freecocoa: What's the big deal? They both got married so if he doesn't wear the ring, why should she?

victorazy:

To show she's from a good and God fearing family, the epitom of good wife not animal like the foolish husband, wouldn't have been diff and nice?
Virtuous woman doesn't compete with her husband rather she covers his unclothedness cuz some men are mad. Is obvious they were not in good term if not she would have ask why the man not wearing his ring.

freecocoa: And you think she hadn't asked?

This your idea of a virtuous woman is funny to me, so if a woman made the mistake of marrying an animal, she should keep covering his foolishness, clean up after him and stuff, just to prove she's virtuous? Duh!

GlorifiedTunde: As far as I am concerned she's making a huge mistake. Not that her husband is right, but in this case two wrongs will finish the home soon. Good wives are known to be persistent and keep their marriage at all cost. If they have to bite and scratch, it will be to save their marriage.
These days, wives now think its wise to repay husbands; if he comes home late at night, you will do the same too abi?

Too many emotionally immature people get married these days.

As a matter of fact, although I do not know for sure why he did that but some men I not like rings, hand and neck chain etc. Its actually an old school mentality like some ofour fathers do too. But she'll come to see her foolishness when the marriage breaks and affects her the more.

Keep dragging roles and places with your man o. You go soon know!

Nuff said

beetruth: I know a lady who is married to one of such selfish thing. He started with locking his phone, keeping his finances, working xtra late n every weekend and then his ring. With no explanation. Any time d wife complains or tries to ask he makes it a fight. Once beat the poor thing over his phone chats wit gals. Now the wife goes about without her ring too. Do we blame her or call her names

Mintayo:
if the man should cheats,the woman should cheat too? If the man quits his job,the woman should too? If the man dies,the woman should die too? If theman refuses to "catar" for the kids,the woman should do so too? If the man has an ego issue,the woma should too?
Well,they are both married!
Classic!

MarieSucre: Nairaland has taught me a lot. marriage in Nigeria is between a woman and her children and maybe some male stranger.

Johncuppa: With all these comments 4rm female nairalanders, I raise my std for chosing life partner, #she must nt be a nairalander. I knw they wil stil insult me.

freecocoa: You must be very smart to equate not wearing of ring to all of those other things.

harveyspecter: Sometimes ladies play with fire!! You are not the man & you can't be the man

if the man refuses to wear, remember he does the chasing, the number of ladies that will hit on him is small compared to the number of men that will hit on the lady

when a man hits on a lady & she says she is married, some men will back off, other wouldn't becos they will start reading meanings to her not wearing a ring & one day her defenses will wear off

who needs to show that they are married is it the man or the woman?

It's a common thing thing that some men don't like wearing rings & some cos of the nature of their jobs(working with machines etc) but is it common with women not to wear?

ekolina: This is a very flimsy excuse for a woman. I have a aunty who collected her husband's ring reason dat hers is to small and its not very visible. she wears both ring

cococandy: He's leading by example.
Wifey is a good follower

Mondisweets: its not a loss of any form on our part anyway, your absence in our lives will not affect the price of garri. Best believe it we are not bothered

cococandy: He's leading by example.
Wifey is a good follower

Mondisweets: its not a loss of any form on our part anyway, your absence in our lives will not affect the price of garri. Best believe it we are not bothered

Mondisweets: its not a loss of any form on our part anyway, your absence in our lives will not affect the price of garri. Best believe it we are not bothered

Mondisweets: so if he decides not to wear a ring because he doesnt like it, she can't decide to to the same thing too because she doesnt like hers?

If too many immature men are getting married, is it not better they break the homes so everyone can leave in peace then?


A man is supposed to be loyal and protect his marriage, not matter what! He isn't keen on doing that, so what's the point of the woman playing the role when its clearly he has no intentions of protecting the marriage?