MrsChima:


You can disagree....it is your right.

Result, doxument, and statement relatively mean the same thing.

I just want to make sure people are not confusing home test with lab test.

Results and statements do not relatively mean the same thing in medical field. That is what I have been stating all along.

And when someone is being told about pregnancy test done in the lab or a pregnancy test result with name and date on it, the first thing that comes to one's head is home strip test? Really?

DollyParton1:


Results and statements do not relatively mean the same thing in medical field. That is what I have been stating all along.

And when someone is being told about pregnancy test done in the lab or a pregnancy test result with name and date on it, the first thing that comes to one's head is home strip test? Really?

Dictionary is a wonderful thing!

profbrightuzoma:
Make sure you photo copy it and ask her again if she says no still tell her that you saw it if she denies it show her d evidence, still 4give and marry her if she worths it

Chai, this one nah killer moves. She will fear the guy forever, that is if she is remorseful. Some ladies no get remorse..

Smhart1:
Girls disgracing ladies

ladies disgracing themself

Mbkite:

she denied it wasn't hers, that it was for her close friend, bt d friend used her name. Imagine!

Telling lies on top of iniquity.

I will not advice you to continue. I have been through this. It does not end well with such girls..

Timbuktou:


1. "Statement of Result". It doesn't have to 17 pages to be a statement

statement of result in medicine is entirely different from any medical test result.

Well, I was right then. Since I'm neither a doctor, nurse, or lab officer or pregant woman, I chose to be cautious, hence, my use of 'most likely'. Got a problem with that?

I have a problem with that because despite the fact that have a vague idea of what u are talking about, but u still went ahead with a faux authority to say I am beating about the bush. Jumping in to save the day like u have the accurate answer.

MrsChima:


Dictionary is a wonderful thing!

errrm u might actually wanna pull out the dictionary and let us break it down. Plus did u notice that I said medical field? No? Not your day to day english please.

Timbuktou:


Your friend is a schmuck. So, he hasn't slept with this babe who isn't a virgin; strike 1. Strike 2; he wants to go on even after finding out that this 'virtuous' babe is an abortion veteran?

You/your friend don't need mature advice. Feel free to go on with the marriage. Good luck.

I am telling you.

The way some guys become so afraid to lose some untrustworthy ladies is very unfair to the menfolk.

If you are dating a girl, first thing is to ensure she is not seeing another guy. Pregnancy which you are not responsible for and she is still lying to cover it up is the height of impunity..

easyconnect:
@Op, is the test result carrying her name? you need to be sure if its hers or her friends test result.

See her type here. Do you need binoculars to read the opening post very well ?

This indeed is bad oooh! Any one entry into a serious relationship should tell his man/ fiance about this kind of incidents, before he finds out himself or from gossip outside.
But in this case, the man should confront her and try to hear her out. The man's step of action has to depend on what she has to say.
You can't take it from this man, he has lost trust on this lady and when there is no trust what do you hold on to?

DollyParton1:

errrm u might actually wanna pull out the dictionary and let us break it down. Plus did u notice that I said medical field? No? Not your day to day english please.

Medical professionals write statements all the time. Statements are used to narrate the results in the field. It can be notarized or use as a Verification of the result.

The result is put on a piece of paper and therefore is a statement. A statement is a declaration of a result or verification of a diagnosis.

It is all correlated!

Your stance is because you haven't seen it done in Nigeria...it is inaccurate!

I haven't seen a tsunami...it doesn't mean it doesn't exist!

Timbuktou:


Your friend is a schmuck. So, he hasn't slept with this babe who isn't a virgin; strike 1. Strike 2; he wants to go on even after finding out that this 'virtuous' babe is an abortion veteran?

You/your friend don't need mature advice. Feel free to go on with the marriage. Good luck.

so gals wey abort mak dm cast dm away abi?sumtimes wen pple talk i wonda y dy dnt first consider putin dmselves in one shoes,dnt form holy it cud happen 2 any1



as for me i dnt tink dat gal owns dat result,y wud she kip it at first wen she knws u wana marry ha,they ar more 2 wat u dont knw,my advice is trust ur bae stil call ha nd let ha gv u detail hw it happen watch hw she narrates d story after dat b convince in ur mindset she is innocent.ur mindset is all dat matters nw.

Good morning guys... Lemme just go straight to the point. I've been reading peoples comments on the matter & to be candid nairalanders have offered the op very good advice's but i just want to tell the op that it is far better to live and die single than to marry a woman that ain't trust worthy..... My brother if you want to live long I'll advice you dump that piece of trash cos if she cant be sincere now i doubt if she will be sincere anytime soon but if you also have some skeletons in your cupboard i suggest you stick with her. Dont know why people lie about such things no body is perfect we all make mistakes some people will say there is small & big mistake but to me all na mistake ..... My take on the matter

MrsChima:


Medical professionals write statements all the time. Statements are used to narrate the results in the field. It can be notarized or use as a Verification of the result.

The result is put on a piece of paper and therefore is a statement. A statement is a declaration of a result or verification of a diagnosis.

It is all correlated!

Oh it is correlated now and not the same?
Your first statement was that whatever u get from a lab is not a result but a statement.
Then u changed it to "oh result and statements are the same thing and can be used interchangeably"
Now it is just a mere correlation. (We are getting there)
So if a medical professional gives u a medical statement and calls it a medical test result and vice versa, u would accept that? Because both are on a piece of paper? And not because of what it contains? Really?

So by your definition, a statement is anything written on a piece of paper. Interesting.

Your stance is because you haven't seen it done in Nigeria...it is inaccurate!
I haven't seen a tsunami...it doesn't it doesn't exist!

Did I even state that it is not done in Nigeria? If it is not done in Nigeria, how do doctors in Nigeria write referral letters? I said I dont think the suitation where your doctor gets your test results directly from the lab exist yet in Nigeria (i.e without the patients having to go pick it up from the lab and take it to the doctor themselves)


My point so far is that Medical statement is different from Medical Test Result. Are they correlated? Yes!!! (you are right on that). Are they the same? No!!! they are not and hence can't be used interchangeably. That has been my protest all along.

Geewai:
pls let take tins easy......... wat if the lady z trying to TEST the guy nko?

what fvcking test is that my nigga?

No need for generalisation cos men are as bad too

sauceny:


Women are mysterious creatures

adusco:


ladies disgracing themself

Ladies are not that dumb

easyconnect:
@Op, is the test result carrying her name? you need to be sure if its hers or her friends test result.

what would she be doing with her frnd's test result, with her name on it?
99.9% of women in naija are junks

Smhart1:
Ladies are not that dumb

nt all ladies are mature, hope you knw dt?

What are the odds of the friend using her name, the same test result found in her room 7 months after. Bros, that babe is a certified liar. You can forgive so many things but when it comes to relationships, trust is very important. I won't tell your friend to break up with her since he loves her, but it will be very risky and unassuming of him to ignore such a vital sign or act. But in the end, tell your friend to bleep the hell out of her, if he's gonna break the relationship off. Apply wisdom in finding out the truth, but in my opinion, she's lying

Geewai:
pls let take tins easy......... wat if the lady z trying to TEST the guy nko?

Yea, you're so right!

She's probably trying to test him by becoming pregnant for another dude, aborting it, saving the pregnancy test, lying so shamelessly about it belonging to a friend despite her NAME bodly printed on the sheet.

She was indeed testing him.

mya1:


Yea, you're so right!

She's probably trying to test him by becoming pregnant for another dude, aborting it, saving the pregnancy test, lying so shamelessly about it belonging to a friend despite her NAME bodly printed on the sheet.

She was indeed testing for him.

Thank you.
Truth can be painful atimes.
You jst hit d nail on d head.

omega903:
D lady na snake in d monkey shadow, confront her n hear her out b4 jumping d gun,but it seems she's not trustworthy

LWKM...

MrsChima:


(Falls off okada)

(Loading insult 2%)

lol abeg pity me small. No yab me

iyknaz:
You sound very experienced in abortion... Such knwoledge u have.

I am working in the medical field and I am pretty shocked by the lack of knowledge here on NL about things that should be general knowledge! I am thinking about ways to improve the general knowledge of Nigerians on health issues. Ideas are welcome.

About the OP's post: people are so easily ready to judge others...where are the logicminds? Why do we constantly act int this country upon emotions?

#endfalsejudgements #thewaywetrustothersisthewaywecantrustourselves

~I don't support abortion. I support own responsibility. I committed to safe lives, that's where my responsibly starts.

Phema:


As my father used to say; if you must lie, lie intelligently. That babe over dull.

Your friend should waka pass jare. She no be am.

Next!!

Brain Drain

but generally y are girls like dat my girlfriend came back from nysc and I was going through her pix she while in camp de I noticed her pix with one particular guy I asked her she said is boys normal way she even went ahead 2 claiming she and guy av never slept 2geda yet one of de pictures details I checked dey took de pix on 28may 7:14am I den asked her how come she had never sleep with de guy yet dey took pix at dat tym of de morning she said she don't know again o...even now is very hard 2 believe most of de tins she said new because if she can lie about wat is clear wat of de ones I av not seen

EZEUDENE:
but generally y are girls like dat my girlfriend came back from nysc and I was going through her pix she while in camp de I noticed her pix with one particular guy I asked her she said is boys normal way she even went ahead 2 claiming she and guy av never slept 2geda yet one of de pictures details I checked dey took de pix on 28may 7:14am I den asked her how come she had never sleep with de guy yet dey took pix at dat tym of de morning she said she don't know again o...even now is very hard 2 believe most of de tins she said new because if she can lie about wat is clear wat of de ones I av not seen

May God bless us wt honest wives.

Take the pregnancy report to the hospital that is written on receipt to verify before you ask her questions, incase she tried to deny it.She may also go to the hospital to beg the doctor and nurses to deny she owns the report.Dont trust too much.

Nursy:
Wahala dey o... Some men/women can lie eh and they will not arrange themselves well.

Reminds me of a friend who was going about the place telling us she's a virgin(nobody asked her o) meanwhile another person told me of how she directed her to where she had an abortion..

The guy should confront her sha. No one is perfect but there are certain things u don't do or u arrange urself well.

yh i have seen silly gals like that..... all of a sudden one sharp boy will say he have eaten from her national cake.
I don't understand why ladies with kip leing that there still V.... an expert explain ooo