Midehi: i am a single lady & a guy is hell bend to marry me,am stil wonderin why he's so much in luv dat he a single guy is plannin to see my parent...i ask him dou & hs response ws am calm,beautiful & respetful,we luv each oda so much bt am stil scared if his peopl wil acept me wit 2 girls who ar alwys wit my mother....i fell into marriage wen i ws 19 to a guy who ws dump by hs fiancee & settld on me cos he ws gettin old bt wen i enterd...omo see beatin ooo,hes vry fast on hiting on any slightest mstake, i endured neva wntd to leave bt my parent tuk me frm him in d last beatin dat ended up in d hospital...dnt blame for such marriage den,i ws jus too young den to av diverge into it ooo dou i blame mysef bt nt much cos i av d best beautiful & intelligent girls...some guys ar nice.

Midehi: i am a single lady & a guy is hell bend to marry me,am stil wonderin why he's so much in luv dat he a single guy is plannin to see my parent...i ask him dou & hs response ws am calm,beautiful & respetful,we luv each oda so much bt am stil scared if his peopl wil acept me wit 2 girls who ar alwys wit my mother....i fell into marriage wen i ws 19 to a guy who ws dump by hs fiancee & settld on me cos he ws gettin old bt wen i enterd...omo see beatin ooo,hes vry fast on hiting on any slightest mstake, i endured neva wntd to leave bt my parent tuk me frm him in d last beatin dat ended up in d hospital...dnt blame for such marriage den,i ws jus too young den to av diverge into it ooo dou i blame mysef bt nt much cos i av d best beautiful & intelligent girls...some guys ar nice.

khiaa:

If she has a cesarian birth it will truly be like before, no lying because no baby will pass through her va.gina.

Midehi: i am a single lady & a guy is hell bend to marry me,am stil wonderin why he's so much in luv dat he a single guy is plannin to see my parent...i ask him dou & hs response ws am calm,beautiful & respetful,we luv each oda so much bt am stil scared if his peopl wil acept me wit 2 girls who ar alwys wit my mother....i fell into marriage wen i ws 19 to a guy who ws dump by hs fiancee & settld on me cos he ws gettin old bt wen i enterd...omo see beatin ooo,hes vry fast on hiting on any slightest mstake, i endured neva wntd to leave bt my parent tuk me frm him in d last beatin dat ended up in d hospital...dnt blame for such marriage den,i ws jus too young den to av diverge into it ooo dou i blame mysef bt nt much cos i av d best beautiful & intelligent girls...some guys ar nice.

PAINGAIN: I like u already. Just tell d guy d truth about ur kids. If he loves u unconditionally he'll still marry u. Cheers.

ericessien24: after training the child to the peak,won't the same man come and claim paternity and daddy? u should know the real father of a baby is always the father.

CharmO1: Wow! Many comments, mostly negative. I'm a single mother. I did the same thing many ladies have done and will always do: s3x. But I did what only a brave woman with a conscience would do, I kept my son. I laughed when I read some HELL NO's. Better a tokunbo. Car than a car that was wrecked in an accident and then panel-beat, repainted, and repackaged as new. I haven't had issues with men looking down on me because I'm independent and I don't even allow a man I'm dating meet my son. I don't want my son seeing different men in my life. It's only that lucky man that would have the priviledge of meeting him though adopting him is out of the question cos my family won't let him out of their sight. Fertility is not guaranteed because a woman has given birth but there's a higher chance of fertility and if there are no kids after marriage, then na the man get problem be that. As someone rightly said, it takes a mature mind and a good heart to be with a single mother because honestly we hardly trust because we've been hurt deeply before. I haven't met any promiscuous single mother. Strangely, most single mothers can close legs tight because of fear of being used and dumped. My advice to single mothers, don't be desperate, rely on God's time. It will happen for you too. And also be financially independent so no man calls you a gold-digger. And no matter what love your child/children because a man can break your heart and abandon you but your kid(s) are yours forever.

Enasco1: We are all tackling dx issue from d ladies side!!!! X not wrong 2 date n marry a lady dat already has a child from her previous relationship, d only issue I personally have wt them x dat many of them do hide d child from d new guy. Wot stops u from tellin him abt ur past right from d first date. A lady who dated 1 guy n got pregnant bt did nt marry him n a lady who dated abt 6 guys n had up to 6 abortions, whic x better Question beggin 4 an anx!!!

Hishuula: I don't pray for that sha even God forbid am 4 you self ....vigin* birth lo sure ju

khiaa:

Ok you are right, but there are exercises a woman can do to tighten up after childbirth.

AdeniyiA: At least it shows her fertility, how do you explain a lady who had had several unprotected intimacy not having a baby, it's either she's done abortions or she's infertile, either way what's d assurance she'd be able to conceive when married /

dhardline: Its still ok to marry a lady who already has a child,those who dont have yet do you know how many abortions(murder)they have committed?no body holy pass.

RhemaDavids: am a single mother, I broke up with ma ex cos he had to first ask his mum if he can marry me or not, and when his mum said Y not, he came back to propose I refused cos he wasn't man enough.I.have a man in my life who adore me so much and is looking forward to taking me down the aisle baby or no baby. so is just your.heart and love

Fourwinds:
in d first place y abortion. wen pikin think say e know pass him papa na e be d result of abortion. don't u know if u have sex it can lead to pregnancy.? so y d pretence. now if u except it will., y going into sex when u are not ready for d outcome. so abortion shouldn't have come into d picture. den d child out of wedlock., check in most cases it is still carelessness on wayward children. u wan taste se..x whether d thing sweet. u for go thru weti elder dey do. but u believe u are smart by using corner-corner banging for clubbing. school hide out and parties. sabi d child don come. u cannt play God

databoy247: wow.....lotsa comments. Where are the ladies naw?

Jamean: Well said, so in other words; if your sister, close female relation or female friend you wish well unfortunately becomes a baby mama - No one should marry her?