@Somegirl

Please, Sista, stop talking about me. You don't like it when people talk about you and I don't like it either. Especially, when you mention our conversations out of context so that they MUST be misunderstood. If you still have issues with me, talk to me but not about me. My dear, good night.

Somegirl, I apologize if it sounded like I was talking  about you. I was using my experience with you as an example but I didn't have to mention your screen name. Again,  you are right, I was wrong. I should have not mentioned who you were, please forgive me.


Pretty Please

If it helps any in my apology, Although this was not the point Chinani was right, your response was genuine.

Ok, no offense taken. I just wished our skin colour wouldn't matter that much but rather our actions.

hi all,

i am a white women living in the uk, i have been dating a nigerian man for the past 9 months, we have had some problems and im not completely that sure about him, he is a quite man aged 35, from lagos, been in the uk for 5 years, has education and is quite clever,

his mother died recently she lived in dublin in ireland, and hes just told me he is going to nigeria for 2 weeks stay to sort out and help his mothers family, i know he used to have a nigerian girlfriend there and im just scared he is still in contact with her and is going to visit her when im not with him i asked to go he said he hasent enough money to pay for me as well which is true as the funneral of his mum cost him and his sister alot of money, im just scared incase he is using me he has never asked me for money he gives me it freely and ive met with his father in uk also, i need help and advice please anyone help me

Stereotypes about Nigerian men continue. Did these Nigerian men seek for information about you through a third party b4 making up their minds? Why cant you subject yourself to the same standard of observing his behaviour. I think there is a wrong notion that runs in this thread that Nigerian men are the same, and act alike,  Why cant Nigerian men be considered as men  or are they really less  than real men. I have never seen a poster by Nigerian men wanting to know how to deal with women nor does it mean that they don’t have issues? Off course they do, it’s just that men have fallible expectation of women and women have infallible expectation of men. Nigeria has about 70 million men and they are always bulked together whenever it comes to a relationship. What happened to person to person basis of comparison? Are you trying to tell me that anonymous persons in this forum know these Nigerian men more than you do?  If you don’t like and trust him, leave him for another "better'' man. Enough of Naija men.

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Stereotypes about Nigerian men continue. Did these Nigerian men seek for information about you through a third party before making up their minds? Why can't you subject yourself to the same standard of observing his behaviour. I think there is a wrong notion that runs in this thread that Nigerian men are the same, and act alike, Why can't Nigerian men be considered as men or are they really less than real men. I have never seen a poster by Nigerian men wanting to know how to deal with women nor does it mean that they don’t have issues? Off course they do, it’s just that men have fallible expectation of women and women have infallible expectation of men. Nigeria has about 70 million men and they are always bulked together whenever it comes to a relationship. What happened to person to person basis of comparison? Are you trying to tell me that anonymous persons in this forum know these Nigerian men more than you do? If you don’t like and trust him, leave him for another "better'' man. Enough of Naija men.

thaank you very much you put a smile on my face

@topic

There is nothing wrong with being white and having a Nigerian bf! I am in the same situation and it's all going wonderful. Just don't listen to what others say and follow your heart.

I agree. Do you think it makes sense to avoid the company of Nigerian ladies, since they can be so discouraging?

i think i have a problem,

i have no taste for nigerian or black ladies any more, i had this girl that i was dating she was a white gurl, but we are no more together because her dad had to move to to australia.


any white ladies here wanna talk

lmao Johnny miss road .

I have recently started to date a very sweet Nigerian Yoruban man, I am very curious and have many questions.  Is it customary for a Nigerian born man to have an americanized name and a native name?  Since I am a caucasion woman, with biracial children from a previous marriage, I wonder if the acceptance from his family of myself and my children will be similar to what I would/could expect from an American black family, or if the culture is different and is it more acceptable in Osun State (I believe that is the spelling)?   If I wanted to send a gift to his mother, what would be an acceptable gift?  I do not wish to offend the sweet woman that raised this loving man, so any help in that regard would be greatly appreciated.   I was raised in a very stong Christian home, and color was never a topic persay, so to me, the love I am starting to feel for this man, is just that, for a this loving man who just happens to be from Nigeria and is a Yoruban man.  I wish to know more about his culture and traditions, and would like to know of any great websites to be able to gather this information.  Thanks and God Bless! 

Please disregard earlier questions, as since I posted this early this morning, I have been informed by a fellow Nairaland man that was so kind to help me with answering some of the above questions, also told me some things, which led me to tell him some things that were bothering me about my relationship with this Nigerian man that I spoke of above, and things I knew I should have come to the conclusion he was scamming me, and I didn't but it was very kindly said to me by the a nice young man that money I sent because he claimed to have had malaria, was indeed, the beginnine or down payment of a scam. I am the fool. As they say, fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me, Thanks to all that did read this and were going to reply.

its TRUE, The world can say we are fraudulent, but i thank GOD they recognise that there is no FRaud in our love.[meet the lovely NIGERIAN][theffanyi@yahoo.com]

Hello Friends, My name is Seun, 23 years, male, I stay in Ibadan, Nigeria, 1 hour drive from Lagos. I'm interested in meeting a white girl for a relationship or if u prefer to be a friend. You can get accross to me if u have a friend or you want to know me better my phone number is: +234-8073564273  My email address is: seunomotayoadeleye@yahoo.com. I'll appreciate it if you get accross to me. Thanks Seun.

SEUN [pls ur next pics try close ur MOUTH]ha ha ha ha

na wa oooooooooooooo!!!!!!



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Every person has a right to choose whoever they want to go out with,as far as I'm concerned anybody meddling in another
person's relationship has nothing else better to do.I happen to be a victim of people meddling in my relationship behind my
back because the girls were living separate from the boys,so I really wouldn't have known what was going on at night in the girls dorm,they (nigerian girls) were basically influencing my girl against me,this was way back in England in the 80's,
you sisters period don't like the idea of brothers dating anyone other than ourselves.you have to realize that this is a free world,I've seen sisters going out with non nigerians I welcomed them with open arms because I think that's the right thing to do,I've seen men who call sisters that go with people of other races as a whores let's all stop this and live peacefully.
Be it black or white you should be able to find happiness wherever you seek it,don't let anyone decide that for you.
I enjoy interracial relationship more than anything this is all I've known all my life and will always know.

Hello Friends, My name is Seun, 23 years, male, I stay in Ibadan, Nigeria, 1 hour drive from Lagos. I'm interested in meeting a white girl for a relationship or if u prefer to be a friend. You can get accross to me if u have a friend or you want to know me better my phone number is: +234-8073564273  My email address is: seunomotayoadeleye@yahoo.com. I'll appreciate it if you get accross to me. Thanks Seun

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  Youngman my only help to you is this; visit WWW.MEETIC.COM  you'll find assorted shapes and sizes.
Try to be visiting gym 3times a week if you can't stand the price do press up every morning so that your muscle will come out, hope you've horse size dick and know how to use it? with this you're ok.
  GOODLUCK

@ sista

I thought no one was being honest with this white chick until i came across your post. Most nigerians have inferiority complex, they worship the white man's feet. Anything the white man does is better. Nigerians are the worst at kissing their butts. That is why major roads in the Capital of NIgeria are named after White men who could care less about "African Animals". I constantly have to defend the honour of that continents against their ignorance.

I have not seen a lot of succesful interaccial couples in MA where i live. 99% of those marriages/relationships are for papers. Damn, Nigerians discriminate against their own people based on ethnicity let alone race.

@
Cucchi, Enjoy this relationship while it last. Please come back and tell us when it ends. It always does at least 99% of the time. Now this is the truth.

You are so right Uyai.

Its is very sad indeed. No trust in Nigerians.

it is not a bad idea. after all, we are all made by God. please i need a Nigerian lady, beautiful, God fearing, between ages 21 - 23, should reside in Lagos and should be in school or graduate. should be a Yoruba lady. contact me on enifewo@yahoo.com

Like I said this sis this is a free world,there are a lot of successful bi-racial relationship,I have cousins that are bi-racial,some
in their forties and came out of a successful bi-racial marriage,so stop generalizing,you need to look out for more that are
successful and I'm sure you'll find them,it's not a crime to date someone other than your race,I do believe it's the same God
that created Black and White alike,this is not about kissing anybody's behind,it's all about choice.

Well am a witness to biracial relationships,

I had peace of mind , enjoyed everything about it except for some nagging issues n comments n tirades at shopping malls from a** ho**, ' , racists,

N also australia is not used that kinda thing except for aborigines,
I guess it's a free world ,

I see nothing wrong with interacial dating,if both of you love each other then carry on and dont listen to what people says

Well it not a big deal,if they love each other,they should go on wit their life.Love dont have anytin 2 do wit colour.White or black?

Well it not a big deal,if they love each other,they should go on wit their life.Love dont have anytin 2 do wit colour.White or black?

who cares . . . ?

uyai:

@ sista

I thought no one was being honest with this white chick until i came across your post. Most nigerians have inferiority complex, they worship the white man's feet. Anything the white man does is better. Nigerians are the worst at kissing their butts. That is why major roads in the Capital of NIgeria are named after White men who could care less about "African Animals". I constantly have to defend the honour of that continents against their ignorance.

I have not seen a lot of succesful interaccial couples in MA where i live. 99% of those marriages/relationships are for papers. Damn, Nigerians discriminate against their own people based on ethnicity let alone race.

@
Cucchi, Enjoy this relationship while it last. Please come back and tell us when it ends. It always does at least 99% of the time. Now this is the truth.

Na wa oooooooooooo.Make she come report you you when the relationship ends?   mayb i should be   
Nairlanders una no go kill me for hereeeeeeeeeeeee ooooooooooooooooo  lmao   

If there's understanding,relationships will work irrespective of colours.for those who don't know some naija guys love whites 4real.some got their papers from white and still marry another (white )for love.some of these whites r very nice,while some blacks r worse.i don't want to go further cos it won't end.i live here in germany and i know d mentality of almost every nationalities.there's not much difference.abi na beauty,they equally have it in abundance and  booties in d/f shapes and sizes,even more solid than some of d blacks.

Im sorry to hear all of this!

@POSTER,
Aren't you a woman?black n white are all humans,what does it matter if you going out with white or black,its such a natural thing,nobody got right to choose for you your happiness,if my Nigerian brother makes you happy,so do you care?even when a black man dates a black woman,those kind of things still happens,people will always be jealous natalie.Do not even think a second about what people think or say.

van der jo:

@POSTER,
Aren't you a woman?black n white are all humans,what does it matter if you going out with white or black,its such a natural thing,nobody got right to choose for you your happiness,if my Nigerian brother makes you happy,so do you care?even when a black man dates a black woman,those kind of things still happens,people will always be jealous natalie.Do not even think a second about what people think or say.

Abi ooo. . . true talk

uyai:

@ sista

I thought no one was being honest with this white chick until i came across your post. Most nigerians have inferiority complex, they worship the white man's feet. Anything the white man does is better. Nigerians are the worst at kissing their butts. That is why major roads in the Capital of NIgeria are named after White men who could care less about "African Animals". I constantly have to defend the honour of that continents against their ignorance.

I have not seen a lot of succesful interaccial couples in MA where i live. 99% of those marriages/relationships are for papers. Damn, Nigerians discriminate against their own people based on ethnicity let alone race.

@
Cucchi, Enjoy this relationship while it last. Please come back and tell us when it ends. It always does at least 99% of the time. Now this is the truth.

i couldn't have said it better. this is why africa has not moved forward.

they only date PHAT OYIBO OLDIES
THEY ARE VERY MANY IN UK/USA
ITS GENERALLY A COMPLEX THING, TO BE AN ACCEPTABLE SUCCESSFUL BLACK MAN YOU MUST MARRY A WHITE WOMAN. VERY ANNOYING AM NOT A BLACK WOMAN.
EVEN ONE NIGERIAN PASTOR HAD TO MARRY AN HALFCAST TO GET A BIT WHITERNIZED
I BET THE GOOD LORD CHOSE HER OF ALL THE BLACK SISTERS IN THE HOUSE
NOTHING PERSONAL
THE BEST THING OBAMA DID WAS TO MARRY A BLACK WOMAN