Matthewbriggs:

MizMyColi what's up. I was just passing by .

@Op Lynpetra made a very valid points... Do not let desperation get the best part of you.

In my opinion I am not really a big fan of finding love on the internet, I have my reasons, that is not to say I haven't met awesome people via this medium.

Focus on the real world ... Be more open, friendly and meet new people. Hang out in places and scenerios where men that fit your list are in quntum eg take up Volunteering opportunities, attend networking events and mixers, attend weddings, parties be active in your local church etc.

The greatest method of finding Mr right is making yourself Mrs right. Because Quality knows quality ...Ensure you have the attributes a Mr Right is looking for. Trust me you would have men all over you... All you would have do is sift select and choose


#MathewBriggs

Spot on as always.

softsparkyy:
Ooooh babe you need to see me looking sweet sixteen .Firm boobs,tight ass,working on my tummy.
Its good to take care of yourself, eat healthy and keep fit.

Kinkybraids:

lol no its fine...I can see that you really made a mistake. All the best to you too in finding hapiness

Kinkybraids: Good Day

Im 25 years old and am currently doing a postgraduate degree in Accounting. I am the oldest female in from my father's first wife. My parents are old school.

In the past my parents have never really told me when they expect me to be married but now they are asking me when am I bringing someone home . I explained to them that im still focusing on my studies and university isnt the best place to meet a husband. They told me no one will want me when im old.

I have dated in the past but none of the relationships were serious...and ill be honest Im not sure if I intended them to lead to marriege. I just didnt think about marriege at that time.

My question is how do I attract a serious man? My demands are not hard to please...but my brother says Im too picky. I want the following from a man:

1. He must be educated

2. He must have the potential to earn enough money to take care of me and our family even though Ill be capable of contributing

3. He mustn't be too traditional... Id like him to respect my fathers wishes and still be morden

4. Id like him to be handsome but not extremely handsom that he is a player

5. Id also like him to be open minded about sex...ie He shouldnt expect a virgin and he should be experienced enough

6. Lasty Id like him to have intergrity and be faithful

Is this too much to ask? And where do i find him
PS: I am attractive enough (but I am not a supermodel) lol... Im not slim or fat but based on my prior suitors I believe I have what most African men want (use your imagenation because am not providing pictures )

kingphilip:
So guys don't need to chat constantly on weekends too?

Tymax: My kinda woman...wait...
Pics or ... You know na

ERTHAENIGMA:
typical woman. Always wanting to have their cake and eat it. Men like that don't exsist. And women like you don't deserve men like that

Urine:

The way you're going about this issue is sooooo wrong! Do you want to get married because your parents are putting pressure on you or you're ready for marriage? Trust me, if you're a good woman very soon a good man will notice you and everything will work out well. Your "earn more than R50, 000" demand is also funny. What will you do if he looses his job after you get married or he takes a pay cut? That's a recipe for disaster. You will meet your man, unfortunately when that happens he might be the direct opposite of what you want, it will take a great deal of wisdom to see the end from the beginning.

Please this is not an attempt at telling you to lower your standard, I'm just saying things like this happen naturally. DONT FORCE IT!

Urine:

The way you're going about this issue is sooooo wrong! Do you want to get married because your parents are putting pressure on you or you're ready for marriage? Trust me, if you're a good woman very soon a good man will notice you and everything will work out well. Your "earn more than R50, 000" demand is also funny. What will you do if he looses his job after you get married or he takes a pay cut? That's a recipe for disaster. You will meet your man, unfortunately when that happens he might be the direct opposite of what you want, it will take a great deal of wisdom to see the end from the beginning.

Please this is not an attempt at telling you to lower your standard, I'm just saying things like this happen naturally. DONT FORCE IT!

^^This is U_rine in whom I am well pleased. Listen to Him

wey dat my AfricanApple sef? Come tok ur own na

youngalex: @Op u have to make your parents realize that there is no rush in life,many guys that meet your criteria abound here and mind you most guys in naija are hardworking just that oppurtunity hasnt come their way finally i advise you be confident and prayerful

sexylogan:

I've been wanting to ask you this...What on earth does your moniker mean?

Hey Sexylogan [your moniker got me singing - In My Mind] errmm.....I've got a don't ask, don't tell policy. It's my trade secret.

lynpetra:

Biko,can u please expatiate and kowachiate,the Mzmariah ish.I am all ears.

MizMyColi: [font=Georgia][size=11pt] Hey Sexylogan [your moniker got me singing - For My Mind] errmm.....I've got a don't ask, don't tell policy. It's my trade secret.

Henrypraise: If ur post is tru, lemme also highlight some of ur trait

1. U ar a very focus person

2. U ar very courageous U knw wat u want

3. U went to a gud sch n u ar "new sch"

4. U may be a gud cook (as d first child)

5. Competition is not new to u (polygamous home)

6. U may not be very beautiful (as ur assessment of ur sef cum from wat ur exes tink)

Howeva, u left sum details:
1. D age bracket of the guy u need (u don't really pay attention to details).

2. U av so much responsibilities hanging on ur shoulders

3. Ur location n how u will be contacted.

@ a whole, I am interested if u ar 4 real.

Kinkybraids:

I dont feel like I asked for the impossible so I stringly believe he does exist. I wouldnt want those qualities if I didnt think I deserved them

dytbabe:

Am ever fine, always arnd u know *winks*

All monikerrs dey intact

shoefreak: u too like ofofo



Mzmariah # do the needful. I'm waiting.

Oxone:

Lol OK that's good to hear

Em..... No I don't know, give me gist Jor

Hernyolar:


YOU On a thread like this again

After all you did at Ibadan? Madam Catholic thread on Nairaland my foot!

Kinkybraids:

I dont feel like I asked for the impossible so I stringly believe he does exist. I wouldnt want those qualities if I didnt think I deserved them

okparaugo:

Which opportunity are you talking about ?

How can one continue doing same thing for 5 years and fate will never smile on him ? Mental laziness is the problem with our young men. I see a lot of lazy people who want to reap without sowing.. You guys don't know that ladies pursue success. As men pursue money, ladies pursue. Some guys think that if a lady sees him sweating, his class has gone down in her ratings... nah those kind useless mentality young men brekete these days..

And for hustling successful guys, we have them, those who aren't ashamed doing what gives them legitimate money...

ERTHAENIGMA:
i'll be expecting your thread in 10yrs time. With the topic. 'any man interested with a 38yr old woman in a serious relationship'

lynpetra:
Shoir!!!!
I am not married o. :DWhy do people think I am married

E be like say this ''my wife" wey people dey call me don dey pass gauge

sexylogan:

Another NL girl told me what my moniker made her think of...
You won't tell...you're sure? It could be our little secret

I'm sorry Logan, but its a

Henrypraise:

Tot u are married, tot I saw a tread opened as regards it sumtym ago...

Anyway, My apology.

MizMyColi: I'm sorry Logan, but its a

MizMyColi: Where?

AfricanApple: are u looking for handsome? beauty fades away, are u looking for faithful? dat one i yinmu o. cos even though there are faithful men out there u cant tell by their face or by their words.
u didnt even menion anytin pertaining love, na wa o

btw ur post seems like u are desperate and advertising, fine boys full nl sha o

25 is not old na, why d rush. even if its ur parent dats pushing u, u shouldnt allow it or can u let dem push u into fire?

mizmycoli, ayaf talk o. i pray op gets to make a good decision for herself

kingphilip:
Where u should keep us abreast with u n ur crush

But e no consign you na

lynpetra:


While your own might read,"My wife left me because I can no longer satisfy her"

Naetochukwu:
Hmm I doubt if you will meet a guy with this particular quality in Naija, our men are becoming very lazy and. They only seek sugar mummy's or working single ladies that they can depend on for the rest of their lives.