Gbyte:

You are so right about everything you said about Nigerian men, and most especially the part that they dont have plans to marry most of the SA ladies, I would give you some reasons why a Nigerian would not want to marry a South African lady:
SA Ladies love Cigaretter and Weed, they almost cant do without it, thats not a ideal woman for a Nigerian
SA Ladies don't like to be told what to do, they say you are controlling them and they tell you to Bleep off, "futsek/Voetsek"
SA Ladies would rather you go cook for them than they cook for you, only the ones that are used to Nigerians would use the kitchen, or they even live on Fast food which is expensive.
Some SA Ladies are so lose that have sex with friends living in the same house and they even make it known to you, some would even tell it to your face that they would sleep with your friend. Mind you, I said some. No Nigerian lady would be so confident to tell her BF she'd sleep with his friend and actually do it.
And finally, SA Ladies would take advantage of you as a foreigners, they have a "working" Police Officers who would listen to them first before listening to you as a foreigner, plus the fact that you don't understand what they are saying, so they would have built a case that would send you to jail before you even know it, and you'd be right there in front of them.
Just before I forget, they can stay away from sex for a long time, so if you leave your SA lady for a period of time to travel somewhere, trust me, there is 80% assurance that she'd be sleeping with someone else before you come back, including your friends.

These are things that would make a Nigerian rethink about them before making them a wife.

Voicefilter:


That is irresponsible what you are saying as this is just another misconception. It looks like either you have not associated with SA women personally or you watch too much television.

I have been honest and have never chetaed on my partner for 15 years. So be factual or do not comment if you have nothing to say.

PrinxArthur1: I didn't say all but 70% and kinky I can't say u'll b easy for me,but if I want to, u won't know what hit u gal,u'll only know when u re on ground and don't underestimate any igbo guy from Anambra state precisely

moneyhungry:
brother, I hail. anambra adigo mma.

missdebs: na wa o, no b d same naija men we dey call mumu hia?

pimplucious:

Ok this has got to be the funniest post ever. .

EroZA: I advice you to read my comment four times....surely you write things you don't even understand ,all in the name of trying to be smart,what do you mean by south African women are crazy about naija boys..let me repeat again,those prostitutes you are sleeping with do not represent real south African women...you are collecting rubbish from dustbins and paint a good picture so that you look smart,we know that some foolish Nigerians like you who have been to SA are using that as an advantage so that they get recognition from their fellow Nigerians particularly those who have never been to SA..that if SA this SA that is none of your business,keep your Nigeria,south Africans will keep their SA,yo bloody fool



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2sExy1:

Brother, sorry if this forum has made you lost your valuable perception about Nigerians. Let me tell you something shocking about Nigerians. We are one of the craziest in Africa and on earth, with good twist.

If you do not grow thick skin, you can't survive in Nigeria or among Nigerians. That's why a Nigerian can survive in any country if he is determined, we are mostly fearless.

You may be forced to think that these people are like that offline but you will be shocked if you met majority of them offline to see a different personality offline, a striking reverse of what you see here.

Do not also be surprise that some are laughing behind their internet devices as they try to make you angry... a lot of folks on here are master of that act or art.

Chill brother and just flow along.

marv1: . I dey laugh in german..,.. 2sexy where u dey all this while. I hope u dont comot 4 vci abi den beg u 2 stay.

Voicefilter: I do not think anyone here has any right to talk on behalf of SA women. Kinkybraids you missed it dear.

Just relate your experiences and not generalise. I for one like my Africans brothers as brothers but nothing impresses most in terms of a love relationship.
1 Culture shock!
2 Personalities(most tend to be overated)
3 I do not like to be objectified or be a trophy because i am light skinned.
4 It is a misconception to think Nigerians are rich(I have seen a lot of poor ones)
5 Those I met tend to buy association with women
6 They are not as handsome as some believe(there are those few)
7 It goes back to taste(My SA men have more taste to me)Again taste is subjective
8 End Nigerian men are overrated because they do not appeal to every girl as most of the women I know would not even dream of dating a Nigerian l

2sExy1: During the nairaland highjack, I added one South African chic on facebook and through her, I have noticed how crazy she is about her naija guy. She practically loves everything about naija and she speaks pigin like one bred here...

Not just her but other SA ladies as well. They also have a facebook group for Southies married to Naija guys...

Why are they crazy about us?

OAAC: wow! Lmao, for real....like dafuqq they want bro...i hear this things, and find it hard to believe. Thought we are hated.

Elebiju: Ghanaians ko Galatians ni, Nigerians lead the pack when it comes to spenders, you ain't sincere bro and I'm sure you are religious.

Mbilla: pls Sister just ignore him. Ghanaians are born to be stupid and hateful. I work with a Nigeria company in Ghana and we Nigerians are used to Ghanaians stupidity, inferiority complex and hatered.

donifez:

Ghanians keh, or no be this Ghana i dey.

naijamerican:

That naija guy never called back after you gave up the goods huh?

No worries shah. Everything will be ok.

SantaMafia: what the hell is in this eediot's head? a nigerian mudder fugger ape with an IQ of 10. suffering smiling mor0n.you need to get rid of the generator fumes in your sick brain,huh? omo naija generator republic

foooolish shitnigerian modafaka! you live in Ghana and still insult the god people of Ghana? Thunder fire your blokos and your entire family! why don't you tell us exactly where you work/live so my boys can pay you a nice visit? then you will know what to say next time you feel like saying something about Ghana/Ghanaians.


shitnigerians are the most stvpid,senseless, dumb, lazy, greedy, ugly animals with sh1t-filled heads the most despicable animals on earth genocidal fagg0ts

Kinkybraids:

Well these are great characteristics and im not disputing them but all I'm saying is that many Nigerian men who date SA women arent thinking long term or marriage as he knows he will go back home at some point to take a Nigerian wife. I strongly believe that if a South African girl dates a Nigerian man she should know its just for fun or to experiment but it mostly likely wont lead to marriage especially if he isnt based in SA. Im just being realistic...it saves a lot of heartache

Also the Stereo types about South African women (which are not true in all cases) dont really give SA women points in the marriege department when it comes to Nigerian men... or other foreign men

Voicefilter:

I do not have any interest in Naija guys please. They are just not to my taste. There are a lot of them who wish to have that SA fatty butt but they are just not for me. Do not get it twisted Puleeeeeeeez.

elected:

a german girl would do anything to stay with her Nigerian boyfriend. If you ask her why, no answer.
Nigerian girls in germany are complaining about the guys .

The kenyan girls are ready to do anything to snatch a Nigerian guy from his Nigerian girlfriend.

2sExy1: lmao... VCI can pay me na. we talking 5-6 figures projection and you talking let my people go?

glitest:


You seem to be around the broke one"s.

soilsista: It's 2014 and we're still having this discussion? Hai ke *claps once*
LOL EroZA uthi ba si dopa ema tavern and scrapyards? O deep my brother.