Subomi-luv:
They find it difficult that White men can be attracted to Nigerian women

Texas.Cowgirl:


You've gotta be careful on this NL
You dont know how many Yoruba haters we have personifying themselves as "Oyinbos"
Wouldnt surprise me if this same OP bere lati ma bu awon Yoruba later

Texas.Cowgirl:


You've gotta be careful on this NL
You dont know how many Yoruba haters we have personifying themselves as "Oyinbos"
Wouldnt surprise me if this same OP bere lati ma bu awon Yoruba later

TrickofTech:

Why is that? (thank you by the way!)

The reason why I didn't "make a move" with the girl is because of her brothers...and father. I got the impression that they would not be happy about it.

Do guys in Nigeria not like the idea of Yoruba girls being with a foreigner then?

TrickofTech:

Ohhhhh okay. I was actually complimenting the Yoruba people, not insulting them. I only really mixed with Yoruba and I think you guys are ace

Having said that, I have also met Igbo's. They are awesome too. I met one girl from Lagos who was really switched on.

Subomi-luv:
please leave him o. What if he is telling the truth? On Nairaland anyone can be whoever they want after all we have Kisha sands etc. So let him be.

Subomi-luv:
please leave him o. What if he is telling the truth? On Nairaland anyone can be whoever they want after all we have Kisha sands etc. So let him be.

Subomi-luv:
Well it depends on the family, some are old school and not so open minded and they may be wary of your intentions towards her. I think it'll be best to find a more "Westernized" girl as it would be easier to understand each other better. Like you said it could be a green card thing.

Texas.Cowgirl:


Iyawo oko, mo ti gbo.
I keep all 10 of my eyes open on issues like this
#unfollowed thread.

Biim:
Is Kishana Sands not real? I checked and saw her on facebook.

TrickofTech:

Yes I can see what you are saying. The family were pretty traditional...although they did like me a lot. They were the ones that joked about marriage...was it a joke? You Nigerians have a very blunt and dry way of saying stuff. I could never tell whether it was jokey sarcasm...or if they wanted to see how I responded.

Like I say. She had said to me that it is not right for her to marry a oyinbo, personally. Other times she was extremely forward and flirtatious...saying stuff like she was going to really miss me when I left...wanting to know if I had been with girl (when I returned home).

I was always confused about what kind of relationship she wanted (friend/boyfriend etc.) ...and still am.

Subomi-luv:
But op you are one hell of a photoshopper if the pic is fake. Anyways it's a bit hard to believe because you can really speak the Naija lingo so that is why i guess people are not believing your story.

Florena: it
is very impossible 4 a person born and bred in UK 2 speak like dis,
infact if u re wat u claim u were u wouldn't mind her parent, oyinbos
dnt care much abt dat..........and abt d pic, it shows u re black or u
can be an albino

Florena: it
is very impossible 4 a person born and bred in UK 2 speak like dis,
infact if u re wat u claim u were u wouldn't mind her parent, oyinbos
dnt care much abt dat..........and abt d pic, it shows u re black or u
can be an albino

Subomi-luv:
Well i think it's best you forget about her. You do not want a person who will give you mixed signals and play mind games with you. So are you looking for a black women or a Nigerian women or was it just a once of thing? What exactly do you want?

TrickofTech:

Haha! Thank you very much. I actually tried very hard to integrate into Nigerian life as much as possible...it was very hard. I think I was always seen as a foreigner...but there were times where I was treated like one of the family which was really nice.

I have a bit of a grasp of how Nigerian culture works and I know some Yoruba......abi lol : )

TrickofTech:

I will stay in contact with her. But as a friend. I regret not telling her I liked her at the time...but there is nothing else I can really do now : (

I am looking for someone...not necessarily black or Nigerian. When I went out there...I convinced myself that I wouldn't get involved emotionally with someone because I assumed that most women were after the whiteness, green card or money.

I just ended up getting on with her really well and I think both of us connected...even if it was just as friends.


For now..."I am still hoping"/"still looking"...as you say in Nigeria!

Idowuogbo: Lmaoooo! Mr man stop forming mehn.... Dis na story!!!! U and i know u black pass bance. U oyinbo? Or u mean black albino?

Omo_barca: Omo Ode._.

Idowuogbo: Lmaoooo! Mr man stop forming mehn.... Dis na story!!!! U and i know u black pass bance. U oyinbo? Or u mean black albino?