stop thinking about her, and if it continues.... see a pastor

cbrass:

Like you appeared in my dream and made it wet..looking for my Ak47

cbrass d dreamer

neoapocalypse:

You don't get the joke , do you ?

explain better

Abeg the pant of hers you kept in your wardrobe is the problem.
Go and burn it

ggrin: cbrass d dreamer

ggrin the crusher

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cbrass:

ggrin the crusher

I'll crush u o

I once read somewhere sometime ago it takes an average of 18 months to completely move on from a broken relationship especially one that involved intense friendship and love. While the healing time for a failed relationship might not necessarily agree with the aforementioned time frame, it isn't so far from the truth.

In the OP's case, my opinion is he is still well and truly stuck in recovery mode. Of course there have been suggestions of a supernatural force or influence at work, I highly doubt this is the case. Those dreams are in fact symptomatic of your brain, body and consciousness going through a withdrawal of some sort.

In addition, the realisation that the break up was indeed your own doing has taken a heavy toll on your conscience, coupled with the misjudged thoughts that you might not find someone as good as her again is further evidence this isn't a spiritual issue.

To heal, you have little choice than to allow for time to do it's job. However, one way to alleviate this is to engage in moneymaking ventures. Boy, that's the oldest rule in the book and it never fails. Stop seeking someone else to replace her, that sshitt never works anyway. Have fun and sshhiitt. Destroy all things that can remind you of her, even songs and movies you used to see and listen to together. Be with friends all day, leaving absolutely no room to be alone and relapse to the thoughts of her.

annibro: @Jayclinics; if you really want her back, go Propose 2 her genuinely with a ring & ask her wen u can come officially see her parents. Dat will do d trick. Ladies Date wit marriage in mind. But asking her 2 come back & continue an unpredictable relationship will NEVER work cos she will be sceptical it mite break again. Only MARRIAGE will do d magic.

What you said just made me remember when my babe and I were playing truth or dare. She was like do I see us getting married. I was like WTF!!!!! Marriage if it comes then it is and besides I don't date someone I can't get married to. When I told her if I am to get married at all it would never be less that 8 years from now. She just said ok. She prolly has a side guy MAYBE

You know what you need to do? You need to take ya ass to church and maybe take her with yah because you both need jesus!

DREAM OF ME

first of all, don't believe her when she acts like she is over you and doesn't have feelings for you anymore.
secondly, you have been the needy and sucker for love person to her since you broke up. if you want to be in control of your self and the situation again or if you even want a chance with her again, AVOID ANY CONTACT WITH HER. Stop calling or texting her. This way she would worry about you, believe me she won't forget about you.
And when she calls you don't pick up. Keep to this for at least a month ( can be more than a month, 4 or 5)
Thirdly, within the period of no contact improve on your self. Physically, emotionally, build your confidence back, be happy again, work out more ( it helps take your mind off things and release the hormone for happiness), improve on your dressing be more classy with your wears , go on a date at least once a month and get something great going on with your life. The essence of this is to make sure next time she sees you, you're a different and better person. This way she gets a feeling she is missing something great and then she'd be attracted to you again.
Lastly, after the no contact period you're allow to text her in a very short and brief manner and not about getting her back because your relationship is over( and should stay that way). You can only open a new chapter now. Examples of texts maybe : hey am at the spot we had our first kiss, best day of my life. or hey just wanna let you know I got a new great job or business I feel blessed. or just passed by restaurant we celebrated my birthday thanks for being there for me. or hi there is this new eatery in town can you come with me pls? not a bad idea and i wont bite. It's not even a date Lol.
If you follow these tips you got a 70% chance of getting her back and 90% chance of bring back your happiness and totally moving on. Live your life for yourself..

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Hmm, you need to journey to igalaka hills, take a white and red cloth, take a 40 year old turtle and 3 month old cockroach, red oil, palm oil, a bottle of shnapp and kolanuts. When you get there, the great widow will tell you what to do. #TeamIresembleIfa?

oga for u to be free from seeing her in ur dreams here are some requirements,chop five alligator peppers before u sleep at night,when u wake up in the morning burn five different colored candles i bet u will not see her in ur dreams again..thank me later.

My dear u av been in diz situation for like a year nd u ar still looking hu wil tel u wat to do,abeg go c a prophet dey will guide u on wat to do.it's not ordinary.,,,,,!be smart,,,,,be save.

use JUJU...n d dream wlil stop

You want to forget someone, yet you keep talking with her? Best to cut all ties and move on afresh...

just stop sleeping

ggrin: I'll crush u o

Just makesure your legs are wide open when you do that

Its very simple my dear...... STOP SLEEPING.....

cbrass:

Just makesure your legs are wide open when you do that

weyrey

Its just simple .... let him jus stop. Dreaming

my dear i knw dat feeling...#in my own case....i couldnt concentrate on anyfin....even wen guyz come around me...i alwayz act hostile nd harsh towards them! #just try not to stay at a spot for a long tym...u could play games..chat or invite fwendz...over.

You must wankk b4 you sleep

ggrin: weyrey

Wetin I talk nw

SleekyPosh:

Nice One Bro..

Thanks master!

The dreams indicate you missing her and your feelings of guilt you have for her. First forgive yourself, understanding that the dreams represent your inner world, your emotions and your wishes to be with her again.

Your mind idealizes her as never before. Her aggressive appearances are a recall of the anger she felt towards you when you broke up and your doubts about if she can ever forgive you.

Try see her again in real life. Tell her about your dreams and what she says in the dreams. If you two cannot get back, this would help clear your mind. But I guess the key question is if she were to come back to you, do you really want her back? Will you treat her better? All the best

Jst borns bck nd 4get past nd cum to persent

Stop sleeping

benega: Jeez wat a small world, d exat same thing happened 2 me when I broke up with enoh a calabar gal. Upon spiritual inqiry it turned out that d girls fetish mother did some diabolic charms on enoh(withouth enohs knowledge to punish any man that violated her. My pastor even said I would've run mad if not my spirit was strong. I had 2 go and beg......I need 5 likes 2 continue. Ok I'll ride on, op the rest of the story is bleak to cut d longstory short: dats how I married a calabar girl.

Seriously this is the funniest post i av read in nairaland for months. i laugh so tey tears were dropping from my eyez.
Bros u funny die.
so how are u copping with ur calabar wife?