in 'broke-lyn'and u're still chilling with a girl who doesn't understand that u need sometime to really find things out.
Emotions does not cost money. Feelings, happiness and satisfaction that comes with loving someone doesn't cost you a dime. Therefore, if a relationship can't stand because of the absence of some measly bucks then it a business and u guys are just business partners.

Mind you, there is nothing like a broke guy/girl in a lovely relationship. Infact, I don't tag people as being broke. But that's me. Once partners are not pests, or business partners as it were, the relationship would thrive if they can both work hard.

Frawzey

ayobase:

I thought there is always a woman behind every successful man!

Tiwanna: my dear a girl that loves you will always stand by you in any circumstance you find yourself. if she cant do that, then she is just in the relationship for the money you spend on her and not love.

1one: Why not just break up the relationship,and go fix urself...honestly i don't know why some of us guys act so funny(trust me I could have used another word in place of "funny"...it's just too early to start with those toxic words).
What is in a relationship that some of us just run into like a brakesless train(watch the movie unstoppable..u'll get a clearer picture).

You're a man,ur first responsibilty,ur first desire,ur first goal in life should not be a woman,it sd be in defining ur self,achieving ur life goals,being financially secure!!!....Before God brought Eve to Adam,Adam had a job(he was tendering the garden).

I don't even know what a man is doing in a relationship without a job,love is not about money,but money gives expression to love,u need money to properly express love

So dude,My advice is simple...tell her u want to let her go considering the fact that u don't have enough financial weight to bear her needs.

If she's yours,she'll stay and temper her lifestyle to suit ur present circumstance atleast till when u're more financially bouyant.

tellwisdom: This gurl has been with me ever since, not until she effed up cos she requested fr some amount which i cldnt give,so i dropped her fr her bad behaviour........Now, money is coming like i was a P.A to finance minister

1one: Why not just break up the relationship,and go fix urself...honestly i don't know why some of us guys act so funny(trust me I could have used another word in place of "funny"...it's just too early to start with those toxic words).
What is in a relationship that some of us just run into like a brakesless train(watch the movie unstoppable..u'll get a clearer picture).

You're a man,ur first responsibilty,ur first desire,ur first goal in life should not be a woman,it sd be in defining ur self,achieving ur life goals,being financially secure!!!....Before God brought Eve to Adam,Adam had a job(he was tendering the garden).

I don't even know what a man is doing in a relationship without a job,love is not about money,but money gives expression to love,u need money to properly express love

So dude,My advice is simple...tell her u want to let her go considering the fact that u don't have enough financial weight to bear her needs.

If she's yours,she'll stay and temper her lifestyle to suit ur present circumstance atleast till when u're more financially bouyant.

ginnyluv: av dated a broke man, helped in the lil way i can, to b frank its hard cuz dere r sumtins u want but u no he cant be able to afford. sum of my friends laughed at me odas i couldnt tell how dried d pocket of my man is. he never forgets my bday though, he alsway makes sure he buys my gift n i dint care how lil it cost i take it like its d best tin av received. d rel was so strong he always wanted to mk me feel special, we prayed together sumtimes. later he got a job den the women wahala began.

didadavid: Where are the ladies?

blumail: @ Poster: Is your girlfriend asking you to do things for her or are you the one feeling compelled to maintain her? Maybe you started a maintenance culture that you can't keep up now. Why make promises you know you can't keep? Why expose yourself to such embarrassment? Anyways, if your girlfriend is a good person, she'll observe that you're financially slim now & she'll stand by you. If she's not considerate, then you most likely dont need such a woman in your life.

Luv Mercy: we bam,gals need money just as guys need sex in the relationship,so everybody should meet up.