kilokeys:
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What Else Will A Girl Gain From A Guy That Says "No Spending" In The Relationship?

Breastman:
These lie lie girls and mumu boys dey make person vex. See as them dey quarrel with OP. The question is simple na, what do guys gain without sex in a relationship. Sex be the only thing wey most Naija girls fit offer and they sef know. How many Naija girls dey happily date poor man wey dem like because say e handsome or cool.

This love and companionship story na big scam. Eyin boys give unaself brain. Oyinbo girls dey date any guy wey dem like, whether broke or not. In fact dem dey use dia money take guys comot and buy gifts, if guy fine or e sabi Bleep, na wetin oyinbo girl dey look be dat. But Naija girls expect say na guys go dey spend for ordinary friendship sef, talk less of relationship. If so, what else apart from kpomo man fit gain? The nonsense responses for this thread dey vex me bad bad I swear. Yeye runs girls wey dey do aristo levels come dey form relationship virgin for here. And mumu boys go dey support or believe dem join. Yeye dey smell.

Whobedatte:
If u fall for the platonic bullshit, don't be surprised if after breakup, she may even deny she ever dated you or even met you in real life
Sex is like a bargaining right guys have over girls for life. She will always acknowledge the fact that you v marked her register &would respect u even if u Guyz r not together anymore.

donpeey22:
you berra not date swedy. That "oil field" in between your legs should be preserved for exploration only in marriage. That would yield so much money, you know.

PrettyGaby:

yhu can't be serious. Money ke?

Prodeegee:



GBAM!!!


You said it all.

Its a pity some guys are forming too holy here. "I've never had sex with my gf" bullsh*t...awon oniro oshi.

Even the girls...they expect u to buy this and buy that,and no sex...

Whoever said relationship isn't business is a fuckin gay!

Partnership toh bad...I willbuy you ferrari...you will gimme the kpomo!

Pls quote me

Bandeco:
Brothers here on nairaland. These
creatures with vag...a between their legs are not loyal at all. Am talking base on a terrible experience I had wit one of them. There is this gal I was "dating" back then in school that also came up with the "no sex". For over a year she still maintained her "stance". I had the opportunity to bleep this monicker but she won't let me pull her pant to slot in JT. As tym went by I got a very credible info from a very reliable source dat a niqqa in her department (the niqqa was in a higher level than her) was bleeping this monicker front , back, left, right , centre. Mehn I was in emotional trauma when I got this info but my informant adviced me not to confront her dat I should just try to collect my own share( I be don invest no be small). So afterwards I brought the idea for us to go spend a nite in an hotel, she oblige but gave me conditions dat no sex( dat we can only go there kiss n smooch) I ask her wat her reason was she said sex is "fornication". With fits of annoyance I insisted we are going there to b intimate , this gal told me she ain't going again dat she will tell me when she is ready for sex. Omoh, anger don rise I now let the cat out of the bag and told her . when it comes to me sex is 4nication, u maintain iron pant but this other nigga is fuckin ur pussy like no man land. Her reaction at dat point confirmed dat allegation. so after much vibration and insults she admiited and was begging me . So I just forget anything aft sex with dat babe cos if I eventually had my way I won't enjoy the sex as it will be a sex out of convenience and a pressure sex. I learn from this experience and since then no gal, I repeat no babe has ever taken me for a ride again. I bleep them now without spending a dime. So brodas don't buy this "no sex" bullcrap from any lady except u want make u dey fuel motor make anoda dude dey drivam

donpeey22:
yes na. btw , na Enugu u dey? Let's hook up fast so we can discuss how to preserve ur most cherished asset.

PrettyClare7:
I thought dating is to check if two ppl r compatible enough to stay together for ever. Besides a woman has other uses apart from sex. You wil have a confidant,someone who encourages you to face the world. Someone who you can tell your weakness without being scared,someone who will make you feel loved. Someone you can trust,a person you can play with..behave like a child and still retain your dignity. If only you know how sex makes a r/ship complicated. R/ship is stil fun without sex.

PrettyGaby:

yea, 'm in 042. But naah, don't trust you. :p

youngds:

Op@ dis are the type of girls your gf make friends with, always looking for d next maga to hit! watchout man some one else is combing her mercilessly!

Misogynist2014:
Is it op's question you are answering?

SeverusSnape:
Well, That's how most guys see it, In most relationships, The lady hardly contribute in term of finance and stuffs. So the mind set is this; You can't contribute in cash, Then you can contribute in Kind.

Note: I don't buy this idea, Just saying.
And I've never had sex with my girl friend(s)

hmmm yo type can wànk for Africa if yu represent us at the Olympics in a wanking category you'll bring home a lot of medals

safarigirl:
phucked up mindset.

Nobody will be doing any phuckin' until you've paid my dowry, but if you want, you can exorcise your demons outside. Just incase it doesn't work out, I won't be the one with regrets

Hitunnu:
If only u know the kind of risk men go through in relationship u wnt talk the way u do. Relationship is not free nomatter how poor a guy is, love is extremely difficult. Every woman wants something mutual than brother to sister interaction but not willing to make up the difference. If sex is not involved, u practically maintain the position of a blood sister and when that hapenes a section of the relationship is suffocated. We often feel so fulfiled when our guy get moved and go gaga when he sees us, that's the main reason for all those sweet sexy hot dresses. We should rather consider staying without a boyfriend than keeping a relationship without sex. We obviously can't eat our cakes and still have it.

ayokunlei:

very reasonable comment from a matured Person.
But what if d lady is not a Virgin? Dia is more of d probability that someone else is sampling her elsewhere.

Louis055:
Please my fellow nairalanders I need your comments on this. How can a guy be sure if a girl loves him when she suddenly says No sex in the relationship. What else will the guy gain from dating her. Since relationship is mutual and the girl is closing her part, what will the guy be gaining from her.

SHOCK7:

Guy u fit bet 'ur life on 'ur last statement?

Nmeri17:


hmmm yo type can wànk for Africa if yu represent us at the Olympics in a wanking category you'll bring home a lot of medals

Louis055:
Please my fellow nairalanders I need your comments on this. How can a guy be sure if a girl loves him when she suddenly says No sex in the relationship. What else will the guy gain from dating her. Since relationship is mutual and the girl is closing her part, what will the guy be gaining from her.

donpeey22:
The guy will be watching her like a TV program.

striktlymi:
If a lady has nothing but sex to offer you, how then is she any different from a prostitute?

The silly notion that guys provide money and girls sex when in a relationship should go right out da window.

Hitunnu:
If only u know the kind of risk men go through in relationship u wnt talk the way u do. Relationship is not free nomatter how poor a guy is, love is extremely difficult. Every woman wants something mutual than brother to sister interaction but not willing to make up the difference. If sex is not involved, u practically maintain the position of a blood sister and when that hapenes a section of the relationship is suffocated. We often feel so fulfiled when our guy get moved and go gaga when he sees us, that's the main reason for all those sweet sexy hot dresses. We should rather consider staying without a boyfriend than keeping a relationship without sex. We obviously can't eat our cakes and still have it.