ibkaye:

aiye yi ti dopin

ye!

so why u come dey cry like baby now

kini big deal, aiye n se ru e

chamotex:

so why u come dey cry like baby now

kini big deal, aiye n se ru e

it is just weird and unprofessional

ibkaye:

aiye yi ti dopin

ye!

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lol, ibk u re funny o,

ibkaye:

it is just weird and unprofessional

enough student/teacher escapade

i once fancied my ICT teacher in year 10, damn she was  

but i wasnt in love oooooo _{good times eh}

chamotex:

enough student/teacher escapade

i once fancied my ICT teacher in year 10, damn she was 

but i wasnt in love oooooo _{good times eh}

ehen, there is a difference between love and 'fancy', plus, you were the one who fancied her, not the other way round

where is the poster sef, he has ran away,

@Sisikill
There you go wiv your A-grade sacarsm again

SAM MILLA:
@eldee, there is no need pointing fingers here.
this guy did not mention his age here.
i was only giving you examples and you are acting upon the examples.
besides does being 25 stop you from seeking for advice on nairaland?

Your examples are far-fetched
If he didn't feel it was wrong, he won't be asking for advice
It's not the Theory of Relativity

SAM MILLA:

and why do you base your argument on assumptions instead of facts?

You jst dug your hole
1) There's only one private University in Lagos
2) There is no 25 year old MA degree holder in Nigeria with enough experience to lecture in a University
3) There is no adult MA degree holder that will come here to ask if it's right to date someone over 18
4) If she's still in secondary school, she's in 5th form (all 6th formers are ot of school after WAEC)

I could go on forever, your argument is flawed, your assumption that it's a mature relationship doesn't hold water

a lot of 20 year olds are still in secondary school in Nigeria,
people who didnt start school on time like maids and so on.
some girls are repeating classes which could happen at 20.
then this teacher is 24 or 25 which is practically possible.
now whats wrong in a 24 year old guy dating a 20 year old girl?

These are assumptions, and they are only seen in 1 in 20 cases
And why will a 25 year old be scared of us crucifying him for dating a 20 year old?
Do you just type without a VDU sumtimes??

SAM MILLA:

or is student-teacher thing an abomination?

YES!!! Taking advantage of your job to have carnal knowledge of your customer is a crime
It is a breach of contract, besides it will surely interfere with your work

eldee:

Do you just type without a VDU sumtimes??

maybe na touch screen

Sam milla, I suggest you stop embarrassing yourself.

eldee:

@Sisikill
There you go with your A-grade sacarsm again
Your examples are far-fetched
If he didn't feel it was wrong, he won't be asking for advice

These are assumptions, and they are only seen in 1 in 20 cases
And why will a 25 year old be scared of us crucifying him for dating a 20 year old?
Do you just type without a VDU sumtimes??
YES!!! Taking advantage of your job to have carnal knowledge of your customer is a crime
It is a breach of contract, besides it will surely interfere with your work

i thought we have cut this down to secondary school.
what contract is the teacher breaching?
does teachers sign contracts  not to date students or is it just what you personally believe is wrong?
i thought this guy said he is deeply in love, did you consider his feelings and happiness atall,
or are you still living in a world of ''teachers should marry teachers''
have you not seen a 35 year old person marrying a 20 year old girl.
i have examples.
open your eyes, things are changing everyday.
we are living in a world where it doesnt matter where you meet your love.
what matters is that its a true love.

SAM MILLA:

does teachers sign contracts not to date students or is it just what you personally believe is wrong?

Stupid question

Why do you think they get arrested when they cross such boundaries?

KarmaMod:

Sam milla, I suggest you stop embarrassing yourself.

and you think i m embarrasing myself because i disagree with his point of view.
how am i sure you and him are not the same person.
and this your post is just a ploy to crown yourself/him the winner?

You are deeply in lust!

No you are embarrassing youself cos you are obviously VERY ignorant when it comes to the Law.

Making up pathetic excuses for some agbaya that shouldnt be teaching in the first place

i believe love is stronger than anything else KARMAMOD.
Teaching is a profession, love is not.
teaching goes with qualifications while love goes with feelings.
i m not a teacher or a student.
what i said earlier is that we should also consider the age ranges of these 2 people, not just teacher student relationship/barrier.
i have seen a 22 year old secondary school student.
i believe a 22 year old lady is old enough to get married or fall in love.
And i dont believe its wrong to fall in love with her teacher, period !

Who gives a damn about what you think is wrong or right?

Rules against such "relationships" are there for a reason. Get used to it.

KarmaMod:

Who gives a damn about what you think is wrong or right?

Rules against such "relationships" are there for a reason. Get used to it.

.
the poster posted this topic here in the first place because of the RULES you are talking about.
he also begged us not to condemn him.
so i guess his point was for us to determine if this rule is perfect or flawed somehow.
Isnt that what we all discuss here everyday.
or should we ignore love to maintain every given rule?
why do you think some rules are ammended sometimes?
its because people who made them were long gone and things are changing everyday.

SAM MILLA:


i thought we have cut this down to secondary school.
what contract is the teacher breaching?
does teachers sign contracts not to date students or is it just what you personally believe is wrong?
i thought this guy said he is deeply in love, did you consider his feelings and happiness atall,
or are you still living in a world of ''teachers should marry teachers''
have you not seen a 35 year old person marrying a 20 year old girl.
i have examples.
open your eyes, things are changing everyday.
we are living in a world where it doesnt matter where you meet your love.
what matters is that its a true love.

Are you sure you're not just trying to push all me buttons at once?
If it's legal why does it always end up being secret?

Help yourself, drop that cup of coffee and go to bed

he also begged us not to condemn him

Listen to yourself!!!
If I kill a kid and beg you not to condemn me, then I'm right innit?

the poster posted this topic here in the first place because of the RULES you are talking about.
he also begged us not to condemn him.
so i guess his point was for us to determine if this rule is perfect or flawed somehow.
Isnt that what we all discuss here everyday.
or should we ignore love to maintain every given rule?
why do you think some rules are ammended sometimes?
its because people who made them were long gone and things are changing everyday

Was there no love when they made the rules?
So we should allow people to ignore professional etiquette for 'love'
Taking advantage of your job to get intimate with a student?

Infact we can now justify robbing to impress wives and girlfriends
Afterall love conquers all

chamotex:



maybe na touch screen

Hehehe . . . e fit be ooh
This dude is scaring me now
Infact, the way things are going ehn . . .

The dude is just yarning garbage

It's him that would defend raping babies after all "the rules should change for there is love"

@topic
Thats just disgusting. . . . you better go read the the contract that you signed before you got your job over again

thats my problem, the guy came here askin for advice and all he has been getting is insults.

in reality, love is one emotion that we find very hard to control. although his feelings are most likely channeled towards the wrong person, it dosent mean that we should launch a barrage of insults against him.

better advice please.

@ post

i hope if some1 do the same to ur daughter u will not b angry.because i no of a man in my area who goes after other pples children and u need to c hw he protect his own daughter from other pple.beware the end tyme is here strange will b happening.

Is it a crime 2 fall in luv wiv a student?!

student no b human?. . .

@ poster

ermm. . . . juzz b careful,
i guess u not ready 2 get fired!!

It is a crime abeg

the student cant be more than 15

what is he doing!!!

is his social life that terrible?/

eeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Please, it's unprofessional. As teachers, we are mentors; hence we should guide, set moral standards, counsel and evaluate our students. Believe me, an intimate relationship between a teacher and a student would cripple the potential to act responsibly in each of these roles. You will only lose your respect as a teacher if you do it.

[size=15pt]DEATH BEFORE DISHONOR!!!!![/size]


My guy hurry up and swallow Gammalin20 one time.

Bolarge:

[size=15pt]DEATH BEFORE DISHONOR!!!!![/size]

My guy hurry up and swallow Gammalin20 one time.

Haba, gama ke? Not that serious na

gabe_logan:

thats my problem, the guy came here askin for advice and all he has been getting is insults.

in reality, love is one emotion that we find very hard to control. although his feelings are most likely channeled towards the wrong person, it dosent mean that we should launch a barrage of insults against him.

better advice please.

palpably,yhur reply is in no way better than
the ones above.If yhu can't come up wit one,i wonder why yhu think
others will.

pussy_full:

in love as in make u fok am go - or in love make you spend the rest of your life with her.

U still dey ask.
But seriously una don see as dese small small girls dey quick pack ass and boobies nowadays?
My neighbor's daughter's just 15yrs and even 24yr olds ain't got nothn on this girl's banging body men.
Wahala dey o!!

If you love her truely as you say, i will advice dat u go for her if she agrees fine but if she does not pls dont try to force her so that u will not get into trouble. my second advice is dat if she eventually agrees, pls dont talk her into sex for now cos she may be too young for that now. The ball is in your court

Gosh, [color=#990000][/color] all of you condemns me, whyLet me tell you more about this senario, She is 17+ years of age, tall, slim, Nice, caring BRILLIANT and loving lady.I've Known her for about a year (october)now. She use to approach me during break periods and i couldn't RESIST HER company. I've tried to get her off my back but anytime i try,She gets offended and intentionally fails my subject. , The worst part is that she now knows that i am in love with her.The parents work in Oando company but thats not the issue,

I love my job but its like i love this girl better, The only thing i FEAR is NEMESIS.

Pls ADVICE>>>dont condemn me.
Thanks.

Ewooo

You don already give us the issue oo!!!

Oando? i can see where this is heading