hey there's a nigerian boy in the house!!!!!
I'm black and if yu are a white girl lets hook up

well there aint anytin wrong its just dat pple just seem to have this kind of superiority complex but just keep it real with the guy cuchi cos d only way to keep a guy is to treat him good and he keeps wanting you.
as for me well am black male and i dont have any relationships yet but am open to anything i dont give sheet about race or color

yo, peace 2all in the house, but the last 2 post soiund like they are

desperate, and are lookin 4 somw white gurl 2 come get them,

it wont happen dudes, go ur village go find wife abeg, lol,

Hey calibre !!!!! Are u saying we have DESPERADOS in here

@cucci.nice idea gurl.i like u 4 dat.i hate it when most white think we africans are monkeys.the day any white gurl or guy would dare call me a monkey in d face,i will make sure i re-arrange his/her dental formular, i support ur relationship.carry on baby,love conquers all

i am a white girl who has fallen in love with a man (online) who is half Nigerian. we are both from the states, but he has been in nigeria for 3 months taking care of his ailing mother. we have never met in person, but we talk about 8 hours a day on YM and about 3 times a day on the phone. a lot of single men he has met over there want to talk to my friends and try to find an american girl (or do you think they are just trying to find a way to get to america?) he was supposed to fly back on april 14th, but one of the nurses at the hospital fell in love with him. he told her he wasnt interested. then on his way to the abuja airport she had her boys attack his taxi and him. he was stabbed in the head, arm and leg, and hit in the head with a gun. he was also robbed of his passport, money and airline ticket. passers-by took him to another hospital where he was in a coma for 5 days. mind you, this was 2 months ago now and he is still having trouble getting out of nigeria. the nurse who had him attacked is a nigerian woman named diane devin. we know this cuz she also got our YM IDs from his wallet and IMd both of us and admitted she had him attacked cuz she wanted to prevent him from returning to the states and to me. she said she thought he would be taken to the hospital where she worked and she would nurse him back to health and he would then fall in love with her. the chick is obviously crazy, but i also wonder if the attack was racially motivated cuz she knew he was dating a white girl? let me know what you think. anyways people watch out for this crazy woman. she has not been apprehended yet, nor have the 2 men who carried out the attack. she never returned to her job and the police cant find her. she may have done this before and may do it again. thanks in advance for your opinions.

@Montana:

Have you seen any visual proof to enforce your partners claim regarding the attack?

i saw his wounds on the webcam, and of course the IMs she sent us said she had him attacked. i can only take his word for what happened as i am in the states.

but i have now fallen in love with the nigerian culture and all things nigerian. the people i've talked to over there (his mom and some friends he's met) all seem like very peaceful and happy people. everyone who had heard about the attack over there are very appalled by what happened to him. he now goes about town only with 2 armed military men at all times. and that makes me very happy to know someone besides our good Lord is watching over him. thanks again for your opinions.

Montana,
Your story sounds quite nice but somewhat unbelievable. I would think that you are in a trap. I strongly feel someone is trying to play a fast one on you. I'd suggest you take some precautionary measures not to fall into a 'virtual' relationship that may turn out a hoax later, or get conned by any faceless person. In as much as I support your freedom to chose and love whomsoever, I'd advice that you be sure, very sure of any guy online before you get deeply involved. My opinion is based strictly on the following:[list]
[li]Diane Devin is not acommon name in Nigeria[/li]
[li]It's uncommon for a woman to be so much in love with a man to the extent of sending thugs after him in Nigeria[li][list]
I wud suggest you look for a way of confirming his story. You can send his local phone number to anyone here in the forum you can trust, who can then call him and establish who and what he is really doing in nigeria. If he stays around Lagos, there are a couple of members there, who can go visit him for you. That way, we could assist you get a truer picture. Don't be carried away by the number of persons who speak to you on phone, claiming to be his relations and friends, etc. It might be a set up after all. I'm not however ruling out the possibility of his being real and true but am only telling you to be careful and alert.

Nigerians are very nice people. There are a few bad ones amongst us though. Above all, be prayerful.

@ cuuchi

We live in a society where people would always drop there opinion on anything they see. I take all comment as they come because they really help me to re-evaluate circumstances and certain action i take. I have always been in and live in a Naija. I have not experienced racism but We have something similar to that situation here in Naija. We have where one tribe discriminate against the other tribe . This tribe forbids their Children from getting involved with someone else from another tribe.

I still believe God has a reason for this multicolour. Whether you are Black, white, Yellow, Purple or whatever we cannot define "Love" By Colour. Love is all that matters.

If you know that in your heart that he is the happiest that has happenned to you then keep keeping on.  [b][/b][/color][color=#990000]

Scanot23, what a thoughtful post!

@ chinani

Thank you. I ve been hoping to have someone online. What do you think on this?

@Scanot23
Oh, I never really chat online. Sorry!

@Montana,

I don't know much but something is off about your boyfriend. Are you sure he was ever physically in the US since you never met him? You said he is half-Nigerian. What other country does he hold a citizenship of. Is it the US? If so next time you speak to him ask him to report/register at the US embassy in Lagos or Abuja. Was it his American passport that was stolen? The embassy can help with getting a new American one or getting him out of the country if he tells them the situation with the nurse. That's what they are there for. You can also rest assured that whatever investigation/checks they conduct will be more thorough than yours.


If he stalls or gives some excuse for not showing up at the embassy then you may truly have a fraudster.

N.B. If he is not American, he can do the same at the embassy of whatever country he holds dual-nationality of.

@ chinani
It's okay. I ll soon be off.

bunch of freaking liars on this board,

kisha:

bunch of freaking liars on this board,

hahaha so u obviously got a problem wit it

[email]cucchi[/email]
Did my advice make sense to u?

thanks to everyone who commented. i will take all your comments to heart and question him further.

celemel

Yup

@cucchi
Am disapointed in you.We Nigerians are conservative so we have little to offer.For instance we never go down,can't dance,hopeless in bed and suck at handling relationships

cucchi:


Haha so u obviously got a problem wit it

Well its my opinion, got a problem with it

nope everyones entitled to there opinion kisha

cucchi, I've been reading your thread for a few days now. I just wanted to say to you that it doesn't matter one bit what anyone here or elsewhere tells you. You love him, he loves you. In the end, he is the one that makes your heart happy. Keep that, it's hard to find.

@montana

Your e-boyfriend's story sounds bogus to me.Some Nigerian men must think white women are stupid, how on earth did he come up with a story like that. Have you been sending him money or gift?

NightAngel:

cucchi, I've been reading your thread for a few days now. I just wanted to say to you that it doesn't matter one bit what anyone here or elsewhere tells you. You love him, he loves you. In the end, he is the one that makes your heart happy. Keep that, it's hard to find.

Thanks. He's worth hanging onto i've found the man i want to be wit forever (u here the violins playin haha)

@desiree

nope. he has never asked me for a penny.

Does it mean, someone'll stop datin the ova coz of "PEOPLES' FUXXXED UP MOUTHZZZ??
I don't think that's a good idea,
Furst of all,
1)What is the meaning of LOVE??
2)What's supposed to be taken seriously in a relationship?? i mean,
is it listening to peepzzz words or followin yo life and do wat u think is best??
Livin someone coz of someone, means u ain't strong in a relationship, and inorder to be strong, u should never listen to rumours words, if u love the person, then don't give a fuxxin damn about it, I'm sayin this coz it's not that everyon'es words are correct, sometimes they just say it to satisfy their mouths,
U LIKE THE GUY CUL THEN, ROLL WIT YO LIFE AND FORGET ABOUT THE ALIENS!!!

@eslynera

thanks for the encouraging words. as long as he is not asking me for money, and is still telling me he loves me 10 times a day, i really don't care if we ever get to meet in person. it is such a great feeling to know that someone out there in this big, lonely world loves you and cares if you live or die. it is priceless to me. don't get me wrong, i miss him so much and can't wait to meet him in person, but i will live if we don't.