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| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by hensben(m): 1:00pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Friendzone is a bad thing I tell ya,na so my ex babe take friendzone me then I met a girl n we agreed to date, the next thing this my ex go make friend with this girl I met n started telling her how we are destined for each other that we are dating, that we have a future together, in other words she go spoil my runz with that girl, na there I change am for her, then she started confessing that she was jealous that she like our friendship, ehen! Na so we start to bl.p oo until last year wey she left the country n me don move on to the next chapter. 4 Likes |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by hulkhiharitoz(m): 1:00pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
friend zone haba!!! We all need friends even friends that you may not like .... As for me I get amm for friends wella.... Even the oone wey I no like I get am as friends# it good to have friends they might help you one day like if you are propoose the motion and abeg make na help me click the link wey dey my signature... Tanks #team nairaland# |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by Neldrizzy(m): 1:00pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Friend zoning naa for bastarrd.. 3 Likes |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by JAEYWEST(m): 1:02pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
LaurelP: D friendzoned guy is d one who gives all but gets notin in return 2 Likes
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| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by uzolexis(f): 1:02pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Prowizy2: Costa Rica tried.'yes they tried,e pain me say dem no win   |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by pomporiking: 1:03pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
I thinks its the guys fault who don't show what they really want from the start.you ping her everyday call her listen to her bs drop whatever you're doing when she needs you,acting like her gay bff Its niggas who are giving out the wrong vibes 5 Likes |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by sovpounds(m): 1:04pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
e get one question wey i wan ask these women. why cant i be your guy and you "friend zone" your current guy? why must it be sovpounds you would "friend zone"? the fact that you have a current guy does not mean he cannot be sacked and relegated to "friend zone" while I take his place.  3 Likes
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| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by Nobody: 1:06pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
I don't see anytin wrong wit it;infact wen a guy is friend zoned,I tink its even a gud tin sef,cos dt way;u can be ursef...u can now also collect from her,and d best part,tell her her f-kups sef...d burden of boyfriend has been lifted off u wen u"re friendzoned and if u play well...u can still get laid! 1 Like |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by ImperfectMe(m): 1:08pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
The law of reciprocacy states that "When you perform a task for some one, you expect somethng in return (subconsciously).....most principles and field of studies are based on the golden rule "Do to others as you would want them do to you" cos thats the basic commandment that foster societies Therefore, in essence, friendzoning is a two way thing..the girl have to reciprocate no matter how little 5 Likes |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by Prowizy2(m): 1:10pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
uzolexis:Don't worry, Argentina will surely win Netherlands! 1 Like |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by tuffgongjo(m): 1:11pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
edgideon:and what has he done better than Messi? |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by glowshine(f): 1:11pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
I just friend-zoned a guy again. Lol ;DI just friend-zoned a guy again. Lol |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by glowshine(f): 1:12pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
I just friend-zoned a guy again. Lol ;DI |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by glowshine(f): 1:13pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
timpaker: I waste on my time on you, ignored other girls just to be with you and at the end I can't get at least 30% of your body? Oh crap! I'm not a teddy bear. Then it means,you just wanted some percentage of her body,that's why you'll forever remain in the friend zone 1 Like |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by Nobody: 1:13pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
There's nothing wrong with "friend zoning". as long as it is on my own terms, not hers. In a few rare cases where I need a girl for reasons more important than sexual gratification and romantic satisfaction, I don't mind platonic relationships leading to the attainment of specific goals - connections, money, job openings, crucial information, etc. However, it is impossible for me to meet a girl I fancy (sexually or romantically), only for her to unilaterally decide that we should be "just friends'. Sorry, that is my decision to make, not yours. 13 Likes |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by Orikinla(m): 1:15pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
There is absolute nothing wrong with separating the boundaries between friendship and relationship when females are relating with male friends. But when you do such zoning, then don't expect the male friend to provide things that your boyfriend should provide for you. It is foolish and unreasonable for a girl or woman in relationship to depend on a male friend for her needs. Like why should a male friend buy underwear for you when you are dating someone else? Why should you spend more nights with a male friend than your boyfriend? Why should a married woman be holding hands and nudging a male friend with her boobs? I have seen girls and women who respect their male friends more than their boyfriends. A young lady once openly called her boyfriend an i-diot in my presence and was insulting him on the street. And she often got jealous whenever she saw me with another female friend. So, it depends on how you define the friendship by the dos and don'ts. 4 Likes |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by loswhite(m): 1:15pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
zeb04: why can't there be mutual friendship!.....mostimes, friendship is for a life time but intimate r/ship alwys have expiry dates.the problem is the guy has feelings 4 you and you zone him to Js friend without choice...haba dearisGod o all this innocent boys dat you ppl are zone friending....lol 1 Like |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by henryobinna(m): 1:16pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
ITbomb: Holland do play nice attacking football but they always have hard luck, though this world cup is getting them some luck,una don turn this thread to soccer ba?.. ok oh but I want the Dutch to go with the cup, I just like them plus their good play, RVP nearly fvck 'em up yesterday |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by niceeric(m): 1:18pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
LaurelP: D friendzoned guy is d one who gives all but gets notin in returnand occasional hugs from d selfish girl to boost d stu.pid guy's morale..... 6 Likes |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by niceeric(m): 1:21pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
glowshine: I just friend-zoned a guy again. Lol ;DIwe shall see if it would still remain funny when Ure 40 and single..... 5 Likes |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by YoungDaNaval(m): 1:25pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Everyfin is wrong my dear! |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by armadeo(m): 1:30pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
El Guapo: Guapo I take God beg you don't break my ribs 1 Like |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by buoye1(m): 1:31pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
El Guapo:seems u really dnt knw d meaning of a gal frnd zoning a guy?d op dint say "a female frnd"wen u r zoned,she expcts u 2 do all dat...play d mr nice...,...bt its part of life though |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by niceeric(m): 1:33pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
I've said it so many times here on NL and I'll keep saying it anytime the opportunity comes,- NEVER BE A NICE/OVER-CARING GUY TO HER....SHE'LL MORE OFTEN THAN NOT SEE U AS A 'MUGU'/MAGA AND THROW U IN D FRIEND ZONE BOTTLE,TGEY(LADIES) FALL FOR D BAD,SHARP GUYS....DONT ASK ME WHY,ITS D WAY THEY ARE WIRED.....A WORD US ENOUGH FOR D WISE.....try dat and thank me later dudes... 5 Likes |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by Acidosis(m): 1:33pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Unarguably, the word "friend" has been bastardized. The truth is, out of 100 guys you wish to friendzone, 99.5 will eventually make their feelings known. So why the stress? Free the guy make e go find single ladies. Except of course, you have a hidden agenda. Funny, ladies already know the risk involve in friendzoning a guy, yet they they act like oh! we are just friends  4 Likes |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by areyour4u: 1:35pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
[quote author=Prowizy Netherlands get only 3 players. . Robben, Sneijder and Van Persie.you dey forgey kuyt |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by nodullin(m): 1:35pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Friends don't kiss.... |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by xynerise: 1:37pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Friendzone is a nightmare to guys 2 Likes |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by mencade5(m): 1:38pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
glowshine: I just friend-zoned a guy again. Lol ;DIu cant try dat shiiiit on me beeech! 4 Likes |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by ayindepremier: 1:38pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
practically, lemme friendzone u, abi, whats the big deal when im JTing ur neighbors. 1 Like |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by stephengee(m): 1:43pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
timpaker: I waste on my time on you, ignored other girls just to be with you and at the end I can't get at least 30% of your body? Oh crap! I'm not a teddy bearlol. nonsense boy. Na true,but everything is not touching their body. and mosr of una b Christian oo |
| Re: What's The Big Deal In Friend Zoning A Guy? by Feraz(m): 1:43pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Ify Angela: Alot of pained dudes on this threadYou go all through the way being altruistic only for the girl to turn around and say she can't date you despite knowing you're interested in her? It is mostly this 'nice guy' acts that lead to guys being the mayor in the rubbish called 'friendzone'. I don't have a problem having female friends and can profer solutions to your problems but once interest sets in and you decide you can't date me but prefer me as 'friend', then why bother me with your tales of woes when it should be your boyfriend who should be listening to those? A guy doesn't care about you, beats you, does all sorts of demeaning things to you, only for you to run to that friend that you've 'friendzoned' to cry on his shoulders? This is the same guy who'd treat you like a queen and give you his all even skipping his time with his friends just to be with you. This same girl will be jealous when she sees you smiling with other ladies who she feels has interest in you. Who does that if not a selfish person? Most guys here aren't pained by the way! We've all moved past the pain and are wise now. niceeric:LMAO!!!! Epic!!! WackyJ1, I sight thou!!!  6 Likes |
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