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Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Nobody: 7:10pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
Lordabas:Those kind of men are simply players. But there needs to be a referee to control the 'player instinct'. |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by KingTom(m): 7:13pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
Sweetlemon:True! True! 2 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Sweetlemon(f): 7:14pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
banega: Oh, okay • 1 Like |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Sweetlemon(f): 7:18pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
CFCfan: Yeah. CFCfan how nau? |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Nobody: 7:24pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
Sweetlemon:Body dey kampe. I'm on vacation from work I now know your age |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Nobody: 7:26pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
Person no go hear word again!! See as guys de concur as if say dem go dash money 3 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Sweetlemon(f): 7:30pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
CFCfan: Lol. I will be 30 later this year. Wetin you wan take am do? 2 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Nobody: 7:37pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
Sweetlemon:Nothing. I just knew that I'm younger 1 Like |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Sweetlemon(f): 7:49pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
CFCfan: Lol. |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Nobody: 7:54pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
Sweetlemon:I like cougars |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
Like seriously the Op captured the interest of most men here in her write up but most of the claims are subjective. There are no basis to categorically rule out the fact that some men, 1)Are only married to those whom they have passionate love to. Not all men are married to any lady cos of family or societal pressures. Again for those who married not necessarily for love there are chances that they'll come to love their wives(each other) after marriage(sometimes this is generally dependent on the character of the woman and man). This is possible cos marriage brings you both more closer and you come to share so many intimacy(this with the exclusion of sex includes knowing the secret person of the heart, and being endeared by these as they come to the fore) 2)I know that our generation mostly have a uniform way of thinking and responding to issues like this and as such might easily give up or dislike a hard to get lady. But the good news is that there are some crop of men out there that appreciates a lady and even love them the more after they had gone out of their way to get them. For them it's an aphrodisiac of a sort while to others it is a sign of good parenting(it is debatable though). Yes some guys like that exist! 3) The rule in two above generally applies to the third submission by the Op 4) This is usually seen among devout Christians and real gentlemen or I'd rather say men with an unbending policy. They may be in love with a certain sister/lady but out of respect for God/for the lady to whom they're in love with and or for their humble self have refused to lay down with them until their wedding night. It's not because our society have turned good to look like evil and vice versa that will make one make such submission without giving recurs to the good guys out there. 5) Need I say more on this. There are different characters of men Op. I might agree that they may be in the lesser number but they prefer good low key girls to the perceived wild or outgoing ones. Its a different stoke for different peeps. Interesting read I must admit though. 14 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by traware(m): 7:58pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
X 1 Like |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Sweetlemon(f): 8:01pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
CFCfan: Pele. |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by farano(f): 8:02pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
KingTom:I am telling you |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Nobody: 8:03pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
Sweetlemon:Wetin happen? |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Sweetlemon(f): 8:06pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
IrishKez: Like seriously the Op captured the interest of most men here in her write up but most of the claims are subjective. You misunderstood me. 5 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Sweetlemon(f): 8:07pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
CFCfan: I don't do cubs and I'm taken. |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Nobody: 8:12pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
Sweetlemon:Maybe or maybe not All am saying is that those things your mum told you that you felt are out of date or not entirely to be taken at face value now worked for them then during their time and still are remotely applicable even now. The only thing that changed is the thinking and the reasoning ability of people in our time which are largely influenced by modernization, advent of technology, education etc 7 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Nobody: 8:21pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
Sweetlemon:Noted. But do you do puppies and kittens? 1 Like |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Sweetlemon(f): 8:28pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
CFCfan: |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Sweetlemon(f): 8:34pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
IrishKez: The summary of my sermon is this; whether you be Holy Mary, whether you be Mother Theresa, whether you be Kate Middleton, whether you be Patience Jonathan, whether you be Marilyn Monroe, the man that will love you will love you. The man that wants to marry you will marry you regardless. 9 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by KingTom(m): 8:36pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
miztola: Person no go hear word again!! See as guys de concur as if say dem go dash moneyShe speak our mind joor! Bitterlemon you don try ehn! I troway salute 2 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Nobody: 8:41pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
Lolz for the guys Heard ya sweetlemon babe Peace |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Nobody: 9:13pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
slap1: Whatever. I have choice... I'm not a dog.Wu sd u r a dog |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by PedroJP(m): 10:13pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
Sweetlemon: Billboards on the streets should have this boldly written on'em. Oh !! Wat a plain truth 1 Like |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Adaeze003(f): 10:28pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
Ok... We haf hear... Buh we can't all go around making decisions based on what guys want... 3 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by LaurelP(m): 10:52pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
I don't believe that if a man doesn't make sexual advances at a lady, something is wrong with him 4 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Sweetlemon(f): 10:58pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
LaurelP: I don't believe that if a man doesn't make sexual advances at a lady, something is wrong with him Mind you, not just any lady. I mean a lady he has interest in. 5 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Nobody: 11:05pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
Sweetlemon:He has to have an erec'tion 2 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Sweetlemon(f): 11:16pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
CFCfan: Something like that. |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Lenzz(m): 11:44pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
zeb04: Very intresting read altho I doubt the write up covers the whole thinking system of every guy. Trust me sweetlemon just dished very classified notes up there. It pretty much covers the whole thinking system of every guy. Take it from me; This is as real as it gets. I was just nodding my head d entire time. Infact I doubt her gender status as she clearly knows d inner workings of a man's mind more than most men. But credits where its due; I think it comes down to her maturity and experience. I'm seeing someone who means the world to me. But somehow this piece has summarily profiled her person. She's a conservative by every sense of that word. She's 25, a virgin (never dated onee my whole damn life), a christian to a fault (more like a church person cos she's in almost all units in church!), laid back, uninformed nd boring in terms of her romantic prowess each time we 'manage' to make out (mostly kissing nd smooching ). Its been her rules all the way this whole 14months. Considering my history, that's a huge compromise. Being a virgin, it automatically follows that there won't be any couchie for ds homie till you know when. She thinks she's got me figured nd all but has no idea where av been, the women av had in my life, the things I'm capable of. I mean at her rate, 5yrs from now assuming we get married like I intend to, there's a good chance one of us will be asleep while we're (eventually) having the 'almighty' sex. What's more? There's a good chance it will be in missionary position! Nonetheless She's an insanely cute nice girl with a good heart nd I intend to follow thru with certain "well intentioned ideas" but all ds drama of reliving the life of Mother Theresa (who meanwhile died in 1630) for chastity sake is just stall nd unnecessary. What's yours will most definitely be yours. That's all 10 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by zeb04(f): 12:02am On Jul 08, 2014 |
@mr lenz I get you.although not so sure about the op's post but concering your gal,everyone was once a virgin even the most experience one were once virgins but they learnt and teaching is fun esp when it is out of love. Lol and how can you know what wil happen 5yrs time. I have this nasty thought that in five years time,you would be the one suffering from exhaustion because of too much kpecus. 1 Like |
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