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Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by nieema: 10:49am On Dec 28, 2014 |
Nmeri17: 2. We started off as friends. Currently we are in a dating relationship and he has not agreed to be friends. 3. He is NOT financially inadequate, lots of men go thru rough patches. He'll be fine. 4. Not right to send mixed signals...not cool at all! |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Abraham2013(m): 11:03am On Dec 28, 2014 |
zilon12:Dats exactly wat am saying. Since she does not hav 4m to give to d guy, she should simply breakup wit d dude and 4get about d money. 40k is an insult to any man to collect 4rm a woman as breakup gift. Watever is worth doing, is worth doing well. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Nmeri17: 11:05am On Dec 28, 2014 |
nieema: have u suggested remaining in the relationship but him knowing that you wouldn't give him as much attention as before for a period BEECOOOOOS you have so so so issues at the moment?? 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by emsheddy(m): 11:23am On Dec 28, 2014 |
nieema:Nieema dear, av given dis ur issue a careful thought. I have dis to say to u, u cant keep withdrawing to urself each time u wanna work on urself. U did say that this method has always been workin for u. But let me ask, hw long will u continue to use dat method. U might be destroying a one time shot at the best relationship anyone can have. Why not try something new? Imagine the world with no one but just u. No one shud walk life alone dear. Thats why we r there for each other. Ur bf is ur best choice at working on urself now. Do not tow the withdrawing to urself line. Its not the best. You can do better than that dear. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by softboy(m): 11:34am On Dec 28, 2014 |
nieema:I was in dis same situation abt 2weeks ago,bt I did nt tak it lightly,afta all we hav shared u jst wake up 1 day 2 tell me u want 2 b alone 4 smtym,tank God I ended it drastically 4 ha,so ma pride will still remain |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Originalsly: 12:00pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
I hear you on the finances. But if he has a history of not accepting money from you ...for gas and whatever...why are you trying to give him money at this point? Don't you realize that he is one that believes man must always be the provider? ...in good times or bad? If he is able to manage financially at this point why offer him money? Even if offering him a "break up gift" would be good for your soul....why must it be money? ....which you should've known he would not accept? Why not buy him a gift....like normal lovers do? You talk of love but your actions and line of thought would make one believe that you view the relationship as a business. ...."I love my business...but at the moment I need to shut it down because of personal reasons...to you my faithful customer who had no plan B...here is N Bleep as a token to show how much I love you....I want you to remain my loyal customer but I wouldn't say if or when I'll reopen". OP... no doubt ...you love him as a brother.....but you crossed over into a different kind of love and relationship....if you pull out you cannot be friends again....you become the ex and that's why he is saying stay away..no friendship....as an ex you should not be around him period...free the guy...get out of his life and let him find someone to love him through thick or thin...someone who they both can share and help each other overcome their personal difficulties. Free the guy....you don't deserve him. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by redcliff: 1:07pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
DopeAngel: Lol. You did not even catch my message |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Tosinville(m): 1:16pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
temitemi1:NO AMOUNT? This must be some sort of joke or something |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Brite02(m): 1:46pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
Op. How i wish you could explain in details why you want to leave your boyfriend. By then, maybe something of a good advice can come out. a.) You want some space to refocus.... b.) You still love him....but you dont want to be in a relationship with anyone at this time. c.) What are the several reasons? d.) We promised each other that we would always be honest about how we were feeling. I reminded him of this when I tried to break things off six weeks ago..... why are you using this against him? e.) I proposed that we go back to being friends but he rejected my offer. Even though we started as friends he said he isnt willing to have a friendship with me if I end the relationship. I don't think it's fair because I've been genuinely good to him.... And so? Is it fair what you are about doing to him? @Op. why are you playing games with his heart 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by nairaman66(m): 2:23pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
nieema: Stay faithful and supportive still dear. You guys need each other unless you got someone else. |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Tosinville(m): 2:48pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
OP must be seeing somebody else who's flier than his bf that's why she wanna use 40Gs d dude gave her to bribe him and to tell him to take his mind off d relationship, so u think its time to dump him in his predicament and good loving time of d past don turn story for d gods 4 u now? Chai 9ja girls dey dangerous o! #thot#feelings. |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by holatin(m): 3:00pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
yomi007k:abi now |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by PrettySpicey(f): 4:02pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
JeffreyJamez: @ bolded -- INSULT!!! I'm sure you know what to do to earn your forgiveness P.S. Drop the car keys with my PA |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by JeffreyJamez(m): 4:04pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
PrettySpicey: Nah.... I'll drop a pair of very strong shoes for your trekking purpose lol |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by fabolakers(m): 4:23pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
Originalsly:You've said it all. Nothing else should be added cos right now my guy will be thinking he has a girlfriend which is not the case. @OP, if I was him, I would want you to free me from that cos it seems like he can't do it by himself cos of the way he feels about you. |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by PrettySpicey(f): 5:10pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
JeffreyJamez: Winchcraft is when you lil bro wishes you a long trek |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by nieema: 5:39pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
justscorch:"You can ride for a niggah your whole life...New punny fucck it up in one night!"-K.Michell Loyal female remix |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by JeffreyJamez(m): 5:46pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
PrettySpicey: Forgive first lol |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by nieema: 5:46pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
@justscorch You can't step to me about being loyal with Chris Brown lyrics...lol Who has he been loyal to?? Besides and his song is as weak as water. You gotta come harder than that. |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Nobody: 5:46pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
Originalsly:so on point with this! 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by nieema: 6:08pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
Originalsly:Ouch!! Sir, I have heard you and I get it. He rang me last night cos he's not feeling well, sick with a bad cold. I'm going to go over and check on him soon. My relationship should be a partnership not a business. I do understand that. Thank you. |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by justscorch: 6:36pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
nieema: Is that what we are doing now? Keep replying me and u might just get it |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Originalsly: 7:00pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
@Nieema...glad you got it. If you really make up your mind to continue the relationship then you need to apologise for not considering his emotions....and being more open and considerate in the future. If not...let him know you are there because of his request and would be moving on as soon as the illness goes away. I'm out. |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by nieema: 7:11pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
justscorch:Don't start no SH..and there won't be any IT. You referenced a song and I replied in kind...and what? |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by ALEXTER: 7:22pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
Gifts are meant to keep memories, so collecting that money will keep u thinking about the relationship. it can lead to more troubles from d heart so is better nt to collect. even d bible says gifts wins d heart! so instead of suffering such a huge hartbreak its better to forget d person there! |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by justscorch: 7:49pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
nieema: All this abokii girls sef,Oya tell me what do u want from me? |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by nieema: 8:25pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
justscorch:Nothing. Keep doing you. Nothing dey happen. |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by justscorch: 9:20pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by JeffreyJamez(m): 10:08pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
PrettySpicey: Big sis have you the movie NO GOOD DEED by Idris Elba |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Nobody: 2:13am On Dec 29, 2014 |
nieema:Sis I always believe that their is time for every thing.true you might loss him if you back out a little but,you might also loss him if your personal issues you want to take care of remains unattended to and interferes in ur relationship.ur the one dating him hence you take the decision but,he might as well help u put yourself together if you open up to him-thats d beauty of love.I would end this with one of my b;est quotes"if u truly love someone let him/her go.if they are meant for u they would come back |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by PrettySpicey(f): 3:43am On Dec 29, 2014 |
JeffreyJamez: Did you purposely mention Idris so I can go after it like a crack head goes after cocainum? Haven't seen it...................... but it's a must now |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:34am On Dec 29, 2014 |
PrettySpicey: Hehehe.....Idris was very scary in that movie. |
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