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Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by otiigba1(m): 10:52am On Aug 23, 2015 |
misspicy:all and all i agree with you that no man should abandon his child/children under no circumstances, no reasons what so ever, because its not the child/children's fault they did not asked to be born.Can we be friends now? |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by misspicy(f): 10:56am On Aug 23, 2015 |
otiigba1:We are already friends since when I discovered u were only joking....how was ur nyt |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by tonimenia: 11:00am On Aug 23, 2015 |
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Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by otiigba1(m): 11:05am On Aug 23, 2015 |
misspicy:very good apart from seen you chasing me in my dreams with a big stick *jokes* , and yours? |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by Sagamite(m): 11:15am On Aug 23, 2015 |
I have never understood why some men feel the need to be in the labor room with their wives. What total tosh. No way! https://www.nairaland.com/70015/husband-labor-room-during-childbirth/6#12039023 1 Like |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by Nobody: 11:45am On Aug 23, 2015 |
adorable29: No need for the insults,you not accepting the comparison with a serial killer shows how useless your brain his,I repeat if I where him I would do the same,this is you forcing something on him after cheating him too,tell me,someone cheated you by lying about something,let say how good a car is,you then later found out that the car is ten years old. Than the original date given to you by the person and you want a 2015 model car,would you accept the car when you know the money you paid is would afford you a car of 2015,when things does not favours you female,you resort to insults and blackmail...if you are using make-up to deceive guys around you,stop it,you being ugly is not a crime,accept your fate.. 1 Like |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by Nobody: 11:48am On Aug 23, 2015 |
PunkyVeer: I don't know,ask her,this is more like me asking paying for something,then you went ahead to give me a fake one,after finding out,you still expect me to accept it,where is that done |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by Nobody: 12:02pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
kevinberry: Tsk tsk tsk. So you're telling me that you're blameless? Let me put it lak dis- people get scammed almost daily for a variety of reasons. Some are promised love, money & so forth. So tell me in a situation like that, is the victim of a scam not as responsible as the scammer? The greed & desperation was all theirs, all the scammer did was prey on what was already there. Both guilty. Not the girl's problem if the guy is dumb & gullible. Even a small kid today is aware of makeup & all the other things females use to enhance their looks. Where have he been living, under a rock? 50/50 blame. Finish & klaar. Some guys really need to own up to their moronic ways. It's not always the female's fault when you get duped. Unless of course you're calling us masterminds & yourselves dumb In that case I accept lol! You can't clap with one hand, it takes TWO. Before there is deceit, there should be a moegoe |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by Nobody: 12:18pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:We are getting somewhere,we both agreed that he has been scammed that good,and in this case he has decided not to accept the end products the sammer come with,are we going to force him to accept something he aren't gonna be proud of.. |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by malikisah: 12:21pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
ronald4lif:well said! |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by Nobody: 12:26pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
kevinberry: It still doesn't excuse him from taking responsibility for the gullible part he played in the scam & that of his newborn baby. The issue here is not that he left her. Seriously, who cares? The issue is that he is also including a child who didn't ask to be born. That baby is innocent & doesn't deserve an "F You" for something he's not responsible for. That's the meat & potatoes of the matter. Whether he feels deceived or not I couldn't care less. He's a grown man so he should man the f up, get over it & care for his child. That's all. |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by Nobody: 12:29pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
yeye immature guy. using flimsy excuse to shy away from his responsibilities. if what he did is the norms, two of my sisters would have become single mother by now. they use to be extremely ugly after birth, 8days after birth, thats when their look will start coming back to normal. |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by Nobody: 12:39pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
PunkyVeer: This is where I don't agree with you,you can't force what I would not naturally eat should I know it is poisonous,and in this case,he was tricked,you can't force him to accept it,that will be an infringement on his own right as a human,the baby is just one of the casualties of war,they don't force casualties. Of war on a particular nation,they either accept it or choose to ignore it....and in this case he has choose to ignore it...if I was the one,no matter what the government would do will change my mind,if the lady should focus her mind on getting paid @the end of the month all in the name of child support,she won't get anything,I will resort to doing minor jobs,sell my house and squat with my friends,the government won't have any means to collect any money from me,and should they come after me,then they should just take me to prison,I don't want,that final |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by Nobody: 12:44pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
No matter how people try to paint the guy as immature or childish,it won't work,this is somebody he won't sleep with should he know this is how she looks like.... Even if we are both asked to contribute money to take care of the baby,I would still refuse,I didn't sign-up for it,it will look like force acceptance to me,I simply don't want...let her take her ugly offspring. With her...bloody scammer |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by Nobody: 12:48pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
kevinberry: Look, it's simple, he wasn't tricked on making the baby. How about that? The rest is bum fluff. Irrelevant. Doesn't matter. If you do all that just to avoid paying child support then you have your conscience & karma to deal with. End of. That's your own flesh & blood. This just proves that some guys are nothing more than sperm donors. In that case you can't say much except, thanks for participating, now bye. I mean, what else can you do when someone is hellbent on not caring for his child? You let them be. |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by Nobody: 12:56pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
PunkyVeer: This is me saying I wouldn't have slept with her should I know this is how ugly she is,there is something called “choice"I want a beautiful lady has the mother of my child,not some ugly fugly girl... Anyway,the guy has already made up his mind,he said the girl should go and dies,we can't do anything about that.. What we should be doing is telling people to stop deceiving their fellow humans and they should also be concious of their actions too.. Good day....by the way,I can't wait for child support system to start in nigeria,it would be fun reading court cases daily and you will be so mad,reading excuses why they won't honour such |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by Nobody: 1:02pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
kevinberry: I know all about the excuses these guys make all in the name of saving a buck. Only when it comes to their children though. In the streets they don't mind paying/giving 3 times that to some slut they're trying to impress. It's a damn shame. My cousin went through a very painful child support case with her ex so I truly sympathise. |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by Nobody: 1:05pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
PunkyVeer: What was his excuse,why was he adamant I still don't understand why only one party have to pay child support..?? |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by lovethchioma(f): 1:05pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
misspicy:True talk, you've said it all. |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by MrsChima(f): 1:16pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
9jatatafo: Good advice. |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by MrsChima(f): 1:19pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
If that's how he wants to be then let the nigga be! Fvck him and raise your child to be the next Obama or Michelle! It will be hard but you be the woman you want your son to marry and you teach your son to be the man that you would marry. You will be okay....fvck that dead brain bish! |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by Nobody: 1:35pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
kevinberry: See, he was required to come up with a spreadsheet of his monthly expenditure & his list was ridiculously exaggerated. I mean with the prices. He said his hair cut costs R150, when it's well know that you can get it for 10 bucks on a good day. It's not that he was against paying, he just didn't wanna pay what she was asking him to pay. Well it takes two to make a baby so it must take two to take care of it. The mother is already doing so much since she's with the child full time. When the child is sick in the middle of the night, she has to rush to the hospital. No amount of money can ever reach that level of dedication. It's priceless. And yet still niggas bytch & moan about coughing up just a small contribution. That's unfair. |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by silverspringle(f): 1:41pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
preciousMI1:Thanks a lot for dis comment...men dont knw d pains women go through in labour...i'm not married buh after seeing d pains my sis went through while in labour, i had to ask myself if its d same with all dis baby mamas in town plus d insult nd neglect they get from this guys nd i concluded its not worth it at all...Imagine a guy refering to d mother of his child as a "bitch"...this is the height of irresponsiblity on man's side. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by Nobody: 1:49pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
PunkyVeer: Well I can see why your argument was so intense,we are both trying to protect our interest,in your cousin case,he didn't deny the child,am more interested in the way forward for guys who claim they where tricked into fatherhood..I have read so many cases,the resent one was that of a man in the US,he and his girl have already agreed to be using family planning pill,the lady without informing the guy,stopped taking the pill and intentionally got pregnant,the guy was just struggling,he started paying child support,but yet the lady won't allow him see his daughter,the lady would mock him in the presence of her sisters and mother,the guy told the court that the lady refuse to honour the stipulated date,st aside for visiting but the lady disobeyed the order,police was sent to pick the lady,she refuse to go with the police with the excuse that she is attending to her daughter,they lady asked the guy to move out of his own apartment with the excuse that she wants she and her daughter to be alone...so many of such cases,in most cases the stress alone make most men commit suicide and some mentally unstable... Now wouldn't it be nice,should government create a place,where children that are product of break-up or pre-martial sex be housed,with both party contributing money monthly for their up-keep...this way,there won't be any manipulation in the child life,either mentally(brain washing such child that the mother abandoned him/her or the father was an irresponsible man and drunkard) or abusive mothers and fathers until they turn 18,this to me should be the right way,in terms of children,no party/gender should have full rights and the other party not having same all in the name of gender.. That to is is right |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by Nobody: 1:51pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
kevinberry: Later one will accuse you guys but you'll say it's not all about looks . So u would throw away a child cuz the child is ugly? Who are you even to condemn another human being this much all because of LOOKS. You must be looking like a male model or something, to say all that. If you had an accident or something, God forbid , and ladies should treat you the same, you will call them names. So you'd really really call a helpless baby 'ugly offspring' and disassociate yourself from this blood and flesh of yours like a leper cuz of how he looks? Wickedness to that child, kevin. Now no guy should argue with me when I say men are all about boobs, ass, and beauty, cuz it's been proven on here. I don't even blame the women who do make up, cuz , really, who wants to be ostracized and mistreated just like this woman simply cuz she's ugly. Every woman wants that vip treatment and men victimize any woman who haven't got those looks. Men are therefore the cause of the deception. |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by Nobody: 2:00pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
Krystalxxx: Sorry,I understand all what you are saying,I aren't blaming her for using make-up,I am only saying the guy would normally not impregnate the lady should he have know this is how she looks like,from his post you can clearly see that he wants a beautiful lady has the mother of his child,you can't blame him,that what's he wants...people should learn to be comfortable with their looks..it won't change people perceptive about who you are to them... The guy feel cheated,people asking him to accept the child would seems more like you asking for cake and paying for it,you are given chocolate and still told to accept it,when what you want is a cake.. |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by Nobody: 2:02pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
kevinberry: Well, I truly hate it when women use pregnancy to trap guys & when they use children as pawns to assert revenge or whatever. It. is. wrong. However, again, the guys are not without blame when they're being trapped in these situations. It teaches them not to take everything at face value. Meaning just because your girl says she's on the pill doesn't mean you should stop protecting YOURSELF. Why must someone think & decide FOR YOU? If she's using birth control, wonderful, but she's doing it for HERSELF. It's about time you guys stop believe what you're told & make your own judgments based on YOUR beliefs & facts from your own assessment. All this woe is me just makes some look brainless & pathetic. |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by Nobody: 2:07pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
PunkyVeer: Excellent,what about the solution I propose,what do you have to say about it |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by Nobody: 2:13pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
kevinberry: That the kids should be housed in some place to ensure equal contribution? Well won't that make the children develop some type of complex? Remember, kids don't need to feel or be treated any different from other kids just because of the condition they were born under. That wouldn't be right. What's needed is for the parents to grow up, be civil & work out their differences for the benefit of their child. All of this wouldn't be necessary if people were mature & responsible. |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by flokii: 2:16pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
Upon all, these stupid girls won't listen.. they wear makeup like their lives depend on it... BTW gud for her and her baby |
Re: You Won't Believe Why This Man Dumped His Baby Mama by Nobody: 2:18pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
PunkyVeer: Well,everyone in the society won't be responsible that a pure fact....I won't mind proposing these idea to the senate,should these happen,people will learn to zip up and be responsible |
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