PastorKun: It's really a shame that Oyakhilome allowed his marriage to deteriorate to this level. As far back as four years ago it got leaked to the public that they were having marital issues. This is more than enough time to make amends but I guess Oyakhilome was more interested in building his personal empire and sampling the various women that flock around him than keeping his home intact. A ministry that would permanently keep you separated from your family is definitely not from God. Unfortunately Oyaks is too proud arrogant and conceited to admit his folly and retrace his steps. The only reasonable thing for him to do is to go a beg for his wife's forgiveness, reunite with his family and start living with them and get rid of his numerous female bed warmers. It is extremely unacceptable and totally disrespectful for a man to disregard his wife in the presence of other women.

sexfiend: When is Chris Oyakhilome's birthday? December 7. that means his Zodiac is sagittarius .he is a cheater and does not give a fvck about comitment .he is obviously a player with that perm on his hair ,bleaching and fake accent. how dumb can the people in his church be?
meanwhile ,Anita Oyakhilome's birthday is February 26 which makes her a pisces . pisces are soft,good hearted,very emotional and easily manipulated and used in life.

saifuhot: Pastor Anita didn't use the word 'adultery', she says her husband keeps 'inappropriate relationships with female members of the church' and that his husband also humiliates her whenever these females are ........ All the same. she mustn't use adultery

Ishilove: But I wonder...if Mohammed doesn't go to the mountain, then the mountain must a find a way, by hook or by crook, to go to Mohammed. In all the sixteen years of separation, did she ever think of paying her husband a surprise visit, or maybe use 'strong eye' to go stay with him by fire by force for two or three weeks?

Bobby4090: For a married man 'inappropriate relationship with girls' could include 'Spending too much time with and giving too much attention to an opposite sex who is not your spouse' but may also mean sleeping with the girls. Its a general term used by Lawyers in divorce cases. Legally speaking you don't see words like Adultery, fornication, immorality etc in such cases. What Lawyers use are words like inappropriate relationships, extra marital affairs, canal knowledge, etc.

Tymax:
My brother, there is a big difference.

sexfiend: well, the zodiac exist to help guard us and help us learn about our strengths and weaknesses . in the ancient times ,zodiac symbols were often inscribed on the cathedral ceilings. for example , aries and taurus are stubborn and need to work on that negative trait. scorpios are vindictive and need to work on that negative trait.

for example , anita will be more careful in relationships from now on. she has learnt that particular lesson in life. she will still be used and manipulated in other areas of life and learn those lessons .

mployer:

Are You a lawyer bro?

because pastor chris lawyer threatened to sue the media when they used 'adultery' in place of ' inappropriate relationship '

You mean he has no case in that?, explain more bro.

Tallesty1: Don't judge him yet. The woman complained of living separately, saying that the only time they stay together as a family is when he comes to UK. But did you see where she said that she wanted to join him in Nigeria or S.Africa and he refused? I'm still searching for something like that.



They need our prayers not judgement.

sexfiend: you are getting it wrong . it doesn't mean pisces are stvpid or you just walk up to them and manipulate them.

aisha2:
A few years ago she actually moved down and made her intention known to stay he actually left the house for her after humiliating her in front if sinachi.

Gombs: Er

aisha2:
A few years ago she actually moved down and made her intention known to stay he actually left the house for her after humiliating her in front if sinachi.

Tallesty1: Seriously?

aisha2:
Yeah
Yeah story was hush hush then but reported here too.
I tried finding the story but the recent scandal makes it hard with Google

datribune:

Don't get it twisted. "I did have a relationship with Miss Lewinsky that was not appropriate - Bill Clinton while owning up to an adulterous affair. That's another word 4 adultery.

cococandy: You don't mean it!
Is he that heady?
Any link?

Reminds of zboyd's thread about men who use christainity to subdue and abuse their wives.
His constant messages about being the master puts him in a not too good light.
Makes him look like someone who's anti-different opinion.

Hope I'm wrong sha.

Trustyd1: this whole thing is pointless.
Chris has not said a thing yet. I'm not even sure that Anita file for divorce? But if she did then i did say i'm disappointed in her. After all the devotional and messages from her teaching us how to put our trust in God even at the biggest challenges of our life will rather go to court than go to God over her family challenges.
If she does then where is her faith in God?

aisha2:

Maybe the tsunami carried the post where the report was.
I remember quoting 1 st Timothy then when his members were trying to justify their living separately. The report had it that after several appeals she came down to nigeria insisting on staying and he left the house for her she had to go back. She also appealed to the elders there to intervene they did and he talked his way out of it.
The bible says if a brother sins, meet him first in confidence which she did and raised her concern, after that go with one or 2 brethren so you can have witnesses she did by involving elders if all this fails then treat him like a pagan.

little ones should perish.

Dealing With Sin in the Church
15 “If your brother or sister[b] sins,[c] go and point out their fault, just between the two of you. If they listen to you, you have won them over. 16 But if they will not listen, take one or two others along, so that ‘every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.’[d] 17 If they still refuse to listen, tell it to the church; and if they refuse to listen even to the church, treat them as you would a pagan or a tax collector.

18 “Truly I tell you, whatever you bind on earth will be[e] bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be[f] loosed in heaven.

19 “Again, truly I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything they ask for, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. 20 For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.

aisha2:
A few years ago she actually moved down and made her intention known to stay he actually left the house for her after humiliating her in front if sinachi.

mbulela: I am obviously not fan of the man but all these stories that paint vivid pictures that can only be gotten from hear-say are ungodly to say the least