softsparkyy:
Yes I have.

alextayo: I met one sweet pretty lady here last year. We were actually planning to settle down when irreconcilable differences about religious belief reared its ugly head. I am a conservative Catholic (and can NEVER change for any denomination) while she is Pentecostal. She wants me to meet her pastor for courtship approval which i dont really subscribe to but intend to do since a lady has right over wedding plans. Then then took things further by declaring that

1) she wont attend my church after wedding because she is also an active member in her Pentecostal church

2) I will leave my Catholic faith and join her church because she wants her husband to support her future calling. (future calling my ass)

3)lastly she wants the kids to also attend her church.

How can I, a staunch catholic, Choirmaster and Organist be going west and my family will be going east on sunday to worship God...the family that prays together stays together.....that the end of our story

MadCow1:


I am happy for you..

That relationship was doomed from the start. Any Woman who isnt ready to abandon all and follow her Man like Sister Ruth and Naomi in the Bible isnt wife material.

MzMariah: Lmao. Are you also ready to leave your church? I'm a chorister too you know and I can't be going for mass alone as a married we woman. My husband should be ready to support my priesthood calling because I wan be priest na my body female priesthood go start o....if only that can happen.

You are only allowed to sing in two places when I marry you; In the Shower and After sex. The only calling you will recieve is when I call you into the bedroom or call you for my food. You can keep going to Church and take the kids with you, as long as you buy fuel for the generator, cook and serve my breakfast and set up the X-Box One with Call of Duty Ghosts waiting before you go to church.

softsparkyy:
Ok ma. teeo mariah don save you.

MadCow1:

You are only allowed to sing in two places when I marry you; In the Shower and After sex. The only calling you will recieve is when I call you into the bedroom or call you for my food. You can keep going to Church and take the kids with you, as long as you buy fuel for the generator, cook and serve my breakfast and set up the X-Box One with Call of Duty Ghosts waiting before you go to church.

MissMalia: Hmmmmmmm......I ll suprise u

justi4jesu:

Who say so, so do you mean it is only recommended for a woman to abandon all and not the other way round or 50:50.

Its non-negotiable.

A Man does not follow the woman to her church. NEVER!

The Man is the Head of his wife and the Head of his Family, where he goes, she and his household follows, NO COMPLAINT.

softsparkyy:
I dey ask you

lynpetra:
which you have refused to send.Have faith,i might just beallergic to fat accounts

justi4jesu:

Ok ooo let it roll plzzz

MadCow1:


Its non-negotiable.

A Man does not follow the woman to her church. NEVER!

The Man is the Head of his wife and the Head of his Family, where he goes, she and his household follows, NO COMPLAINT.

And if the Man doesnt attend church or is just a common bench warmer in his church and the woman in question holds a top position in her own

church so she should leave her church because of him that has nothing attached with his church.

softsparkyy:
He is sweet,cute,handsome, intelligent, matured,humble,principled and above all humorous.

lynpetra: my friends who are with me on whatsapp,i was robbed off my phones,so i wont be online until two weeks time when i can arrange something.

jnrbayano:

Apologies for meddling

SpcAgtOko: No way. There are no girls on the internet.

justi4jesu:

And if the Man doesnt attend church or is just a common bench warmer in his church and the woman in question holds a top position in her own

church so she should leave her church because of him that has nothing attached with his church.

She would leave her church, join his church and start climbing her way to the top there.

If you are not ready to leave something as inconsequential as Church for your husband, what makes you think you are ready to marry. Why dont you marry the Man and bring him into your fathers house as well afterall you hold top position of Ada there.

EVERYTHING means EVERYTHING.. You leave your father, mother, siblings, church maybe even job sef and FOLLOW your husband.

If you beg him and he agrees, then fine. But if he says NO, No means No.

softsparkyy: Apology not accepted.

MadCow1:


Its non-negotiable.

A Man does not follow the woman to her church. NEVER!

The Man is the Head of his wife and the Head of his Family, where he goes, she and his household follows, NO COMPLAINT.

softsparkyy: Apology not accepted.

zicoraads: Lol...this ur moniker ehn, it has got to be the funniest on nairaland. The 1 in infront of it dey add spice to am. If I just see am like this, I go just de laff.

pasqal09:

Exactly what I'm talking about, how can one find love in NL with this?

justi4jesu:

Hmmmm nice to know that because most of Nairalanders are kids that talk like primary school children

And after you would come to us to ask for advice about how your Matured boyfriend is treating you bad.

justi4jesu:

And if the Man doesnt attend church or is just a common bench warmer in his church and the woman in question holds a top position in her own

church so she should leave her church because of him that has nothing attached with his church.

SeaGold: No religion or denomination has ever guaranteed happy marriage. The golden rule of the bible said: "Love your neighbours as you love yourself" and if a Christian of a denomination cannot love another in the spirit of brotherhood( agape love) how will "intimate" love thrive between them.

Religion and Wealth has never sustained marriage but the realisation to love, be loved and remaining in love. There are no guide book or fast rule about it.

softsparkyy:
Exactly what I'm talking about.how can you find one when you can't pet or pacify a lady even when she is giving you green light?

zicoraads: Then by all means follow him, climb ur way to the top, and even take him to the top with u. What makes u think he won't go to ur own church and still be a bench warmer? Isn't it better to go to his, start from the bottom and take him to the top with u?

Moreover, WTF is 'holding a top position?' Is that better than the man u 'claim' u love and want to spend eternity with? If that is a hindrance, then u never even loved him in the first place.

That is why I always give married couples canes for their wedding gift.. To flog the shiit out of their stubborn wives.

If the Man likes, let him ba an Atheist like me.. The day he says; 'Woman Bia here, from Today, you will start staying at home on Sunday'.. She better sit her phatass down at home on Sunday and start going to only Tuesday fellowship.


#TheseBitchesAintLoyal.

pasqal09:
That's looks more like red light to me