Pryme-st*rr:

Ah ah!... Kulyie shebi i v asked u 2 mellow down 2day sef. Give d poor guy a chance na... He might end up rocking ur world.
#noattackmeo#

kulyie: no thank you

i have mellowed like you asked me to but what of all this little riff raffs ranting up and down insulting their mothers,not me

lynpetra: Damn it,some men are confused beings.They agitate for self -dependent women only to run away when they are successful.IMO,such men are less than cowards.



@op,sweety how have you been??Don't worry I wud be a wealthy and submissive wifey.The only problem is if you buy me d latest Toyota ride,I wud retaliate by buying you the latest Range Rover??

ukandi1: that some successful ladies get married does not mean that they are without attitude issues. Ask their husbands what they face with their wives when no one is there and u wil agree that all d independent women have attitude issues..

kulyie: thank you for the advice but its not needed.i already have everything worked out as planned.

Meanwhile,its 'SEW' NOT SOW.

SOW-PLANTING
SEW-MAKING OR AMENDING CLOTHES 8-)

Richiy: Nothing negative anyone says here would make me re-think my decision of being successful and financially independent. If you dont have the balls to approach me, then you would never appreciate what av built. It would be best you even stay away.

Pryme-st*rr:

Lol... Ok! Just try n be a swthrt n show dem d door out in a mild manner so dey won't v any open grounds 2 throw tantrums @ u.
Hate 2 see my 1s rival turned swt friend being attacked.,*winks*

DailyNews:
A woman has more honour when she is married, rich and [size=18pt]humble[/size], so pray for that and strive towards that and avoid mingling with all those single lady hustlers out for money and flashy things of life, they may ruin your life if u associate with them. Take note pls. Wishing u the best that u dream for

kulyie: lobatan omo urhobo fun ara e

DailyNews: avoid mingling with all those single lady hustlers out for money and flashy things of life, they may ruin your life if u associate with them. Take note pls. Wishing u the best that u dream for

tensor777:

... They are not even interested in the average 'MY CONTAINER' merchant....

DailyNews: My dear don't get it wrong, when men say they like independent women, it doesn't mean they like rich or wealthy women, nope!

Independent they mean and want is this: she is not idle, she is engaged in sth; a handwork, business, formal job, etc that fetches her daily upkeeps without her having to date or sleep with any man to meet up with her upkeep.

But when a woman is a hustler desperate to be on the billboard, to compete with men financially and otherwise, busy chasing everything that earns money, it becomes a turn off and a no no for matured and well to do men with vision to build a stable happy lasting home.

And in case u don't know, the world is run by men, and for a woman to become so financially rich, it is most likely that she must have had affairs with so many men at the top, or she has developed some masculine characters that scare real men away.

Honestly, most men desire their wives to be a nursery or primary school teacher becos it looks so romantic and amazing to see a beautiful woman taking good care of children that doesn't belong to her.

And if not for economic hardship in Nigeria, many men would have married female school teachers.

That's to tell u what men mean when they say: we like independent woman, not a hustler.

Being rich doesn't equate to being independent cos majority of the so-called rich single ladies are still dependent on some richer men directly or indirectly...so where is their independence then

Pryme-st*rr:

Eeehmmmm!
Sisi Eko... Abeg! I no dey flow along wit u 4 dt ur language abeg. Interpret in n stick 2 Anglo-pidgin... Serves all d tym

Malakh: @ Daily news you sure do make a lot of sense but you know what there's nothing new under the sun, som women have the spirit of rebellion and pride,they will never submit to a man, my book tells me pride goes before destruction/shame/fall.The same spirit of Eve,Jezebel,Aathliah is what possesses these women,you can't change them,their demon won't allow them to submit to man,its an abomination for them to submit to a man,its different if she's getting paid by being submissive to a man but that's because she's getting paid anything other than that they rebel, what they don't understand is a woman has never been independent, Men run this world, so they still depend on men one way or the other

Malakh: @ Daily news you sure do make a lot of sense but you know what there's nothing new under the sun, som women have the spirit of rebellion and pride,they will never submit to a man, my book tells me pride goes before destruction/shame/fall.

De Beauvoir:

kulyie: lmao.ok

lobatan- matter don settle

omo urhobo fun ara e-proper urhobo babe


so i said matter don settle,proper urhobo babe

De Beauvoir:

If pride goes before a fall then that means even men have to be humble now. Humility is not reserved for women if that is the case.

Malakh: u speak the same way she spoke,I see the same traits in you two, what do you mean by a man humbling himself for a woman,Im not domineering or what not but I wear the pants in the house

Malakh: @ Daily news you sure do make a lot of sense but you know what there's nothing new under the sun, som women have the spirit of rebellion and pride,they will never submit to a man, my book tells me pride goes before destruction/shame/fall.The same spirit of Eve,Jezebel,Aathliah is what possesses these women,you can't change them,their demon won't allow them to submit to man,its an abomination for them to submit to a man,its different if she's getting paid by being submissive to a man but that's because she's getting paid anything other than that they rebel, what they don't understand is a woman has never been independent, Men run this world, so they still depend on men one way or the other

kulyie: no thank you

i have mellowed like you asked me to but what of all this little riff raffs ranting up and down insulting their mothers,not me

De Beauvoir:

You are a Christian or Muslim abi?

Malakh: Both... but does it matter

pro01: Women need to understand that most men do not rate them by their level of success or accomplishment.

If I want to indulge my libidinous cravings, I go for a voluptuous and sexy chick. If I want a relationship or marriage, I go for a level-headed, well-behaved, sensible, and God-fearing woman. In either case, her so-called "success" or "financial independence" has nothing to do with it. Only a lazy gigolo or broke-ass mofo would be impressed by a woman's financial success. A financially stable man needs a woman for other reasons. In most cases her success/wealth is a distraction rather than an advantage.

In terms of desirability, only men are judged by their wealth and financial status; women are mostly judged by their beauty, deportment, and personality. It's as simple as that.

tensor777:

Now you don de talk anoda thing. De talk of runz girls and other hustlers and the evil spirits wey de worri them. SMH

Anyway what everyone seems to be running away from despite several pages on this thread is that the advent of the successful financially independent woman means that Nigerian men would no longer be able to use MONEY to control, manipulate and dominate such ladies if they marry them.

That is what is scaring a most male posters here.

Malakh: Both... but does it matter

ogugua88: Women who are successful and financially independent intimidate some men for at least a few reasons:

1. They're confident, which can sometimes be interpreted as arrogance.
2. They have their own money and can buy their own things, support themselves, etc.
3. They can make a man feel inferior or inadequate, due to reasons given in point 2.

Men, particularly African men, are raised thinking that they are to be the provider; sole more than likely. Gender stereotyping is still rampant. A woman is to cook and clean; a man is to work. A woman who can do what a man can do renders a man useless.

A lot of men have egos, even if they won't admit it in front of women. In all honesty, however, there are some independent women out there who behave like they have both an egg and sperm. I, personally, think men should be more open to independent women as they've got a lot to offer. They're fierce, bold, and can be your rock in tough times. Meanwhile, independent women should be the go-getters that they are and still be womanly. Make a man feel like the man he is; you don't have to do all and be all because you're successful. No one likes a woman with an attitude, regardless of her wealth, fame, beauty, or whichever assets she may have.

De Beauvoir:

That's why you think the way you do.

How the hell can a person be both Christian and Muslim by the way?

tensor777:
Yes what is that about? Islam and Christianity. What do you believe in?

Malakh: If a woman is arrogant,I'll avoid her like a plague,I dont need strange women in my life, but why would a real man run from a woman?, he is avoiding her because two of them would never be agreed, can two walk together except they are agreed...mind you Isaiah makes it clear that a woman will compass a woman and this is where their supposed succeess comes from but the tables will be turned