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Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Fellywood(m): 11:29am On Jul 20, 2014 |
Sweetlemon: We hear them all the time. These are things our big sisters, aunts, and mothers drum into our heads while growing up. Now all grown up, spiritual mentors keep warning us about them in our fellowships, church/mosque services, etc. But all my almost 30 years on earth has shown me a lot of realities.TRASH 3 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by niceeric(m): 11:29am On Jul 20, 2014 |
Sweetlemon:NAH!!!......not something like dat but EXACTLY that!..... After reading the post,all dat came to my mind is 'sweetlemon, you get mouth'!!! |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Nobody: 11:31am On Jul 20, 2014 |
The most sensible post I have seen on nairaland in a long while. Sweetlemon, your husband must be a bad guy To all the ladies bending their bodies and twisting their faces like imbeciles to take selfies; Wisdom is profitable to direct. Bye bye o 1 Like |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by mkoabiola: 11:43am On Jul 20, 2014 |
Na lie b ds.some ar nt true |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Fellywood(m): 11:49am On Jul 20, 2014 |
Sweetlemon: We hear them all the time. These are things our big sisters, aunts, and mothers drum into our heads while growing up. Now all grown up, spiritual mentors keep warning us about them in our fellowships, church/mosque services, etc. But all my almost 30 years on earth has shown me a lot of realities. Does your more than 30 years & unmarried bother you? Your walk/experience brought you this far & you want to sell this evil to gullible innocent ones? Every marriage has some challenge, but you will NEVER know the joy of marriage until you walk the path of purity in courtship. For any who choose the word of God over any other, continue to hold on, He will prove you right at the end. 7 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by bisi16(m): 12:06pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
What shall it profit a woman to hold d toto for years and loose d man when he finally hits it. Moral of d lesson, man wey go stay go stay... Shikena! |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by fckmn24seg(m): 12:24pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
slap1: That number four is very common. For me, I won't have sex with you unless I feel something for you. Lie, no be man? Are u telling me u have feelings for those sarewa babes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Nobody: 12:29pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
If a man loves you really, he wont mind waiting till you get married, Only if you are a virgin . if you aint, his mind is gonna start wandering, does this girl think imma fool, is she getting it from somewhere.... So if you are a virgin, keep it, he will reason with you, if he cant, then he really doesnt love you enough, if you are not a virgin, give up the pumpum ASAP, you got no bargaining chips much (sadly), But be respectable, don be a slave to his desires, give it up when you want to, So if peradventure you breakup, you still have his respect. 2 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Dynamo1(m): 12:53pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Nice write up, should come in handy for the singles. Let love flow naturally, do not coerce it like most females do. Ensure he loves you as much as you do. Threaten to leave him and see if he would come on his knees begging. Pay attention to little details that matter and not just the effizy. Don't only love his money, status and paparazzi, love his ordinary personality more. Don't marry for spiritual reasons only, be quite selfish and go for what your physical body wants as well. Well, May the Almighty guide us all. |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by whytepawn1(m): 12:55pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Well and truly said. this is as practical as it can be. but my ladies.. a little advice, tread with caution .that said.. relationships and what they lead to can only be decided by fate. personally I dont look down on ladies even after being intimate.. in a nutshell have a practical view about sex in relationships. the op have said it all but while you are at it, take your brains along. |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Nobody: 1:05pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
funny you.... I abstain because Christ tel sme too, not because of sme mythology......you keep yourself til marriage, not because you want a Gud husband BT because u want to..... dz post z just a way of making non virgins feel Gud.. ...... dia population z mor so expect mor likes for d pros........ sex z 1 of d easiest tin you can get out dia (for free sef), BT U can Neva gt ur virginity back..... mk ur own choice n don't let sme article or myth mk it for u.... 5 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Flygeriansteve: 1:16pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Vivalavida99: Sweetmelon, you ain't far from the truth. The thirstiness of today's men/guys is beyond believe. And like you rightly said, you can be Kardashian, you can be mother Theresa, you can Brittney, but what will be will surely be. Dig that?Well you cannot for example, be looking delicious like that and expect me for example to see you and not be thirsty or hungry sef |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by EmmyDe25(m): 1:17pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Amazing piece! Sharing with my female friends..... especially the one who tells me sex should be prepared for instead of being spontaneous. |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Forwetinnah: 1:48pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
No3...smh |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by cooljude(m): 1:56pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
LaurelP: I don't believe that if a man doesn't make sexual advances at a lady, something is wrong with himBelieve me, when a guy is really interested in you for a serious relationship he definitely would make those advances, except he is not bold enough. |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by kibo: 2:05pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Sweetlemon: I diasgree totally with the above..Explain to me how you came up with such thesis?? A man must not make advances at you b4 marriage, neither is it a yardstick to measure love. Sex is not always priority for everyone and YES, it is not abnormal. 2 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Nobody: 2:09pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
stupid thread. stupid thread. |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by vikstandon(m): 2:19pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Dbestmax: Omoh c post....all ma ladies...All I want is your............. Your own corrupt mind is greater... Your mind judges you |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by vikstandon(m): 2:33pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Dynamo1: Nice write up, should come in handy for the singles. Let love flow naturally, do not coerce it like most females do. Ensure he loves you as much as you do. Threaten to leave him and see if he would come on his knees begging. Pay attention to little details that matter and not just the effizy. Don't only love his money, status and paparazzi, love his ordinary personality more. Don't marry for spiritual reasons only, be quite selfish and go for what your physical body wants as well. NEVER threaten him(her) or tempt him(her)... some have made mistakes and broken engagements. Pray for ur partner and trust him... Love need be pampered for it to grow... is not auto... Ur height now wasn't automatic 1 Like |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Nobody: 3:10pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Nice, |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Nobody: 3:14pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
I remember my school days, a lot of hypocrites will condemn sex and then hide to indulge. For me I'd love to meet a real lady, as real as I am. Somebody who would have no wahala farting in my presence, that's how real I need it to be. Still searching seriously for another Sisi. |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by linearity: 3:20pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
banega: Very educating piece Op, buh what in God's earth is toto ? ah think that word is inappropriate,. If you ask mee• • •Depends on your perspective...toto is the name of a company and this their website.. http://www.toto.co.jp/en/ ...but seriously, it's part of the human anatomy, what is inappropriate with that? Stop looking at it with a depraved mind, it's simply one of the hundreds body parts God gave humanity. Come to think of it, had Adam and Eve not eaten that fruit, we will be all running around today wearing our birthday suits and we will not bet an eye. Since the purpose of heaven is to restore man to how God originally intended after creation, when he declared that we are perfect just like we are, something tells me in heaven, we will get our birthday suits back. 2 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by linearity: 3:29pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
kibo:If men function chemistry, the way God created them, they will react in the presence of a lady they are attracted to, even born again ones....the difference is the ability to control self. As humans, even spirit filled ones, they could slip and the lady will notice the pressure, but many guys can keep it under control. If as a lady, you don't catch your guy with whom you have not done the deed with fighting to keep himself under control once or twice, he must be a eunuch or something is wrong in the chemistry department. 2 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Nobody: 3:54pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
jpphilips: You only said 1 tin, you asserted dat I was a teenager while yuu are an elder (which shows u re way less mature than you claim).... Since u don't even know me Only kids log into a public forum and call people with divergent opinions children... I don't care how old u re but you are an adult kid... All you wrote up there are total crap which justifies my calling u a kid, u clearly are not smart enough to engage me in a discourse... Who is kim kardashian, who is jlo... They are celebrities, American celebrities.... Americans and Nigerians are not the same... Americans are too individualistic, even porn stars get married... How many of our popular actresses are still single... Use ur tongue to count ur teeth... Besides u don't live lyk a hoe when you are not angelina jolie and expect a reasonable man to marry you... How many of your brothers are married to prostitutes, would you allow ur child marry a stripper... Is ur wife a stripper Any Nigerian kim kardarshian would remain single.... Try it, tell one of your sisters to make a sex tape and see if she won't be single for the rest of her life... Like I said earlier, people go to the villages to marry because they assume those in the village are less loose, which justifies my position dat Nigerians do not intentionally marry loose women.. Most of the time... Finally, GROW UP, if you have something to say, say it.. Don't go about calling people kids... Not everyone is your age or sense mate... Be wise |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by seunwen2(m): 4:00pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Ops abegi i need summary |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Keypha(m): 4:06pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
I have two girls, and I was thinking and calculating the one I will choose, they are very beautiful, then I ask the first one sex, she said till we wed, then the 2rd give it to me and satisfied me wella and she is the one I married last month, am proud of her. |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Bright4(m): 4:25pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
huuuuhn...pls tell them oo. very educative tho |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Nobody: 4:41pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
@ OP Sex! Sex! Sex! You have a poor idea of marriage. It is not about sex, title, etc but about family and happiness. Stop educating Nigerian women with the wrong idea. 2 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by Yemlizzy(f): 5:13pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Lemme comment my reserve as i agree with very little of what i see here. Its a thing of choice anyway,different strokes for different folks. Its simply a personal thing. 1 Like |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by kibo: 5:59pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
linearity: This is not an explanation for my question, your definition of "react" in this scenario was not what OP was describing, and even your explanation is not convincing enough. So if you dont catch your guy fighting temptations, he is not normal This is rather a harsh way to view things. It is very possible to restrict yourselves from making advances. Its a different thing if you express your love through words, hugging, shaking or any other normal gesture, but making advances, NO. It is never a yardstick to measure a guy. It is very possible and normal if you hold strong principles on that. BTW, this was what OP said, Sweetlemon: Refer to the bolded above to buttress my point. I REPEAT, YOU DONT HAVE TO MAKE SUCH ADVANCES TO BE CONSIDERED NORMAL !!! 2 Likes |
Re: Myths About Men, Sex, And Marriage by slap1(m): 6:31pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
fckmn24seg:That's for you to worry about... all men are not the same. |
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