Oxone:

For some gals the mind games is a prerequisite for dating them, they'll never fall for a guy who is blunt cos they want to make it look like they were cajoled into the relationship when they've had the hots for you from day 1.
moderation is the key word in the mind game & the key is knowing when to play & when to be blunt

lol from my experience this has never been the case. I dont cajole . . . i simply state how i feel in less than 5-10 mins, i take time to thoroughly explain why i came to that conclusion . . . and ask if she also feels the same towards you.

Women are not toys . . . sometimes they appreciate straight talk. A mature guy who goes for what he wants straight up will get her long before you finish your endless cajoling.

I said earlier . . . cajoling is for small girls.

dayokanu:

Most gals would feel they are being toasted when the guy was just asking innocent questions.

Ask any girl the number of toasters she has and she would count millions,

Maybe dem dey toast them for dream. When u are with a girl she claims all her Professors, brothers friends, colleagues and everyone toasted her at one point

Try am first

rotflmao @2 millions. Not bad na, you only have done 5 million toasting, so kini ko possible?

Of course I'll try it now. Just close your eyes and imagine

No2Atheism:

Somebody dey look for trouble, no be my mouth dem go hear say Dayo go make you miss ur period (sorry i mean schedule),

One cannot be too careful now, cus i don't want to be responsible for any disappointment now  


See pride,

I no fit miss my period na. Period 5 is lchem ab, around 10 pm, so that'd be easy to rem


It's not pride dear, it's just that some peeps don't want it!

dayokanu:

Most gals would feel they are being toasted when the guy was just asking innocent questions.

true cos i can remember being lost once & when i excused a gal for direction, the first words out of her mouth was "Am not interested"
i was so shocked that i stood transfixed there wondering what the world was coming to & after that i felt insulted cos the girll was F**King ugly  

davidylan:


Women are not toys . . . sometimes they appreciate straight talk. A mature guy who goes for what he wants straight up will get her long before you finish your endless cajoling.

there is your keyword: "sometimes"

Yeah, some girls have that terrible habit of assuming, I can imagine how annoying it must be. First let the guy say whatever he wants to say, don't be rude or arrogant about it, at the end of it all, give your simple yes or no and then move on with life, simple.

Oxone:

true cos i can remember being lost once & when i excused a gal for direction, the first words out of her mouth was "Am not interested"
i was so shocked that i stood transfixed there wondering what the world was coming to & after that i felt insulted cos the girll was F**King ugly  

maybe she had bad experiences in the past. does she have huge boobs and butt. Girls like that have very bad experiences with guys.
i'm a first hand witness. lol

that can explain the attitude

Oxone:

true cos i can remember being lost once & when i excused a gal for direction, the first words out of her mouth was "Am not interested"
i was so shocked that i stood transfixed there wondering what the world was coming to & after that i felt insulted cos the girll was F**King ugly  

rotflmao
we can be fugly if we want, point is, we said "WE ARE NOT INTERESTED"

oyinda.:

maybe she had bad experiences in the past. does she have huge boobs and butt. Girls like that have very bad experiences with guys.
i'm a first hand witness. lol

that can explain the attitude

ROTFLMAO!!

Yea, there's an invisible "Check me out" on big boobs and butt. ask dayo, he's been a victim

maybe she had bad experiences in the past. does she have huge boobs and butt. Girls like that have very bad experiences with guys.
i'm a first hand witness. lol

Evidence with pictures please.

Most guys wont tell you they love you at the first meeting. The most they can is flirt and try to get your number.

Yea, there's an invisible "Check me out" on big boobs and butt. ask dayo, he's been a victim

Toyinroyan why you wan expose me.

Moderately sized boobs do it for me not water Melons. My palm must cover each boob

rotflmao, I said victim not suspect.

No be ur oyan I used my palms to cover?

1st verse: "you will be the She - ee, i'll be He - ee, we'll be together for ever".

2nd verse: "I'll be ur lover, Yu'll have my baby, we'll share together and help each other".

ibkaye:

Yeah, some girls have that terrible habit of assuming, I can imagine how annoying it must be. First let the guy say whatever he wants to say, don't be rude or arrogant about it, at the end of it all, give your simple yes or no and then move on with life, simple.

assuming is an understatement

oyinda.:

maybe she had bad experiences in the past. does she have huge boobs and butt. Girls like that have very bad experiences with guys.
i'm a first hand witness. lol

that can explain the attitude

its surprising that its the ugly ones that have attitude problems

FL Gators:

rotflmao
we can be fugly if we want, point is, we said "WE ARE NOT INTERESTED"

if only you can say your no & mean it

can remember embarrassing a gal in church one day cos i was so pissed
walked up to her & introduced myself, well when i now asked her name, she started forming & asked me why i want to know her name, after about 5mins of asking, i raised my voice & said "i'm not asking you to have sex with me, just you fucking name" & walked away. the story ends with me getting to know her name & a lot more
gals

FL Gators:

rotflmao, I said victim not suspect.

No be ur oyan I used my palms to cover?

I agree on the palm sizing. Though, I have big hands and can palm a basketball  

can remember embarrassing a gal in church one day cos i was so pissed
walked up to her & introduced myself, well when i now asked her name, she started forming & asked me why i want to know her name, after about 5mins of asking, i raised my voice & said "i'm not asking you to have sex with me, just you fucking name" & walked away. the story ends with me getting to know her name & a lot more

ok. you're rude.

biina:

I agree on the palm sizing. Though, I have big hands and can palm a basketball  

You sure say no be Marfan Syndrome

Oxone:

can remember embarrassing a gal in church one day cos i was so pissed
walked up to her & introduced myself, well when i now asked her name, she started forming & asked me why i want to know her name, after about 5mins of asking, i raised my voice & said "i'm not asking you to have sex with me, just you fucking name" & walked away. the story ends with me getting to know her name & a lot more
gals

I always mean my No at that point.
If I do get to know him, or we occasionally run into each other, then yes, my no might change to yes.
Otherwise it stays No.

rotflmao, I listen and don't say anything until he gets to the "can I get your number?" "Can I get to know you?" "Who are you dressing up for, your boyfriend" or some nonsense like that. I seriously can't deal with men in my age bracket. Immature lots

Oxone:

can remember embarrassing a gal in church one day cos i was so pissed
walked up to her & introduced myself, well when i now asked her name, she started forming & asked me why i want to know her name, after about 5mins of asking, i raised my voice & said "i'm not asking you to have sex with me, just you fucking name" & walked away. the story ends with me getting to know her name & a lot more
gals

there is a way to get a woman's name without having to embarrass her or she having to embarrass you.

I have a big palm too. I am over 6ft5, My shoe size is 13 so you can guess the palm size.

But you know some titties you might need both arms and even your head to cover it

sigh. now i feel like a midget with my size 7 shoes.

C2H5OH:

sigh. now i feel like a midget with my size 7 shoes.

rotflmao
You should. I can wear size 7. oma se

@Bro Dayo
Can you go one day without talking abt tits?
I'm waiting for that one day

dayokanu:

I have a big palm too. I am over 6ft5, My shoe size is 13 so you can guess the palm size.

But you know some titties you might need both arms and even your head to cover it

Na chicago do this to you? Na boobs you dey chase up and down . . . o boy those twins no get lasting value.

 

You are the reason why i sing this song, my heart is on fire, you are the reason why i sing this song.

Why did it took you so long i don't know, ---365 days to show---, i think its time for me to let go.
Just let it off your chest and i would gladly do the rest.

You are the reason why i sing this song, my heart is on fire, you are the reason why i sing this song.

---

Let me be the one to hold your hands, let me be the one to wipe your tears, I wanna be the friend when you are in need.

Baby i need you, Baby I love you, Baby i need you ---  we'll be together for ever --- Baby i need you, Baby I love you, Baby i need you

oyinda.:

ok. you're rude.  

whatever, some people just dont deserve coutesy, whats in a name for friggin sakes afterall others with her introduced themselves & the sky did not fall. i have no patience with immature gals who always assumes a guy is out to get into their pants! for your info, ITS NOT EVRY GUY WHO WALKS UP TO YOU THAT WANTS TO SLEEP WITH YOU.

davidylan:

there is a way to get a woman's name without having to embarrass her or she having to embarrass you.

so i'll have to go thru some procedure just to get a gals name?
even if am not remotely interested in her? jeez what happened to courtesy.
immature lots if you ask me

N2A, you dey sing to my bro?
sho ra e o

Oxone:

so i'll have to go thru some procedure just to get a gals name?
even if am not remotely interested in her? jeez what happened to courtesy.
immature lots if you ask me

being respectful is not a procedure. Having tact is not a procedure . . .

davidylan:

being respectful is not a procedure. Having tact is not a procedure . . .

thats my point, some dont even respond to tact & respect cos their problem is ingrained

Oxone:

thats my point, some dont even respond to tact & respect cos their problem is ingrained

lol i get you but there is a way to get a horse to eat sugar from your hands.

I would be wary if some random dude comes up to me to ask my name.  That's just creepy. I would be thinking that you want to use my name for juju/ witchcraft . lol  
why not just tell her why you want to know her name. even if the reason is a simple as "I just want to expand my circle of friends and acquaintances" instead of cursing her out loud. lol

davidylan:

lol i get you but there is a way to get a horse to eat sugar from your hands.

who is d horse

okay Lovely Miss Oyinda, assuming the sweet Oyindamola is not already your name can i have your name even as i look forward to us going to Taihiti together.

Please practise what you preach and respond.

No2Atheism:

who is d horse

any chic you are "toasting"

oyinda.:

I would be wary if some random dude comes up to me to ask my name.  That's just creepy. I would be thinking that you want to use my name for juju/ witchcraft . lol  
why not just tell her why you want to know her name. even if the reason is a simple as "I just want to expand my circle of friends and acquaintances" instead of cursing her out loud. lol

now you are been presumptious as usual, whats there in a name (some of those name will only fetch you cowries if used for juju), afterall he already introduced himself
well there was really need to have cursed the gal cos she lacked common sense or probably was seeking attention else how do u explain the fact that her FRIENDS introduced themselves without probs & what pissed me off was that i wasnt really interested in her but her friend