Godmystrength: Are you saying all these thing should be done because we want to be ''marriable''

Elantracey: I pity the woman



but what was she doing till 42

Godmystrength: Are you saying all these thing should be done because we want to be ''marriable''

Elantracey:

I said maybe with no certainty , it was just a thought because I've seen people in real life cases that had that problem and I remember saying aside the fact that she doesn't want to get married .

ndidibabe: My dear, pls don't get me wrong. There are exceptions..

Godmystrength: Are you saying all these thing should be done because we want to be ''marriable''

I go to school so that a man can be able to marry me?
I build my career so that a man can be able to marry me?
I get close to God so that a man can be able to marry me?

aisha2:

Yes and till we know their stories even when we know their stories we shouldn't be quick to judge.
If God can cause the sun to shine on both righteous and unrighteous.
We are all undeserving of God's blessings oh it's not for the most righteous or the purest it's God who chooses who to bless and when to bless

ndidibabe: Story story.... I am a 32 year old mother of two handsome boys. As you lay your bed, so you will lie on it. When most girls should be busy 'shaping' their life by having a good Education , building a career and getting closer to God, thereby making themselves 'marriable' , they were busy jumping from one Boy's room to another cooking, washing clothes and fuc...ng as in the case of idowuigbo and her friends on NL. How dem wan see correct Husband marry?

Elantracey:


maybe I didn't see it , too many mentions pouring in that I didn't take note of some .

JuanDeDios:

The actual classic flaw in ndidibabe's thinking is that life always obeys rules and formulae and so once you do these you're sure oF certain results. She even tells me she has two handsome male children - obviously she followed a formula for that too.

pcguru1:

Why the insults nau open debate that's quite harsh what happened to naive. That's not a good way to communicate bro.

Elantracey: I pity the woman



but what was she doing till 42

ndidibabe: Aisha, many thanks. I agree with you completely.

Danhumprey: I'm not surprised at your comments on this thread as regard a lady above 30yrs who isn't married. To you,the reason is spiritual. You are so religious that you view everything from the spiritual angle,including secular and trivial issues. Smh.

snazzylove:

So u deliberately want people to come and 'insalt' u. Lol

I just want to let you know that marriage is not as easy and 'handy' as you think. You may feel you've seen things bigger than your age, but believe me you aint seen nofin yet.
Dat question you asked was sooooooo wrong and uncalled for.
Pray, seriously pray that you don't go thru the rough part of 'searching' for a life partner.

Just like Godmystrengt rightly said, you'll get to understand and probably answer that your question by urself later in life.

ndidibabe: Story story.... I am a 32 year old mother of two handsome boys. As you lay your bed, so you will lie on it. When most girls should be busy 'shaping' their life by having a good Education , building a career and getting closer to God, thereby making themselves 'marriable' , they were busy jumping from one Boy's room to another cooking, washing clothes and fuc...ng as in the case of idowuogbo and her friends on NL. How dem wan see correct Husband marry ?

Ishilove:
Are you serious?? So you and Idowuogbo went on a fvcking spree instead of marrying?? How intriguing...

Elantracey:


Am not being judgemental or trying to blame her but being sincere and Ma'am I believe there's no way a woman whether ugly or fine , fat or thin will not see who to marry her in 20 years , I might be young but I've seen and experienced things far bigger than my age , from life stories from friends and relatives and from ready ladies biography around the world ive come to know that around 80% of ladies who instead to get married but remained single till above 35 is either caused spiritually or by the person herself ,am not generalizing tho but there's nothing new under the sun , if you get to know her life story you'll definitely see her mistakes which probably she didn't see then and maybe realised too late so that's I asked the question tho I know she wouldn't be able to answer.






patiently waiting for the insults to start pouring in , I know nairalanders never disappoint

ndidibabe: very simple. If you don't go to school, how will you attract a Medical Doctor or a Chevron Engineer? You want a God fearing man and you are from God? Then, you are on a long thing...

parismarc: This story get k leg, why would a bride carry 4 million naira to the registry? pls tell us something else.

Godmystrength:
What about someone whose partner died some weeks to the wedding after a relationship of 7 years,
or someone whose partner impregnated another woman and decided to go for the pregnant one,
or someone whose partner traveled out and after a long wait refuse to come back home or came back married etc.
In as much as i am not disputing the fact that there are some women like you mentioned in your post, i am saying that is not the case with every unmarried woman above 35years of age. every individual case is different.

Godmystrength: I didn't go to school because i want to attract a Medical Doctor or a Chevron Engineer. I did because i want a good life for myself.
I strive to be close to God because i take delight in worshiping him in response to his love towards me not because of a man.

I have seen engineers, doctors etc get married to stark illiterates and i have seen ''sinners'' get married to choicest husbands etc
Everything is by the grace and mercy of God.

On a light note- i hope the guy i am trying to attract is also going to school so he will be able to attract me and also God fearing in other to attract me as well.........

ndidibabe: Of course, you are right. However, you don't understand my logic.

cococandy: I hope the woman got back her money.
That's my concern

M4gunners: I can only reason with you on someone whose partner died few weeks or days before the

Godmystrength: Not asking you to take it back. But i was just wondering why you asked that kind of question. So if a woman doesn't have a man to marry her what should she do? go and die? or marry herself?

i am actually laffing at you here tracey tracey. Later in life, you will understand better.

Now i understand the saying that ''women are their own worst enemies''

Elantracey:


Am not being judgemental or trying to blame her but being sincere and Ma'am I believe there's no way a woman whether ugly or fine , fat or thin will not see who to marry her in 20 years , I might be young but I've seen and experienced things far bigger than my age , from life stories from friends and relatives and from ready ladies biography around the world ive come to know that around 80% of ladies who instead to get married but remained single till above 35 is either caused spiritually or by the person herself ,am not generalizing tho but there's nothing new under the sun , if you get to know her life story you'll definitely see her mistakes which probably she didn't see then and maybe realised too late so that's I asked the question tho I know she wouldn't be able to answer.






patiently waiting for the insults to start pouring in , I know nairalanders never disappoint

Elantracey: I pity the woman



but what was she doing till 42

chlowi:

Please shut up!!!

aisha2:

My sister did you carry out some research to statistically arrive at this point? If you have abeg help us publish the findings so ignorant ones like me can learn, if you haven't I advice you don't lump people together till you know their stories. Women should not be the ones making other women feel bad or cursed for being unmarried, do you find men abusing or accessing their fellow single men?