Dyt: Hav bn foolish too sometimes
So is every other person
Jst dat our foolishness differs

Op, d Lord is ur strength

amen..thnk you very much

To all does who av commented to ds post,I apriciate it..thnk u very much..I knw wats ahead of me..av seen pple who av babies outsyd wedlock,I knw its nt smthn dats rosy..but one tin I knw for sure..m stil hurt nw,filin betrayed..bt d even dat even d darkest night wil pass n d sun wil shine again..once again..thnk you all

Hummingbird: To all does who av commented to ds post,I apriciate it..thnk u very much..I knw wats ahead of me..av seen pple who av babies outsyd wedlock,I knw its nt smthn dats rosy..but one tin I knw for sure..m stil hurt nw,filin betrayed..bt d even dat even d darkest night wil pass n d sun wil shine again..once again..thnk you all

dis just got me awwed.. gal, f'up mehn...

anyways.. first thing first, go do a pregnancy test! dont sit dere assuming u pregnant, you need to know if u are or not.

Idowuogbo:
dis just got me awwed.. gal, f'up mehn...

anyways.. first thing first, go do a pregnancy test! dont sit dere assuming u pregnant, you need to know if u are or not.

weneva I misd ma period..it mins jst one tin..av taken in..jst to clear al doubt...I went for a test today n twas positive..from wat I calculated wit d nurse on duty,am five weeks pregnant

Hummingbird: weneva I misd ma period..it mins jst one tin..av taken in..jst to clear al doubt...I went for a test today n twas positive..from wat I calculated wit d nurse on duty,am five weeks pregnant

Jeez! now u no, wot are ur plans so far? u told any friends or family yet? u schooling or working?

Dyt: U preg?
Goodness
He will think u actually wanna tie him down wit dat
Mehn, dis is hard

He knows he doesn't feel a thing 4 u and he wz stickin dat his useless pencil in u

Chai, some men can b so callous
I can bet he ll ask u abort it

keep blaming men!

Hummingbird: To all does who av commented to ds post,I apriciate it..thnk u very much..I knw wats ahead of me..av seen pple who av babies outsyd wedlock,I knw its nt smthn dats rosy..but one tin I knw for sure..m stil hurt nw,filin betrayed..bt d even dat even d darkest night wil pass n d sun wil shine again..once again..thnk you all

i love that may the almighty see you through

Idowuogbo:
Jeez! now u no, wot are ur plans so far? u told any friends or family yet? u schooling or working?

told ma mum straight away..av nt bin able to contact ma sis..I dnt rily kip friends bt d only close one I av folowed me to d clinic today..I knw ma dad wud av bin aware cos I saw hs misd cals,av bn tryin to cal bk,bt d ntwk is bad..the only person left is d father of my baby..dnt rily knw if I shd tel I'm nw or stil wait a bit

^ no begin vex me ooo
Tell him wat na
Abeg no bring dat one o

IZUKWU: keep blaming men!

Before nko?
Chukles

Dyt you think she shouldn't tell him?

Hummingbird: Tnk u all for ur comments and advices...I apriciate...av bn tinkin abt al da wut ma family n friends,its beta I let I'm go@mecussy,d only reason y am sad is because he's d only man av eva loved...I dnt even knw dat oda men existd befor nw..n abt d baby my parent hv instistd I av d baby(I undastnd dey r doing dis out of luv too)....he ws damn too perfect..no one knew he cud even hurt a fly..

Don't worry sweety, pick yourself and stop crying. The good thing is your parents have accepted the baby ,look for a job and raise that child. That man will be dealt with accordingly when karma comes back and bites him. I really feel for you dear!

Hummingbird: told ma mum straight away..av nt bin able to contact ma sis..I dnt rily kip friends bt d only close one I av folowed me to d clinic today..I knw ma dad wud av bin aware cos I saw hs misd cals,av bn tryin to cal bk,bt d ntwk is bad..the only person left is d father of my baby..dnt rily knw if I shd tel I'm nw or stil wait a bit

Tell him! but... dont expect much from him.

y u ignoring ur dad's call? u scared?

Idowuogbo:
Tell him! but... dont expect much from him.

y u ignoring ur dad's call? u scared?

no no,my dad is the most undastndn man on earth..my mum is jst tryin to b nice cos of ha past deeds

freecocoa: Dyt you think she shouldn't tell him?

She said she told him dat he didn't say anyth
So wats d point in tellin him again
He's abandoned u wit d baby
Let him go abeg

Hummingbird: no no,my dad is the most undastndn man on earth..my mum is jst tryin to b nice cos of ha past deeds

eya... at least u no u got dat support in the bag. i'll suggest u work hand in hand with ur dad to sort dis mess.keep your head and heart facing the right direction, and your feet will take care of themselves. Goodluck!

Idowuogbo:
Tell him! but... dont expect much from him.

y u ignoring ur dad's call? u scared?

no no ma dad is mst undastndn man,I jst tink ma mum is bin nice cos of ha past deeds..ma dad jst dropd a mesage dat he's drivin,he said ma mum tod I'm of wat apnd..he wil b calin me soon

the Lord is ur strength@ op.pls try ur very best to take care of yourself and the child.ignore haters dat try to make u feel inferior cos there's no one without sin.God bless u@dyt.

Hummingbird: Xriously abortion is the last tin on ma mind..av ad 3 for I'm in d past..n I dnt wana tie I'm dwn with d baby or make I'm marry me out of pity...I just finishd twkn to him..he wsnt even moved wit al ma cries n pleas..its lyk my lyf is crashin ryt in front of me lyk a pack of card

excuse me , did you say three abortions for the same man and you are still confused and in a distant r/ship at that. How many men that will date you in the future and considering marriage will learn that you have killed three babies in your womb and still considers you , marriable. Probably this guy does not any longer. Why allow a guy walk all over you like that. You own a duty to your self to protect yourself and preserve your dignity and you failed to do that.

Abbott: Just for next time sakes: a man that sleeps with you and asks/requests/orders/demands you to abort DEFINITELY does not have your best interest at heart. On a priority scale of 1-10, you are number 10.

Abstain from pre-marital sex if you know you dont dream of single parenting/abortion. Cheers.

even if you won't use condom then use pills ,it's just #100 for a month or even postinor 2 since it is a ldr, when refuses to use protection and forgets to make sure you didn't take in but pays for abortion for the first time , second time ,. . . What makes you think that he sees a future with you. You don't desecrate the food you will eat later. This does not see his children coming from you .

Hummingbird: told ma mum straight away..av nt bin able to contact ma sis..I dnt rily kip friends bt d only close one I av folowed me to d clinic today..I knw ma dad wud av bin aware cos I saw hs misd cals,av bn tryin to cal bk,bt d ntwk is bad..the only person left is d father of my baby..dnt rily knw if I shd tel I'm nw or stil wait a bit

4 me i will advs u let him knw ur keeping the baby,but pls dont entertain the thought of spending ur life with him,hs only going to do that out of pity. Its definitely going to boomerang one day. Jst let go, ur true drm man will find you.

chidyhels:
4 me i will advs u let him knw ur keeping the baby,but pls dont entertain the thought of spending ur life with him,hs only going to do that out of pity. Its definitely going to boomerang one day. Jst let go, ur true drm man will find you.

Fact#

chidyhels:
4 me i will advs u let him knw ur keeping the baby,but pls dont entertain the thought of spending ur life with him,hs only going to do that out of pity. Its definitely going to boomerang one day. Jst let go, ur true drm man will find you.

hmmm...word for the wise...I cald im,he didnt pik,xo i drpd a msg,i tod im m caryn hs baby,jst felt lyk he shd knw cos av made a dcision to kip d baby...he hsnt replied sha

Hummingbird: hmmm...word for the wise...I cald im,he didnt pik,xo i drpd a msg,i tod im m caryn hs baby,jst felt lyk he shd knw cos av made a dcision to kip d baby...he hsnt replied sha

Don't call him again, ok? Enough is a enough. Move on!!!!!

nikkykay: Guys please dnt condemn her for unprotected sex.
She had a 3yrs rship with a guy. Am sure whn dey started dey were using condoms but later on dey stopped using dats y she could get pregnant thrice.

@OP
I think he has seen anoda person since u r far away from each other. Regardless of ur age u have to b strong now.
I will advise u dont beg him to come back to u cos he is gone for good. Just make up ur mind and b strong cos u r about to start a very tough as a single parents esp during the cause of the pregnancy. Be strong and call him dat u r pregnant but dnt have it in mind dat he might come back cos of dat cos dat guy doesnt love u any more please.
If he tells you to keep it dat he wil b responsible, fine. Just relax till anoda man who wil accept you with ur child wil cme.
If he says no dat u shld abort it, fine. Just tell him u cant abort again and dat u wil take up d responsibilities.
Then the time to involve ur mum comes in now. She may have offended u in d past but like someone said u shld thank God that she didnt abort like to did thrice. you are going to be a mother 2 very soon so try to see ur mum as ur confidant now and tell her the situation of things. She is the only one who can stand by u now.
I hope u have ur job. Let ur job keep u busy my dear. Make urself happy and dnt let anythg weigh u down. It is not easy but am telling you dat ur baby wil bring you joy later on. Emotionally u wil suffer but its for a while am telling you.
Ask God for forgiveness of fornication and for bringing an innocent soul to the world in a wrong way. And begin to pray for a man dat will love both of u.

Am talking from experience my dear cos it happened to me. A guy left me with 3mths pregnancy. I was devastated during the pregnancy but God in HIs mercy saw me thru. My job helped me as well tho it was rough. My mother stood by me all thru and my brothers /sisters never left me till now. it was even my eldest sister dat stayed with me in the labour room all thru the nite. My baby clocked 1yr recently and am telling you she is still the best thing that has ever happened to be. Now I hv met a man dat loves me and my child more than anythg in the world. A fantastic man indeed. When God began with me, i had diff suitors that were ready to accept both of us but i had d chance to even choose.
For now dnt look @ man but focus on God cos he is d only one who can sail u thru>

it is well

SOOTHENING

OP, you get family support, get friend support, get nairaland support join sef...no mess up o....as NL don turn to eGodparents. Enjoy!

Abbott: OP, you get family support, get friend support, get nairaland support join sef...no mess up o....as NL don turn to eGodparents. Enjoy!

infact nairalanders ar d best...i apriciate u al..n I knw d nxt 8mths,u'l al b by ma syd....tnk u al

Idowuogbo:
Don't call him again, ok? Enough is a enough. Move on!!!!!

yes ma'am

Dyt: ^ do u intend marryin her or givin her to ur elder bro?



U must b an hediot 2 blame her
Who knows d hrt of u silly men
U go abt ere and dere deceiving and u come ere 2 spill thrash
U beta take ur time


OP, as it now, I don't even know wat 2 advice, bt I blv God ll see u thru

Haha, i got you there. I know you ve been a victim even though you claim to be a virgin, but I dont bloody care. If you enter my trap, i go still pound you and throw you out. Any reasonable girl should know that sex b4 marriage is a sin and without condom is a "worser " sin, and having an abortion is the "worstest" sin. Doing it the 3rd time the worstestest sin, well that one concerns you and her. Let her continue banging

Ode ni bobo yi mehn

Dyt: Ode ni bobo yi mehn

Na you know watin u dey talk, Nland addict

mecussey: Na you know watin u dey talk, Nland addict

Enough!

Once again u are an ODE