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Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Nobody: 6:47am On Jul 20, 2014 |
OohMpa: Ooh Mpa loves this chick. She must be good in bed....Haahahahee....'myth about di:cks'. That was incredibly funny, so na girls start that rumour. *lol* some they pass 6 o! |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by ITbomb(m): 6:48am On Jul 20, 2014 |
Lenzz:As in 1 year and 2 moons? C'mon bro, kneel let me pray for you. Thank God you understand what you are going in to as you carefully outlined it. Missionary, boring, non passionate, crying sex. If she has other qualities to redeem herself as a wife then good, you will have to do extra work as a patient teacher and hoping she would be a willing student. I would rather go for a passionate wifely non virgin than a boring virgin 2 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Nobody: 6:52am On Jul 20, 2014 |
OP u spot on; n a very true writ up; I must saay... I observed almost all my friends; their wives gets to change totally 2yrs after marriage; I dnt know why! |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by josh830: 6:56am On Jul 20, 2014 |
Men alwaays want some one daT respect and undersand their thought and feelings |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by jnrbayano(m): 6:58am On Jul 20, 2014 |
onoja12: one very quick question,why do you women think you are an authority on how men think,you guys seem to know it all. God bless you and every of your kindred 2 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by femi4: 6:58am On Jul 20, 2014 |
The Op is a confuse fellow, contradition here and there |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by AdelokikiMr(m): 6:59am On Jul 20, 2014 |
Number 2 and 3 is the best for me, I never liked virgin cause dey are learners for me and who get tym to dey teach student wen m busy wanting to see moves...I love my wife cause she's a graduate wen we got married... 6 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by jnrbayano(m): 7:00am On Jul 20, 2014 |
femi4: The Op is a confuse fellow, contradition here and there Well said. Deep thinkers will agree with you |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by oluwaseunla(m): 7:01am On Jul 20, 2014 |
Hmmmm. Dey siddon dey watch. But wait o, why is the society desperately trying to discourage being celibate till marriage? Besides is there any good reason why a guy who claims to love a girl, will not be able to sacrifice his urges (for the sake of love o), till marriage? Anyways, we all have our different opinions, variety is the spice of life. But people should stop trying to make other people feel bad because they don't share your belief. @topic, good write up, although not entirely true for everybody. Good piece still. 4 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by lomaxx: 7:02am On Jul 20, 2014 |
Dominiquez: Sex is not a prove of love and its easier to sleep with someone you don't love than the person you love cos you don't care about what he/she thinks cos you just want to have fun. Not everyone cares less. |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by femi4: 7:10am On Jul 20, 2014 |
banega: Very educating piece Op, buh what in God's earth is toto ? ah think that word is inappropriate,. If you ask mee• • •What makes a word appropriate/Inappropriate? Its not even an English word, it was coined by only God knows |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by passionate88: 7:11am On Jul 20, 2014 |
Let them also know that not all guys (men) disprove of girls making the first move |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by sammieguze(m): 7:11am On Jul 20, 2014 |
Coming from a lady...... I can't agree more whalahi |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by barnaby04(m): 7:17am On Jul 20, 2014 |
One law of life, the good girls ends up with the bad guys while the bad guys ends up with the good girls! 1 Like |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by expert101(m): 7:19am On Jul 20, 2014 |
[size=18pt]Nigerian girls marry for money now not love! All those hype na Nollywood magic [/size] 1 Like |
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Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by barnaby04(m): 7:22am On Jul 20, 2014 |
One good thing everyone should note in marriage is that the bad and even the ladies u see as badoos around ends up with the best husbands that our holy and loving sisters would love to have while the baddest boys ends up with the good girls around. Its a fact and a myth that confounds everyone. Every single lady should try as much as possible to be a bit social and versed on issues and trends cos an average guy is a adventurous and looking around for who can give him the satisfaction he truely needs. A funny thing about guys is that a lot gets attracted to weird babes cos the BAD girls makes good wife in most instances, they have seen it all, they knows what it takes to date a married man, they knows what men seeks outside their matrimonial homes, from these, they have a better knowledge of how to take care of their men cos the fear of ANGELA next door is the beginning of Wisdom! 1 Like |
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Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by tuoyoojo(m): 7:31am On Jul 20, 2014 |
Permit me to add another myth to the OP's write up Keep your self as a virgin till ur wedding night becuz sex then is the sweetest For those of our sister wen don dey straff, pls recount. Ur 1st time experience and wud u say it was really pleasurable The truth is that here is no hard and fast rule about this virginity tin.just know what works for u |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Femsyn(m): 7:34am On Jul 20, 2014 |
From experience: Being a virgin is an awesome achievement for most ladies, so dey ALWAYS expect that fairy tale, perfect marriage, which if the husband cld provide, good! Virgins have tight vaginas, but note, soon after repeated sex (even after marriage), it will eventually turn out like every other vagina (if not worse, cos of lack of knowledge on vagina maintenance). They usually xpect too much, as dey feel with their virginity, dey've practically bought ur soul. However, dis is not to discourage ladies from chasing chastity, but a reminder that virginity is just a plus, that could even be ignored by a spouse who doesn't know its "worth". 1 Like |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Zhahovic(m): 7:41am On Jul 20, 2014 |
şo şo çool..!...yoųŗ şђoųld gęţ āŋ āwāŗd ƒoŗ ţђįş..! |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by musulumi(m): 7:43am On Jul 20, 2014 |
No wonder all my 17 girlfriends are giving me this thing always........OP e be like say u get point oooo! |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by vanstanzy(m): 7:44am On Jul 20, 2014 |
Sweetlemon: We hear them all the time. These are things our big sisters, aunts, and mothers drum into our heads while growing up. Now all grown up, spiritual mentors keep warning us about them in our fellowships, church/mosque services, etc. But all my almost 30 years on earth has shown me a lot of realities. Very well said! For me it has always been like this, any girl that plays hard to get is only wasting my precious time and hers; i just jilt her and move on. Thats why God just sent me a girl that wont play hard to get to be my wife. |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Femsyn(m): 7:44am On Jul 20, 2014 |
From experience: The deflowered before marriage tends to know all d strategies, diplomacies, cunny and mischievous ways of satisfying their husbands and trust me, u need all these skills in marriage (especially when dealing with in-laws) to survive. The husbands usually know their schemes, but its usually presented in a way he just can't refuse. They are strategists, unlike the virgins (inexperienced). For me, I think they are better lovers to the non-conservatives, and i realise the longer a lady stays without sex, the tighter the vagina is likely to be (virginity theory). |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by huptin(m): 7:47am On Jul 20, 2014 |
marriage is over rated, trust me I am married. 4 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Zhahovic(m): 7:48am On Jul 20, 2014 |
vanstanzy:.. yoų āŗę my ţwįŋ wįţђ ţђįş şţāţęmęŋţ..!!!! |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by drsteroid(m): 7:49am On Jul 20, 2014 |
Wao! Wot a gud post...I was discussing something like this with a colleague of mine who happens 2 be a deeper life member yesday,who said he must marry a virgin and there wil be no sex b4 marriage.I was telling him if after marrying the girl and he discovers the girl pp is like a well,after all the 'I am a virgin' 4rm the girl,so wot wil he do? Marraiage is really not about virgin,its about knowing wot marriage really entails...a woman who was never social b4 marriage wil later bcom social after marriage n this may start making the man 2 lose interest in d marriage...all we nid is God's guidance |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by henryobinna(m): 7:56am On Jul 20, 2014 |
Sweetlemon: We hear them all the time. These are things our big sisters, aunts, and mothers drum into our heads while growing up. Now all grown up, spiritual mentors keep warning us about them in our fellowships, church/mosque services, etc. But all my almost 30 years on earth has shown me a lot of realities.eerm... sisi lecturer are you married? 1 Like |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by uzolexis(f): 8:00am On Jul 20, 2014 |
huptin: marriage is over rated, trust me I am married. Overrated how Pls can you expantiate? |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by sweetguy10(m): 8:03am On Jul 20, 2014 |
Contradicting posts Hopefully the Virgins reading this thread be they guest or members won't go on a phorking spree henceforth . More so ; most bitchy ladies are familiar with that word "what will be will be , don't judge my past bla bla " You can't because of the 'who will marry you will marry you' syndrome turn yourself into a slut , or turn into a Britney Spears or rather Lindsay Lohan . 1 Like |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by UrbanMystique: 8:04am On Jul 20, 2014 |
Gaddem it... How can I love this post twice or more? Op this post is a work of a genius after thoroughly studying humans and relationships. Well done. 2 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by uzolexis(f): 8:06am On Jul 20, 2014 |
Me I just think the best thing for everyone to do is be yourself so that whoever meets you will know what he/she is in for and if the person decides to love you it'll be cause of who you are. If you are a churchy person,fine don't stop 2 please anybody,if you are not,dont pretend to be one. If you believe in sex before marriage fine,if you don't fine...different strokes for different folks,there are different kinds of men and also different kinds of women,you would definetly find someone that'll love you for you. 4 Likes |
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