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Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 2:39pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
LaraiBoluwaji: Hmmmm, valid point Larai I won't argue with that logic. But me I like and I want both things in place i.e well spoken English & well written English. It's not like I want access to a man's bank account, just something as simple as good English - it's a huge turn on for me. 1 Like |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 2:46pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
sihom: Alright babes. I guess he might have written in a hurry or something. I got you though. Have a lovely weekend. |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 2:53pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Gaborone: Cool, you too. 1 Like |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by cooker: 3:53pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
your expectation in a woman is high that is why |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by gbz123: 4:54pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Then there are relationships that are eating you up. Probably you are married to your job 100%. Look around your self and work smart. |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 5:26pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
sihom:sorry to say but you sound kind of shallow with your expectations. Just pray you don't.send a good man packing because of.punctuation marks and unshaved armpit. 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 5:42pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Nori, let's agree to disagree. Meaning it's okay to have divergent views, desires and all. Mine may be shallow but real you don't have to nod your head in agreement with me. There are good men who can adequately satisfy my expectations in the hygiene & grammar department. I've already met two of them right here on NL and we are building a friendship. And why do we women always associate a good man with romance & marriage only? Like you alluded to in your post. Good men are good not only for marriage but genuine friendships that are worthwhile. 6 Likes |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by LordReed(m): 5:55pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
@sihom Thank you for your compliment. |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 6:02pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
LordReed: You are welcome. You didn't have to acknowledge my honest view of you but that was modest of you. Are you sure I can't interest you in taking on a second wife? Just messing around fear not. |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by LordReed(m): 6:15pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
sihom: LoL don't worry my sense of humour is hearty enough. I had to acknowledge because I was pleasantly surprised; I don't recall if we've ever had an exchange. Anyways good to meet you. |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 6:35pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
sihom: But how would u know how a guy writes when he approaches u. He might never even have a cause to write to u throughout the entire relationship. 2 Likes |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by Bonapart(m): 6:38pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Who serious relationship don help 3 Likes |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by weselomo(m): 6:39pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
either deliverance or join this passenger 2 Likes
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Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by layinks60: 6:42pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
You are under a big spell and ur antidote can be found in heaven. |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by donamen(m): 6:42pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Its better u remain single cos any woman u marry tomorrow u will still not hv time for her.... You bankers love your job mor than family... |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by MrMcJay(m): 6:42pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
You can't realise a family because you are busy building another man's business. There is no greater fool than you. 1 Like |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by kinstunfad: 6:43pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
I don't think your job is time consuming as mine but I still make time out for my wife to be, it was @ 30yrs that I got serious too. Advise: Stop searching for Miss Perfect and also bring down your standard or criterial for choosing a wife. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by bettercreature(m): 6:44pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
See how ladies plenty on this thread OP send IM to all ladies on this thread |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by osile2012: 6:44pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
[size=18pt]Your Problem is with your body Language .[/size] 3 Likes |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by WildChild00(m): 6:47pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Sunnypar: ibabuuuuuu oooh bros, u for come call me, @ the church service, I will be sitted @ the back and wen the pastor/ officiating ministers would ask " is there anybody in d congregation, who would want this couple not to join together" pls raise ur hand, make I come raise my hand 2 Likes |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by fakooblak(m): 6:47pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
See me for Prayer. |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by safarigirl(f): 6:49pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
LOL @ "No lady can measure up"....if a lady with OP's CV hsd made same statement about guys, NL men would have skinned her alive and shouted 'menopause' as well as imagined all the pastors she would be visiting soon OP, maybe you don't measure up in the eyes of the ladies that 'measure up' to your standards because the kind of lady you seem to prefer, isn't moved by your wealth or status. oga, work on yourself 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by attention007(m): 6:50pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Socialize with the 2days you have...add some new friends to your life....might help! |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by ManTiger(m): 6:50pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
That pretty little young damsel is out their for you. Just pray and she'll come your way. My intuition tells me you like light-skinned ladies with an average height. If so, do this tonight: Buy 4 pieces of candle, light the four and place it in 4 corners of your bed, read ps. 27, 29 31 in a cup of water and at exactly 12noon, sprinkle the water on the 4 walls of your room then rinse your face with the remaining water. Now blow off the candle and sleep. Be watchful of what happened next... your testimony is on the way bro. |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 6:50pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Smile4mee01: U don't have sex appeal. |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 6:51pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
thecollector: Hi remember I said two things well spoken and written English. In a scenario like the one you've painted above, I'll pay attention to how he speaks. Good English for me does not mean a fake British or American accent it means pronunciation of words are correct and sentences are well strung together to be meaningful. For example - How has your day been? As opposed to how has been your day? The latter will have me silently grinding my teeth. Will respond to your PM asap. |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by Malakh: 6:52pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
sihom:you are a product of indoctrination, when you are concerned about how a guy speaks and write....u go tay for there, gravitate ko levitate ni lol 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by fm25odumoye(m): 6:52pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
[quote author=Smile4mee01 post=39538147]I am a little depressed now. i came here to seek counsel. i am 31 yr old male, works in a bank. have my own apartment and car, Quite comfortable. i am not and never have been in a very serious relationship. the few ones i tried never just works out. most times the ladies dont measure up. U need to go for spiritual deliverance |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by hedonistic: 6:53pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Do you live to work or do you work to live? Think about that carefully for a moment. All you funny people who feel good with yourselves for working like slaves in order to brag about the small flat and tokunbo car you have as a result should take a deep breath and rethink whether you have a life worth being proud of. #work smart, and enjoy life. 1 Like |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by HRich(m): 6:54pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Smile4mee01: |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by vodkat: 6:56pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Smile4mee01: It is either your unpresentable or you have too high taste. best thing is start with any girl (ugly or fine) ,( Lepa or orobo) gain some experience with those set before you move on to the desired. But for u to be worrying about woman is bad because most women are liabilities at the end of the day |
Re: At 31, Not In A Serious Relationship: Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 6:57pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
The fault is not in your star,but in yourself. |
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