RashieGold:
Abi oooo! Its no big deal,u can't even cook for him with your own money sef. Some girls can lie and also pretend to provoke God....Chai

Natasha2:
Lmao Nashoji you go kill person with laugh oh

nomabeeee:
soo nice sweeri..exactly wat I had in mind when I said I won't be cooking for him all the time..but they seem not to understand it..anyway evryone is entitled to his/her opinion..*exists*

Deefuray:

Brother, this is a public forum, not everyone shares the same view with you. You dnt need to throw insults 'cause I have a different view on this

pharoahs:
My Gf doesn't cook when she comes to my place, and most times she comes around i always do not have cooked food waiting for her, so when she comes and asks for food I collect the money from her, go to buy the stuffs, prepare it to last for one week after she has gone....and yes, i keep the change

Bode2:
speaking on behalf of most reasonable ladies, I think ladies don't demand their dating partner to cook for them, I think the guy in question can still make use of soft drinks and snacks since it's just a visit, for crying out loud, his house is not a restaurant. Although the guy can SELDOM in fact RARELY cook and it is more honourable for ladies to dissuade their dating partner from cooking just in the name of entertainment. A lady must never cook in house of dating partner else she might start losing her worth or value and this goes along with the biblical words which compare a woman without discretion to a gold tied to a pig snout (cant really remember the exact words but we can at best form the imagery) and as someone said, you can cook that's if the guy come over to your place.

jpphilips:


woman's worth indeed where were you guys when I was still in d game?
girls like you, haha! I just take five years of your life and I will never tell you d truth why you got served, that will prepare the ground for another sane man to collect another 5yrs of your life, on your 40th birthday, you will be in a sanctuary challenging your god to a curse.
see their mouth!
A gal whose father cannot afford to give her a monthly upkeep allowance is talking about honorable.
Generation of glorified beggars decieving themselves with the pseudo mantra of modern women.

To believe that it is the same people who accept lunch dates with men just to eat free meals now use words like "self worth", "honorable" to dignify themselves.

Gloria3389:

see... no matter how we argue this we'll always see things from different perspectives
we ladies are really getting it wrong when it come to relationship....
different pple with different way of life

oapbrown:
@OP...thanks for bringing up this brilliant issue...but it's sad that this one reason is why many relationships have failed and many marriages ended...
Now, I'll say, relationships have fundamental rules esp when it's heading for marriage. The partners should portray what they will do in marriage before they're actually married (sex excluded). The only reason why u shudnt cook for yur guy is if he's not serious about ur relatnship or u have great doubts about him. Becos relationship is what gives a foundation for marriages. I do not see anything wrong in a lady cooking for her guy whenever she's in the guy's house or preferably, she cooks the food from her house and brings it to the guy. According to the OP's analysis, 5days visit in a month. I assume the guy does his cooking when yu're not there or finds another means to eat. Why not let him have a feeling and a difference betwn d time yu are with him and when yu're not? This helps yur relationship to be stronger. It's certain dat some guys can't cook, so if u don't cook for such guys, they look for someone who can cook for them all the time yu weren't around...and dos girls cud even go do the extra**. We're in relationships to become better pple, so if yu can't help a guy cook, how much impact will yu make in his life? Obviously, yu can't help with his loads of official duties...especially when his work takes a lot of his time. My point is cooking for a guy and doing some chores for him at least 90% of the time yu're together isn't a bad idea, because everyone needs assurance and security before entering into marriage. A lady, irrespective of her income or what she gets from her parents that cud make her not take from her guy, would always wanna be sure that her guy can sort out her needs when they marry and so a guy wants to be sure that his woman will cook good meals, with happiness even when they're married.
My advice to ladies, pls, if yu always allow yur guy take u out to eateries everytime and yu can't stop him, yu'd be so used to it but the day he finds a girl dat can cook at ease and won't allow him take her to eateries often, I bet yu the guy will start changing and could finally get stuck. To those who sees cooking as being a slave, I doubt if yu can maintain a home without good food. To those who are afraid of being submissive, there's no successful marriage without submission from the wife. The Bible says, 'wives submit yourselves to your husband' and men should love their wife, and not vice versa.
Finally, I have seen a situation where a guy had to chose betwn two ladies because of food. It sounds weird right? But it's true. The two of them cooked well, but one cooked more often than the other. The guy was our neighbor when we were still teenagers. I believe everyone desires a happy home irrespective of their status and career. Therefore, we should not do things because our friends do them, we shud always find out what works best for our relationships. Ladies should read their Bibles more and find out how to keep their homes and stop raising egos that will make dem end up being single mothers. Thank you all!

Bode2:
dear, just live by your principles, ethics and ethos and don't be swayed away by corrupt and inordinate practices of the world. I pray God help you

Nashoji:
my sister that girl too the vex me. you no see as she just the insult people anyhow? as she even ugly reach, she still the do yanga. the girl can lie for africa, she don commoy her pix self. hope you fine dear?

lovemaths:

Ask google, father christmas or ghostbusters. ewu. aturu. onye iberibe. useless thing.

Adaeze003:


Ehn na, then he cooks 4 himself!

I once asked on this forum, why must a woman cook 4 u? And I didn't get one reason why, just guys running around the question. Lol... is it coz its tradition is is there some logical reason? topic 4 another day I guess.

rufdyamond:

Obviously u just called yur dads middle and last names and sorry if u long expectd me to respond to dis...am way too old for dis drama with u nl children...got better tins to do and more importantly with pple dat ve got class and nt what ur profile says..rubbish

rufdyamond:

Obviously u just called yur dads middle and last names and sorry if u long expectd me to respond to dis...am way too old for dis drama with u nl children...got better tins to do and more importantly with pple dat ve got class and nt what ur profile says..rubbish

rufdyamond:

Obviously u just called yur dads middle and last names and sorry if u long expectd me to respond to dis...am way too old for dis drama with u nl children...got better tins to do and more importantly with pple dat ve got class and nt what ur profile says..rubbish

lovemaths:
you have the nerve to call me a child but let me tell you something. I have seen a 30 year old teenager and that's what you are. you think age is maturity? rubbish

Natasha2:


Lolz i'm good dearie. You cracked me up with your comment, you vex no be small which one be lie for Africa again na?

@oapbrown well said brother, you hit the nail on the head, but erm for dat your 90% e get as e be . I still love your comment though.

Natasha2:


Lolz i'm good dearie. You cracked me up with your comment, you vex no be small which one be lie for Africa again na? the girl lie the scare devil away. wetin vex me na way the girl just the abuse anybody. she really manners. i like doing things with good girls like you. how are you doing?

@oapbrown well said brother, you hit the nail on the head, but erm for dat your 90% e get as e be . I still love your comment though.

Natasha2:


Lolz i'm good dearie. You cracked me up with your comment, you vex no be small which one be lie for Africa again na?

@oapbrown well said brother, you hit the nail on the head, but erm for dat your 90% e get as e be . I still love your comment though.

TahariX:
I personally will not cook for anyone I'm not married to. I can cook for you if you're coming over to visit but going to someone's house and cooking for them is just a no-no. I'm not your wife bruh.

foxxynik:
@Lovemaths...... Am truly sorry abt the insult rained on you... You just have to take it easy!

@rufdyamond..... You dnt have to banter words with the ladies! It won't really speak good abt you!

lovemaths:
you have the nerve to call me a child but let me tell you something. I have seen a 30 year old teenager and that's what you are. you think age is maturity? rubbish

pasqal09:


In a way, yes. How can I cook when she's around? That's just not right.

rufdyamond:

mr pls can u point out the wrds used...smh for pple here

foxxynik:


Mtchwwwww!....#Immaturity@ItsPeak

rufdyamond:

i am too old to drag maturity with u cos ur action says it all...i ve being a nairalander for years and no one i repeat no one have i evr traded wrds with....

lovemaths:

Ask google, father christmas or ghostbusters. ewu. aturu. onye iberibe. useless thing.

rufdyamond:

Obviously u just called yur dads middle and last names and sorry if u long expectd me to respond to dis...am way too old for dis drama with u nl children...got better tins to do and more importantly with pple dat ve got class and nt what ur profile says..rubbish