tunapawizzy:
buhahaha na wa o...e be like d guy dun turn gbewu dani

Egbon,e buru gan o. Gbewu dani bawo? lol

Idowuogbo: Lmfao! U set a date to marry a gal wiv such attitude? Get ready bro! U gon beg breakfast, lunch and dinner, beg for punny, beg for hugs, beg for attention... Infact,u go beg/bribe/cry to have kids.shebi ur own love get Apollo ba? Marriage go buy u eye-drop. Ode!

damn! You're wicked

@op, am going to tell you this from a woman who knows someone who used to use that method to her advantage. First of all if after u talk to her and she doesnt change, tell her you would end the relationship, there is no need to be in a relationship let alone a marriage that has no trust. Yes it has no trust. am suspecting that she is trying have control over you, and you play well into her act of guilting you into doing what she wants. the way i see it she has a pet in you, infact even pets dont beg all the time. You better sit her down or end that relationship because if it continues like that into your marriage, na fight una go dey do every night and you marriage wont last, and it would have been a waste of time and money taking her down the aisle. Be wise, grow a back bone. Men like you make me sick, i just want to slap you right now for even posting this on here, such a woman ( as in weak) man.tufiaaaa, may God not give me a man without a backbone like you.

sammy-young:
I and my girl met around April 2011, right now, all is set to marry her coz we av done an introduction, and av even set the date for the marriage, but my only problem is that, she is too detailed....u may wonder wat detailed means. She never overlook anytin, any offence from me, I av to beg and beg, no matter how small and needless it might be, I love to make her happy all the time, but, her 'too detailed type of person' makes her scroll thru my fone, sees anyone I accidentally call 'dear' or 'ping first' who might happen to be a lady....den, war has started, I just av to beg and beg as she keeps recounting. sometimes, once an thru begging for like 3hours, anoda offence comes up again

So if we spend like 10hours 2geda, I approximatly beg for like 8 of the d hours!!!

Pls advice, coz I love her so much and she goes the extra-mile once she's happy wit me, can a man ever do witout offending a lady, and wats d amount of pleading dat shld be enuf to quench the hurt, plz help

you are the one to live with her , if you are happy with such goodluck

My Bf was like that, it stoped the day  walked out on him and switch of my phone for 3days, then he start looking for me. So the begging part of our relationship end, guy treat her F¤ck up anytime she's expecting u to beg her,  BEG BONE AM, cos that's what  do now

[size=28pt]Forget the plans to marry her if she continues to misbehave.

ANYONE WHO DOES NOT RESPECT YOU IS NOT WORTHY OF YOU.[/size]

alala dakosta:

Sir,at time one have to grab the bull my the horn,no need bitting around the bush. you spend 10hrs with someone,you beg for 8hour.
But OP wait o.what will you be begging for....?

the op never see toto before from fine girl.... him wan die put for this one ,if the girl tell am to denounce the mama op go dey more than glad to do am.

Gabriel_sylar: Just record urself begging and after marraige whenever she is angry just play the reocrding let it loop over and over and u leave her to go and watch EPL

i have died death!

Idowuogbo: Lmfao! U set a date to marry a gal wiv such attitude? Get ready bro! U gon beg breakfast, lunch and dinner, beg for punny, beg for hugs, beg for attention... Infact,u go beg/bribe/cry to have kids.shebi ur own love get Apollo ba? Marriage go buy u eye-drop. Ode!

why is this mofo taking panadol to someones headache besides must you call him ode?....person wey nid advise sef dey give advise... shiooooo!

Urine:

Roflmfao.

what the Bleep, who gave you this name!

OP, I know your girl's type. She is a drama queen. She probably doesn't know how else to relate with you and get your total attention than to cause troubles where non is. Most experimenting Teenagers are like that you know (not that I think your Woman is). You should put the wedding on hold, talk to her about this attitude and court her all over again. This time round, explore your common grounds and have productive ventures with her. For now, I think you two don't really know each other enough to tie the knot.

Run for your dear life because since your relationship is based on begging,it will surely end begging and when you cant beg anymore,it is either the marriage consume you or you consume the marriage.Be wise and take to your heels.Just my own advise sha!

@OP: your woman is insecure, period! you need to talk to her about her insecurities. for the good of you two, the marriage has to be put on hold until she works out her issue. there are some issues that no marriage can survive, and this is one of them. if you choose to ignore the warnings and continue with the current situation, be assured that you will have an unhealthy marriage.
also remember, what ever happens before marriage increases exponentially after "I do". a word they say ...

mimifonwon: @op, am going to tell you this from a woman who knows someone who used to use that method to her advantage. First of all if after u talk to her and she doesnt change, tell her you would end the relationship, there is no need to be in a relationship let alone a marriage that has no trust. Yes it has no trust. am suspecting that she is trying have control over you, and you play well into her act of guilting you into doing what she wants. the way i see it she has a pet in you, infact even pets dont beg all the time. You better sit her down or end that relationship because if it continues like that into your marriage, na fight una go dey do every night and you marriage wont last, and it would have been a waste of time and money taking her down the aisle. Be wise, grow a back bone. Men like you make me sick, i just want to slap you right now for even posting this on here, such a woman ( as in weak) man.tufiaaaa, may God not give me a man without a backbone like you.

how is your catfish!

Idowuogbo: Lmfao! U set a date to marry a gal wiv such attitude? Get ready bro! U gon beg breakfast, lunch and dinner, beg for punny, beg for hugs, beg for attention... Infact,u go beg/bribe/cry to have kids.shebi ur own love get Apollo ba? Marriage go buy u eye-drop. Ode!

You don't need to curse at him, he is just a nice guy the type women chase all over for but can't stand or tolerate once they get em.. You can even see it in their eyes.. Story of the day if you have never made a woman cry you a softy,, it's just in some women's DNA to be reproached by soft nice guys..

My bros be mean,the next time tell her to go to hell,that there are plenty girls dat want her position.tell her enough is enough,shake her small but with love and care o!but if u no fit,go record i beg 4 cassette or fone.because one day u go tire and u go begin on am 4 am

Bros,I honestly dont like being the one who tells you this but I think you need to walk away very fast.
Take a break.Suspend this marriage thing and take a look at the big picture 5-10 yrs down the road.Do you like what you see?
If you dont like the view,change it.What you hear when you honestly ask yourself some tough questions will be the Voice of God.
Obey it and spare yourself some torture.

*speaking in Onitsha accent*

Nna you don buy market

Richfella: Next time it's time to beg, just bone her...come back and tell us what happened.

Dis d only advise I can give d OP.....
Out of d 10hrs dnt beg 4 a min and tell us d feed back...
Respect must fall in na....

signs of A Desperate Man.

@Op, I will advice you to marry the girl since you Love her and then after the marriage "stop begging"

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[size=18pt]stop cheating & there will be no need to beg. Why do you call other females dear?? She has lost trust in you, thats why she is checking your phone. Ur not telling the whole truth ! Ur still playing around and you want to marry .. Ur starting on the wrong foot. Change ur ways and it should be well[/size]

learn to beg within limit. u ar d man of d house. imagine begging for 8hrs out of 10hrs.

Leave the b**ch and move on with your life. If you spend 8 out of 10 hours arguing, or rather, pleading with her, it is obvious that her personality is that of a nagging and obnoxiously bitter person. She's a fiancee for a reason. It's better to make a decision now than to wait until marriage because I know how traditionally inclined marriage can be in Africa, particularly in Nigeria.

You seem to think you're incapable of initiating a relationship with someone else because you do not feel confident with yourself as a person. There are lots of girls on this planet and your fiancee sounds very deluded and self-centred. I'm sure YOU know you deserve better.

A word is enough for the wise. Don't let traditionalism affect your happiness as a person. It's 2013, not 1880.

[size=13pt]Brother, if you love yourself and your life, its not too late. You better quit the relationship. If not, you will continue to beg all the rest of your life and you might even die before your time of emotional trauma. My 2cents to you.[/size]

IZUKWU: how is your catfish!

izu ghi na achum uka ooo... hafu'm aka

tols4gorgeous: U all av made very gud comments, bt none of u culd ask d basis y he begs, or shuld we ignore the fact that theres smt dis dude does ‎​†нα† makes him beg? He said d lady goes extra miles for him wen she's happy wif him, so if a lady culd go dt mile for him y wuld she be a mistake for him to get married to, this guy in questn shuld check his self, he his failin @ a point, as a matter of fact its wen u knw u av done smt wrong ‎​†нα† u wil beg, so do u also av to do things to hurt her feelings n leads to u beggin, do d right thing n u won't av reasons to apologise always....she is perfectly in order, n if T̅ђє̲̣̥ house feels u shuld end ur relatnship, go ahead bt i tell u, shey u re complainin of beggin, d nxt gal u meet wil be worse cos d problem is frm u n not the lady.

GOD BLESS YOU OOOOOOOOOOO, you have said all in my mind, there are many eediota on NL, they always blame a woman over a man in any relationship, the lady is not feeling SAFE with you because of your bad deed, a normal person dont keep begging when he is not wrong, delet all your fucking girlfriend/EX that you still keep pinging and using "dear" for, every lady want to be SAFE with their man...

old boy,this is no big issue at all.No one is perfect and you cant expect your girl to be flawless.This is just the bad side of her and i am sure you also have a bad side too..As long as you both love each other and she respect you then go on with the marriage.Next time something goes wrong,dont beg her,i´m sure she will be alright.Your girl´s attitude is like that of oyinbo girls..They like begging too much..