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Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by agrovick(m): 7:15pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
My brother, wife her 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by Greaaat: 7:15pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by olorunthobby(f): 7:15pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
okay |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by kraftykc(m): 7:15pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
Destiny27: I decided to post this in family section because I know there are a lot of people with mature minds and experiences especially married folks. Guy please don't dull. Marry the woman and stop pussyfooting, I contend that in to day's world you can always keep urself looking younger by simply exercising. |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by OnyeEgo1(m): 7:16pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
The question remains.... Do u Love her?? If yes whats d biggie abt age... Just av gud control in ur account n take care of her not to look too old for U and lastly in my own words ''Age is just a counting number'' |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by olorunthobby(f): 7:16pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
age no be barrrier o... |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by bukatyne(f): 7:18pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
@OP: Your wife will age according to how you use/stress her Pamper and take care of her, she will look sweet sixteen for you 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by pawesome(m): 7:18pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
ah tink say Na only me Na abeg make una help me n OP buh d fact is dt she will b more wiser n developed dn u....may own de show me fire.she always wants to b d man.hope urs dnt do dt? |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by UyiIredia(m): 7:19pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
@ OP: There are always people who lack discretion about. You seem to be worried about appearances: that she'll age faster she's she's your mate. That should be her worry not yours because it's a fact that men tend to age faster than ladies, few men are exceptions to this. I'll urge you to consider more important things like her character, $€xual compatibility (no $€x compulsory just talk over it), religious views, her goals in life, career/business (if she's in one) etc. I am guessing she's pretty since you crushed on her. Best of luck. 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by OnyeEgo1(m): 7:20pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
ireneidiva: It depends on the lady. Is she humble and polite? How does she talk to you? Does she listen to you? About looking older after childbirth, does she have a healthy lifestyle of working out and eating right? Does she wear neat clothes? Is her hair always untidy? Your answers to these will help you. unfortunately irene i wud just gladly teach her all dose stuff ''HUMAN are Dynamic'' meaning we av d tendency to change habits.. |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by mooregan(m): 7:20pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
OP, go 4 her if u love her, there is nothing wrong in it. Even Lola Is older than Peter okoye |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by Blessmira: 7:21pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
wel it is cool bt i prefer my huby 2 b my elder so dt i can gt d full petin. u kno |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by tunero1010(m): 7:21pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
Age mate? just think about the future, think of when both of u are 70s then she would look like 80.her sexual drive will also drop then u are still active |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by alotofgrace(m): 7:22pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
lomaxx: no two ways bro....she's actually 10 years younger.......with the brain of a 35yr dude.... wetin man go do?.....reminds me of class gist in those days.....like this: oboy, any babe for this class nor be ur mate o.......working class dudes don hook them up.....go a fishing in 100 level... lol 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by Nobody: 7:26pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
Picture of her or its just fiction |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by kalufelix(m): 7:28pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
usermane: When it comes to this issue of LOVE, am kind of new, but atleast i can contribute for fellow 's benefit.cool did you say you're new?? na lie u b graduate joor usermane: When it comes to this issue of LOVE, am kind of new, but atleast i can contribute for fellow 's benefit.cool did you say you're new?? na lie u b graduate joor |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by HarryPotter22: 7:29pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
I believe age is just a number on one's birth certificate. It doesn't really matter. What really matters is understanding. |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by destino24(m): 7:31pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
ireneidiva: It depends on the lady. Is she humble and polite? How does she talk to you? Does she listen to you? About looking older after childbirth, does she have a healthy lifestyle of working out and eating right? Does she wear neat clothes? Is her hair always untidy? Your answers to these will help you. Happy Christmas |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by noperson: 7:31pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
@ op There is nothing wrong in getting married to your age mate. Age ain't nothing but a number. It becomes whatever you make of it. Love, understanding and the grace of God is all you need in a marriage. I know of a couple that are close to my family, the wife is older than the husband by 3months but unless they tell you, one will never suspect. The wife is slim and looks way younger than the husband. The husband is taller and abit on the fleshy side. They both love each other and respect one another. Pray to God for direction and follow your heart. No matter how much advise people give to you, you are the only one going into the union with the woman, nairalanders no go follow go there oooo! Lay your foundation with love and mutual respect and leave the rest in God's hand. All the best. 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by slimming: 7:31pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
love is the core need for marriage |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by IYANGBALI: 7:33pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
lomaxx: There's no issue settling down with your age-mate, other factors being constant.no wonder the 16 yrs old boy I am dating now is seeing me as his mate and is already talking of marrying me |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by Nobody: 7:33pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
i think it depends on when the balance of you boths testosterone and oestrogen levels are about the same, and in my opinion, this is the mid-thirties |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by kayojosephy(m): 7:33pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
if u truely love her and she loves u in return den u guys can go ahead,remain positive about d whole issue u listed cos age does not guarantee weda one gets old quick in marriage but hw well u take gud care of ur wife to fit ur taste and concerning her loyalty and submissiveness,u av to learn dat from ur dating together and try to win her respect and u also reciprocate it den all will be well...eager to c d IV for all nairalanders... |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by sage2(m): 7:34pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
Ennyhollar: There is noting bad on it, but wat is there is that u should not let her now ur really age, So she can give more respect to ur siblings. You mean he should lie about his age to the woman he want to get married to? Where has your brain gone to? At what point would he then disclose his age to his wife? Don't forget that he would want to celebrate his birthday with family members who knows his real age. 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by Carsonv(m): 7:34pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
Age is nothing. It only becomes an issue when the woman is one conscious of her age. Try to figure out her dealings with others, if she's one that tends to be bossy, in-charge, not comfortable relating casually with younger friends then she MIGHT have the tendency to be 'less submissive'. There are older women who will happily hand over the wheel of power to the younger partner and younger women who want to wield the stick of power. It's not an age thing, but a personality trait. Since you're worried about SUBMISSION, don't marry a CHOLERIC! About the looking older thing, if you take care of your wife she'll keep her good looks! Good looks na man dey fund am!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by Nobody: 7:35pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
No NO NO NO NO NO!!!!!! 5 Likes |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by Orokita(m): 7:38pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
Vallotti: As a female. . . I HAVE NEVER MET ANY MALE MY AGE MATE THAT IS AS A DEVELOPMENTAL/COGNITIVE EQUAL. Chauvinist!!!!! U really need to grow up 6 Likes |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by Nobody: 7:38pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
Ennyhollar: There is noting bad on it, but wat is there is that u should not let her now ur really age, So she can give more respect to ur siblings.don't base the foundation of ur marriage on lies. Let her know your real age! |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by Dbryan: 7:39pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
Age doesnt mata wen it cums 2 isues of d @...so long as u bth undastnd,luv n respect each oda..dts all dt matas... |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by Nobody: 7:40pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
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Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by trustnobody01(m): 7:40pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
I think the thin line that should determine ur "marital FATE" is whether she has thru ur little interaction with her shown submissiveness to u or as she tended to make u undertsand either directly or indirectly that u are agemates and as such u should not expect much from her. If to her best ability she has proved those above cardinal points wrong then u should wife.... All u need do is to take an investigative study into her perspective towards the concept of "age in a marriage" if it is satisfactory then wife her....... 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married To Your Age mate by portable11: 7:41pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
Thank u Chinwem: If a thread had to be opened to debate her age and 'marriageability'......(lol, if that's a word) 1 Like |
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