ndidibabe: Story story.... I am a 32 year old mother of two handsome boys. As you lay your bed, so you will lie on it. When most girls should be busy 'shaping' their life by having a good Education , building a career and getting closer to God, thereby making themselves 'marriable' , they were busy jumping from one Boy's room to another cooking, washing clothes and fuc...ng as in the case of idowuigbo and her friends on NL. How dem wan see correct Husband marry?

chlowi:

Reading her comments, am embarrassed to say the least, that a fellow woman/female would trash out like that!!! Pathetic

iwonbaoko: Mother of two handsome boys kedu Na half time you reach o Pray that the game ends in your favour. So far you are talking like a child. Life is sweet it is bitter ...

Elantracey:

lol ,no I don't but its something I've come to terms with being insulted by people when you see things differently from them instead of just correcting or arguing politely .




My dear there's nothing wrong with a simple question because you have no idea why I asked it .

Am not good or better than her but I know in this my life I can't stay single till 30 and its a fact and if I ever do I'll know that am planing to stay single all my life and devote my time and life to order things .

cococandy: I hope the woman got back her money.
That's my concern

Elantracey: I pity the woman



but what was she doing till 42

This story get k leg, why would a bride carry 4 million naira to the registry? pls tell us something else.

Elantracey:


Am not being judgemental or trying to blame her but being sincere and Ma'am I believe there's no way a woman whether ugly or fine , fat or thin will not see who to marry her in 20 years , I might be young but I've seen and experienced things far bigger than my age , from life stories from friends and relatives and from ready ladies biography around the world ive come to know that around 80% of ladies who instead to get married but remained single till above 35 is either caused spiritually or by the person herself ,am not generalizing tho but there's nothing new under the sun , if you get to know her life story you'll definitely see her mistakes which probably she didn't see then and maybe realised too late so that's I asked the question tho I know she wouldn't be able to answer.






patiently waiting for the insults to start pouring in , I know nairalanders never disappoint

Elantracey:

lol ,no I don't but its something I've come to terms with being insulted by people when you see things differently from them instead of just correcting or arguing politely .




My dear there's nothing wrong with a simple question because you have no idea why I asked it .

Am not good or better than her but I know in this my life I can't stay single till 30 and its a fact and if I ever do I'll know that am planing to stay single all my life and devote my time and life to order things .

teeo: This is a lesson to all these girls forming for dudes now. Some have list of things they want in their man.

GboyegaD:

This is hilarious. One can only laugh at your naivety.
Learn not to generalize as seen in your other posts on this topic as all the ladies you know are less than .1% of the female population.

ndidibabe: Of course, you are right. However, you don't understand my logic.

Elantracey: I pity the woman



but what was she doing till 42

Elantracey:

I will just like to know what it was you saw that made you quit your previous relationship and was it that you didn't see it while dating or you acted like you didn't see it .

Elantracey:

I can't but that doesn't mean out of the numerous there won't be one , just one that can meet my standard if its like that then I'll have to check myself because that only means that am either chasing shadows or the picture of me am presenting is not actually who I am because I know you attract who you are.

vivaciouzz: dis is soo unfair

Elantracey: I pity the woman



but what was she doing till 42

Elantracey: I pity the woman



but what was she doing till 42

Godmystrength: I don't agree with this..... So are you saying that any unmarried woman above 35 is under spiritual attack or the architect of her own problem??

Nobody is going to insult you. It is just a healthy discussion unless you decide to take it to the next level......

Elantracey: I pity the woman



but what was she doing till 42

Maybe na your grandmama hold her hostage

Elantracey:


You just did what you are accusing me of , jumping to hasty conclusion like I said I've read people's biography and I know live stories of friends and relatives , i try and get a link later to some biographies and probably post it here.


That's because a man can choose to get married to anyone at anytime but its not the same for women and moreover I never insulted or accessed her , I can never do it , I just asked a simple question .

I don't know anything o.

VenusBetty: The actual classic flaw in ndidibabe's thinking is that life always obeys rules and formulae and so once you do these you're sure oF certain results. She even tells me she has two handsome male children - obviously she followed a formula for that too.[/quote/]abeg Leave Ndidibabe, how old be her children, hahahahahahah. Some people just make noise, My 30 year old friend has 3 kids, the first is 10, men she's happily married. Ndidibabe, some unmarried 32 year old girls lived a more decent life than you. Don't come bragging about your father's farm, have you seen someone else's?

Elantracey: I pity the woman



but what was she doing till 42