kosplateau:

So she be no know b4?

cashcity:
I met a lady in my neighbourhood about 3 years ago in a friend's birthday party. We exchanged contacts and started talking as good friends. With time I started developing feelings and decided to ask her if we can move the friendship to next level.

She said no that I am not her type for relationship, that we are better off as friends that we were. She said that there are so many qualities of a man of her dream in which I am no where near.. Mehn, that statement hurts me so baaaaad. Then, I just concluded my NYSC and she was just in her 3rd year in university. Gradually we stopped contacting each other.

Few months later, I secured employment in one construction company as a site engr. Withing a year, God started blessing me with personal contracts to the extent that I was forced to resign in the company to manage my contract works....I visit my parents in the neighbourhood as usual but never see anything that resemble her all those while. One day a lady shout out my name when I was trying to navigate a T-junction in my street with my newly purchased 2012 Toyota tundra. I struggled to recognise her cos it has been long and women changes so fast. After little discussions, we exchanged contact again. Now my phone can no longer rest because of her constant calls.. She is even forcing me to fix a date for her to visit. This is a lady that allegedly insults hell out of me when I was poor. Again, how did I suddenly become her type now when my stature and look still remain the same.. Pls advice me pals. Should I take her as girlfriend or move on with my life?

Tjayjosh:

I luv you!!!

falseman:



Amd if the funds ain't there tomorrow she will flee or dig another man. My advice for the OP is if he still loves her and she can boast of N3m in her account then go ahead with her if not then flee from this bleached out bitches looking for funds to slaughter

firstEVA:
It happens, you were not up to her level then perhaps cos of your financial position. I am also very sure you look better now so no big deal.

cyprus000:



It is not a bad thing for a woman to expect her man to take care of her. That's his fvcking responsibility. God and nature has made it so. anyone who shy away is an asswipe.

The problem is how a woman go about it. She can't exibit this kind of discrimination on a man and expect not to invoke the bad side of the man.

The man isn't a wood that don't feel hurt. On the flipside. It shows that she is disloyal to relationship and no sensible man will want to roll with such woman.

I personally prefer loyality to love.

Dahjhi:
i doff ma hat. U ar really legend

cashcity:
I met a lady in my neighbourhood about 3 years ago in a friend's birthday party. We exchanged contacts and started talking as good friends. With time I started developing feelings and decided to ask her if we can move the friendship to next level.

She said no that I am not her type for relationship, that we are better off as friends that we were. She said that there are so many qualities of a man of her dream in which I am no where near.. Mehn, that statement hurts me so baaaaad. Then, I just concluded my NYSC and she was just in her 3rd year in university. Gradually we stopped contacting each other.

Few months later, I secured employment in one construction company as a site engr. Withing a year, God started blessing me with personal contracts to the extent that I was forced to resign in the company to manage my contract works....I visit my parents in the neighbourhood as usual but never see anything that resemble her all those while. One day a lady shout out my name when I was trying to navigate a T-junction in my street with my newly purchased 2012 Toyota tundra. I struggled to recognise her cos it has been long and women changes so fast. After little discussions, we exchanged contact again. Now my phone can no longer rest because of her constant calls.. She is even forcing me to fix a date for her to visit. This is a lady that allegedly insults hell out of me when I was poor. Again, how did I suddenly become her type now when my stature and look still remain the same.. Pls advice me pals. Should I take her as girlfriend or move on with my life?

obiorathesubtle:
wtf are you doing in my head man?

OCTAVO:
So you mean you still need advice? Nawa o!

Jibwillz:
Straff d b!atch and toss her out... And oh!, don't forget to tell her she's not ur type too...

searching4l0ve:
[b]
@OP RUN FOR YOUR DEAR LIFE 99.99% OF NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE ROMANCE THIEVES WAITING TO SUCK YOU DRY IN THE DISGUISE OF LOVE/RELATIONSHIPS. YOU ARE EVEN LUCKY SHE'S NOT THE DESPERATE TYPE THAT WILL GO FETISH JUST TO HAVE YOUR ATTENTION. NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE MONEY HUNGRY AND POVERTY STRICKEN. THEY HARDLY STAND BY A BROKE MAN NEITHER DO THEY BELIEVE IN POTENTIALS NOR YOUR DREAMS. ALL THEY ARE CONCERNED ABOUT IS MONEY, MONEY AND MORE MONEY. WHEN THE CHIPS ARE DOWN THEY ABANDON YOU AND LOOK FOR NEXT COMFORT ZONE IRRESPECTIVE OF THE MEMORIES OR NUMBER OF YEARS YOU SPENT TOGETHER. THE ONLY THING THAT GOLD DIGGER HAS TO OFFER YOU IS THAT SMELLY HOLE BETWEEN HER LEGS WHILE SHE CONTINUE FLEECING YOU IN THE NAME OF LOVE . ITS A TERRIBLE SITUATION IN NIGERIA. I ADVICE SANE MEN TO IGNORE THESE FINANCIAL LEECHES CALLED NIGERIAN GIRLS FOR A FOREIGN LADY WHO KNOWS THE MEANING OF TRUE LOVE. IF YOU WANT A HAPPY MARRIED LIFE FOREIGN GIRLS ARE MOSTLY THE BEST CHOICE TO MAKE.

#Team foreign girls [/b]

panachuku:
mumu like u. Come suck my dik. From ur post ur jst like her. I dont blame girls tho. Some guys wen dey hammer dey dump der previous babes sha

searching4l0ve:
[b]
@OP RUN FOR YOUR DEAR LIFE 99.99% OF NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE ROMANCE THIEVES WAITING TO SUCK YOU DRY IN THE DISGUISE OF LOVE/RELATIONSHIPS. YOU ARE EVEN LUCKY SHE'S NOT THE DESPERATE TYPE THAT WILL GO FETISH JUST TO HAVE YOUR ATTENTION. NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE MONEY HUNGRY AND POVERTY STRICKEN. THEY HARDLY STAND BY A BROKE MAN NEITHER DO THEY BELIEVE IN POTENTIALS NOR YOUR DREAMS. ALL THEY ARE CONCERNED ABOUT IS MONEY, MONEY AND MORE MONEY. WHEN THE CHIPS ARE DOWN THEY ABANDON YOU AND LOOK FOR NEXT COMFORT ZONE IRRESPECTIVE OF THE MEMORIES OR NUMBER OF YEARS YOU SPENT TOGETHER. THE ONLY THING THAT GOLD DIGGER HAS TO OFFER YOU IS THAT SMELLY HOLE BETWEEN HER LEGS WHILE SHE CONTINUE FLEECING YOU IN THE NAME OF LOVE . ITS A TERRIBLE SITUATION IN NIGERIA. I ADVICE SANE MEN TO IGNORE THESE FINANCIAL LEECHES CALLED NIGERIAN GIRLS FOR A FOREIGN LADY WHO KNOWS THE MEANING OF TRUE LOVE. IF YOU WANT A HAPPY MARRIED LIFE FOREIGN GIRLS ARE MOSTLY THE BEST CHOICE TO MAKE.

#Team foreign girls [/b]

Eke40seven:

You have been rolling with the wrong set of girls bro.. There are leeches everywhere....may be there are more in Naija, i can't say.
My woman is Nigerian, and the Nigerian blood flows in her. She came into my life and stood by me at the nadir of my finances and when i needed to make a great leap in life. She called me her king when i didn't have a palace to rule over her or an entourage of maids to serve her every need.
Mind you, she is not physically incapacitated or lacking in beauty, her juices have not ceased flowing neither is her physical vigour diminished.
We may not have attained perfection together and we may have our little squabbles once in a while, but i cherish her more than any lofty dreams being with a foreign girl can offer.We both moved from Naija here together to a foreign land mind you, in case you feel i don't have an idea what a foreign girl looks like.

cashcity:
I met a lady in my neighbourhood about 3 years ago in a friend's birthday party. We exchanged contacts and started talking as good friends. With time I started developing feelings and decided to ask her if we can move the friendship to next level.

She said no that I am not her type for relationship, that we are better off as friends that we were. She said that there are so many qualities of a man of her dream in which I am no where near.. Mehn, that statement hurts me so baaaaad. Then, I just concluded my NYSC and she was just in her 3rd year in university. Gradually we stopped contacting each other.

Few months later, I secured employment in one construction company as a site engr. Withing a year, God started blessing me with personal contracts to the extent that I was forced to resign in the company to manage my contract works....I visit my parents in the neighbourhood as usual but never see anything that resemble her all those while. One day a lady shout out my name when I was trying to navigate a T-junction in my street with my newly purchased 2012 Toyota tundra. I struggled to recognise her cos it has been long and women changes so fast. After little discussions, we exchanged contact again. Now my phone can no longer rest because of her constant calls.. She is even forcing me to fix a date for her to visit. This is a lady that allegedly insults hell out of me when I was poor. Again, how did I suddenly become her type now when my stature and look still remain the same.. Pls advice me pals. Should I take her as girlfriend or move on with my life?

IamLEGEND1:
na you get ur life.
just cut ur own share and be on ur way.

simongonner:
enjoy the honey pot and dump the bit*h...

firstEVA:
It happens, you were not up to her level then perhaps cos of your financial position. I am also very sure you look better now so no big deal.

firstEVA:
All of you saying fuk her fuk her, I smh for you, not all guys are dogs

Eke40seven:

You have been rolling with the wrong set of girls bro.. There are leeches everywhere....may be there are more in Naija, i can't say.
My woman is Nigerian, and the Nigerian blood flows in her. She came into my life and stood by me at the nadir of my finances and when i needed to make a great leap in life. She called me her king when i didn't have a palace to rule over her or an entourage of maids to serve her every need.
Mind you, she is not physically incapacitated or lacking in beauty, her juices have not ceased flowing neither is her physical vigour diminished.
We may not have attained perfection together and we may have our little squabbles once in a while, but i cherish her more than any lofty dreams being with a foreign girl can offer.We both moved from Naija here together to a foreign land mind you, in case you feel i don't have an idea what a foreign girl looks like.

firstEVA:
he should ask himself whether he is still into her, if yes they can kick off a relationship.

Gofwane:
If you take her into your life again, May you go back to how you used to be when she rejected you.



In fact, i don dey vex for here