andromida:

Again I implore you to forgive her,it won't happen overnight. It will take time so give it time. A break from her will do you good for now and you really don't want the details but if you insist you should equally ask her what pushed her out. I am not defending her actions but if you must know the sordid details the you should at least know the reason behind the action.

johnny handsom: If I were you I will poison her

greatgod2012:


sincerely, i dont know what to say, i wish i can suggest a/some suggestions, but sincerely, this one fall my hand big-time, and since adultery is the major acceptable reason for a divorce and also, since that is what you think can heal you up from this mess, i will say......goodluck, because, i dont know how to beg on her behalf, since i know definately that i cant do it, so, i cant condone whoever commits such great abomination.

However, @op, i will sincerely beg you not to allow your decision affect your child negatively, show her the love, care and protection she deserve, shes such an innocent child and should not be made to suffer for the sin which she knows nothing about. Also, never speak ill of your wife to your daughter, because, such is not good for her psychology, and her self-esteem too may be at stake, if things do not go as expected around her, so, pls, take care of this area and be a man.
Sometimes, bad things happen to good people, and all that happens to we humans are lessons, i.e we learn everyday through what life throws at us.
Wishing you goodluck and divine wisdom to handle this issue as expected.

ZUBY77:

Useless fellow. Have you seen the face of god before?

biolabee:
why would you do that

chymystique: My dear wah ever decision u make now think thoroughly abt et.. I wnt advise u to seperate or divorce her..buh Why dnt u seek d face of God in dis matter for Direction... #mythoughts

johnny handsom:

To save other unmarried men like me from marrying a skunk like that when they eventually divorce

hardbody:

Face of God my foot. Where was God's face when she started tripple cheating. Some women are so fortunate. May it not happen to me sha, i will not discuss it, i will bring in all manner of ladies to the house and we will turn our house to a brothel, then we go see who go tire

kukus01:
WOMEN = chicken brain
The nigerian society frowns at adulterous women! if dem born you well try polyandry for here!!!

biolabee:

make sure u prepare for prison life and soap thinz

hey fish can you pick up the soap for me

johnny handsom:


Ikpu gbawa nne gi there anumpama

successking:

Until you see man as God has created him and endowed him with unrestricted liberty, you will pass on the route of adultery on the grand that if a man does it a woman can do it, and you end up throwing your dignity to the wired destructive fire of life. May God open your understanding.

yoddy01:
I hope God gives you wisdom too. If you took the time to read my previous comment and the comment I responded to, you would have seen why I ask the guy if he heard of polyandry. Men and women are equal. If you want us to start backing it with biblical references, I'm game.

kwangi: Okay, maybe you're trying to impress some people with the no beating part.
For me sha, if I were in his shoes, the beating no go get part two.
It's after the mad kpo kpo that I'll send her back to her father's house.
See nonsense o!

otokx: If OP is a christian then he should simply forgive and work on his emotions.

m.k.o2005:

If this question is meant for me,i will advise you not to consider divorce at all ! Please do not divorce ur lovely wife !
I can tell you what to do to get rid of all ur worries and concerns and i promise u that after now,she will not go back to such life or act !
God help us.

CAMEROONPRIDE: Can you please spare us your may God this and may go that

lynpetra: This is really painful...God give me the grace not to cheat on my future husband esp during trials and temptations...its like murdering him while he sleeps wrapped in my arms.God help us all.

andyanders: My brother, I feel your pain and know that ONLY DEVIL can penetrate into a happy home to destroy it.

To me, since you stated that you love your wife, I urge you to take her for deliverance, possibly SCOAN and you will be surprised to find out that it wasn't her,but the evil one inside her.
When she is delivered, you will be surprised that you will not be nursing the feelings of hatred on her but love after forgiveness.
Note that no 2 perfect people on the face of this earth. The devil you know is better than the one out there.
People telling you to throw her out, most of them, their wives, do more than what your wife did.
True Forgiveness backed by God, will not give you pain. Please forgive, I know it hurts, God will heal the wound.

greatgod2012:


may God have mercy on you.

WhyMe222: We have talked about joint custody if the marriage finally collapses which is very likely. I agree my little girl will be better off with her mum. But the thought of her not growing up under my watch is killing me. I love her to bits and wanna enjoy her stages of growth. But this I am going to miss. It's killing me.

biolabee:

House, please what does this mean

money-hungry :
d guy finish u. i dey shame for u.