Kinkybraids: Ok, Thank you to all those who commented and advised me (good or bad) . I really wished people read the post properly before accusing me of many things but on the brighter side some comments were really funny and helpful . There are some things I will take away from this thread in preparation for being a good wife as many good points were highlighted but do not get me wrong I am not 'desperate' for a husband as so many of you suggested (without reading what my post asked of you) therefore please stop sending me Pms.

I Think the main lesson here is to work on being the best me and the rest will follow in time and within God's vision...but I really do like the idea of attending networking events and being more out there at places where I can meet people that are likely to meet my requirements.

Im not really sure how to close a thread but this is me officially 'closing' it but everyone is welcome to continue flirting and making jokes or giving advice or bashing me ect...Its called freedom of speech

pickabeau1:


Just send a mail to the mods that you want to close the thread

Kinkybraids:

lol I think you are mistaken... Yes we did talk over FB but the position is still open ... He failed the interview

Hernyolar:


YOU On a thread like this again

After all you did at Ibadan? Madam Catholic thread on Nairaland my foot!

Zicorrrads and all your NL followees are possibly of your ilk.


@OP: learn this if you would listen. As much as you can find gentlemen on NL, you wouldn't find them this way you've gone about it. Believe me.

You might notice that my scathing remarks above at that fellow I quoted sounds unlinked to this thread. That's true. It isn't. A similar thread here on Nairaland led to all manner of exposition of her character.

If necessary, all pictures and voice notes to back my assertions shall be released.

Forget the fact that you are in South Africa. They'll get you there and run you in the mud that you'll leave the Rainbow Nation when they are done with you.

Don't get me wrong: real men exist - even here on NL. But VAMPIRES abound - and one of them is the quoted. You see those smileys she put up there, it is to follow your thread and be regularly updated of it.

Trust me, she's female - but they've got evil and fiendish network. You might be sorry when it is all over.

For your search, like lynpetra rightly noted, even going as far as telling her exact age, I feel you should really relax.

If your parents, or dad's pressure pushed you to create this thread, then their pressure would sink your husband when you marry him - and that's the truth. Even if you don't marry someone you met via NL, your eventual husband wouldn't be proud of his would-be wife posting this online, and that's a honest fact.

Wishing you the very best!

rozzay: . Ok! So pips wit d nicknames of rozzay cannot prophesy abi? ok ill change it to my names nd surnames - ifechukwudeonweneonyegenwikeshishe. So do I qualify by ur naming standards to prophesy now? General underseer?

MizMyColi: Ehen, Kinky, truth is, we all face subtle pressures at least from our parents/guardians especially when we're ripe. I do not fault your original post and I sense your maturity.

However, I'd like you to establish this as a deep seated revelation - that you're everything that is good and lovely. That no man nor marriage is capable of defining you for you're an infinite limitless being.

Your identity emanates from Him who is good and who is perfect and because He is, You are. (Hope this doesn't sound gibberish )

Well, that said, I just wanna add that You Shall Not Want Your Mate. True, it can be frustrating attimes, the pressures and disappointments. But, I speak from experience - No One Puts Their Trust Wholly on God and is Ever Put To Shame.


P.S: I know my posts sounds christianese....but then its applicable to anyone who believes there is a God out and up there.

Islie: mizmycoli.....
I dey see u

how paroles nah.........
Happy sunday

Happy Sunday

agabaI23: There she goes again. Hmmm! Deep response!

Happy Sunday Thanks.

Hernyolar:


YOU On a thread like this again

After all you did at Ibadan? Madam Catholic thread on Nairaland my foot!

Zicorrrads and all your NL followees are possibly of your ilk.


@OP: learn this if you would listen. As much as you can find gentlemen on NL, you wouldn't find them this way you've gone about it. Believe me.

You might notice that my scathing remarks above at that fellow I quoted sounds unlinked to this thread. That's true. It isn't. A similar thread here on Nairaland led to all manner of exposition of her character.

If necessary, all pictures and voice notes to back my assertions shall be released.

Forget the fact that you are in South Africa. They'll get you there and run you in the mud that you'll leave the Rainbow Nation when they are done with you.

Don't get me wrong: real men exist - even here on NL. But VAMPIRES abound - and one of them is the quoted. You see those smileys she put up there, it is to follow your thread and be regularly updated of it.

Trust me, she's female - but they've got evil and fiendish network. You might be sorry when it is all over.

For your search, like lynpetra rightly noted, even going as far as telling her exact age, I feel you should really relax.

If your parents, or dad's pressure pushed you to create this thread, then their pressure would sink your husband when you marry him - and that's the truth. Even if you don't marry someone you met via NL, your eventual husband wouldn't be proud of his would-be wife posting this online, and that's a honest fact.

Wishing you the very best!

MizMyColi: Happy Sunday Thanks.

agabaI23: Happy Sunday to you.
Hope you had a good one?

Sure, Thanks

MizMyColi: Happy Sunday

MizMyColi: Sure, Thanks

agabaI23: Can I ask a question?

Okay Please Shoot

MizMyColi: Okay Please Shoot

Naetochukwu:
Hmm I doubt if you will meet a guy with this particular quality in Naija, our men are becoming very lazy and. They only seek sugar mummy's or working single ladies that they can depend on for the rest of their lives.

MizMyColi: Ehen, Kinky, truth is, we all face subtle pressures at least from our parents/guardians especially when we're ripe. I do not fault your original post and I sense your maturity.

However, I'd like you to establish this as a deep seated revelation - that you're everything that is good and lovely. That no man nor marriage is capable of defining you for you're an infinite limitless being.

Your identity emanates from Him who is good and who is perfect and because He is, You are. (Hope this doesn't sound gibberish )

Well, that said, I just wanna add that You Shall Not Want Your Mate. True, it can be frustrating attimes, the pressures and disappointments. But, I speak from experience - No One Puts Their Trust Wholly on God and is Ever Put To Shame.


P.S: I know my posts sounds christianese....but then its applicable to anyone who believes there is a God out and up there.

Kinkybraids: Ok, Thank you to all those who commented and advised me (good or bad) . I really wished people read the post properly before accusing me of many things but on the brighter side some comments were really funny and helpful . There are some things I will take away from this thread in preparation for being a good wife as many good points were highlighted but do not get me wrong I am not 'desperate' for a husband as so many of you suggested (without reading what my post asked of you) therefore please stop sending me Pms.

I Think the main lesson here is to work on being the best me and the rest will follow in time and within God's vision...but I really do like the idea of attending networking events and being more out there at places where I can meet people that are likely to meet my requirements.

Im not really sure how to close a thread but this is me officially 'closing' it but everyone is welcome to continue flirting and making jokes or giving advice or bashing me ect...Its called freedom of speech

agabaI23: What's your discipline?

Advertising and PR - I major in relationship/account management

Samakinr:
....i never knew you are a Christian. Whao, you gat nice posts there. It inspired me

MizMyColi:


Advertising and PR - I major in relationship/account management

agabaI23: I will hire you to manage my account. Good morning!

Thank You!

MizMyColi: Thank You!

xtervaganza: na your name be this or your keyboard get fault?



BTW I de undersee your skirt

Lenzz: I find this OP's obsession with hardwork nd ultimately its direct reward of elite status both charming nd sexy. But I'm also disturbed that such a presumed scholar would be this insecure about the future. You smartly tried to explain these insecurities away by disguising them as pressures nd putting them on d society and family. But even those too are also bollocks. We're all under pressure - make no mistake about that..

Also you're R50k demand from prospective suitors is not unattainable but its also not entirely smart placing it ahead of your goal. Makes the whole thing look like some bilateral contract negotiation.

The truth is you crave an elite lifestyle with your future spouse because you feel you've worked hard to get to where you are and consequently can't accept anything less. That is fair enough. But you should atleast be honest enough to admit that.

Also you've made it clear you're no Mary mother of God. That's bold nd commendable. It also places you in proper perspective as a liberal. If I had my way I personally would not wish to marry one sef. Now as a liberal you should be flexible too in your expectations from from life generally cos with age, I have come to learn that life is not really divided in black and white but in shades of grays and white.

Anyway if one where to put a lock on those coordinates in d profile you reeled out up there, a couple of smart friends (all under 29) returns as search results. But these are boys who will not trade Lagos for ANY place in d world.

So Miss kinkybraids, the question here is why SA? What's in SA? Where you born there? Are you even Nigerian?

Ohh damn. OP's don sign out already