pappilo: Nigerians are hypocrites. I can bet my life that 98% of the 253 people who liked OP's post are having or had premarital sex.

Rexeffiom:
Tell us the truth o *winks*

leavestory:
But wetin dey pain me be say some chicks that still had sex last week coming here to say #team virgin...

bisiopinion:
My post is not for religious bigots but possibly a young guy or girl, who's considering having sex and is being told to sit down and read a bible. That's not going to help. At least know what your options are. If you want to wait fine, if you don't want to, that's fine also. There is nothing wrong with you.

tintingz: Are you a feminist?

LizzyAnn: my question is how can u tell a guy no sex when u re not a virgin U don't ve any excuse,may God save us its not easy to see a guy dat will accept that.

koyes:
virgin or no virgin, a man who doesn't respect your decisions does not really love and respect you. Decent and unselfish men exist and they will never compare you to a product. Don't bother yourself dear.

bisiopinion: no i am not. However I do agree with some Black feminist views.

born_to_be_gr8t:
U wey dey advice person ....are u a virgin, freaking hypocrites

tintingz: Any girl you see is not a virgin to you?

born_to_be_gr8t:
O boy all this girls don fuçk tire..will now come to nairaland to form holy holy

tintingz: And how do you know "all this girls don Bleep tire" you check their punanee? True, some form a lot but Why judging without confirmation?

born_to_be_gr8t:

See this bad guy , so u belong to the team " testing before marriage "

Anyways na eyes know wetin go belle full stomach...I knw a virgin,by mere sensing them o!.. Sampling them na jus formality for me

tintingz: LOLZ don't quote me wrong am not supporting your sampling before marriage...I only ask why judging without confirmation? If don't know someone sexx statue don't judge.

born_to_be_gr8t:

So u wana tell me nw that koyes na virgin? guy reason am well na ?

tintingz: Do you know her?

born_to_be_gr8t:
U wey dey advice person ....are u a virgin, freaking hypocrites

born_to_be_gr8t:

I bow for u o ! ...u nor get 6th sense? The sense of perception ?..... U dey learn keke

koyes:
I owe you no explanation on whether i am or not. What i will never do is to use the sermon regarding hypocrisy to still disregard God's law and influence others with bad and selfish talk which is exactly what you are doing. What is the difference between the hypocrites and the jews who unrepentantly rejected Jesus Christ teachings and crusified Him? Absolutely NOTHING! So which category do you belong to? Rather than pointing fingers,you better repent and learn to OBEY God's law because He will never bend the rules for you.

born_to_be_gr8t:
U still didn't answer the question, am not surprised though...cos it's always hard to answer, especially wen u knw deep down inside of u, that u like the KOKO.... Anyways one day breeze go blow and we go see fowl yansh

tensor77:
Arrogant female poster talking a whole load of hogwash whilst spewing brainwashed Western Decadence. Get a life girl.
Fornication is immoral and children born out of wedlock as well as abortion is an inevitable consequence.

hussainah lami:



I pray u don't test what will 4eva be a regret 2ur entire life

Havilah93: In response to this thread created some days ago

https://www.nairaland.com/1561369/guyz-dont-ever-marry-girl


1. Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly

Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a deep companionship with one's spouse and for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you.

2. Sexual activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic development. Studies show that when young people engage in premarital sex, their academic performance declines and their social relationships with family and friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature to deal with the explosive sex drive and it tends to dominate their life.

3. The majority of women cannot enjoy sex outside of the bonds of marriage. The development of a fulfilling sex life needs the security and peace of the marriage bond. Premarital sex usually takes place sneaking around in hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine pleasure in premarital sex, most especially for women.

4. Virginity is to be given to the most important person in your life, the person you committed yourself to stay with forever in marriage Your virginity is the most precious thing you have to give to your spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it back. Don't lose something so precious in a thoughtless way.

5. Those who engage in premarital sex run a high risk of contracting one of the many venereal diseases rampant today, as well as losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but other common disfiguring diseases like herpes have no cure.

6. Some venereal diseases have no symptoms and many couples discover many years later that they became infertile because of these diseases. Infertility experts estimate that 80% of today's infertility is due to venereal diseases contracted before they married.

7. The best and only method that guarantees 100% against AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to have sex and maintain fidelity in your marriage.

8. Premarital sex breaks the 10 Commandments given by God. The 10 Commandments are given to man by God to make man happy. They are not outdated and they are not restrictive. If we follow these laws, we can create happy and prosperous lives. If we don't follow them, we will pay a heavy price in divorce, disease, abortions, illegitimate children and loneliness. Modern men make a big mistake when they think that they can break these eternal laws and not suffer consequences.

9. Premarital sex runs the risk of conceiving illegitimate children. Numerous scientific studies show that the children of single mothers suffer psychologically and are less successful socially and academically than children from intact families. Above all, children need both their father and their mother. It is wrong to risk having children who will never have their father's love, protection and care.

10. If you date and you don't have sex, you can forget about that relationship when you stop dating. But if you have sex with those you date and then break up, the nature of sexual involvement creates strong, often unpleasant memories for your whole life. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate relations is like a mini-divorce. The psychological difficulties of these mini-divorces does damage to your character. Later, when you are married and go to bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant memories will accompany you.

http://www.unification.net/tfv/tenreasons.html


True love waits. If a boy or girl truly loves you, they will want the best for you

tintingz: I asked because you don't believe in marriage but sexx out of wedlock? Or am I wrong?

bisiopinion:


lord. Grammar police 2. Just saw this. Nope, I don't see myself getting married. I never said I don't believe in it.