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Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by chunny01(m): 6:56am On Oct 23, 2013 |
1. Become Possessive And Jealous We may not like to admit it, but there’s always jealousy lurking somewhere when dating a gorgeous woman. Friends of friends won’t be welcome home, her going out with her male friends for drinks might seem annoying and that new dress every week for work might raise eyebrows. We know it, we do it! 2. Worry About Other Guys Hitting On Her We surely won’t question her, but we can’t stop thinking about questioning her. What if every guy she meets wants her number and time? There will be times when guys will want to come up with excuses to talk to her and you wouldn’t be able to do anything but worry. 3. You Go Unnoticed In Her Presence It’s a good thing as well as a bad thing. If you have a nonpareil beauty standing right next to you, it’s quite obvious people might not notice you. You might always fade into the background. If you overhear people saying things like “What’s she doing with HIM?” you know it’s time for you to get away from that place. 4. She Wants You For Money Maybe not…or maybe! People love to gossip and they might assume that such a beauty is with you just because you are loaded. Now, we hope that’s not the case. But going by experience, anecdotes and what not, she just might be after your money. Don’t reveal details about your hidden treasure chest yet! 5. You Will Have Trouble Trusting Her She’s not the problem. The problem is with us. Sometimes, we don’t want to believe even when we know there’s no fault of hers. You are insecure, and hence, you find it difficult to trust that stunner. Jealousy, over-possessiveness and trust issues-you know the problem points. Now work on them. 6.Her Ego Could Be A Problem She’s sexy and she knows it. And the world will leave no leaf unturned to make her realize so, especially when she’s around you. She’s perhaps used to compliments since she was 10. If that leads to an inflated ego, who do you blame? No one, right? 10 Likes |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by JameyMaxwell(m): 7:37am On Oct 23, 2013 |
She will simply be to high to maintain 2 Likes |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by seunpayne(m): 8:36am On Oct 23, 2013 |
Talk about feeling inferior...who wakes up to toast an ugly girl in the first place? Becoming possessive and jealous has nothing to do with how she looks...its because the guy feels he isn't meeting a standard he assumes her beauty has set Face it....Even plain and ugly girls get hits too. the difference here is the frequency. She already chose you. Leave it at that because if she didn't want you she would just leave but she clearly is still here. as if you don't flirt from time to time too. If you had a girl that nobody looked at you would dump her so lets be honest joor Unnoticed? Please!!! You were unnoticed before she came in to your life is why. Having a beautiful girl enhances your existing personality. If you were cool before her you will get cooler and if you were not... Trust issues are just plain kids stuff. Shey na when you get work wey you dey do go give you time dey monitor rubbish ba? Look at it this way, be a man and be her man. If she is worth the effort she will show it. if she isnt she will leave. end of story. instead of worrying about whether or not you can trust her why don't you make sure you are trustworthy in her eyes? if for no other reason that will keep your insecure mind busy Her ego ba? It wasn't an issue when you were toasting her but it is now ba? Be a man Joor. 105 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by Nobody: 9:02am On Oct 23, 2013 |
seunpayne: Talk about feeling inferior...who wakes up to toast an ugly girl in the first place? But really the OP dey right with some of the facts sha o... Who no wan sleep with two eyes closed... abi u wan tell me you trust nigerian babes that much? Abegi 1. Become Possessive And Jealous This is a fact that can not be done with. Even our God is a jealous God let alone we humans... And we get jealous over what we like most. 2. Worry About Other Guys Hitting On Her I bet you can only do this when courting. If she don drop pikins, believe me you go care less. 3. You Go Unnoticed In Her PresenceThis na nay nay.... Then you need to work on yourself too bro 5. You Will Have Trouble Trusting Her Trust and Ego are two things that I think go hand in hand. If you think she's got ego, then that means you've allowed the ego to overcome yours and you lose your stand thereby not trusting her anymore. That is the problem most of these girls have and they seems to allow that help them lose focus. The power of Ego is the only thing that has kept many of them singles till today. They believe they are pretty and the guy that will marry them should be someone that can buy them a ticket to Elysium. Now, I pity them when they say something like... who needs a man? Provided I have my life and kids to care for, I have no problem and they think life is good.. But little did they know that the silent killer is working on them and when the work is done, it will be a fast steep leading to destruction. 12 Likes |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by hauwaolaniyi(f): 11:14am On Oct 23, 2013 |
7. Most guys would feel inferior to because they would have deficiencies in some areas Looks Confidence Money Independence Etc... 3 Likes |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by Nobody: 11:24am On Oct 23, 2013 |
My past has very nice-looking females in it. I only did "plain" and "manageable" when I wasn't dating. And I'm gonna marry a gorgeous woman. Not a very fearful person then, am I? |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by Fecodear(f): 11:31am On Oct 23, 2013 |
@ Op, what are you trying to say? |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by Agybabe(f): 11:45am On Oct 23, 2013 |
just appreciate us more...hehehe |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by Nobody: 11:46am On Oct 23, 2013 |
Leave the beautiful gals for the handsome and rich guys which are the ALPHA males. a word is enough. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by UjSizzle(f): 11:49am On Oct 23, 2013 |
In Sean Kingston's voice** You're way too beautiful girl, that's why it'll never work, you'll have me suicidal suicidal when you say it's over...... @topic, OP i understand you jare. It takes a very confident and blind man to date a really beautiful woman 11 Likes |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by ikekings1: 11:50am On Oct 23, 2013 |
Agybabe: just appreciate us more...heheheAsa imara mma di egwu! 1 Like |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by Nobody: 11:55am On Oct 23, 2013 |
uj_sizzle: In Sean Kingston's voice**Yeah! Like me! Hehehe. I'm not blind though. |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by Mynd44: 12:00pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
**holds head** what is this? |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by Nobody: 12:46pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
uj_sizzle: In Sean Kingston's voice** Gbam... Ihedinobi:*In Kakashi's Voice*... m sorry, you say something? 1 Like |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by UjSizzle(f): 1:38pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
Ihedinobi:Didn't mean literally blind. He has to learn to turn a blind eye to certain inevitable things, like having other guys ogle his girl and seeing her bask in the attention sometimes. Girls are like cats you know |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by Nobody: 1:45pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
uj_sizzle: No wonder they have poor colour vision to distinguish the good guys from the bad ones. 18 Likes |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by UjSizzle(f): 1:52pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
ledafaze:Nah, we know the good and bad guys. We just want the latter still sometimes. |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by Nobody: 2:00pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
What if that beautiful woman is dating an extremely handsome dude? Attention will be on the both of them and insecurities will be both side. 1 Like |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by Nobody: 2:00pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
uj_sizzle: No wonder girls are likened to a Cat.... a household animal... lols |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by UjSizzle(f): 2:10pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
ledafaze:Just as we liken men to dogs 1 Like |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by Nobody: 2:16pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
uj_sizzle: No wonder they are rated Number One and the world's first domesticated animal... #YouForBeatMe |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by 25Calibre(m): 2:20pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
Lol These things are funny because I don't think there's any guy who wouldn't want his girl to be admired by others. I want other people to admire & covet what I've got, it makes me happy. What would be would be, no need to stress too much over trivial things, apart from your family, do not get too attached to something/somebody you aren't willing to lose. Life's too short to stress over one girl. 10 Likes |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by Nobody: 2:30pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
ledafaze: *In Jiraiya's Voice*...just that I can see the shapes of blackberries and hips too...and measure them |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by Nobody: 2:36pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
uj_sizzle: And men have been showoffs since when we walked around in our birthday suits. Why should I be any less? I certainly don't mind showing my girl off or having her feel like a prize. That's what being a nice guy is about |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by Nobody: 2:42pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
uj_sizzle: I.e. whenever the airhead in y'all comes out to play |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by Nobody: 2:59pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
@hauwaolaniyi, who told u that?*laughs* Don't u feel awesome? |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by hauwaolaniyi(f): 3:24pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
De Tus: @hauwaolaniyi, who told u that?*laughs* Don't u feel awesome?Well most guys I an my friends dated act like that even to things we over look |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by Brimmie(m): 3:25pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
We shld date Ugly Twarts instead!? 1 Like |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by MRSANITY(m): 3:25pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
Do guys really hate to date beautiful women?? i dont think so. There is no man who would say i want an ugly woman, the thing is beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. The woman i consider beautiful might be ugly to you. for examply, i think Adora oleh, the MTn project fame presenter is beautiful, but one of my guys considers her extremely ugly. my two cents. 1 Like |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by Nobody: 3:47pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
@hauwaolaniyi, oh gosh...isn't that weird? Why shuld a guy act like a wussy? Oh yeah. Men can be crazy if u don't know how to handle them. They probably made a fool of themselves and now u don't want it to happen again, right? |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by hauwaolaniyi(f): 3:58pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
@de tus True One tried to frisk me on d first date |
Re: Why Guys Fear To Date Beautiful Women by Nobody: 4:04pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
damn lol...so wat happened after dat? @hauwaolaniyi |
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