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Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by Nobody: 6:53am On Jul 12, 2014
Good Day

Im 25 years old and am currently doing a postgraduate degree in Accounting. I am the oldest female in from my father's first wife. My parents are old school.

In the past my parents have never really told me when they expect me to be married but now they are asking me when am I bringing someone home shocked . I explained to them that im still focusing on my studies and university isnt the best place to meet a husband. They told me no one will want me when im old.

I have dated in the past but none of the relationships were serious...and ill be honest Im not sure if I intended them to lead to marriege. I just didnt think about marriege at that time.

My question is how do I attract a serious man? My demands are not hard to please...but my brother says Im too picky. I want the following from a man:

1. He must be educated

2. He must have the potential to earn enough money to take care of me and our family even though Ill be capable of contributing

3. He mustn't be too traditional... Id like him to respect my fathers wishes and still be morden

4. Id like him to be handsome but not extremely handsom that he is a player

5. Id also like him to be open minded about sex...ie He shouldnt expect a virgin and he should be experienced enough

6. Lasty Id like him to have intergrity and be faithful

Is this too much to ask? And where do i find him sad
PS: I am attractive enough (but I am not a supermodel) lol... Im not slim or fat but based on my prior suitors I believe I have what most African men want (use your imagenation because am not providing pictures cheesy )

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Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by agabaI23(m): 6:57am On Jul 12, 2014
Watching closely
Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by Nobody: 7:00am On Jul 12, 2014
Kinkybraids: Good Day


2. He must have the potential to earn enough money to take care of me and our family even though Ill be capable of contributing

Hmm I doubt if you will meet a guy with this particular quality in Naija, our men are becoming very lazy and They only seek sugar mummy's or working single ladies that they can depend on for the rest of their lives.

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Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by ifex370(m): 7:00am On Jul 12, 2014
passing by
Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by HooxJnr(m): 7:07am On Jul 12, 2014
Don't look further again, be patient; Jesus is coming soon. He got all the qualities and even more that you are looking for.

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Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by farano(f): 7:16am On Jul 12, 2014
smh
Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by sammoe(m): 7:21am On Jul 12, 2014
You want a husband?

Are you a wife?

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Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by Nobody: 7:23am On Jul 12, 2014
farano: smh
Hey smiley
Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by Henrypraise: 7:27am On Jul 12, 2014
If ur post is tru, lemme also highlight some of ur trait

1. U ar a very focus person

2. U ar very courageous U knw wat u want

3. U went to a gud sch n u ar "new sch"

4. U may be a gud cook (as d first child)

5. Competition is not new to u (polygamous home)

6. U may not be very beautiful (as ur assessment of ur sef cum from wat ur exes tink)

Howeva, u left sum details:
1. D age bracket of the guy u need (u don't really pay attention to details).

2. U av so much responsibilities hanging on ur shoulders

3. Ur location n how u will be contacted.

@ a whole, I am interested if u ar 4 real.

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Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by barackodam: 7:29am On Jul 12, 2014
sammoe: You want a husband?

Are you a wife?



Needed to be asked

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Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by Tymax(m): 7:29am On Jul 12, 2014
Something tells me she's not fine angry Well, if I'm wrong, Me too dey find wife. I get all those qualities plus jara. But you must fine o.tongue Kinkybraids you hear? grin

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Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by Prowizy2(m): 7:31am On Jul 12, 2014
A 25yr old can't be desperate for marriage like this. . Just tell us the truth.

We know you people are experts in hiding your age.

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Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by barackodam: 7:31am On Jul 12, 2014
Henrypraise: @ a whole am interested if u ar 4 real.



Now u are talking!!! wink
Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by kibo: 7:32am On Jul 12, 2014
The typical dreamer... The question is are you prepared for marriage, the sacrifice and responsibility that comes with it ?

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Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by Tallesty1(m): 7:33am On Jul 12, 2014
Naetochukwu:
Hmm I doubt if you will meet a guy with this particular quality in Naija, our men are becoming very lazy and. They only seek sugar mummy's or working single ladies that they can depend on for the rest of their lives.
HELLOOOOOOOOOO, Is that the type of brothers you have?. You won't get far in life with this your mentality.



@Op, are you ready for marriage or do you wana marry because your ppl want you to marry? Marriage is not something you can jump in/jump out any time you want so you must be ready for it before going into. A part of me believes that the responsibilities on your shoulder Is the reason you wana get married now.

For every girl there is a man but thing is, some have dumped theirs unknowingly, I just hope you haven't dated and dumped yours.

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Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by Davgwen(f): 7:33am On Jul 12, 2014
Naetochukwu:
Hmm I doubt if you will meet a guy with this particular quality in Naija, our men are becoming very lazy and. They only seek sugar mummy's or working single ladies that they can depend on for the rest of their lives.

babe,which one is our men are becoming lazy.dnt say such bcus it isn't true. The way my junior broda is hustlin on d street ehh,you will think he want to feed d nation.



Shout out to all dem hustlin guys.

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Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by suolboy(m): 7:40am On Jul 12, 2014
U are not too choosy I must say.
But if u are serious, u need to include ur state or region, tribe and ur faith and the faith of the husband u want cos it matters.

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Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by ayogabriel: 7:42am On Jul 12, 2014
Naetochukwu:
Hmm I doubt if you will meet a guy with this particular quality in Naija, our men are becoming very lazy and. They only seek sugar mummy's or working single ladies that they can depend on for the rest of their lives.
. Taaa!!!! Who is this one? Most guys around me are interested in making cool, le git money, fine people are getting lazy, but trust me, there are still many hard working guys out there. @OP Na you ooo. Best of luck though. All bad guyz, where una dey?

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Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by ayogabriel: 7:45am On Jul 12, 2014
Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by Nobody: 7:51am On Jul 12, 2014
Davgwen:

babe,which one is our men are becoming lazy.dnt say such bcus it isn't true. The way my junior broda is hustlin on d street ehh,you will think he want to feed d nation.



Shout out to all dem hustlin guys.
May be we should exclude your bro but 93 percent of our boys/men are becoming Lazy.
NL is an example of a place where you can find them en masse.
To all the ladies out there, pls dnt reply mails sent to u by any NL, they will send pm when they notice you are a. Working class babe and before u know it, they Start Telling u bout love.
They are mostly broke dudes without ambition.
Check their profiles and you will realise that some of them have spent months on NL even a year of their live chatting away without any thing to show for it.

Truth hurts, nobody should quote me, if you do then you are one of them.

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Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by santakris(m): 7:51am On Jul 12, 2014
I guess this girl is for real. Pls be close to God and be social as well . Don't expect so much from any guy. Look for someone you can build your future together. Don't have much to say but a simple prayer for you. God will do your husband at the prime time.

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Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by Nobody: 7:54am On Jul 12, 2014
Henrypraise: If ur post is tru, lemme also highlight some of ur trait

1. U ar a very focus person

2. U ar very courageous U knw wat u want

3. U went to a gud sch n u ar "new sch"

4. U may be a gud cook (as d first child)

5. Competition is not new to u (polygamous home)

6. U may not be very beautiful (as ur assessment of ur sef cum from wat ur exes tink)

Howeva, u left sum details:
1. D age bracket of the guy u need (u don't really pay attention to details).

2. U av so much responsibilities hanging on ur shoulders

3. Ur location n how u will be contacted.

@ a whole, I am interested if u ar 4 real.
One of them, beware of internet scammers

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Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by kelvin1191(m): 7:59am On Jul 12, 2014
Beauty doesnt matter to me afterall, with it, i can even travel with rest of mind. Secondly, ur age i doubt it. Ajso, ur responsibility is laarge and ur dad has taken u as investment. I wonder what his demand (bride price etc) will look like. Finally, u say he shouldn't be expecting a virgin: am ok with that but, hope say e neva slack finish like OBJz lips & for the experience, . . .no comment. What is ur definition of "rich"? i will pm u.

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Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by Nobody: 8:04am On Jul 12, 2014
Naetochukwu:
Hmm I doubt if you will meet a guy with this particular quality in Naija, our men are becoming very lazy and. They only seek sugar mummy's or working single ladies that they can depend on for the rest of their lives.

Im really trying to avoid those. What im trying to say is the guy doesnt have to be rich right now but can still be studying and will have a good job or successful business once he is done. All I want is a guy with ambition and drive along with his degree.
Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by MizMyColi(f): 8:05am On Jul 12, 2014
Naetochukwu:
Hmm I doubt if you will meet a guy with this particular quality in Naija, our men are becoming very lazy and. They only seek sugar mummy's or working single ladies that they can depend on for the rest of their lives.
Hey, Ms Naeto, Hold it there! My Father, my Brothers and my Man (whoever He is grin) and many Men I've come across do not fit your description. Anyways, How are you? grin

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Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by barackodam: 8:06am On Jul 12, 2014
Naetochukwu: truth hurts, nobody should quote me, if you do then you are one of them.



Gat me lafin
Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by Nobody: 8:10am On Jul 12, 2014
sammoe: You want a husband?

Are you a wife?

lol to be honest Yes, Id like to think so. My farther would not endorse me being married if I wasnt a potential wife. I havent disaponted him...so If i can make my father happy then I can make any many who shares the same values as me happy.
Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by Nobody: 8:11am On Jul 12, 2014
Naetochukwu:
Hmm I doubt if you will meet a guy with this particular quality in Naija, our men are becoming very lazy and. They only seek sugar mummy's or working single ladies that they can depend on for the rest of their lives.

I thought this way of thinking went with the stone age? Apparently not...some peeps are still stuck back there.

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Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by Nobody: 8:17am On Jul 12, 2014
MizMyColi: Hey, Ms Naeto, Hold it there! My Father, my Brothers and my Man (whoever He is grin) and many Men I've come across do not fit your description. Anyways, How are you? grin
grin am all right, you?
Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by Lordabas: 8:19am On Jul 12, 2014
Mods Frontpage pls. Lets help This younglady in her search for her mr right Asap
Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by barackodam: 8:19am On Jul 12, 2014
^^^^^^^

No oooooooo, FP for whr??.??
Na scammers go show pass

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Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by youngalex(m): 8:20am On Jul 12, 2014
@Op u have to make your parents realize that there is no rush in life,many guys that meet your criteria abound here and mind you most guys in naija are hardworking just that oppurtunity hasnt come their way finally i advise you be confident and prayerful

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