xier:


Lack of trust has made it impossible for us to give benefit of a doubt. You said the abortion, if hers, was conducted months ago before you guys started dating. Remember, it's possible it may truly never be hers. My candid advice, do not approach her directly but stylishly confront her. You could say something like, 'imagine what I found in your room. One needs to be careful with our environments before things that do not belong to us or that belongs to our past comes hunting us'. I can assure you that if its hers confession will start flowing

After they started dating not before..u put chewing gum for eye?

/p68Ppy-3t

Like you said, this also has to do with the issue of marriage such that it's lacking trust and commitment already. And as the way you went ahead to describe the actual description of that very untrustworthy situation indicates the marriage would definitely collapse. In a meantime, all one could try considering is how to make her confess the whole truth... I mean WHOLE truth to keep the love flow sailing.

Mbkite:
He was so shocked when he saw a positive pregnancy test result in the room of the lady he wants to marry. The result shows that the test was conducted 7months ago, after he started dating her. This simply implies she aborted the pregnancy and lied to him never to have had abortion. He is really confused and has lost trust in her, but he still loves her.
NOTE: He has not slept with her for even a day.
What should he do to format what he saw from his memory and continue with the lady? Is this likely to affect his attitude towards the lady in the nearest future?

Matured advice please....

Cc: lalasticlala, ishilove - Pls help us push this to the FP, the guy needs more help. Thanx

does the test result carry her name?if it does please go and visit usain bolt for lesson on how to run.cos you will need to run for your life.

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freecocoa:
I don't think the OP meant a strip, she went to the lab and got a result sheet.

Then the OP should provide us with more accurate information and evidence.

What was the hcG level in her blood sample?

A positive hcG doesnt mean an intact pregnancy at all! She might have had a miscarriage, blatum ovum or ectopic pregnancy.

Did the OP see an attest of the abortion institute?

Preliminary judgement are better avoided!

On a positive note... if it was a lab form the OP saw, he now also knows her status on infectious diseases...because that is also standard tested in case of pregnancy.

Let me give you a solution.

Prepare a questionnaire for both friends,
Put them in different rooms and make them fill it.
Check for consistency in both answers, then you will know if it really is her friend's result.

It's crazy I know!

U are in troble ooo! It is high time for u to remember those u hv sleept with under a year.

Timbuktou:


Your friend is a schmuck. So, he hasn't slept with this babe who isn't a virgin; strike 1. Strike 2; he wants to go on even after finding out that this 'virtuous' babe is an abortion veteran?

You/your friend don't need mature advice. Feel free to go on with the marriage. Good luck.

Any little tin advice advice, dem nor wise Ni ?, common sense is really not common..
#My advice[ Talk to d Lady, ask her,if she tells u d truth Den go ahead and marry her BT if otherwise, Quite cous u 1 Mary problem

Tomorrow topic will b "My babe is double dating pls advice"

NLder and dia 'my friend, my friend' story.... it can never happen to them, sure, except it's all positive story.
So, this happened to your friend, he couldn't reason what to do..... came to u for advice, u seff turn to NLders.... isaoraitz! I won't just say anything!

Buh unto say, I belong to every body and I belong to nobody, lemme contribute my 2 cents :
The babe is a blatant liar except she proves otherwise with genuine evidence. So, if u can cope, sorry, if your friend can cope with this miraculous vision because of love matter, pls go ahead 'ayor!
Huh marriage is much more than loving each other. 'Trust' is keyyyyy!

In Tinubu's voice,,,Congraglation

tell your friend to 'mark register' with d lady before confronting her. because d relationship might crash after d confronting.

Anaskie:
Cc. Babyosisi, Urchbarbie

Yes
I heard my name

CSTR2:
Bros no be laughing matter o.
A very brainy wife is a must.
I don't want "jembete" as kids.
God knows, i hate any form of dullness.

Same here. You actually did speak my mind.

Nursy:
Wahala dey o... Some men/women can lie eh and they will not arrange themselves well.

Reminds me of a friend who was going about the place telling us she's a virgin(nobody asked her o) meanwhile another person told me of how she directed her to where she had an abortion..

The guy should confront her sha. No one is perfect but there are certain things u don't do or u arrange urself well.

Women are mysterious creatures

Mbkite:
He was so shocked when he saw a positive pregnancy test result in the room of the lady he wants to marry. The result shows that the test was conducted 7months ago, after he started dating her. This simply implies she aborted the pregnancy and lied to him never to have had abortion. He is really confused and has lost trust in her, but he still loves her.
NOTE: He has not slept with her for even a day.
What should he do to format what he saw from his memory and continue with the lady? Is this likely to affect his attitude towards the lady in the nearest future?

Matured advice please....

Who keeps a stick they pee-ed on for 7 months?
A woman is dating a man,carries belle from elsewhere,does a pregnancy test,it is positive,she keeps aborts the baby but keeps the positive test within reach for 7 months

Sorry I don't believe this story

FYI most women pee on the strip and throw the stock in a nearby trash can the next minute after reading it
We don't keep it as a trophy
Please ladies,do pregnancy test strips now have a date of when test was taken
Since when
its been a while I did that kain thing

Mbkite:
He was so shocked when he saw a positive pregnancy test result in the room of the lady he wants to marry. The result shows that the test was conducted 7months ago, after he started dating her. This simply implies she aborted the pregnancy and lied to him never to have had abortion. He is really confused and has lost trust in her, but he still loves her.
NOTE: He has not slept with her for even a day.
What should he do to format what he saw from his memory and continue with the lady? Is this likely to affect his attitude towards the lady in the nearest future?

Matured advice please....

which kain yawa be this na?...sing into her ear that things have changed that this is the era of buhari.

threaten to report her to efcc, icpc and buhari. She no go wan go prison.

wallahi she go change and tell you the truth

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babyosisi:


Who keeps a stick they pee-ed on for 7 months?
A woman is dating a man,carries belle from elsewhere,does a pregnancy test,it is positive,she keeps aborts the baby but keeps the positive test within reach

Sorry I don't believe this story

FYI most women pee on the strip and throw the stock in a nearby trash can the next minute after reading it
We don't keep it as a trophy

Ok. I am for everybody, am not for anybody.

Mbkite:

she denied it wasn't hers, that it was for her close friend, bt d friend used her name. Imagine!

If she could still deny up until this moment,even with evidence at her face...She isn't worth trusting & could still have other darker past of hers that she is hiding & might affect your marriage in future time.

Be careful bro.

Okay...she had an abortion or could have had a miscarriage .

Abortion is not the only way to lose a baby! If she had a miscarriage then she is not a liar.

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babyosisi:


Who keeps a stick they pee-ed on for 7 months?
A woman is dating a man,carries belle from elsewhere,does a pregnancy test,it is positive,she keeps aborts the baby but keeps the positive test within reach for 7 months

Sorry I don't believe this story

FYI most women pee on the strip and throw the stock in a nearby trash can the next minute after reading it
We don't keep it as a trophy
Please ladies,do pregnancy test strips now have a date of when test was taken
Since when
its been a while I did that kain thing

I took one 11 months ago when I found out I was pregnant! I didn't have a calendar on mine! I think he meant the expiration date of the test!

Exactly! When pregnancy test has a calendar on it? How would he know that it was 7 months ago?

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Ohk... I think if a girl is brave enough to have an abortion, she would be smart enough to destroy the evidences[pregnancy test].

Then

It may not be an abortion, it might just be a miscarriage, if not, what will she be doing with a seven months pregnancy test result??

But what do I know sef

Tufanja:


Then the OP should provide us with more accurate information and evidence.

What was the hcG level in her blood sample?

A positive hcG doesnt mean an intact pregnancy at all! She might have had a miscarriage, blatum ovum or ectopic pregnancy.

Did the OP see an attest of the abortion institute?

Preliminary judgement are better avoided!

On a positive note... if it was a lab form the OP saw, he now also knows her status on infectious diseases...because that is also standard tested in case of pregnancy.

She already said it wasn't hers, as I don't knowhow your friend would get a test with your name and you'll be the one holding the results.

Although, I do believe that she may not have had an abortion, until proven otherwise.

Smhart1:
Girls disgracing ladies

since 1700 BC

With this comment I don't need to talk much... All I know many abortion doesn't hinder to giving birth n giving birth safely if at all womb still dey[ quote author=Mbkite post=34171910]
gud one. Thanx[/quote]

With this comment I don't need to talk much... All I know many abortion hinder to giving birth n giving birth safely if at all womb still dey ....no mind ma blunder in the first quote [ quote author=Mbkite post=34171910]
gud one. Thanx[/quote]

pinkyruledworld:
since 1700 BC

I tell you

The girl dull sha! What was she still doing with such evidence after 7 months? Well, I abhor unintelligent ladies o but bro, it depends on what your interest in ladies are. If you check her out and she passed, I don't see why you should leave her for that reason. He might have even carried out the abortion and left the other guy because of you.

Think well and act fast.