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Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by tranxo(m): 7:25pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
aisha2:I wonder ooo. I'm out. |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by Ochiban: 7:32pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
A beg. True o! everyone is pointing out the real thing! my guy, se you dey play around and are now looking for excuse to cut loose from your wife? Because paternity test and birth control is a cheap excuse to look for fault in your wife. I dare you, go tell your mother and even she will immediately suspect that your wife is tired of having children, NOT cheating on you. Ive heard this game before. You accuse her of cheating on you so it eases your conscience to be unfaithful to your wife. Abeg o! No go catch AIDS and give your wife o! 8 Likes |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by chii8(f): 7:36pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
Mtcheeeew,some men shaa,ur wife is using pills n u nw want divorce?.... Ur last child is barely two n u want anoda child,na ur type dey leave wife for hosiptal if the third one is also a girl. Na only u waka com abi? 3 Likes |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by 5minsmadness: 7:39pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
MygeeZ Your thread is about to be derailed. If I were you I would take advice from the first twelve(12) comments you got and move on, ignore the rest. This is for your own good. 4 Likes |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by EfemenaXY: 7:47pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
5minsmadness: Awww...truth hurts, doesn't it? Besides, haven't you got a thread to attend to? Last time I checked, you had World War III going down there. 6 Likes |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by FynBabe(f): 7:49pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
I don laugh tire. chii8: |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by 5minsmadness: 8:16pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:Yeah it does, if its the truth. What thread? |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by EfemenaXY: 8:28pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by armyofone(m): 8:34pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
OP was/is not using Kundum and he is here complaining 2 Likes |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by 5minsmadness: 8:44pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:The last thread we encountered in was the western indecency destroying out morals thread. I have since abandoned it to you guys since I already got my message across. Or is there another one? |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by EfemenaXY: 8:50pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
5minsmadness: Why would you abandon that smoking, red-hot thread of yours? Biko, go back and tend to your garden man! And ye shall enjoy the fruit of your nairaland labour... 1 Like |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by estheremma(f): 8:52pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
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Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by Katier00(f): 9:23pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:. I wonder o, my dear ask him. I personally do not see anything wrong in using brith control pills without your consent. I have been on 5 year implanon without hubbys consent, this is my 3rd year. My hubby as a catholic believes only on billings method, a method i cant still degest till date. I took in for my second baby unplaned and i went tru hell with that pregnancy becos my rhesus factor . I decided that i will take charge of my body and do what is best for me. So talk to your wife about it and if you are tired of the marriage, just divorce her instead of makin excuses here, after all you just called your marriage bondage, there is more to that than a birth control pills . Why will your wife want to cheat on you sef? Why do you think she on pills because she is cheating 9 Likes |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by ixora3(f): 9:35pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
U don't even love ur wife.ur words r heavy.mayb u tired and u jst looking for a way out.y not talk to ur wife 5 Likes |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by beeevan: 11:17pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
If you don't want kids anymore and your spouse insists on more,what do you do? Do you keep breeding? I did get my self fixed... If marriage don tire you, you just found your excuse, she is probably tired of you too . 4 Likes |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by Nobody: 11:21pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
Kinda fuuny how ladies are rallying round Ops wife....I feel for OP. DEciet always leaves a bad taste in the mouth especially when it involves spouses. Op please learn to deal with the issue as maturedly as possible. Thats why am so so scared of marriage. You give others the power to hurt you once you love or get married. 4 Likes |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by 5minsmadness: 11:36pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
Guitarlife: No you don't. Don't mind these girls giving free opinions here. You decide as the man what you want in your marriage and you decide early on during courtship. And if your wife goes out of line like disrespecting you the way this guy's wife is disrespecting him, you discipline her on the spot. I'm not an advocate for divorce though. Its obvious they are having trust issues. Maybe oga wants a boy child like someone said and madam isn't ready yet. So she hid and took birth control. Unfortunately she got caught. Op should confront her, discipline her and forgive her, maybe come to a compromise and give her one more year of rest. A relationship like marriage should not be easily discarded. Unless there was never any real love to begin with. 4 Likes |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by 5minsmadness: 11:38pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: I hear 3 Likes |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by Nobody: 11:41pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: You never disappoint If she sleeps with another man, it's also her body, not so? 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by Nobody: 11:42pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: Dear lord 2 Likes |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by Kirinwa: 6:35am On Nov 01, 2014 |
mygeeZ: Bondage ke? With thousands of weddings going on all over the country says otherwise. Using contraceptives is not enough for divorce. Didn't you love her before marriage, she's still that same sweety sweety that made you skip meals to be with her... |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by Nobody: 7:16am On Nov 01, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:This is a very bad advice to give to married women that want to keep their family intact. In essence, it is okay for a man to undergo vasectomy without discussing it with his wife, because according to you, it is his body. 7 Likes |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by Nobody: 9:08am On Nov 01, 2014 |
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Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by mygeeZ(m): 9:10am On Nov 01, 2014 |
What if complications arises? dont you think its gonna affect me.[quote author=EfemenaXY post=27615381] Why should you feel betrayed? Over what? It's her body, not yours. Besides, you won't be the one left holding the baby, making sacrifices and keeping a big chunk of your life on hold - she will.[/quote] |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by mygeeZ(m): 9:27am On Nov 01, 2014 |
Thanks all.. i really appreciate all ur response and suggestions. Marriage itself is a continuos process of learning. I discused with my wife, made my fears and worries known to her. also told her of possible complications and side effects.. In marriage a woman no longer owns her body likewise men so the partners consent is needed to avoid betrayal. My annoyance is not that she used pills but doing it without telling me.[quote author=estheremma post=27619573][/quote] 2 Likes |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by marbee(f): 10:20am On Nov 01, 2014 |
@Op, it is proper for your wife to tell you before using birth control, always communicate with her instead of assuming. If your wife is not ready to have children don't force her because she is the one that will go through everything alone, you will not help her push the baby out.So to some extent she has the right to decide if she want more babies, and when she want them.Always communicate with her to know her fears and learn how to agree as a team. 2 Likes |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by EfemenaXY: 10:31am On Nov 01, 2014 |
mygeeZ: What sort of "complications"? Kindly explain. 1 Like |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by EfemenaXY: 10:38am On Nov 01, 2014 |
njokusboy: Neither do you. How does incorporating family planning equate to infidelity? 1 Like |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by EfemenaXY: 10:53am On Nov 01, 2014 |
mygeeZ: What a joke. So in the space of less than 12 hours, you've miraculously overcome your overwhelming feelings of: ~ Acute ownership ~ Unbearable betrayal ~ insurmountable bondage ~ And of course trust issues - so severe that you were contemplating DNA testing your kids and divorcing your wife To the point where you've sat her down to tell her the possible side effects and risks of incorporating Family Planning? Really. 3 Likes |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by EfemenaXY: 10:55am On Nov 01, 2014 |
ottizz: So a married woman who decides to go on the pill does so, because she "doesn't want to keep her family intact"? Yes? |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by Nobody: 10:59am On Nov 01, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: Ovarian cancer Not being able to concieve when one wants too. Postinor is an emergency morning after pill and shouldn't be used as a regularlong term contraceptive 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pills Without Husband Consent by Nobody: 11:00am On Nov 01, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: Lol Efe you should write a book |
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