Use your sense. She ignored u for 2yrs. Meaning that she had someone else. Tell her u r in a relationship n move on. You are not a disposal bin! She could just b managing u. Its only a matter of time b4 she finds A better replacement. How can she love u then ignore u 4 2 yrs? Use your head if u have one

Advising you is like telling an agitated man to calm down, so I'm not gonna advise you, life's about LUCK anyway, nobody can tell what really happened, I think you are right, you are in a dilemma. Or maybe u shld try the two, it won't be long before you know how important you are to them. Barney Stinson said and I quote: "New is always better" I don't know how true the statement is, I have never had a gf, so I don't know much about dating, jilting, cheating, heartbreaking etc

do you love your current girlfriend? if yes forget about the old one,if No make you port sharp sharp it is as simple as that.

eldoradoxx: Am surprised u re asking for what to do. Are u a learner ? Guys were created to tame the childishness in women, that's why they fear and respect any man who is strong enough to tame them. Here is the recipe I used in situation like this while still in school. Pretend you have forgiven her. Take her out to a lavishing dinner. Get extremely romantic in the way she has never since you before. Compose love songs and poem and sing for her. If possible sheed some tears while singing for her. Take her home and fuucck madness out of her. Sing her to sleep. Then wake her around 2 AM and break up with her. Drive her home that night. After this experience, she will become born again and learn never to toil with a man's emotions.

Did she give you tangible reason for not replying?

So you intend to dump your current girl friend because of a b1tch who doesn't give a fvck about you.

She (Turkish girl) has proven to be untrustable, not caring, not reliable, a liar etc (to many red flags), you will only be demonstarting the apex of all stupidities to ignore those warning signs.

Besides, I hope you know you'll be breaking your current girl friends heart.

My2Cent: Just tell the turkish girl you have moved on afterall it was all her fault. She doesn't have a justifiable reason and don't fall for any of those cheap white lies (my phone got missing, we changed residence, My fb account was hacked, I forgot my password etc).

Final Bullet: The only reason she contacted you was because she got dumped by her boyfriend. I'm just wondering why any sane mind settle for second best, you are just an option she has to fall back too, not a priority at all and when the ex comes back knocking you will be displaced back to loneliness highland. Just let her go.

You better leave her alone very soon they are gonna move to syria and you will have yourself to be blame.

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tunetokheyno: Leave her alone

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Godson201333: You better leave her alone very soon they are gonna move to syria and you will have yourself to be blame.

E-Light:
Advising you is like telling an agitated man to calm down, so I'm not gonna advise you, life's about LUCK anyway, nobody can tell what really happened, I think you are right, you are in a dilemma. Or maybe u shld try the two, it won't be long before you know how important you are to them. Barney Stinson said and I quote: "New is always better" I don't know how true the statement is, I have never had a gf, so I don't know much about dating, jilting, cheating, heartbreaking etc

Dude, did u just quote "barney stinson"s only rule from how i met ur mother? U don miss road. That guy is anti relationship. If u heed to his ways and style u will never ve A̶̲̥̅ gf, only flings and one night stands

iykemoney90: Pls nairalanders I need your advice.

I was dating this girl 2 yrs ago before she moved to turkey with the family because her dad is a diplomat. Although we didn't break up before she left,we were still in communication for about 4 month before I stopped hearing from her, instead voice mail will pick her call, she won't come online on fb and she neva replied all my messages so I felt I should move on with my life and am currently dating a someone nw.

On 7th of this month,she called me on phone and told me she's back to the country ,I was excited a little and also surprise because they normally stay 4yrs anytime they move to a new country. So when I met her she apologized for ignoring me all those while. But the fact now is that she came back to Nigeria because of me and am already dating someone. I've been at war with myself.

What do I do?

I think I have an idea of your dilemma, I might have some useful information for you.
Contact me at this email dmola63@yahoo.com stay blessed.

moscobabs: do u really love her?if yes go with her because she loves u."the devil u know is better than the Angel u don't know"maybe she did not reply or call u because she was busy

Onye nke a esikwa ebee?

Bros, deep down within your heart is a still small voice, that is not so loud..... Please follow it.

I have been in a similar situation too and it was not easy taking a stand because I loved her very much and she knew that. I had to forgive and take back my "disappearing and reappearing" babe so many time until I could no longer absorb the pain and trauma.

My brother, use your tongue to count your teeth. Please let her know you have moved on before it becomes too late.

Remember, your tomorrow will be a product of the quality of today's choice.

God be with you.

Gabriel_sylar: She has brought disease for u

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funny

iykemoney90: Guys I don't really knw If she came back because of me like she said but she came back with her elder brother 2 settle fully in Nigeria. I still have this flaming feelings for her but don't want 2 hurt my current gf

go and pray my friend.....let God guide u...he knowz best

write2obi: If i find my self in your shoe, here's what I'll do,
*Follow your heart
*[s]If you heart is confused, open up to both of them, be honest(tell them your confused), and see who wants you more, then make your choice.[/s]
*but remember there must be a reason why the chicken turkey girl gave phone to that guy(voice Mail) to be answering your call. Shine your eye. Tenk

Second point aint necessary...

A wise man sees evil and run but a fool stays and get punish. Don't listen her nonsense or else u will regret.

Run niggerrr run

iykemoney90: Pls nairalanders I need your advice.

I was dating this girl 2 yrs ago before she moved to turkey with the family because her dad is a diplomat. Although we didn't break up before she left,we were still in communication for about 4 month before I stopped hearing from her, instead voice mail will pick her call, she won't come online on fb and she neva replied all my messages so I felt I should move on with my life and am currently dating a someone nw.

On 7th of this month,she called me on phone and told me she's back to the country ,I was excited a little and also surprise because they normally stay 4yrs anytime they move to a new country. So when I met her she apologized for ignoring me all those while. But the fact now is that she came back to Nigeria because of me and am already dating someone. I've been at war with myself.

What do I do?

thanks everyone for the advice...I guess I have an important decision to make. I pray it will turn out to be a good one. Thanks and God bless

Just go and shagg her very well. After that, you'd discover that all is no longer the same. That you no longer have those 'flaming' feelings for her cos the feelings are inspired by curiosity.
Feed that curiosity and taste freedom.

BabaAlabi: What's your problem OP? Why do u think you have to make a choice? Welcome her to Nigeria with a diplomatic bang session and after 4 rounds with her, meet your current girlfriend to round up for the day.
Any love message you send to one remember to copy and send to the other girl. Don't mix their names up o!

wa gbayi baba mi!

I think she had left it too late to reconciled wit U. I advice him to move on with d girl he is dating nw. Who knws she may later goes back or vacate dis country again.

frm d way u narrated ur story,it's like d "turkey girl " is richer dan d chicken girl and dat is one of reasons u want to go for her...And also,u don't want to leave d chicken girl out of pity n may be because of conscience..

Honesty is d best thing in dis situation.explain 2 d turkey girl dat u moved on while she wasn't there for u..get her into real discussion n u wil b suprised hw much truth u wil findout.

Being in a relationship with a girl doesnot necessary means she wil marry u?..try n knw ur stand wit d chicken girl"

...no matter what,knw dat ur happiness comes first.only u can decide wht is best for u.but when making ur decision ask urself -

"can i live happily with her for d rest of my life?

My advice to you: use ur head instead of ur heart. The heart is foolish and extremely stupid but the head will never lead u astray. A lot of people have gotten into messed up situations cos they followed their heart. The heart makes choicws based on feelings and emotions but the head(mind) assesses issues critically before making a decision. Think properly before you make a decision.

Girl is playing you like the strings of a spanish guitar!

Bros, that gal no send u, oh! Have it at the back of ur mind that she didnt come home bcuz of u.
U'd already decided to move on with ur life, guy, keep running and dont look back, u are surely no the right track.
Her dad being a diplomat goes to no issue. You are the man, u should be incharge.
She dumped u the first time, if u let her dump u again, na 'fuckuping'!

for sinners, Guy is better you leave both alone remember your bible says ' do not fornicate' but now, you are fornicating with one before, another in. You are now seeking help for s*x purpose. All take note <<== END TIME THINGS

Kirinwa:

Idowu! Idowu!! Idowu!!! How many times did I call you?

Idowu is sleeping.

Hmmmm

She was dating someone else whilst she ignored you, but since her love affair in Turkey did not work out, she decided to return to you.
My best advice, since you have already moved on, don't look back.

I knew a girl who did not communicate for over three years and suddenly reappeared and expecting a renewal of our relationship, but there was no vacancy for her.

Just move on.

Many Nigerian girls play games of chance in romance and when they lose they whine and never accept the fact that they are to blame.
They play basketball with relationships.

Others use rebounds for consolations and never confess the truth to the ignorant guys they are just playing for time and using them as INTERIM BOYFRIENDS.