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Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by 4llerbuntu(m): 12:58pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
goshen26: She did that to put the past behind her, forget the love they had for eachother, for as long she continue seeing that baby, she won't forget the affection she shared and that will hinder her from moving on. I make bold to tell you that THAT PAST WILL NEVER LEAVE HER TILL SHE DIES. DO u know how illogical this your statement is? if they had been married for 10 yrs and had 3 kids, will she kill them so as to "forget the love they had for each other, for as long she continue seeing WOW, just WOW. what happened to humanity? 7 Likes |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by 4llerbuntu(m): 1:00pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
anyways, Just to clarify for the men. Take a good look at the posts who "understand" and support the act. They are mostly women, matter of fact, almost all the females "understand" it. make your own conclusion appropriately. and remember the next time the Love is flowing in ya bedroom 3 Likes |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by Vincent41(m): 1:06pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
lawrenzoo: He Got Her Pregnant And Then He Died. idot...were u there web she aborted de pregnacy...even if u were not there,why did u poke nose..na ur biss |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by fr3do(m): 1:08pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
pekelepekele: Ha just like Jesus Christ he died then when Maria Magdalene was still pregnant but Maria did a good thing by keeping the baby safe with also the help of the disciples you are high where is your proof na too much Da vinci code dey worry |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by Nobody: 1:09pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
lawrenzoo:You really do think raising a child is a walk in the park right?To make matters worse the girl is likely still a dependant. It is a sad story though cos the dude just got his only hope of continuing his lineage punctuated with a '.' R.I.P. |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by crackhaus: 1:09pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
4llerbuntu: Retarded Comments here.You are wise my friend and then lets not forget she didn't love her fiancee enough to want to keep his seed, i still stand by this opinion. |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by sammynaijaguy(m): 1:10pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
never talk judge a man until you have walked in his shoes, until the lady explain to you what went down you can never know, life is always a misery, have you pple asked the following question (1)What killed the guy, may be HIV infections (2) The state of Their relationship before the father died (30 the lady personal preference in summary I do not support abortion, but in the end to each his or her own 2 Likes |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by crackhaus: 1:13pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
goshen26: She did that to put the past behind her, forget the love they had for eachother, for as long she continue seeing that baby, she won't forget the affection she shared and that will hinder her from moving on.I respect your opinion sir, but this is BULLSHIT! |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by Nobody: 1:15pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
Beync: If the fiance truly loved her, why did the he get her pregnant and died?Hello the kids section will open by 4pm when u return from school and have done ur home work ok? 6 Likes |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by cheksloveth(f): 1:16pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
It's unfair, for the sake of luv she has for him, she suppose to born the baby for him, so that he will even be happy anywhere he is, and also to make his parents happy. |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by foxgiovani(m): 1:17pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
Please let's not blame the lady. I don't think she was happy doing that but come to think of it, she is still tied to the late man if she keeps the pregnancy. Since the man has died, let everything that has to do with the man die a natural death so that she can pick up the pieces of her life and move on. My simple opinion anyway. |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by Nobody: 1:18pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
pekelepekele: Ha just like Jesus Christ he died then whenThe literature you expose yourself to is ruining your ... Someone is high on Dan Brown's Kool-Aid |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by fluxbush(f): 1:22pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
Beync: If the fiance truly loved her, why did the he get her pregnant and died?Huh!!! Seriously? Are you high on something? If you are not, you are one heck of a dunce. Really one of a kind. 1 Like |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by Finestlex(m): 1:24pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
Pachesky: o joor la biati" @op we resemble prophet to u,go okija shrine table ur mata dia im sure dem go reveal evry 2 u...junky. Hahaahhahaha.. I see you Pachesky |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by Aikayy: 1:29pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
Is there love in 9ja? Most peeps in 9ja get married just to have "legitimate" kids! I knew a guy who dated a chic 4 so long, got her pregnant, did an introduction, but died in an auto crash 2 weeks 2 d wedding proper. Guess what?? D biitch killed his legacy! She aborted the pregnancy. |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by iphygift: 1:29pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
goshen26: She did that to put the past behind her, forget the love they had for eachother, for as long she continue seeing that baby, she won't forget the affection she shared and that will hinder her from moving on.i strongly dont believe you my dear, if she claim to have loved this guy so much, then she should have been able to keep the baby to remind her of the wonderful love and memories they shared which in no way would have hindered her moving ahead. |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by osifred(m): 1:35pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
@ op if she was your sister what will you have advice her to do? Disclaimer This post doesn't in anyway support abortion |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by Nobody: 1:35pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
Beync: If the fiance truly loved her, why did the he get her pregnant and died?Do u have brain at all Were u told that he committed suicide?Itibolibo!! |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by ceejayluv(m): 1:36pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
I strongly believe that the girl and her late fiance had carried out previous abortions already. Guess it wasn't new to her and they might as well had done the same if he were still alive. I strongly disapprove of abortion unless on medical grounds. I'm just exploring possible reasons for her action. She clearly didn't love him enough, and she's no less a murderer. |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by FrontPageLawyer(m): 1:39pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
$25 million: Wrong broda, true love died in Nigeria 1857. @OP at your age you still believe love exist. I weep for you broda, people get married these days to fulfill all righeouness. I will not apportion blame to the poor girl, would you have taken responsibility as a father if she'd decided to keep the pregnancy? Haven't you listened to that song. " HAVING BABIES, NO BE JOKE" She has taken responsibility for her own action. Let her mourn please. 2 Likes |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by Nobody: 1:39pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
Too bad,love does not exist among mortal.We do not love ourselves enough. |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by Jcob(m): 1:40pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
Please don't blame the dead guy or the living lady. Get this fact into your brain straight - LOVE DOESN'T EXIST. We only claim to love when things are going straight with the other party. Ladies/Men are always ready to port once things go disarray. Until it happens, na only chocolate coated mouth we go dey take talk. 1 Like |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by Nobody: 1:41pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
Too bad,love does not exist among mortal.We do not love ourselves enough.Too bad ,the dead cannot return to life after death to see the stupid things the loved ones do.. |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by Nobody: 1:43pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
nigerian love, if na oyibo she go have the baby. choice sha. 1 Like |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by biolabee(m): 1:50pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
4llerbuntu: Retarded Comments here. Well I understand your comments but you ve not taken into cognisance our unforgiving culture that punishes single mothers The family of the man may have also turned their back on the woman and child Not all families will see that child as a reminder but rather an indiscreation which they want to erase Db boy: Am happy how women of nairaland are defending there fellow women,I would continue to say it love died long ago. For the fellow attacking nigerian females as wicked and so Some guys have made comments supporting her action Try and divorce sentiment from facts Not everything is about property If it was your sister, what will you do |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by mamaaustin(f): 1:53pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
Aikayy: Is there love in 9ja? Most peeps in 9ja get married just to have "legitimate" kids! I knew a guy who dated a chic 4 so long, got her pregnant, did an introduction, but died in an auto crash 2 weeks 2 d wedding proper. Guess what?? D gal killed his legacy! She aborted the pregnancy.Ok This is obviously yet another thread for 9ja men to bash 9ja gals and their callousness. The only acceptable opinion (if I don't want to get quoted and yabbed) is that she was heartless and should therefore be condemned to hell. So there, she is a wicked, wicked soul, case dismissed. Next nigerian lady bashing thread please. |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by omajali2003(m): 1:56pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
The moral lesson of the story is simple:don't get pregnant before marriage 1 Like |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by biolabee(m): 1:56pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
iphygift: I strongly believe that she is not in love with him cos if she is no circumstance will make her abort tha baby. she also would have tot of the guys family beeing there to help and assist her in the upbringing of the child. She has wronged this guy in death. May God forgive her. How many single mothers whose baby daddies are still alive have assistance from the father not to talk of the family Some of us here commenting know of or are still helping that out of wedlock child who was rejected by his father and the mom is indigent or histling We see them and know them They are the quiet ones in that group of 5 kids The one who stay back when the main family go on vacation The one who schools in the public school whiel the 'legitimate' kids go to proivate school Guys Letd face it Single Motherhood is no paradise Just last month, some people here tried to rally round a poster who was abandoned by her fiance/bf/lover etc She is an exception in so many Yet how many people have come here and no one can support Which man out of you(yes you reading) will train and love another man's child as his own 3 Likes |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by biolabee(m): 1:59pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
omajali2003: The moral lesson of the story is simple:don't get pregnant before marriage Simple, as they say women shd close their leg or at least use protection until there is really sth tangible That love will turn sour in minutes once an unplanned pregnancy shows up The consequneces are so harsh on the lady The man walks away and marries another girl who does not know his history If women abort and are called murderers why should men who abandon their seed be called players 2 Likes |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by OILOFGLADNESS: 1:59pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
lawrenzoo: i am not supportting being pregnant outside wedlock, but guy i am not agreeing with you, when you said she could have kept the child for continuity. she aborted became pregnant outside wedlock cos she is not a true born again christian wish is the same reason she aborted the child. so i believe that is the best thing for her to do cos the guy is not alive to claim the child, she may not have means of catering for the child and her chances of hooking up again is low |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by mamaaustin(f): 2:00pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
Please don't get my previous comment twisted. But tell me how many widows do you know in society that enjoy so much support from the husbands family? They are very rare, and that's for a wife, not fiancee or longstanding girlfriend. That's why there are so many NGOs to support such women to make ends meet. All I mean to say is that the tale and judgment is not so black and white as some would like to paint it. My 2kobo's worth 1 Like |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by Smooyis(m): 2:00pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
Is that love? No one loves like Jesus! |
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