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Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by tope2000(f): 6:06pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
iceblue: Good talk Okija_juju: |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by KarmaMod(f): 6:07pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
The mother is obviously not convinced her son is ready for a committed relationship yet. what a depressing statement. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by Okijajuju1(m): 6:08pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
KarmaMod: You wouldnt have to worry about my mum, We are in two different countries, and she no even get address to my crib, incase she wan visit. michelin89: That wan na indoor business. Just browse our shrine website or call us on +23408099OKIJA |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by Nobody: 6:09pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
~Sauron~: well dearie, the person giving you some has needs too i'm glad you agree it should be sometimes the rest of the time, pls enjoy your noodles and take-out even then sef. she would cope better by engaging in several activities, not all-up-in-my-son's-space activity hmmm. english. didn't u just claim to be independent @16? what then did that entail? |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by spikedcylinder: 6:10pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
20+ is a kid. . . . . You were financially responsible and family independent at 16? |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by igwe11(m): 6:14pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
this topic interesting no be small. the way u dey blow pigin here, i doubt you re not naija. back to the topic, why not be inviting him to your house,with this you can send your families out or better still visit him ordinary day and make love as much as you want. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by Pataki: 6:14pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
@ Poster, You guys are not married, so what is your stress? If you are bothered with the mother being there, you guys can go out for a treat. Has the mother obliged following you out also? Who says 20+ is still a kid? |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by Okijajuju1(m): 6:15pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
spikedcylinder: How?? On which continent?? Ehn do blood money abi Yahoo?? Or ehn win Jackpot?? |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by Sauron1: 6:16pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
iceblue: No doubt!!! She has needs but then u can't come between a man and her mother.
Mothers are protective especially with the high number of desperate females on the prowl. Would u let your son fall into the wrong laps??
Yes, i was. @ 16, most decisions were mine. . . . . I don't run to ma mum for advice or opinion. I learnt saying "No" to her at that tender age even with her emotional blackmail attempts. spikedcylinder: Financially responsible?? What has that gotta do with never letting ma girlfriend feel that she comes second and that ma mother always has the last word. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by Nobody: 6:17pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
igwe 1: You nor understand? him mama get radar wey she take dey detect my presence and before I know it *dling dlong* she don arrive! Pataki: He can't possibly leave his house with his mum in. She is always a visitor like anyone else. So if she comes in and he has the idea of going out, it automatically means asking his mum to leave as well. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by Okijajuju1(m): 6:18pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
~Sauron~: Thats not independence, Thats called being stubborn. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by spikedcylinder: 6:19pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
Pataki: I did. He's in his early 20's prolly still in school or something. To his mother, he is still a baby. Now bite me. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by tope2000(f): 6:21pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
michelin89: How often does the mum comes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by Nobody: 6:22pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
It seems a lot of people didn't read the first post. Here it is.
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Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by Nobody: 6:22pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
ahh, but parents have that emotional blackmail thing down pat! is it part of the ante-natal talks at the hospital? okija u no serious, LOL! i wan close abeg! layra mehn |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by Sauron1: 6:23pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
Okija_juju: Rebellion is independence. At that age, she knew i couldn't be bossed around ALL THE TIME. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by DavidDylan(m): 6:24pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
Okija_juju: lol true. Michelin the guy is now an ex . . . find another guy who doesnt have his mom around 24/7. I also dont agree that he cant leave the house with you when his mum is there . . . he just doesnt want to. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by spikedcylinder: 6:24pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
Michelin, Can I suggest something? You claim you need just 2 or 3 days in a month for a typical "US" time abi? Spend that time at your place. Or do you secretly want more? I.e want his mother to delete all together? |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by Pataki: 6:25pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
spikedcylinder:I won't bite you here. I prefer the bedroom biting. You know my bites are disastrous. That said, 20+ is not a kid. Would you call yourself a kid? michelin89:Why not? You guys are still handling your issues with naivety. Better still, you guys marry one another and tell me if the mother comes visiting, you guys cannot go out and leave her at home. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by spikedcylinder: 6:28pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
Pataki: Pataki. . . . . You know berra than to call me a kid. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by Nobody: 6:29pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
Pataki: I personally think that's rude. Why fail to attend to a visitor when you asked her to come? DavidDylan: so all is really lost?? spikedcylinder: We already spend some time in my house but since I don't live alone, he can't stay for the weekend. I have got no secret plans. I have my schedule and he has his ever since summer ended, so we have seriously reduced the number of visits (twice a month alternated). |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by spikedcylinder: 6:30pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
~Sauron~: In this case, the mother is not bossing him around. He WANTS her company. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by tope2000(f): 6:32pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
@michelin89 I suggest you move on with your life because that boy is certified Mama' boy and you will be always be second even if you guys get married and have zillion kids together. Living just 30mins away from his mum says it all |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by Sauron1: 6:33pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
spikedcylinder: Maybe the lad is just using his mother as an excuse. . . . . . No mother would prevent her son from going out with his girlfriend. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by igwe11(m): 6:35pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
michelin89: i cant help the lafta lol That means the mom is really doing a nice job taking care of her son. i know she will change as soon you guys say i do at the alter |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by Okijajuju1(m): 6:38pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
~Sauron~: Hmmm!! Good point. He was trying to use the mum to break up with her. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by Nobody: 6:39pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
Okija_juju: Silly guys! |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by DavidDylan(m): 6:40pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
michelin89: All hope is lost o . . . the guy isnt ever going to change for you. Either accept his mother or delete him from your life. tope2000: it doesnt say anything. Some men live with their mothers and still have plenty of "us" time with their girlfriends. the guy is just not that committed to her. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by Sauron1: 6:40pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
Okija_juju: Men and their various schemes of breaking away from their shackles. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by whatever90(f): 6:40pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
seriously michelin i think u r exagerating ,because d mum can't be there all d time,i mean every single time u visit sorry but i think its not d visit that is ur only prob,u r jealous of d guys feelings for his mum and d attention,shes his mum,he has d right to give her d attention and love hes giving to her now,c'mon don't give yourself unnecessary headache over one woman |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by MrCrackles(m): 6:41pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
whatever90: I seriously doubt this too |
Re: How Do You Handle A Mummy's Boy? by spikedcylinder: 6:42pm On Nov 11, 2008 |
~Sauron~: Maybe or maybe not. Thing is she (his mom) probably still pays some of his bills, cooks for him etc so she has every right to mother him. On that note, he is still HER kid. |
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