mondi_cheeks: If its his mess he cleans it up...I have my own place to clean up

carefreewannabe: Why not?
Nothing wrong with that as long as the lady doesn't mind.
The best is to have a very neat boy, though. He doesn't need much help and there is more time for other things

acidtalk:


I used to make a mistake of being wise in the past. But you keep confirming your level of stu*pidity. That's why you are still old, single and miserable.

All your nonesense feminist ideology is the cause of your problems in life and not me. Face the topic or drown yourself in your sorrows.

Bloody nuisance. People like you are the people that mislead other young ladies. Because you have lost hope of getting a man to marry you, you will come out and start giving wrong advice to innocent girls.

acidtalk:


I used to make a mistake of being wise in the past. But you keep confirming your level of stu*pidity. That's why you are still old, single and miserable.

All your nonesense feminist ideology is the cause of your problems in life and not me. Face the topic or drown yourself in your sorrows.

Bloody nuisance. People like you are the people that mislead other young ladies. Because you have lost hope of getting a man to marry you , you will come out and start giving wrong advice to innocent girls.

esere826:

The bolded are not a great statement for a mature guy to make to a lady, no matter the circumstance
whether true or untrue
especially in a public space

Just my take

Ishilove:
Esere my love, ignore the walking anus. He is just pained that I made mention of the fact that he is a pathetic little attention seeker.

Cuddlemii:

Like what?

kalv_in: The name woman means helper of men...so y d hell won't u help?..wats now the difference between u and my friend john.

Sleek05:

Sis myn, wen ppl react 2 accusations lyk dat, u shd kno it hit dem @ d most sensitive part of their body. He never believed anyone wil uncover his super stories, jus keeps fabricatin n dishin dem out wenever necessary, just as it suits d topic...hahahahahaha...awaitin his novel sha, d talent musnt waste!

tpacalipse: Don't mind them. A lot of these edeeots complaining about doing chores will give all they have to do it only if they can land a fiance. But the proplem is that they aint gat and can never have. They will die single.

carefreewannabe:

Like having the time to look sexy for the boyfriend.
Like having time to stay in bed with the boyfriend all day long.
Like having the time to cook fancy meals.
Like having the time to do some work out.
Like having the time to read.

I could go on and on and on ...

Adaeze003:

lmao.. Bro don vex! Lol can't believe I almost missed the party. Sorry broda but we won't die single.
Read something about Africans and 'our culture'. Now let me remind him about the African culture. In the east, you're not allowed to have your fiancee in your house till after your trad marriage and in the south, till after the white wedding so forget this trash about spending the weekend if you wanna talk about culture. Now, after marriage is when she is meant to be your helper as another person said/wrote woman means helper lol! If so why not ask any 'woman' for help? Its only after marriage that this woman is meant to help you as you two have become one. Help means to aid if I'm not wrong and that means you must be doing part of the work. In this case, it means the both of you JOINING forces to have a successful MARRIAGE and if her part is to do chores then its no big deal.
About the spending issue, y should a guy spend money on a girl that's not his wife? Its simply because he wants her love but uhm money can't buy you love but it can get you a cleaner . Sometimes, girls are to blame. He's buying your hair, furniture and bought you a lappy/bb then y won't you clean his house and wash his boxers? Lol. Its all in the mind, he's giving you and you feel a need to do something in return(sometimes its as bad as giving your body).
Guys should even be careful about girls who just walk into their lives and start doing the dishes cos she might just be after the marriage.
Bottomline... Washing and sweeping for you is not the only way a woman can show that she's 'wife material' if she always appears neat, her home is always clean, and she serves you delicious meals when you VISIT her odds are she will take care of your home just fine.

Adaeze003:

lmao.. Bro don vex! Lol can't believe I almost missed the party. Sorry broda but we won't die single.
Read something about Africans and 'our culture'. Now let me remind him about the African culture. In the east, you're not allowed to have your fiancee in your house till after your trad marriage and in the south, till after the white wedding so forget this trash about spending the weekend if you wanna talk about culture. Now, after marriage is when she is meant to be your helper as another person said/wrote woman means helper lol! If so why not ask any 'woman' for help? Its only after marriage that this woman is meant to help you as you two have become one. Help means to aid if I'm not wrong and that means you must be doing part of the work. In this case, it means the both of you JOINING forces to have a successful MARRIAGE and if her part is to do chores then its no big deal.
About the spending issue, y should a guy spend money on a girl that's not his wife? Its simply because he wants her love but uhm money can't buy you love but it can get you a cleaner . Sometimes, girls are to blame. He's buying your hair, furniture and bought you a lappy/bb then y won't you clean his house and wash his boxers? Lol. Its all in the mind, he's giving you and you feel a need to do something in return(sometimes its as bad as giving your body).
Guys should even be careful about girls who just walk into their lives and start doing the dishes cos she might just be after the marriage.
Bottomline... Washing and sweeping for you is not the only way a woman can show that she's 'wife material' if she always appears neat, her home is always clean, and she serves you delicious meals when you VISIT her odds are she will take care of your home just fine.

Cuddlemii:

Then what time will be left for you and your development
Don't men cramp your space?

carefreewannabe:

I don't get this question.

UncleJJ:

IF YOU WONT DO IT, SOMEONE ELSE WILL DO IT..

UncleJJ:

IF YOU WONT DO IT, SOMEONE ELSE WILL DO IT..

Sleek05:

Thank sis, u jus kiled d topic. God bless u plenty!

Ishilove:
Na by force?

@adaeze003, you have said it all.

Adaeze003:
lol! Like that's supposed to change my mind

dmcdad:

WTH!

mondi_cheeks: where is ur profile picture with the sweaty armpits

dmcdad:
U asking where or why?

mondi_cheeks: i thought u had removed it

mondi_cheeks: where is ur profile picture with the sweaty armpits

dmcdad:
Why won't people acknowledge something good? Why is it that it was the sweaty armpit u saw?

mondi_cheeks: cos they are visible...

dmcdad:
And those were the only visible things u saw. Right?

mondi_cheeks:

dmcdad:
How visible were they that u never noticed the face and the body in general? Well, I guess u r the type that would neva credit sumtin gud, buh look 4 the tiny dent to complain about