Valiantvaliant: jst give me some signs if am intrested i'll go for u, and if i dont let it jst stop dia. it really pisses me off when they do it themselves, its unlady-like

lorretta u: Most guys would like a lady to ask them out so that they can brag to their friends how one slutty girl is throwing herself all over him.
And encourage him to 'knack' her. In their voice it goes "guy no dull o. See free punni. Guy no fall my hand o."
All these ones waiting for a lady to ask them out,lol you're in for a loooong wait.in this jungle of no gentlemen u really expect a girl to throw her dignity at ur feet just like that?
Truth is that it doesn't matter.and it's a bit admirable.
But problem is with the attitude of men. So many girls will NEVER take that chance,
Unless of course I find myself in yankee.
Sorry dudes.for now y'all gotta be doing the chasing.

femi9naija: To be candid, I've had like 10 gals trying to initiate something with me. That's separate 4rm the countless that contact via Facebook. May be it had to do with my good looks, I dunno. Even when I worked as a teacher, small gals too (chai this world don craze finish).
I gave some of them chances but it never worked past 3 months after which we break up, I know it's cos i'm somebody that doesn't like commitment. It's not bad 4 a lady to ask a guy out, they do it in developed countries, just that in Africa, especially 9ja, we tend to attach different sentiments to issues.

Nenyeluv: don't really think is dat bad, but me i can't cos the way guys go abt it is nothing to write home abt.

orgasticdance:
This, to my mind, does not equate to her asking you out. She only initiated and is drooling over you, but in the end na u go still pop the big Q? Now my question to these guys who are claiming they've been asked out by girls is:

1. How many girls have come to you at a restaurant or some crowded area filled with people to initiate a conversation, and then ask you for your phone number then FOLLOWS up within a day or two, because they find you attractive and want to start a relationship?
2. How many girls have spotted you in say a market, trailed you for minutes and then stops you at a convenient corner to chat u up and collect ur number?
3. How many girls have added you on FB, sent you a msg indicating their interest, and persist in trying to hook up with u?
4. I could go on, but my point is, how many of them have actually gone out of their way to ask you out, which most men do?

MuyiGL:

"If you find yourself in Yankee"? And what makes these Yankee men any different from men all over the world?

nichole2: why are most of the guys picking on (harbosede). Everyone has a right to their own opinions,feelings & reasonings about things

originbm:




Surround urself with the right kinda guyz the.
it depends on the guy.not every guy will talk about a lady to other guys.i think guys will also use the lines above when they ask a girl out and she agrees.many guys are quick to embellish their conquests.and the truth is that whether u hold out or not many guys will always love to make it look like an easy conquest so as to get the back-patting of their peers.

originbm:



Girls do all these thing but in a much more subtle way than guys.

ibkaye: Ladies if you love yourself, please don't approach any guy

Harbosede02: guys don't "toast",they ask out!

ibkaye: Ladies if you love yourself, please don't approach any guy

lorretta u:
Read the majority of men's comments here and u'lll understand what I mean
PS I've not problem with it.
I'd rather be the wooed than the wooer

priscaoge: Have a crush on a guy,tell him and he says U̶̲̥̅̊ aя̩̥̊ε too loose or U̶̲̥̅̊ aя̩̥̊ε a flirt. Some guys aя̩̥̊ε so dumb dat if U̶̲̥̅̊ dare ask dem out,hmmmm U̶̲̥̅̊ will become so cheap 2 them. Personally I can't ask a guy out cos of τ̲̅ђe level of understanding som African's have.

haibe:

Guys don't "ask out", they propose!

Shebi na english u wan dey speak, mtcheew.

Harbosede02: pls pls pls,don't even let start wif u 2dai..xo guys propose wen don't wana mari d gurl abi..do u even knw d meaning of dat word "propose"

ibkaye: Ladies if you love yourself, please don't approach any guy

dayo4:
say for yourself only (dont say for others)

obaxlove: How I wish a girl can just ask me out! Maybe becos I am cashless and ugly. Lolz Seriously if she can I will treat her like a super star.

shikenosa: even if a guy ask u out hez stil gona av d intention of knackin ur punni and his frndz are stil gona tell him "guy no dull oo see free punni" so itz stil d same tin...a guy wit d intention of knackin ur punni wil alwyz wana knack weda he ask u out or u do....

Olajumokeibk: Oh Gosh! That's d suckest tin av ever heard. Am i not beautiful enough to get any guy I want without asking him out? Evn my eyes will make him fall head down. I trust my guts , they nevr fall my hand