internetpirate:
My guy, you're particularly dull! And so? What's wrong with "search for" excellence? To seek has several connotations which include "attempt to find something", "To try to locate or discover", "To endeavour to obtain or reach" etc. In this context, I meant that we should try to endeavour to obtain excellence!

The meaning of a word depends on the context in which it is used, mister. Stop highlighting your poor schooling. I actually thought you had something intelligent to say, and I was willing to learn, insult or not!

This is exactly what I was trying to highlight; instead of supporting my point to create a better society, you were rather searching for a weakness in my rendition to scratch your deep inferiority complex.

You're not dull, sir. You're daft. You're also unhinged.

The use of 'seek' presupposes the inclusion of 'for'. You don't 'seek for' something, you 'seek' it, dumbo.

The meaning of a word depends on the context in which it is used? Okay. Keep saying 'search for for'. I guess people will realise it's the product of your proper (and expensive) schooling.

The only thing I learnt in your rants is that you've mastered the art of cloaking your lack of aptitude with - yes, rants. I won't dignify this exhibition of insanity with any other word.

icedbeatz:

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tell her bro, "change of mindset " truly is what we need. I hope she adheres to the advice than wallow in stuupity and don't get me started on the bandwagon. how can one think it's OK to be stuupid, foollish or mediocre just because another individual is?? we really got a long way to go.

Let's start with you, genius. How dare you point fingers when most of your spellings are incorrect, your write-up is riddled with poor punctuations? You don't even know how to start your sentences with capital letters. Charlatans all over Nairaland.

Op just explain to her that you are not comfortable with it. I am sure they meant no harm, some families are close knit....I've worn very little clothing around my brothers before, l bet they even see me as a guy or one of them cos we grew up that way. Just that now when they visit me and notice I am about to UnCloth they nervously leave the room.

to me it's wrong

Relax ,there's nothing to worry about. its her brother and that's how they grow up. But since she now knows you don't like it,she will adjust

Eljay24:
PunkyOh

But why"
d arguments nawww,

There's always an amicable way to settle stuff than back lashes tho"

my brother,wich other way cn we settle this?it is galz lyk dis u see arguing wit dre future husby in cos she doznt tk correctn,my guy PRIDE no gud,jez tk correctns and move on#shikena

It is no biggie.I grew up that way with my sisters. Smelling incest, your wife should know better. For heaven's sake, she's older to take such chances abi na so d brother fine reach?

No big deal

This op needs to see how many times I woke up to see a wrapper over my body after sleeping completely unclad. Thanks to my brothers.Or how many times I have seen my brothers display BLOKUS from their boxers in a lazy fashion.I go just kick their legs.No biggie jare.Youre wife even was half naked, what about those of us that is completely naked?

EMEKA1MILLION:
It is wrong for a married woman to dress up in front of anyone Atall except her husband...

what about dressing up in front of other ladies? I see nothing wrong here, d disrespect would b if she is fully unclad in front of her brother then that would b disrespecting d husband. If she has underwears on in front of her brother while dressing up,to me its cool.

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Op, pls make no mountain out of moe hill.

There is everything wrong with it i must confess, if the wife doesn't recognise that she is married and as such some of the habits she was used to ought to come to an end then the brother being a guy should know better in her matrimonial home for that.

As harmless as it may seem, such things sometimes don't speak well of people in the long run. The man should just chastise his wife most importantly and it should be settled. Its nothing too serious

pbs4real:
tk it or leave it. .u hv a big problem. . #PRIDE

I leave it. Ho hum!

Oh & I DO NOT have a problem, you nit pickers do however. Go be OCD elsewhere & not on my mentions. I write & speak how I want, unless situation requires me to be more formal. Copy that!

oga no allow one mumu tin to spoil ur mood they are family for Godsake and its been that way from time but the bro shud have excuzed her knowin that shes in her hubbys house

The woman has issues. Yes, its inappropriate.

PunkyOh:


No.

Lolz,u need deliverance,jez 2 stubborn. . . .

internetpirate:
My guy, you're particularly dull! And so? What's wrong with "search for" excellence? To seek has several connotations which include "attempt to find something", "To try to locate or discover", "To endeavour to obtain or reach" etc. In this context, I meant that we should try to endeavour to obtain excellence!

The meaning of a word depends on the context in which it is used, mister. Stop highlighting your poor schooling. I actually thought you had something intelligent to say, and I was willing to learn, insult or not!

This is exactly what I was trying to highlight; instead of supporting my point to create a better society, you were rather searching for a weakness in my rendition to scratch your deep inferiority complex.

Oh Lord!!!

internetpirate:
My guy, you're particularly dull! And so? What's wrong with "search for" excellence? To seek has several connotations which include "attempt to find something", "To try to locate or discover", "To endeavour to obtain or reach" etc. In this context, I meant that we should try to endeavour to obtain excellence!

The meaning of a word depends on the context in which it is used, mister. Stop highlighting your poor schooling. I actually thought you had something intelligent to say, and I was willing to learn, insult or not!

This is exactly what I was trying to highlight; instead of supporting my point to create a better society, you were rather searching for a weakness in my rendition to scratch your deep inferiority complex.

Oh Lord!!!

softysparky:

Maybe they use to live in a one room apartment.

U sef always trading softly with ur comments. Which be one apartment again

Ishilove:
It's no big deal to me. He's my brother, for God's sakes. What am I hiding from him that he hasn't seen since we were kids?

Remember, it didnt matured then, but now it has a very thick forest na! Or should i talk and die?

PunkyOh:


I leave it. Ho hum!

Oh & I DO NOT have a problem, you nit pickers do however. Go be OCD elsewhere & not on my mentions. I write & speak how I want, unless situation requires me to be more formal. Copy that!

upbringing has a lot 2 do. . Anyways i roger u lima alpha charlie.

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na wa for some women o shame on her

Is not right. My opinion pls.

PunkyOh:
It's wrong. No respect.

My cousin brother is two years younger but he'll get out of the house if anyone (female) is about to take a bath. In our culture privacy is very important, just like I can't just enter his room without knocking 1st.

Did you say two years old? In which part of the world,an infant that is still developing his sensory organs.

pbs4real:
upbringing has a lot 2 do. . Anyways i roger u lima alpha charlie.

Upbringing has a lot to do with what? How many people come here & write in slang, pidgin etc...do you think the same people would walk into an office building or wherever & start speaking in street lingo? It's situational.

I was not raised at Buckingham Palace, so I think I'm allowed to speak Engrish if I want to.

Redoil:
result or no result live goes on. I promise to buy you a bigger house to live in so that you will never say anything about one room aprtment. Salute ur folks for me tell them i love you.

Awwww I can't wait.
When are you coming to see my parents?

donbrowser:

See as you carry person matter for head like Nepa ladder

donbrowser:

See as you carry person matter for head like Nepa ladder

tinyanosa:
Did you say two years old? In which part of the world,an infant that is still developing his sensory organs.

TWO YEARS YOUNGER. My cousin brother is two years younger than me

Its so bad because human being will always be.......brother do not trust anybody only your God,

What I just know is that call your wife and let her know what is right incase she doesn't know.

Fxwarrior:




Grow up.

Op is your wife from Akwa Ibom? They have such weird behaviours. Wait until she starts cuddling and kissing her brother and of course it means nothing to them as one told me.

You are highly perverted.

PAINGAIN:
what about dressing up in front of other ladies? I see nothing wrong here, d disrespect would b if she is fully unclad in front of her brother then that would b disrespecting d husband. If she has underwears on in front of her brother while dressing up,to me its cool.

in front of other ladies is understandable but in front of a grown young man in the name of relation... Its wrong..