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Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by Suprises: 2:02pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
Beync: If the fiance truly loved her, why did the he get her pregnant and died?Are u trying to say dat d guy actually knew he was going to die?? |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by Nobody: 2:04pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
ednut1: so dat she nd d baby go dey chop grass, nd prob find it difficult to marry anoda man. Duh50 percent of African children are raise in abject poverty. If she is alive and managing, the baby ought to be alive alongside her. But she decide to terminate a life...she is a sure candidate of HELLFIRE unless JESUS relax the penalty for: 1.being a fornicator 2.taking human life 3.unwarranted display of immoral affection that contradicts biblical tenets. 4. Abuse of agape love 5.playing God The charges against Op is enormous for God to sit on her case entertaining plea bargain! 2 Likes |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by mrperfect(m): 2:06pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
Isn't uncommon for ladies to do this once they were not married before the incident. |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by iphygift: 2:07pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
foxgiovani: Please let's not blame the lady. I don't think she was happy doing that but come to think of it, she is still tied to the late man if she keeps the pregnancy. Since the man has died, let everything that has to do with the man die a natural death so that she can pick up the pieces of her life and move on. My simple opinion anyway.u be devil? Shuuuuuuuu na so u too take tink am. na way oooooo. |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by biolabee(m): 2:08pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
Lexusgs: So, she should have kept the pregnancy and be tagged as a single parent by prospective future husbands/ boyfriends? Of Which I know the poster of this message would be one of them, considering another circumstance !!! Some men can be hypocritical |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by avuekwe(f): 2:10pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
My question still remains, why didn't the man marry her after 4 years of dating? If he wanted a baby, he should have done the needful. 1 Like |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by devour129: 2:13pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
tellwisdom: That child could be a blessed child in disguise.....Wooomennnnn!! Wooooomennnnn!! ...Damboro shegeehwhats the meaning of that ? Why are you shouting women ? Onye ara ! The guys that run to remarry in one month after there wives death in pretence of getting some one to take care of their children nko ? And some of you asking ?s do you think she would have aborted the fetus if the boys family asked her to keep it ? Av seen this type of thing happen before and due to greed the mother of the guy told the lady that she is on her own and that they will never acknowledge the child when born. I don't know her story but I believe she took the right decision. 2 Likes |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by buJu234: 2:16pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
we are too religious and not practical. if she keeps the baby; will u single guy even ask her hand in marriage u will b d first to call her TOKUNBO.... let her do wat she feels is gud for her and her future; d day she stands b4 her God; they will settle it out ok... 2 Likes |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by devour129: 2:17pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
4llerbuntu:please don't even compare the two ! In marriage you have the support of your family,in-laws,church and community at large and this doesn't have to do with money ok ! 2 Likes |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by dammytosh: 2:17pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
4llerbuntu: That is my opinion and i can not because of hypocrisy and His Holiness @4llerbuntu say something different from my conviction. No need to OVER BOLD it cos it does not change my opinion. If you are are not courageous and sincere enough to speak loud against PRE-MARITAL sex. Don't come and show me you Priesthood on abortion. If your wife has a baby that is life threatening and the Doctor recommends abortion. Tell them to allow both of them to die because you are .... Hypocrite... 3 Likes |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by 50calibre(m): 2:18pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
pekelepekele: Ha just like Jesus Christ he died then when Maria Magdalene was still pregnant but Maria did a good thing by keeping the baby safe with also the help of the disciples What are you insinuating, that Jesus had a wife or fiancée? Don't say what you don't know and blaspheme in the process. Jesus never died (apart from his 3 day death and ressurection) he rose up into heaven celibate and in an incorruptible body. |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by dammytosh: 2:19pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
50calibre: Do i blame him or the moderator that does not see anything bad in the statement. Try that with Islam's faith and Nairaland servers will be on fire. |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by BrosG: 2:21pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
pekelepekele: Ha just like Jesus Christ he died then when Maria Magdalene was still pregnant but Maria did a good thing by keeping the baby safe with also the help of the disciplesSome thing dey do you ! I be like u before. REPENT ! |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by biolabee(m): 2:24pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
dammytosh: I think the guys here are screaming blue murder because his so called legacy is gone If a woman is preggers and you still dont do the right thing quickly to cover her shame (ala princess) did you do the right thing If a woman is stringed along for 4 years, being phocked day and night as part of marital services and washing your clothes and generally domestics tuff and you dont take her to mama, did you do th right thing If a woman is good enough to be your phockmate but not your wife, did u do the right thing Its a tragedy and i dont support abortion but until we have social security, protection and spousal settlement for divorcees, widows and single mothers We wil still shout tomorrow ish 2 Likes |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by Dogohson: 2:28pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
lawrenzoo:And how abt if the girl in question does not have any means of survival to take care of the baby? Would you have been the one to take care of the baby, buy his/her clothes and send him/her to school abi? |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by devour129: 2:30pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
biolabee: |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by Chartey(m): 2:33pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
She was not obliged to tell anybody or seek anybody's consent! I abhor abortion, but it was one of the better options she had. Most of the people talking trash are shallow-minded men(boys maybe) anyway. Let it happen to ur sister, una go come know wetin dey. 2 Likes |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by Christmasdon(m): 2:34pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
Why did she abort the baby Boy. |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by Christmasdon(m): 2:37pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
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Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by BodyKiss(m): 2:41pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
Beync: If the fiance truly loved her, why did the he get her pregnant and died? The most st.up.id question of all time. |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by 50calibre(m): 2:42pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
dammytosh: Yes they like saying derogatory things about Jesus but when anyone says the same about Mohammed, they descend into anger and violence. |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by Chartey(m): 2:44pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
avuekwe: My question still remains, why didn't the man marry her after 4 years of dating? If he wanted a baby, he should have done the needful.True talk jor. Who knows whether she's even aborted babies for him when he was still alive? It's not as if she was smiling to the abortion clinic singing thanks and praises to God. |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by Nobody: 2:50pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
MRbrownJAY: Guy nawa u oo, how can u give one SAME reason with three different sentences. We be fools ni?? |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by great063(m): 2:52pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
lawrenzoo:This 'thing' goes both ways.She could also have aborted(which in my opinion is murder)the baby to save the dead guy the embarrassment of being looked upon as an irresponsible dude.@Op,you have obviously taken your stand as per the girl's decision.Asking us whether she loved him will change little or nothing. |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by xest(m): 2:56pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
Though wat she did was not right,but y will she keep d baby wen he is not legally married to her?If na ur sister nko. |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by tinanchedo: 3:02pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
best decision. |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by Uniquebeing(f): 3:05pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
From my own point of view, i would say d girl did a bad and a good thing. BAD in d sense dat she engaged in pre-marital sex. And GOOD in d sense dat especially in Africa, d stigma of being a "bastard" kills faster than malaria. & even if d child is accepted by d guy's pple, in future , someone somewhere will remind him of hw he/she was born. Love is not blind. |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by dad007(m): 3:09pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
goshen26: She did that to put the past behind her, forget the love they had for eachother, for as long she continue seeing that baby, she won't forget the affection she shared and that will hinder her from moving on. What do you mean?MOVE ON.Is it the death of someone she claim she love,And then becoming a murdarer by killing his child and her child as well.Tell me MR MOVE ON,how she will ever move on in.....WAT GOES AROUND,COMES AROUND! |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by BarbieBlues(f): 3:10pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
Anti Christ don enter nairaland? pekelepekele: Ha just like Jesus Christ he died then when Maria Magdalene was still pregnant but Maria did a good thing by keeping the baby safe with also the help of the disciples |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by dad007(m): 3:11pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
goshen26: She did that to put the past behind her, forget the love they had for eachother, for as long she continue seeing that baby, she won't forget the affection she shared and that will hinder her from moving on.What do you mean?MOVE ON.Is it the death of someone she claim she love,And then becoming a murderer by killing his child and her child as well.Tell me MR MOVE ON,how she will ever move on in.....WAT GOES AROUND,COMES AROUND! |
Re: His Fiancee Aborted His Baby After His Death by dad007(m): 3:16pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
crackhaus:AGBAM! |
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