nikkykay: Nope!5wks is not 2 early! Dey wl even ask u 2do scan 2 check d sac & see if foetus is found!
Ask u 2run some tests! 5wks is not 2early dear!
Just b @rest & enjoy d next 38wks
Like dyt & pheyikemi said dnt do any self prescription pls cos it may cause defect! Even paracetamol, u need 2let ur doc knw first!
Instd of seein a doc 2mrw, visit d ante natal section! D doc wl only tell u its a normal symptom!

aite..jst finishe twkn to ma dad ooo...he wnts me to go ova to ma mum since she lives alone..dat I told him I doubt can rily work,av neva livd wit ha for mor dan a week though of recent we communicate we'll on fone nw..Again,he insists he must c d fada of ma baby so I'm n hs family r cmin ova ds wikend..I tod I'm I dnt wnt to go bk to I'm cos he told me point blank dat he didn't love me anymor..ma dad blivs m emotional cos of my present state..we r stil dragin dat nw..I knw he wnts d best for me bt...abt d mawnin sickness(dis one is even tru d whole day)we r going to c doc tomoro(bt nt antenatal yet)..he's d most caring father on planet earth n I fil lyk av betrayed him

pheyikemi: . Just make sure u dnt do any self prescription pls, esp at ds stage, d 1st trimester, cos any drug u use at ds stage may become teratogenic, except ur doctor says itz ok to use it. Teratogens cause birth defects in d fetus

wats teratogenic pls

Hummingbird: wats teratogenic pls

when a teratogen e.g drugs, radiations like x-rays cause malformation in fetus, d fetus may exhibit features like phocomelia (wen the limbs become extremely short, hole in the heart, cleft lip, cleft palate etc

pheyikemi: when a teratogen e.g drugs, radiations like x-rays cause malformation in fetus, d fetus may exhibit features like phocomelia (wen the limbs become extremely short, hole in the heart, cleft lip, cleft palate etc

aite..tnx

pheyikemi: when a teratogen e.g drugs, radiations like x-rays cause malformation in fetus, d fetus may exhibit features like phocomelia (wen the limbs become extremely short, hole in the heart, cleft lip, cleft palate etc

aite..tnx..I dnt even lyk swaloing drugs befor sef

OP you seem a very nice person and it's a pity you're going thru this but i pray you'd be happy at last.

Has d guy called u since u sent him d sms?! If not I doubt if he wl cme 2c ur dad! But dnt let me conclude yet! Call his mum & tell her ur dad wants 2c him as well so dat his parents won't say dey ddnt knw he was asked 2cme! I dnt knw hw u can cope wit ur mum but u need somebody ard u esp ur 1st trimester. Pls learn 2love ur mum. U can as well go 2her place 4 awhile & cme back 2ur place if u knw u aint going 2get along wit her. She can always cme as well 2spend time wit u!
Let's see hw d meeting btw d 2 families goes over d wkend! I hope dey wl show up sha!

bengreat: OP you seem a very nice person and it's a pity you're going thru this but i pray you'd be happy at last.

amen..tnk u very much..God b wit u too

Dear hummingbird
Am really sorry for what ur passing through. Don't worry, it is well. May God see u thru dis pregnancy and may u deliver a healthy child. Pls take good care of urself and try to forget dat BASTARD dat put u in this condition.

nikkykay: Has d guy called u since u sent him d sms?! If not I doubt if he wl cme 2c ur dad! But dnt let me conclude yet! Call his mum & tell her ur dad wants 2c him as well so dat his parents won't say dey ddnt knw he was asked 2cme! I dnt knw hw u can cope wit ur mum but u need somebody ard u esp ur 1st trimester. Pls learn 2love ur mum. U can as well go 2her place 4 awhile & cme back 2ur place if u knw u aint going 2get along wit her. She can always cme as well 2spend time wit u!
Let's see hw d meeting btw d 2 families goes over d wkend! I hope dey wl show up sha!

ma dad said even if he doesnr show up,@least hs families wil know dat dey av a child outside..about ma mom,I am rily considering going to her..since we've neva bin togeda before..I tink its tym we knw each oda more(I wnt to hear d funny stories of ma childhood)morova she's a nurse(matron)in a teaching hospital..she wil luk afta me very we'll...hopefuly...tnk u al

uyiekpenm: Dear hummingbird
Am really sorry for what ur passing through. Don't worry, it is well. May God see u thru dis pregnancy and may u deliver a healthy child. Pls take good care of urself and try to forget dat BASTARD dat put u in this condition.

tnk u very much...bt he isn't a bastard..dnt rily knw wat cam over him

Nna mehn!

So this seasonal film don enter season 17

@Op if you like keep exposing your life on nairaland, na you sabi.

Hummingbird: tnk u very much...bt he isn't a bastard..dnt rily knw wat cam over him

i like your comment..no mata wat happened he deserved some respect. He fell out of love a long time ago,bt instead of facing it squarely,he led you along and kept u out of pity...u should have read the signs too bt i guess u were so much in love...i like ur courage still.

pDude: Nna mehn!

So this seasonal film don enter season 17

@Op if you like keep exposing your life on nairaland, na you sabi.

I quite undastnd wat u're tryin to say..bt dias no essence covering a secret dat wil soon or later b xposed(u cnt hide bin pregnant for long)..again,fr me writin hia means a lot to me,@least dia pple hia wu av bin in ma shoes befor,dia sm dat r going tru d sam tin,xo we can rub minds togeda n so dat I wnt mak a choice I wil foreva regret.n in d end so dat I wil b able to smile(n I bliv wit d helps of ma e-friends n family)dat wil b posible..tnk u

I like ur dad's spirit! If e likes let him show up or not!
U must b a wonderful girl 4considering ur mum despite ur past wit eachother! Its good u want her close to u 2knw abt ur childhood so as 2check out traits in ur baby whn she is born! Very nice of u! Am sure ds is d time she wil show u d love she denied u yrs back!
Wot did ur dad say abt ur job?! Or u aint interested again?!

Hummingbird: I quite undastnd wat u're tryin to say..bt dias no essence covering a secret dat wil soon or later b xposed(u cnt hide bin pregnant for long)..again,fr me writin hia means a lot to me,@least dia pple hia wu av bin in ma shoes befor,dia sm dat r going tru d sam tin,xo we can rub minds togeda n so dat I wnt mak a choice I wil foreva regret.n in d end so dat I wil b able to smile(n I bliv wit d helps of ma e-friends n family)dat wil b posible..tnk u

Hmmmm. You sound so sweet and polite. Who is the a$$hole who did this to you?

My dear, don't back down from this fight o! You dint impregnate urself. Any man who won't use a condom should stand up and face the consequences. Dont play softy softy with him o, or else he will leave you to fend for the child. Gather your parents and relatives and take a trip to see his family so that plans can be made.

Gone are the days when a guy will deny belle and go scotfree. My dear, shine your eye and stand up for your right. There is nothing to be ashamed of. To carry belle nor be moimoi. Other women dey find am. I had an aunt who lived and died a miserable life because she couldn't give birth. Stand up for your right.

Nothing dey happen.

nikkykay: I like ur dad's spirit! If e likes let him show up or not!
U must b a wonderful girl 4considering ur mum despite ur past wit eachother! Its good u want her close to u 2knw abt ur childhood so as 2check out traits in ur baby whn she is born! Very nice of u! Am sure ds is d time she wil show u d love she denied u yrs back!
Wot did ur dad say abt ur job?! Or u aint interested again?!

ryt nw ma dad tinks d first tin to do is mov ova to ma mum's(sinc he's nt always) @om..he said wen I get to my mum's den we'l discuss wat nxt to do..n sinc no one knws me wia ma mum stays..teachin wil b d best opt for me

mecussey:

Haha, i got you there. I know you ve been a victim even though you claim to be a virgin, but I dont bloody care. If you enter my trap, i go still pound you and throw you out. Any reasonable girl should know that sex b4 marriage is a sin and without condom is a "worser " sin, and having an abortion is the "worstest" sin. Doing it the 3rd time the worstestest sin, well that one concerns you and her. Let her continue banging

Mehn! Shut da fvck up. Worstestest sin. What do you know? Are you God? Who gave you the right to judge? Abeg go one side jor

@Hummingbird

Sweets, don't you ever bow to any pressure to abort that child. I know you are going thru a lot of pain and mixed emotions, but I can assure you of one thing: the moment that child comes out of you and is placed in your arms, that will be the best feeling you have in your life.

I am talking from experience.


I cried like a baby in front of nurses, doctors, etc just after my wife gave birth (me wey dey always do macho) and my child was placed in my arms. Nothing else mattered anymore. The feeling is worth experiencing.

pDude:

Hmmmm. You sound so sweet and polite. Who is the a$$hole who did this to you?

My dear, don't back down from this fight o! You dint impregnate urself. Any man who won't use a condom should stand up and face the consequences. Dont play softy softy with him o, or else he will leave you to fend for the child. Gather your parents and relatives and take a trip to see his family so that plans can be made.

Gone are the days when a guy will deny belle and go scotfree. My dear, shine your eye and stand up for your right. There is nothing to be ashamed of. To carry belle nor be moimoi. Other women dey find am. I had an aunt who lived and died a miserable life because she couldn't give birth. Stand up for your right.

Nothing dey happen.

I dnt evn nid im takin up d responsibilities of bin a fada..al I nid is im aceptn d paternity of d child...n if he dsnt..i wil fil bad bt wnt hold it up against im considern d fact d dat d 4yrs I spent in luv wit im was xctin n luv fild..(for a child wus mum isnt dia,n wus fada is a chronic ajala)I'L try nt 2 hate him cos of ma unborn child..sinc we gav dis baby lyf 2geda...

Hummingbird: I dnt evn nid im takin up d responsibilities of bin a fada..al I nid is im aceptn d paternity of d child...n if he dsnt..i wil fil bad bt wnt hold it up against im considern d fact d dat d 4yrs I spent in luv wit im was xctin n luv fild..(for a child wus mum isnt dia,n wus fada is a chronic ajala)I'L try nt 2 hate him cos of ma unborn child..sinc we gav dis baby lyf 2geda...

Oh! Believe me, you can't do the work of a father no matter how hard you try. That baby has a father and that father must accept that child even though he may not be around, but let that child know her mother isn't virgin mary (God forgive me ). HE MUST SHOW FACE AS FATHER OF THAT CHILD.

pDude: @Hummingbird

Sweets, don't you ever bow to any pressure to abort that child. I know you are going thru a lot of pain and mixed emotions, but I can assure you of one thing: the moment that child comes out of you and is placed in your arms, that will be the best feeling you have in your life.

I am talking from experience.


I cried like a baby in front of nurses, doctors, etc just after my wife gave birth (me wey dey always do macho) and my child was placed in my arms. Nothing else mattered anymore. The feeling is worth experiencing.

criously cnt wait for d baby to come,@least al dis wil end n I wil av smthn to show for it....lyk criously did u rily cry(men dnt cry I heard)...dis baby is cmin to stay..tnk u

Hummingbird: criously cnt wait for d baby to come,@least al dis wil end n I wil av smthn to show for it....lyk criously did u rily cry(men dnt cry I heard)...dis baby is cmin to stay..tnk u

Nne, my liver fail me that day o. As I big and huge reach, see as water dey fall from my eyes . I tried everything I could to do macho but na one tiny 7 pounds baby fall my hand o . I couldn't believe that na my own child I dey hold for my arm. At that moment, I knew I could forfeit my life for my child if there was need for it. My dear, it is worth the entire journey.

pDude:

Nne, my liver fail me that day o. As I big and huge reach, see as water dey fall from my eyes . I tried everything I could to do macho but na one tiny 7 pounds baby fall my hand o . I couldn't believe that na my own child I dey hold for my arm. At that moment, I knew I could forfeit my life for my child if there was need for it. My dear, it is worth the entire journey.

awwww...av bin chckn ma flat tommy eva sinc if dias rily a child growin in dia...congratulations cos it takes a real man courage to acept hs responsibilities

pDude:

Nne, my liver fail me that day o. As I big and huge reach, see as water dey fall from my eyes . I tried everything I could to do macho but na one tiny 7 pounds baby fall my hand o . I couldn't believe that na my own child I dey hold for my arm. At that moment, I knew I could forfeit my life for my child if there was need for it. My dear, it is worth the entire journey.

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oga u funny die ooo! so na 7 pounds baby fall u a macho??
Believe me dre is nothing so sweet like holding a new born baby.
I cried & smiled whn i held my baby d first time saying to mysef u brot a soul to d world.
Believe it is not all guys dat r responsible to take up dir responsibilities wn it comes to d issue of pregnancy. In fact dats wn u know d bastards out of them.
And tell me wots d work of a father? i grew up with both parents but unfortunately for me my father never liked me so i knw i lack fatherly love.

@ humming bird
Please move to mumsie's place sharp sharp and from dre begin to search for job which i believe u wil get. But dont let dm know u r pregnant for now cos it may put them off.
Dnt be in a hurry u wont start showing until u r like 5-6 mths depending on ur body

[quote author=nikkykay][/quote]yes...plannin on movin nxt wik,I wnt to wait n c ao d meeting btwn our parents go dis wikend....lyk criously I wudnt lyk a big tommy,cos I av a smal stature,m nt tal nor fat..al d same..its gud knwing a tiny bieng is dependin on me for survival(fr fud,air,care,love n affectio)..my mum ws almst cryin wen I asked ha if I shd com ova..she cnt even bliv I said it..xo its a green lyt fr me nw..tnk u

pDude: Nna mehn!

So this seasonal film don enter season 17

@Op if you like keep exposing your life on nairaland, na you sabi.

as in ehhh

Hummingbird: Xriously abortion is the last tin on ma mind..av ad 3 for I'm in d past..n I dnt wana tie I'm dwn with d baby or make I'm marry me out of pity...I just finishd twkn to him..he wsnt even moved wit al ma cries n pleas..its lyk my lyf is crashin ryt in front of me lyk a pack of card

four pregnancies in three years wow them no dey sell condom for ur area? Is ur story really true?

lilcutie8916: four pregnancies in three years wow them no dey sell condom for ur area? Is ur story really true?

U no go buy use am 4 ur gfrnd.. Abeg shift jor..

Hummingbird: yes...plannin on movin nxt wik,I wnt to wait n c ao d meeting btwn our parents go dis wikend....lyk criously I wudnt lyk a big tommy,cos I av a smal stature,m nt tal nor fat..al d same..its gud knwing a tiny bieng is dependin on me for survival(fr fud,air,care,love n affectio)..my mum ws almst cryin wen I asked ha if I shd com ova..she cnt even bliv I said it..xo its a green lyt fr me nw..tnk u

Good to knw u r having a building d bond btw u & ur mum.
Lets see hw d meeting goes ds wkend.
I wish u all d best.
Gve us updates pls

nikkykay:
Good to knw u r having a building d bond btw u & ur mum.
Lets see hw d meeting goes ds wkend.
I wish u all d best.
Gve us updates pls

wil kip u updated...he cald me today,bt I ws slipin..saw hs 5misd cals..m nt caling I'm bk though...tnk u al fr bin dia fr me

Dear u re on d same page of life wit ma frnd its just dat ur case is worst dan hers she is also 5wks pregnant 4 her guy and dey luv eachoda so much bt her fada won't hear of it cos d guy is nt 4rm her place she is in a dilema her life is abt to crumble bt I always advice her to b strong bt wen I saw ur story I called her to read and c 4 her self and 4get abt her damn dad and move on she has a luvin and understndin guy who is ready to take responsibility of everytin my dear d lord is ur strenght if u hear anoda persn story u wil tank God 4 urs