babyosisi:



Thiis is the only you need to watch out for,ladies

He could be a divorcee,workaholic,have single friends,doesn't talk much about marriage,engrossed in his work bit if he never talks about his family and has not made plans for you to see them especially his mother and the topic makes him uncomfortable
You are not the marriage choice for him

Meeting his cousins and " relatives" don't count
If his mother is alive and you haven't met her and there is no immediate plans to introduce you to her
You better start looking elsewhere if marriage is what you want

andromida:

Even this one no longer counts. Some guys are very confused.

Onyiibazz: Nawao, i'm beginning to get tired of all this lists, everywhere i go i must jam one, either it's ten ways to be a man or it's 15 ways to peel potatoes or 5 ways to nail a girl on a first date!

jojomario: pls share the last one with us if you have any.

babyosisi:

Most men love their mothers to pieces and won't show just any girl to her
I am not saying the man is a marriage material but most men that will introduce their mom to a girl has something permanent in mind.
Doesn't mean other situations can't make them change their minds after she has been introduced
Men just don't just take a girl to say mom,this is my latest catch
No
It is often to say in unspoken words " mom,look at this girl,do you like her,I would like her to be your daughter in law "

And men who truly want marriage and wants her to pass the approval test will give that girl tips for that first meeting about
How to act
What their mother likes etc

babyosisi:


Thiis is the only sign you need to watch out for,ladies

He could be a divorcee,workaholic,have single friends,doesn't talk much about marriage,engrossed in his work and lives off a suitcase but if he hardly talks about his family and has not made plans for you to see them especially his mother and the topic makes him uncomfortable
You are not the marriage choice for him.

Meeting his cousins and " relatives" and friends and people he grew up with doesn't count
If his mother is alive and you haven't met her and there is no immediate plans to introduce you to her
You better start looking elsewhere if marriage is what you want

His Mother?!






Kai!!!! Girls..... No wonder they say we guys are wicked.

hensben: so whats now ur point?.

anitank:
My point is rules and "signs" doesn't define a relationship. Everyone can't follow the same pathway. Someone might read this thread and lose a life partner because "he doesn't fit in the category of marryable men" whereas he has genuine intentions.

While I agree with some of the op's points, majority of them are arguable..... except just one man possesses all the points mentioned, then I wonder what a reasonable lady would be doing with such person to start with

hensben: okay i got you now..are you married?

anitank:
No offense, but what has that got to do with anything

Yomieluv: Op,you are looking at it from the men's side only,what if the lady doesn't possess marriageable characteristics?

hensben: i am just been curious

anitank:
I'll let you figure it out

MadCow1:



His Mother?!






Kai!!!! Girls..... No wonder they say we guys are wicked.

freecocoa: I don't think all these really apply in the real world o( not all at least).

Any man who is out to deceive a lady will even go as far as giving her an engagement ring, all to continue shining her Kongo or whatever it is he wants her for besides marriage, one just has to keep hoping/praying not to end up in the wrong hands.

I'm not saying "ignore the signs" no, there are definitely red flags but these articles always make it sound like you can outrightly tell a serious/unserious man by following a guidebook.

freecocoa: I don't think all these really apply in the real world o( not all at least).

Any man who is out to deceive a lady will even go as far as giving her an engagement ring, all to continue shining her Kongo or whatever it is he wants her for besides marriage, one just has to keep hoping/praying not to end up in the wrong hands.

I'm not saying "ignore the signs" no, there are definitely red flags but these articles always make it sound like you can outrightly tell a serious/unserious man by following a guidebook.

babyosisi:

Of course nau
Only when she sees mama madcow will the lady cow know that you are serious

Hahaha hahaha. ..


Na there you go shock pass shock absorber. You go meet my entire family tree, climb am, do jangolova on top and ............. The only ring we you go see na Lord of the Ring DVD.

Yomieluv: Op,you are looking at it from the men's side only,what if the lady doesn't possess marriageable characteristics?

MadCow1:



Hahaha hahaha. ..


Na there you go shock pass shock absorber. You go meet my entire family tree, climb am, do jangolova on top and ............. The only ring we you go see na Lord of the Ring DVD.

freecocoa: I don't think all these really apply in the real world o( not all at least).

Any man who is out to deceive a lady will even go as far as giving her an engagement ring, all to continue shining her Kongo or whatever it is he wants her for besides marriage, one just has to keep hoping/praying not to end up in the wrong hands.

I'm not saying "ignore the signs" no, there are definitely red flags but these articles always make it sound like you can outrightly tell a serious/unserious man by following a guidebook.

prince3009: @Point No.2 --- So it has become a crime for a man to get to the zenith of his career before he settles for marriage abi? When the man says he wants to settle down before succeeding in his career, they will say he is rushing it...when he wants to wait till he reaches the climax of his career, it means he is not serious for marriage. Rubbish!!

If she can't wait for me, then she is not worth taking to the aisle.

Wiinnd: Please, what do you mean when you say ''continue shining her Kongo''? Make me understand abeg!

san316: What are the signs that the girl isn't worth proposing to?

ayobase:


how old are you?


seun, pls people need to start submitting birth certificates to register.