kelvin1191: Beauty doesnt matter to me afterall, with it, i can even travel with rest of mind. Secondly, ur age i doubt it. Ajso, ur responsibility is laarge and ur dad has taken u as investment. I wonder what his demand (bride price etc) will look like. Finally, u say he shouldn't be expecting a virgin: am ok with that but, hope say e neva slack finish like OBJz lips & for the experience, . . .no comment. What is ur definition of "rich"? i will pm u.

Kinkybraids: Good Day

Im 25 years old and am currently doing a postgraduate degree in Accounting. I am the oldest female in from my father's first wife. My parents are old school.

In the past my parents have never really told me when they expect me to be married but now they are asking me when am I bringing someone home . I explained to them that im still focusing on my studies and university isnt the best place to meet a husband. They told me no one will want me when im old.

I have dated in the past but none of the relationships were serious...and ill be honest Im not sure if I intended them to lead to marriege. I just didnt think about marriege at that time.

My question is how do I attract a serious man? My demands are not hard to please...but my brother says Im too picky. I want the following from a man:

1. He must be educated

2. He must have the potential to earn enough money to take care of me and our family even though Ill be capable of contributing

3. He mustn't be too traditional... Id like him to respect my fathers wishes and still be morden

4. Id like him to be handsome but not extremely handsom that he is a player

5. Id also like him to be open minded about sex...ie He shouldnt expect a virgin and he should be experienced enough

6. Lasty Id like him to have intergrity and be faithful

Is this too much to ask? And where do i find him
PS: I am attractive enough (but I am not a supermodel) lol... Im not slim or fat but based on my prior suitors I believe I have what most African men want (use your imagenation because am not providing pictures )

Kinkybraids: Good Day

Ehen, Kinky, truth is, we all face subtle pressures at least from our parents/guardians especially when we're ripe. I do not fault your original post and I sense your maturity.

However, I'd like you to establish this as a deep seated revelation - that you're everything that is good and lovely. That no man nor marriage is capable of defining you for you're an infinite limitless being.

Your identity emanates from Him who is good and who is perfect and because He is, You are. (Hope this doesn't sound gibberish )

Well, that said, I just wanna add that You Shall Not Want Your Mate. True, it can be frustrating attimes, the pressures and disappointments. But, I speak from experience - No One Puts Their Trust Wholly on God and is Ever Put To Shame.


P.S: I know my posts sounds christianese....but then its applicable to anyone who believes there is a God out and up there.

Naetochukwu:
am all right, you?

Cuter than Yesterday

Henrypraise: If ur post is tru, lemme also highlight some of ur trait

1. U ar a very focus person

2. U ar very courageous U knw wat u want

3. U went to a gud sch n u ar "new sch"

4. U may be a gud cook (as d first child)

5. Competition is not new to u (polygamous home)

6. U may not be very beautiful (as ur assessment of ur sef cum from wat ur exes tink)

Howeva, u left sum details:
1. D age bracket of the guy u need (u don't really pay attention to details).

2. U av so much responsibilities hanging on ur shoulders

3. Ur location n how u will be contacted.

@ a whole, I am interested if u ar 4 real.

Kinkybraids:

lol by rich I mean that you should earn mora than a Charted Accountant because that is what ill be once I qualify. I have 3 years of Articles then Im a CA. So by that time you should earn around R50 000 a month(I intend on working in SA)

Well my father expects a reasonable bride price because yes he did make an investment....I cant discuss it because I want no insults lol but the guy will pay...but he did make a joke about adjusting it if the guy really cant afford it

just a question...whats wrong with my age?

MizMyColi: Ehen, Kinky, truth is, we all face subtle pressures at least from our parents/guardians especially when we're ripe. I do not fault your original post and I sense your maturity.

However, I'd like you to establish this as a deep seated revelation - that you're everything that is good and lovely. That no man nor marriage is capable of defining you for you're an infinite limitless being.

Your identity emanates from Him who is good and who is perfect and because He is, You are. (Hope this doesn't sound gibberish )

Well, that said, I just wanna add that You Shall Not Want Your Mate. True, it can be frustrating attimes, the pressures and disappointments. But, I speak from experience - No One Puts Their Trust Wholly on God and is Ever Put To Shame.


P.S: I know my posts sounds christianese....but then its applicable to anyone who believes there is a God out and up there.

Kinkybraids: Good Day

Im 25 years old and am currently doing a postgraduate degree in Accounting. I am the oldest female in from my father's first wife. My parents are old school.

In the past my parents have never really told me when they expect me to be married but now they are asking me when am I bringing someone home . I explained to them that im still focusing on my studies and university isnt the best place to meet a husband. They told me no one will want me when im old.

I have dated in the past but none of the relationships were serious...and ill be honest Im not sure if I intended them to lead to marriege. I just didnt think about marriege at that time.

My question is how do I attract a serious man? My demands are not hard to please...but my brother says Im too picky. I want the following from a man:

1. He must be educated

2. He must have the potential to earn enough money to take care of me and our family even though Ill be capable of contributing

3. He mustn't be too traditional... Id like him to respect my fathers wishes and still be morden

4. Id like him to be handsome but not extremely handsom that he is a player

5. Id also like him to be open minded about sex...ie He shouldnt expect a virgin and he should be experienced enough

6. Lasty Id like him to have intergrity and be faithful

Is this too much to ask? And where do i find him
PS: I am attractive enough (but I am not a supermodel) lol... Im not slim or fat but based on my prior suitors I believe I have what most African men want (use your imagenation because am not providing pictures )

striktlymi:

I thought this way of thinking went with the stone age? Apparently not...some peeps are still stuck back there.

DOWHILE: What tribe are u? Where is ur location? A muslim or xristian?I guess u 4got to mention those 3........1st of all; indulge in prayer. 2nd of all; keep hope alive. 3rd of all; dress attractively nd decently(if u really wanna get a gud guy. D way u dress matters a lot). 4th of all; don't xpect too much from Nairaland(I'm not saying u can't get a decent guy here pls). Lastly, u don't wanna rush things.......Mizmycoli, hw av u been?

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Prowizy2: A 25yr old can't be desperate for marriage like this. . Just tell us the truth.

We know you people are experts in hiding your age.

MizMyColi: Ayam fine, you doing great, right?

DOWHILE: I'm good. U withdrew completely

*facepalm* Ayam guilty ........ Just couldn't find my way back to you

Kinkybraids:

lol by rich I mean that you should earn mora than a Charted Accountant because that is what ill be once I qualify. I have 3 years of Articles then Im a CA. So by that time you should earn around R50 000 a month (I intend on working in SA)

Well my father expects a reasonable bride price because yes he did make an investment....I cant discuss it because I want no insults lol but the guy will pay...but he did make a joke about adjusting it if the guy really cant afford it

just a question...whats wrong with my age?

Naetochukwu:
They are mostly broke dudes without ambition.
Check their profiles and you will realise that some of them have spent months on NL even a year of their live chatting away without any thing to show for it.

Naetochukwu:
May be we should exclude your bro but 93 percent of our boys/men are becoming Lazy.
NL is an example of a place where you can find them en masse.
To all the ladies out there, pls dnt reply mails sent to u by any NL, they will send pm when they notice you are a. Working class babe and before u know it, they Start Telling u bout love.
They are mostly broke dudes without ambition.
Check their profiles and you will realise that some of them have spent months on NL even a year of their live chatting away without any thing to show for it.

Truth hurts, nobody should quote me, if you do then you are one of them.

kibo: The typical dreamer... The question is are you prepared for marriage, the sacrifice and responsibility that comes with it ?

MizMyColi: *facepalm* Ayam guilty ........ Just couldn't find my way back to you

Kinkybraids:

Fair enough you make some good points.

1. Ill be honest I left out age because I wanted to just get advice to my questions and not offers. But Ill comply....between 3 to 7 years above me.

2. I do have a lot of responsibilities but I dont expect the man to share them... My father wouldnt expect such and I have chosen a good career so I have the financial freedom to help at home if they need if but still live my life.

3. Lol I left that out on purpose... This is my final year so after this year Ill be doing articles in SA.

MizMyColi: Ayam fine, you doing great, right?

Dygeasy: Feel free to shut up your mouth now.

kingphilip:
R u back over there?

kingphilip:
I tried very hard to c whether you'll prove me wrong but u dint
Going through ur profile, this account was opened yesterday, from the very first time it was used yesterday til 8:43am this morning, you've spent 3hrs 13minutes Meaning in 24hrs u spent you spent over 13% of ur life in nl... do the maths and then prove me wrong

With the rate u r going, you'll beat everyone's record of the number of hrs spent on nl
So you've chatted away 3hrs + of your life only in nl within d last 24 hrs... smh for u

The truth is bitter but if u feel my fact are incorrect please prove me wrong

Naetochukwu:
Yeah because it is weekend in Nigeria, and on weekends I don't work nor party so I come over here to chat.
Btw I am a lady and I am free to chat constantly.

Dygeasy: Feel free to shut up your mouth now.

spot on. The babe jus dey foh ma hand.

Dygeasy: Feel free to shut up your mouth now.